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Re: April WTO

  • Ha I gotcha beat most nights we are both in bed at 9pm and asleep by 930pm. DH it's more like 901pm once head hits the pillow.  Saturday night we might stay up til 10
  • 11pm for me but I don't get up until 8
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  • @SP128 - us either! My DH likes to be asleep by 10pm - although we let loose about once a month or so... you can still get drunk by 10pm!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Old fart here too....eat dinner 8:30, asleep on couch by 9:15  ;). But we both naturally get up by 6:30am or so (even on weekends).
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • We get up at 530am during the week and I get up at 6am on weekends.  DH sleeps in until 7 or 8am. Total old farts in this household 
  • SP128SP128 member
    Oh and I can barely sleep past 6. Work days I have a harder time waking up. Weekends and vacations, it's rise and shine time. Can't sleep. It's the aging thing
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Thanks for all the convo this week ladies!! Been so fun checking this thread today  xoxo
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • Freelance life over here and I've never been a morning person. You bet when I worked corporate I was passed out by 9:30 and up at 6:30 but that's been 7 years.
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  • I'm one of those wacky up all the time people - morning person for workouts but get my work done late at night when no one can bother me! I'll be up working until about midnight tonight i'd guess.... 
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • How is everyone doing in this sucky  WTO?  The weather has got me down and feeling lazy and unmotivated.  

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • I'm here with you ladies. Been in and out. As far as going out to clubs and bars. forget it lol! I even get tired by seeing it in movies and tv lmfao!
  • @MimoCa.  Lol. I can't hang either.  We went to dinner with friends. I decided not to drink since I'm taking fertility drugs and we were home by 1000pm 
  • Beautiful weather in CA today - got DH to take a break from work to join me on a 6 mile hike this morning and it was fabulous!

    Trying to get back in shape with healthy eating habits is hard when you've been wallowing in sadness and frustration with a diet that consisted predominantly of chocolate for 9 months. I've been without chocolate for 1 week (which has been really hard!!!), but I'm feeling better already!

    Is anyone else trying hard (or struggling) to eat healthy and exercise?
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
  • @weareturtles - a week without chocolate?  You are a brave woman :)

    My advice on exercise is to find some form of it that you enjoy because then you will want to do it.  You'd never find me running for sure.  Also, don't get caught up on the calories - just try and eat as clean as you can and it's ok to have 1 cheat meal every week.
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  • @weareturtles. I'm with you on the struggle. I teach aerobics so I get exercise it's just the eating that I need to get back in control 
  • @vlagrl29 - Brave or crazy, I suppose. I'm not good at chocolate in moderation, so I am going to have to figure that one out. I have always been athletic and exercise regularly, but the surgeries and everything I've gone through in the past 9 months made that complicated and pulled me from the gym for the majority of it. I am getting back into the swing of it as far as exercise goes, but my eating habits have been pretty much "stress" eating all the time for the past 9 months, which made me feel crappier. I've changed up what I have around the house and in the fridge and it's going well so far this week. I just hope I can keep it up!

    @Mack2342 - I hear you! Food has been comfort for me at times like when I cannot exercise because I have a balloon in my uterus. I've developed some bad habits, now I need to get back to good habits.
    *TW*

    TTC#1 - 6.3.16
    BFP#1 - 7.1.16, (mo-di twins + singleton) due 3.15.17
    MC singleton - 7.13.16 - 5w
    MMC identical twins - 8.5.16 - 8w+2d
    Misoprostol 4x
    D&C - 9.12.16
    Hysteroscopy - 11.21.16 - Retained tissue filling half of uterus removed, blocked left tube, benched for 2 cycles, on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days
    HSG - 2.7.17 - Asherman's Syndrome. Both tubes open.
    Hysteroscopy 2.13.17 - Incomplete adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days. At least two more surgeries needed...
    Hysteroscopy 3.21.17 - Adhesiolysis for Asherman's, benched & on estrogen/progesterone for 30 days.
    TTCAL #1: 4.24.17
    Hysteroscopy 5.23.17 - Scars reformed. Adhesiolysis. Unsure what to do next...
    Fertility acupuncture - started 6.13.17
  • @weareturtles - I'm sure it's been hard for you the last several months.  GL with getting back on the exercise train and eating healthy.
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  • @weareturtles Struggling to lose weight and be healthy here!  I have to drop 21 pounds (15 now) before they'll do the progesterone biopsy.  So benched until then. Down 5 pounds already!  I did a no sugar challenge last week with a friend (Weekdays only) and it was really hard.

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • Mack2342Mack2342 member
    edited May 2017
    Maybe we could something on here to keep each us of motivated towards our goals? 
  • @mack2342 Seriously, my status is Netflix and bed by 9pm, haha!

    @weareturtles This has been my struggle too. I so badly want to start an intense exercise program (one of the beachbody ones) with my husband but over the past few months I have been either pregnant or miscarrying. I've been trying to shift my focus on healthy eating and telling myself that healthy food choices will make a healthy little home for a future baby. But dang ben and jerrys keeps calling my name!

  • @msstephanielynn I almost punched the doctor who told me I needed to lose 21 lbs. to have my biopsy in the face.  I'm like... dude, I lose weight and tone up, get pregnant and am too tired to do a lot of exercise (plus I'm not allowed to skate which is my #1 type of cardio), I'm running around for bloodwork and everything else, I get bloated even though I don't tend to 'gain' weight, and then I miscarry and am depressed and in pain and upset and I gain weight on top of the bloating.  Just leave me alone dude.

    Trying to stay on top of exercising and healthy eating is difficult when you're constantly TTCAL and miscarrying for sure!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.  Hopefully FET after that.

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • CD8 - and after a weekend of mountain biking I'm a little sore. better get it together in next couple of days!!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • hdaleyhdaley member
    Cd 10 here.  Had some good clean out the swimmers sex last night. Lol

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • So funny @hdaley - we had sex over the weekend and it had been a week. I told DH next cycle he should hold off a week and then BD when I'm fertile.
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  • I missed the conversation but I'm also usually in bed around 8 or 9 most nights. I get up at 5 during the week to work out. 

    Currently CD9. I whipped my thermometer out again this month. I haven't used it since we were TTC DD1. 
    DD1 4.14.10
    DD2 8.22.13
    MMC 1.4.17 at 16w
    Expecting #3, EDD 1.29.18

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  • CD9 and hitting my fertile window (I have short cycles....) come on biology - get it together this month!
    **** TW - kids and loss mentioned ****
    ~~ married 8.11.07
    ~~ DD1 1.16.11 ~~ DD2 1.3.14 ~~
    ~~ BFP3 12.22.15 MMC 2.29.16 @ 13 weeks ~~
    ~~ 2 D&Cs (3.1.16 and 3.10.16) for MMC
    ~~ BFP4 10.27.16  MMC 1.23.17 @ 16 weeks ~~ D&E 1.26.17 ~~
  • SP128SP128 member
    @ladipale cheering your body on
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
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