@auro_c we also live cross country from our families. DD has spent a few nights with each of her grandparents on different occasions (max 2 I think). DH and I were doing things like weddings and we were not more than two hours drive away. I don't think I would "waste" the child free time by just going home - I'd take advantage of hotels or nearby friends for maximum enjoyment.
I couldn't decide if this was best asked here or in the randoms, but since we're talking about hair- does anyone have any specific brand of headband they'd recommend? I can never seem to find one that doesn't either give me a headache or constantly slip off of my head. Anything that's comfy and stays put would be awesome!
I live sweaty bands that are adjustable, I usually find them at craft shows. The actual sweaty bands are good, but I find they stretch after multiple wears! I wear them running and they don't budge!! https://www.sweatybands.com/
@kayemjay2 I'm late to answer, but I've found the best headbands that don't slip off are made for yoga. They are a bit more expensive but a lot of times you'll find the braided looking ones that have rubber grips on them. Check out the yoga isle at target, they are the only ones that stay on my head!
i also found if I make an "X" in the back middle with two bobby pins I normally can't feel them and it will keep almost any band on.
Agree with @BeachMommy2B on the yoga headbands. And yoga socks! I've stocked up because we have hardwoods and I don't want any slipping accidents with a newborn.
Also, if any one is planning to use a tub for a water birth, I got a tub head rest. I got it for under $20 on Amazon, there were a bunch of options. I plan to be in the tub at least at some point and want it to be a comfortable as possible. We also considered a knee pad for DH, but think we'll just do a towel.
I'm sure this was mentioned, but also snacks. We're bringing our own since the birth center doesn't have food, but my concern is if I'm laboring in the middle of the night I'll be starving.
I started flying by myself around age 9. They just did an escort. Id be willing to start this around age 7 for my own children, depending on their maturity.
I know some have mentioned snacks, but I just wanted to add in a particular snack suggestion that my doula recommended: honey sticks! They are non-perishable and are very small amounts that can just give you a quick energy boost during labor if you need it. I found a pack of 12 of them at World Market.
DH: 34/Me: 35 Married: Feb 2008 DD: June 2011 TTC# 2: April 2014 BFP!! 8/29/16 --> EDD: 5/11/17....it's a GIRL!!!
@Cubslove12 - I will be leaving the diaper bag with my parents since they will have DS while we're at the hospital. I already have the tiny baby clothes packed in my bag - they don't take up much room! @hp_momma did have a good point about having room to loot your hospital room when you leave! My hospital actually provided a small duffel bag just for this! You could always take a small tote bag that would fold up really small so you had an empty bag to fill up.
So I made the mistake of already getting the snacks for my hospital bag, and basically just getting foods that sounded good to me. The result of that is that they are almost gone....and my due date is 5/26.
Fur daughter: 02/2011 Human sons: 11/2015 & 05/2017 *formerly kayemjay*
So I made the mistake of already getting the snacks for my hospital bag, and basically just getting foods that sounded good to me. The result of that is that they are almost gone....and my due date is 5/26.
I did a similar thing. MH and I went to Costco last week and I got some snacks for my breastfeeding baskets.... well MH has gone to town on them. I'm like well I guess it could be a full month before this child shows her face so how mad can I be??
So I made the mistake of already getting the snacks for my hospital bag, and basically just getting foods that sounded good to me. The result of that is that they are almost gone....and my due date is 5/26.
Hah! We did the same thing. H and I both ate most of the snacks we bought for the hospital and later.
@kayemjay2 ha! I bought two boxes of each just for that reason. So I have a bag of snacks ready to go and I have the duplicates in the pantry of which some are gone.
I'm due in 9 days and have not packed my hospital bag. Moreover, we already failed once to do this and were packing it while I was in active labor...we are so dumb. But I think we will pack it asap. This baby is coming soon!
H brought out the bag and told me it was my task for the night...I started things on the lovely spreadsheet that was made on here and said I'd do it tomorrow! Haha I'm tired and going to bed.
"A day without laughter is a day wasted." ~Charlie Chaplin
@BabyMC517 I know! That was one of my to-dos from the weekend and it's tues night now... but I did re-read the thread and the spreadsheet and made a separate list on my phone so that's progress?
I even made the damn spreadsheet and haven't even considered starting to pack yet. I still have finals and graduation so I'm refusing to let her come before then.... so obviously I don't need a bag packed right?
I have most things piled by a bag.... does that count as a packed hospital bag? Is anyone using a small suitcase? I was going to use a duffle, but I'm thinking I can fit my boppy pillow, camera, snacks and everything in a small suitcase instead of a duffle, camera bag, and bobby...
I have most things piled by a bag.... does that count as a packed hospital bag? Is anyone using a small suitcase? I was going to use a duffle, but I'm thinking I can fit my boppy pillow, camera, snacks and everything in a small suitcase instead of a duffle, camera bag, and bobby...
I contemplated upping my bag to a small suitcase, but ended up just sticking with the large tote I originally picked out. It's stuffed to the brim, and I have my breastfeeding pillow just clipped around the strap, so it's hanging outside the bag. I also have a separate bag with my breast pump just in case. But, I figure it's still only two bags and H can handle it. Honestly, I just didn't want to change to a suitcase because the tote is new and adorable and I want a chance to use it.
@Cubslove12 I am using a small hard side roller suitcase. I am hoping it will fit absolutely everything. I personally would prefer one large bag/suitcase to multiple smaller ones.
I'm 39 weeks today and my bag still isn't packed. I have it sitting out with my list and @shadeofgreen816 's spreadsheet next to it... oh I did put my robe and going home dress on top Of it 5 min ago... So there's that. Lol.
All of the above counts as progress in my book! I starred all of the stuff in case something happens and I can't do it or whatever and H can go ahead and find everything haha he brought me this giant superhero bag someone gave him from comicon years ago and I was like what do you want me to do with that? It's not like a normal tote, it's just a giant bag with superheroes on it. I said no, I thought we were using he small carry on bag we have? So yeah that's what the plan is, the small suitcase. Doubt the boppy will fit, but that's ok. Should be able to get everything else in there. I'm leaning towards I don't need much because I'm going to where the awesome hospital gown most of the time because why dirty my stuff when I can dirty theirs?
"A day without laughter is a day wasted." ~Charlie Chaplin
I have done nothing to prepare my hospital bag. There might still be clothes at the store I've yet to buy. I'm kind of surprised at how laid back I am at this baby coming. I know she could legit be here any moment, and I typically like to have everything planned out and ready, but I have 0% done lol
@Jens_Hoes I'm pretty sure we have the same due date, or are at least within a few days of each other and I haven't done anything either. Denial/procrastination solidarity!
To all who haven't packed, I'm actually a bit jealous. We packed it weeks (months?) ago, and honestly it's driving me crazy. I have repacked it countless times, and I can't stop adding stuff. It's almost become an obsession. I figure unless you have a precipitous birth, as long as you have all the items you can throw it together during early labor, right?
my bag has been packed and I've been having a hard time leaving one of my favorite target night gowns packed away, I wear one every night... so comfy!
I've been debating putting my bag in my car just incase... I'm working full time until D day.
Over the weekend, I was going crazy, in a total whirlwind, looking for this new maternity bra, and I mean looking everywhere (& enlisting the hubbs to run and check down by the laundry for a third time), and drove myself nuts about it... come to find out, it's in the hospital tote. Of course. Good reason not to pack too early!
I think in your situation (working right up to contractions; commuting; and in general being more nearby your car than your home), putting it in your car is a good idea. The last thing you'd want is to be out and about, and have to drive all the way home for just 1 bag (that could've easily been in your car).
I have done nothing to prepare my hospital bag. There might still be clothes at the store I've yet to buy. I'm kind of surprised at how laid back I am at this baby coming. I know she could legit be here any moment, and I typically like to have everything planned out and ready, but I have 0% done lol
This. I'm not normally a huge planner, but thought I'd be more on top of baby stuff. I did surprise myself this weekend though. I set out the hospital bag awhile ago to casually toss things into and told H to eventually put some PJ's for him in there. Checked it this weekend and it was all packed except for my toothbrush. How did that even happen???
Mine has been packed and ready for awhile. I have a couple things that will be thrown in when it's time. My gripe is about my husband. I keep telling him I packed toiletries for him but nothing else. He said he will make it own bag. No. Dude we will have enough stuff to carry plus there is plenty of room in the bag. He's like I was planning on this this and this a week ago. Hasn't happened yet. Just get something in there!!
@SWE2 I wouldn't worry at all about husband stuff. He will be able to come and go from the hospital to take care of the pup and shower at home, retrieve non hospital food, etc.
This time my husband's only stuff in the bag is a change of clothes in case I go into labor when he is at work and in uniform. If he really needs toiletries I know my toothpaste, shower gel, and shampoo won't make his penis fall off!
@SWE2 I wouldn't worry at all about husband stuff. He will be able to come and go from the hospital to take care of the pup and shower at home, retrieve non hospital food, etc.
This time my husband's only stuff in the bag is a change of clothes in case I go into labor when he is at work and in uniform. If he really needs toiletries I know my toothpaste, shower gel, and shampoo won't make his penis fall off!
Makes me feel so much better that a lot of you haven't packed your bag yet either! Everyday I tell myself I really need to at least start getting stuff together but I don't! Maybe tomorrow....
@SWE2 I wouldn't worry at all about husband stuff. He will be able to come and go from the hospital to take care of the pup and shower at home, retrieve non hospital food, etc.
This time my husband's only stuff in the bag is a change of clothes in case I go into labor when he is at work and in uniform. If he really needs toiletries I know my toothpaste, shower gel, and shampoo won't make his penis fall off!
Are you sure?!?
That is a risk I am 100% willing to take. It would save me from having to get an IUD and babying him after a vasectomy!
Re: Hospital Bag
I prefer this style...
https://www.etsy.com/listing/157100762/women-and-girls-athletic-non-slip?ga_order=most_relevant&ga_search_type=all&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_search_query=adjustable%20cubs%20headband&ref=sr_gallery_4
I have a Strawberry Revolution band and really like it. They are a little spendy. https://www.strawberryrevolution.com/collections/stayputheadbands
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DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016
i also found if I make an "X" in the back middle with two bobby pins I normally can't feel them and it will keep almost any band on.
Great point @PartiallyDomesticated!
Also, if any one is planning to use a tub for a water birth, I got a tub head rest. I got it for under $20 on Amazon, there were a bunch of options. I plan to be in the tub at least at some point and want it to be a comfortable as possible. We also considered a knee pad for DH, but think we'll just do a towel.
I'm sure this was mentioned, but also snacks. We're bringing our own since the birth center doesn't have food, but my concern is if I'm laboring in the middle of the night I'll be starving.
1st Baby 5/12/17, Henry
DH: 34/Me: 35
Married: Feb 2008
DD: June 2011
TTC# 2: April 2014
BFP!! 8/29/16 --> EDD: 5/11/17....it's a GIRL!!!
Sweet Baby H 12.21.11
Sassy Baby P 03.26.14
Little Brother Due 05.22.17
DS2 5/17
#3 Due 9/20
Human sons: 11/2015 & 05/2017
*formerly kayemjay*
DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016
"A day without laughter is a day wasted." ~Charlie Chaplin
DS2 5/17
#3 Due 9/20
DS1 7/24/15
DS2 5/7/17
"A day without laughter is a day wasted." ~Charlie Chaplin
my bag has been packed and I've been having a hard time leaving one of my favorite target night gowns packed away, I wear one every night... so comfy!
I've been debating putting my bag in my car just incase... I'm working full time until D day.
I think in your situation (working right up to contractions; commuting; and in general being more nearby your car than your home), putting it in your car is a good idea. The last thing you'd want is to be out and about, and have to drive all the way home for just 1 bag (that could've easily been in your car).
This time my husband's only stuff in the bag is a change of clothes in case I go into labor when he is at work and in uniform. If he really needs toiletries I know my toothpaste, shower gel, and shampoo won't make his penis fall off!
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