April WTO

Mack2342

@sp128.  I always thought it was better if you BD before you O.  So hopefully you are not out. 

hdaley

Sorry to see so many of us getting BFNs and moving over to WTO.

ladipale

CD3 I guess.... we will probably get back on the sex train tonight - of course not close to FW yet. Probably next weekend.

amberruka

Sex train at CD3? God bless you, child 

ladipale

lol, my husband's stress relief is sex @amberruka so yeah, we are all happier when he is not stressed

vlagrl29

CD 3 - aren't you still on AF?  @ladipale

ladipale

@vlagrl29 - yes, but just barely and that doesn't bother us? Its a recent revelation that it doesn't bother us  

vlagrl29

@ladipale - If I'm just spotting it doesn't bother us either but full blown AF the first 3 days no thanks.  It use to not bother me when I was younger but it does now.

SP128

@ladipale can you hear me applauding an a whistling ?  No sex train here until cd10 or so. Usually once to clean out his tube to get the old swimmers out!! That way the boys are nice and fresh for o.  I don't tell him this. Hahaha. 

Spotting I can handle. Full af I can't 

amberruka

@SP128 that is exactly what we do, too! Hahahaha

vlagrl29

oh my gosh you guys are funny @amberruka and @sp128 - clearing the tubes lol.  There is NO way my DH would not have sex for that long.  you better make sure he is not "taking care of himself"

amberruka

@vlagrl29 I have no problem with that-makes it like a self cleaning oven! 

SP128

@amberruka   Hahahaha

ladipale

Agree with @amberruka on the self cleaning oven  

Mack2342

We start at CD 10 too clean things out.  

weareturtles

@ladipale @amberruka @vlagrl29 @SP128@Mack2342 - you are all cracking me up! I love hearing your honest strategies and perspectives!

ladipale

I've gotten pregnant on CD10 sex @Mack2342

vlagrl29

you ladies are nuts!!  lol - I have no strategy at the moment.  I have to say this is the first time I've heard "self cleaning oven" used in this context.  I had fertile CM towards the end of last week and first part of last weekend.  Well I guess DH woke up very early in the morning and couldn't fall asleep so he "popped one off" as he told me when I asked if he wanted to have sex that night.  I guess he was just warning me that not much sperm may be left.  I sure as hell don't give a damn at this point.  We've had perfect timing and zip!  It will probably happen when we have sh!tty timing.

Mack2342

@ladipale. I know it can happen early.  My doctor is the one that told me to start CD10.  Since my first MC we have started on CD 10.  Looking back, we had our clean out session on CD7 or 8.  Then at 10 it was every other day until cd20.  Except when I got positive OPK then each day I got those.   We will be inseminated this time so won't have to do all this timing stuff lol.  It will all be a different timing of things 

Mack2342

@ladipale. I know it can happen early.  My doctor is the one that told me to start CD10.  Since my first MC we have started on CD 10.  Looking back, we had our clean out session on CD7 or 8.  Then at 10 it was every other day until cd20.  Except when I got positive OPK then each day I got those.   We will be inseminated this time so won't have to do all this timing stuff lol.  It will all be a different timing of things 

Mack2342

Looks like I'm back in the game!!! CD1 has arrived!  Never been so excited for AF. 

SP128

@Mack2342 woo hoo!!!!

amberruka

Yay @Mack2342!! I'm twiddling my thumbs waiting for AF....la la la laaaaaa. 

I'm jealous of you guys-DH has a low sex drive and just getting 2-3x in a week is a major struggle. Then performance issues when "pressure" is involved. But as we all now, conception sex is. The. Worst. It's amazing I ever got pg in the first place (that time we BD days 14 and 16, it was Christmas and we were home and drunk.....). 

ladipale

@amberruka - totally. Conception sex is awful - which is why we just have sex all.the.time.... so DH doesn't really know when its conception sex.

vlagrl29

Yeah @amberruka agreed about ttc sex. I'm just over it. 

ladipale

You ladies need to spice it up! @vlagrl29 and @amberruka Go to Vegas! Buy some lingere, etc. it can get mundane - so true.

SP128

@ladipale  we def got it on and was more relaxed in Vegas last week. We even left the preseed at home. Then again, dh didn't have much of a choice. He just didn't know it. I don't know if he knew it was possibly fw 

ladipale

When I was first considering a 3rd - my OB said to just drink some tequila and see what happens - wish it was that easy but I try to keep that mindset of letting loose and letting go. (which is why I don't temp and why i'm currently not peeing on sticks)
i try really hard not to regret when we DON'T have sex or  overthink if we did it too many days in a row, not enough, etc. total mind game. 

vlagrl29

@ladipale we try too but I just can't with the timed sex and pressure. I just don't care about that anymore. I'll have to dress up sometime next cycle. Early December I got a nurse outfit complete with fish nets and I used my heels and red wig. That gets DH all worked up that it takes him forever to finish meanwhile I've had 3 orgasms!

SP128

@vlagrl29 3!!!!!!  ????

ladipale

I just LOVE where this convo has gone. Brown chicken ~~~ brown cow

Way to work it @vlagrl29 - I'm coming for your 3!

vlagrl29

@sp128. DH likes the challenge when he's in that mood. Actually I've had as many as 5. By that time I'm usually like "please stop" - let me emphasize this is not every time. Not the norm.

ladipale

@vlagrl29 - word. just word  

amberruka

****high fives all around****  

Mack2342

Lol. While o was tracking when I got pregnant with my son I'm pretty sure I was drunk for a good portion of the sex.  We partied a lot then.  But since having him and now being over 40, we don't go out and party that much plus I prefer to not be hung over all the time any more lol.  I was 39 when I got pregnant with DS boy how things have changed in 3 years lol.   I've never had 5 orgasms but have had 3!  My DH used to make sure I always had two but no that doesn't happen all the time.  And when it's time for baby making sessions I don't care if have one at all. He just needs to do what he needs to do 

SP128

Rock star status. Mic drop

ladipale

@Mack2342 - after I was pregnant I do not like being hungover either - because pregnancy feels like a nine month hangover.
Thats even more true not that I've endured 2 awful 1st tris in a row without the baby at the end. ugh.

vlagrl29

For real. Forget going to the clubs cause now i would have to take care a kid the next day.

ladipale

Totally - thats why overnight sitters are AMAZING @vlagrl29

SP128

Ummmm ladies, dh and I are in bed by 11 pm.  Never mind the clubs and bars, we wouldnt  make it past the 10 o'clock news, if we watched that is