Thanks @chef'swife it isn't too awful bad right now. It's just that my husband and I have 3 kids together. Since we moved into our current house 2 years ago, my mil has come out (it's a little over a one hour drive) only for their birthday parties. She has never made an effort to come out here aside from those times. Now that the baby is here, she keeps wanting to come out. She seems to only be available during the week while our older kids are in school. I just find it really hurtful of her to have no interest in the older kids, and only want to see the baby. It just makes me angry, and if I were to try to point it out to her, she's going to throw one of her fits. She has already been complaining to other family that we won't let her visit when she wants, but in reality, we have seen everyone just the same as before the baby. He's not a toy or an attraction, but it feels like that's how she treats him.
Ok, I wanted to share this somewhere because I'm sooo excited, but Austin let me sleep 6 consecutive hours last night for the first time!! We've been getting up every 3 hours and yesterday I had an awful migraine and was dreading getting up, but the little guy let me sleep. It was awesome. Now I'm hoping it wasn't just luck, and we can keep this up lol
I've got a sleepy baby today! He went down at 9 (after 2 hrs of nursing) and didn't get up until 2:30. Then he ate was changed and back in bed at 3. Now we're at 4 hrs and he's still asleep though he's been in my bed since 5:30 so I've been awake. We don't co-sleep but sometimes I wish we did as he sleeps so much better in my bed in the mornings, he's all grunty and thrashes in his. No judgement to people who bed share I totally see the pros I'm just a nervous nelly and DH says no way. He's not happy I bring him into bed but accepting it was this or he gets to get up 20 times starting in the wee hrs of the morning sometimes to make sure he's ok.
Me: 33 | DH: 34 Married: October, 19, 2015 EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17 EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20 EDD 11/24/23 (Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
Re: May Randoms
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17
EDD 3/8/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)