Thursday TTGP Grad Check-in 3/30

jess0211 · March 2017

Feel free to tag ladies in the comments!

This is a check-in for friends from the TTGP board. If you were a contributing member of that board please let us know how you are doing!

1. Due date?

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?

4. Questions/concerns?

dragonfly87-2 · March 2017

1. Due date? 11/23--Thanksgiving!

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Pretty good...aside from the nausea that hit this morning pretty hard. Fortunately it has subsided for today...but I have no appetite whatsoever. Everything I look at looks disgusting (if its sweet), bland or just generally unappealing. Which makes me a little sad because I love food...and we are traveling. Last night, DH had mussels for dinner and I didn't even want one...which never happens. So I had a cup of tomato soup and bread. Soup is also really hard to find right now...so it's been water and bread.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?

First prenatal appointment next Tuesday, April 4 at 6w5d. Just blood work, pap and paperwork.

4. Questions/concerns?

Any ladies have pelvic pressure persist beyond 4-5 weeks. I had it really bad during the 4th week and it subsided last week. It has sense returned and is quite intense. I am sure all is fine, but it can be quite painful to lay down with it.

jess0211 · March 2017

1. Due date?
11/11

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Okay, some days better than others. I am feeling mostly overwhelmed this week. Work is going to be very hectic from now through August, both DH and I are in the middle of major family crises on both sides, and well you know...then there is preparing for this amazing little human growing inside me.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?

Finally! I have my first, 8 week appt Tuesday. I am a bundle of emotions.

4. Questions/concerns?

It's getting really tough not telling at work. I am still holding off as long as possble but it's getting hard. Today I was accepted into a leadership program I applied for a few months back and I don't know if I should accept or not now. I feel like I should and just do as much of the program as I can before leave?

Also, anyone know how much caffeine is in Starbucks decaf? I have a coffee meeting lol

jess0211 · March 2017

@dragonfly87 I have pelvic pressure on and off and I am in week 7. I assume it's normal. Also, we have our first appts the same day!

dragonfly87-2 · March 2017

@jess0211 Thanks for the response, that makes me feel a little better (mentally) about the pressure...still hoping it lessens soon.

Yay for appointments on the same day! Is your an ultrasound or basic visit?

Also, for Starbucks decaf, it's 15mg for short and 20mg for tall...so totally fine for either!

I would recommend taking the leadership program and doing what you can. I am a firm believer in women leaning in (to the extent they personally want to) in terms of career and professional development. FWIW, I just accepted a significant challenge and opportunity for the school that I run about two weeks ago. It was literally the day after I found out I was pregnant and my board is asking to start expanding our school to 3 more schools over the next 5 years starting this upcoming Fall. They have no idea I am planning to have a family or that I am pregnant right now. I will tell them in May, but my decision to do it and their choice to "invest in me" as the leader has nothing to do with my choice to have children. Yes, my life will change after having a child, but I will remain committed to the work I do. I will have to figure out a balance, but it's doable.

Sorry for the rant, it's just something I am passionate about. So, if you want to do it, I say go for it!!!

DuchessOfCambridge · March 2017

@dragonfly87 I have abdominal pressure most of the time, especially if I twist or sit up from laying down. Coughing/sneezing gives me the worst shooting pain.

@jess0211 that's a lot to deal with right now. Hope at least the work stuff settles down for you. Just my opinion, but if I were you I would still do that leadership program. Some people might think that would be selfish of me since I know I'm having a baby but to that I say I'm qualified, was chosen, and deserve it. Anyone can have a medical issue come up at any time and I'm not going to let the fact that my gender is the one that makes families hold me back from something I deserve. Of course, I'm not in that position so feel free to disagree with me. Also, a quick Google search says 12-13.4 mg of caffeine

1. Due date?
11/18

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Right now, I feel really great. Had my followup ultrasound and I've had no pain since the last one, baby was measuring on track with a good heartbeat, and at this exact moment I feel no symptoms which I'm enjoying while it lasts especially since I know everything is fine and this morning I had sad diarrhea and almost threw up in our elevator. And, I had a waffle from the waffle truck outside my work building this morning. I'm quite pleased.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?
See above for today's appointments. Next appointment isn't until 8w5d on 4/13

4. Questions/concerns?
I'm happy everything is fine with me but concerned for our fellow TTGP Grads and I feel kind of like a jerk for being so relieved. Thinking of you ladies and hoping you have truly great news.

heatherdubrow · March 2017

1. Due date? 11/11

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Pretty good, mostly just tired. Waiting for my second ultrasound this morning. Hoping it all looks good!

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?
Today!
4. Questions/concerns?
Nope

mispanda · March 2017

1. Due date? 11/22

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Not great, spotting has increased from yesterday (I'm not sure if I call it spotting or light light light flow) so my gut feeling is worst case scenario.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments? I have one this afternoon it was suppose to be an ultrasound but I'm not sure if the doctor will do one or not.

4. Questions/concerns?
Nope, you ladies know whats going on right now and I'll come back to update this evening. My instinct is usually never wrong, but in this case I hope I'm very very very wrong.

dragonfly87-2 · March 2017

@mispanda: I am so sorry you are going through this and hope that all is well in the end. If your doctor doesn't want to initially do an ultrasound, do you think you could push for one given the situation? Hugs.

adirat · March 2017

@mispanda I'm so sorry you're facing so much uncertainty and bad news. Thinking of you today and hoping for the best

jess0211 · March 2017

@mispanda I am so sorry you are going through this. Hoping for the best!

wabash15 · March 2017

@mispanda I'm rooting for you!! TW** I had heavy spotting/light bleeding with both of my pregnancies, one didn't end well the other is the most beautiful double rainbow. End TW** your not out till your out but I'm sending you the biggest hugs because I know how scary it is

@heatherdubrow I've already said it but I've got my fingers crossed so hard for you. I hope today's update is the best one imaginable.

jess0211 · March 2017

@dragonfly87 and @DuchessOfCambridge thanks so much your input. That is exactly how I was feeling. I actually asked myself why I was even worried about it, a man wouldn't have to be concerned so why should I? And the program is specifically for women who are emerging leaders so clearly aimed at women who are most likely of childbearing age. I am just so frustrated in general of the constant professional struggles I face just because I am woman. I could go on about this for ages.

@dragonfly87 thanks for the Starbucks info!

@DuchessOfCambridge so glad all went well today!

@heatherdubrow thinking of you!

DuchessOfCambridge · March 2017

@mispanda I can't say this enough, but I am so hoping everything is just fine. Regardless, I'm sorry you're dealing with this stress and anxiety, praying it's all ok. Same goes for you @heatherdubrow.

heatherdubrow · March 2017

@mispanda hugs, and I hope you're wrong!

JulesDP · March 2017

1. Due date? 11/9

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Pretty good! Super thirsty, tired and bloated, but I'll live.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?
First OB appointment was today. The u/s was so, so amazing. LO is measuring right at 8w and had a heart rate of 157. My doctor and I discussed whether or not I should stay on my SSRI for anxiety and we've decided that I'll remain on my low dose with the possibility of increasing my dose near EDD. I feel really good about the decision.

I'm going back in two weeks to discuss the results from the 2340823420 vials worth of blood that she took as well as do the blood draw for the NIPT. I have another u/s at 12 weeks.

4. Questions/concerns? I have a bunch of family coming into town this weekend and I'm seriously dreading the amount of effort that I will have to put into hiding my pregnancy. I'm concerned about the secret coming out because I know that my cousin is struggling with IF and I want to be sensitive to her and not upset her. I'm planning on texting her to tell her the news, but I won't be ready to do that for another couple of weeks. Ugh.

@mispanda Sending so many positive thoughts your way

@jess0211 I'm so sorry that you and YH are dealing with family crises. Unfortunately, I feel your pain. I hope that you're able to take some time for yourself -- you deserve it.

kyersten · March 2017

@mispanda and @heatherdubrow Thinking of you both today!!! ❤

swimsister · March 2017

1. Due date? 11/30

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

It's been a tough week. I'm traveling for work with my whole department. We've been in nearly constant meetings and I'm trying to keep up with my regular work. Plus, drinking is part of the culture at my work. I've done pretty well with soda water and a couple virgin Moscow mules, but it's stressful.

Then of course I'm stressed that all the stress isn't good for baby.... oh well, I'll be home tomorrow.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?

No, my first appointment isn't for a few weeks.

4. Questions/concerns?

I recognize the blessing it is that I'm not in regular appointments yet. However, is really love a doctor's opinion on what is really an issue for pregnant women. For instance, What To Expect says that domestic cheese is almost always pasteurized so it's ok to eat. But the pregnant woman in my department said yesterday that her doctor told her no feta cheese. I had some on my salad the day before because I thought it was ok, I'm not sick so it's probably fine... just frustrating

@jess0211 Lean In! Don't back off from the leadership program if you don't want to.

@mispanda I hope things turn out ok for you today

mispanda · March 2017

Well I just got back from the doctor. My HCG levels are to low for an ultrasound and at this point he doesn't think the added stress of not seeing anything will do me any good. My cervix is still closed and he saw no "active bleeding" even tho I'm still spotting/flowing. (I was mixed in the moment and should of asked where the bleeding was coming from then)
I'm really just in limbo until I get my lab results from tomorrows beta draw. They need to at least go up by 60% so hoping they do. I'm not out of the woods yet but the next 24 hours are going to suck.
He did say that 15% of women have abnormal rising HCG levels in early pregnancy so hoping I'm in the 15%.

DuchessOfCambridge · March 2017

@swimsister it's true that most domestic cheeses are pasteurized but I'm avoiding it all unless I buy it myself and check the packaging. Some women eat it anyway. My dr just said to avoid all soft cheeses I think to cover her bases

@mispanda I'm glad you're not out yet, so hoping you're in the 15%

jess0211 · March 2017

@mispanda crossing my fingers and toes for you!

dragonfly87-2 · March 2017

@mispanda: FX that your hcg numbers are just rising slowly and all is well!

wabash15 · March 2017

@mispanda i'm sorry your still in limbo. hugs and fx for increasing betas

adirat · March 2017

@mispanda I'm sorry to hear it. Like our other friends I'm keeping my fingers crossed but I know how hard it must be right now.

God what a downer of a day today. Big hugs friends.

kyersten · March 2017

So sorry @mispanda. Fingers crossed so hard that you're in that 15%!!!

NYTino24 · March 2017

1. Due date? 11/20

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support

Doing okay. Anxiety has been creeping in, especially as our BMB starts having losses. It scares me and I feel so much for them. Spotted twice. Second time I was able to confirm it was BM related as I had suspected the first time. Starting to feel more activity/ occasional pains down there. Hoping to see growth, a measurable heartbeat, and get a confirmed due date at next appointment. Hell, I'd just like to make it to the visit.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments?

Nothing until 4/5. Finished the meds for my GI infection.

4. Questions/concerns?

Anyone else have pepperoni nipples all of a sudden? Haha... I've gotten a little sad realizing I would have been at the halfway point in my first pregnancy now. I'm grateful to be pregnant again so quickly, but I just want to get to the end of my rainbow and have my healthy baby.

DuchessOfCambridge · March 2017

@NYTino24 ah, that must be very emotional, realizing you'd be halfway through with the first. Wishing a take home baby for you this time, great news at your appointment, and a relaxing (as can be) rest of your pregnancy.

@mispanda thinking of you today

jess0211 · March 2017

@NYTino24 I can only imagine how emotional this time must be for you. I have my fingers crossed for you that your appt goes well next week

jess0211 · March 2017

@mispanda thinking about you today!!!!

DuchessOfCambridge · March 2017

This is a sucky week.

dragonfly87-2 · March 2017

@DuchessOfCambridge you read my mind. This is a really sucky week. I wish we could do more to comfort fellow Bumpies right now other than posting.

kyersten · March 2017

1. Due date? October 30

2. How are you feeling? DD posts are welcome if you need support. Agree with what others have said, what a bad week.... so sad for those hurting right now.

3. Any upcoming appointments and/or updates from recent appointments? Nothing until my first OB appointment on April 11.

4. Questions/concerns? No. Thinking of those who have had losses this week!

jess0211 · March 2017

@DuchessOfCambridge I was thinking the same thing and like @dragonfly87 I hate that there isn't more we can do. I want to wrap our fellow bumpies is a great big group hug.

jeanware · March 2017

1. Due date? November 23

2. How are you feeling? Pelvis pain subsided and All day sickness kicked in this week

NYTino24 · March 2017

Hey, @jeanware! Congrats. You seem like you are new to TB and may have gotten lost along the way. This particular thread is for women who got to know each other on the Trying to Get Pregnant board. This may help you out.

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12703037/start-here-board-organization-guidelines#latest

adirat · March 2017

Hi @jeanware . I'm not sure how you came across this thread for your first post on TB, but this thread is for women who know each other from the TTGP board. You want the introductions thread for November which is here: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12703030/introductions

jess0211 · April 2017

Hey TTGP ladies, I know early on the Nov BMB board had a post about havimg a fb group (not the fake one from today). I also know us TTGP ladies are on the same page about stranger danger. I have come to think if you ladies as my online family, feeling more comfortable talking to you than many of my friendls IRL. We have shared so much already. I would love for us to stay in touch not only over the course of our pregnancies but after. What do you all think about a private FB group for just us Nov TTGP ladies? Not that we couldn't participate in the larger BMB FB group, but I feel we already have a nice relationship with each other with the trust already there. We don't need to decide now but wanted to throw it out there and see what you all thought?

DuchessOfCambridge · April 2017

I would be ok with that, actually. I feel the same way about talking to IRL friends and think I might still even after we announce because I won't want to be obnoxious just talking about my pregnancy all the time...even though it's pretty much all I think about. Also I think we've all proved we're not crazies at this point. I'm not saying this lightly, I think you've all noticed I'm fairly private about my info on here.

jess0211 · April 2017

@DuchessOfCambridge That's exactly how I feel. I am also pretty private IRL thanks to growing up in a small town where gossip is the only form of entertainment.

slaven · April 2017

I'd be okay with a TTGP group. I don't think FB is even that private to begin with so it's not like I share things that I wouldn't want people to know. I've got that military Operation Security and Personal Security training ingrained into me.

kissthesky32 · April 2017

Just a dirty lurker here to say that I would be sad if you all started chatting in a private fb group and less on the bump. You each contribute a lot to the community and I would hate to see you step back!

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