Note: This thread will include discussion of infertility and loss. If these topics are triggering for you, please take care of yourself while reading and posting here.
This thread is for those of us who went through infertility testing and treatments before becoming pregnant. Many of us have had different struggles to get to this place and face different anxiety and concerns now. This thread is for us to support each other, and we hope it will be a safe space. Though this thread starts on Saturdays, please feel free to post here at any time during the week, whether for good news or bad. Consider this an ongoing conversation.
This thread is for those who have experienced infertility. The struggles we discuss may or may not apply to those who became pregnant easily. If you have not experienced infertility, please be considerate and sensitive if you feel the need to post in this thread.
~Mom to an amazing Jan 2011 boy~
~EDD Nov 18, 2017 with my IUI success story~
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Re: PAIF (Pregnant After Infertility) - Check In - 3/18
I don't have a good reason to feel this way. As far as we know, our issues were with *getting* pregnant. I've only been pregnant once before, and I am looking at that baby as I type, so I have no reason to believe I can't *stay* pregnant. But still, I can't get past the IF mindset.
Anyone else?
~EDD Nov 18, 2017 with my IUI success story~
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I had an ultrasound this week at 5w2d... all we could see was the sac, but it did calm my nerves a bit. Hoping see a heartbeat in a week or so will help even more.
Married 2010
TTC since September 2015
PCOS
IUI #1 - July 20, 2016 - Clomid 50mg, Ovidrel - 1 follicle - BFN
IUI #2 - August 16, 2016 - Clomid 100mg, Ovidrel - 1 follicle - BFN
IUI #3 - September 21 + 22, 2016 - Clomid 50 mg, Ovidrel - 1 follicle - BFN
IUI #4 - October 28, 2016 - Clomid 50 mg, Gonal-F, Ovidrel - 1 follicle - BFN
IUI #5+#6 - November & December, 2016 - Clomid, Ovidrel - BFN
ICSI #1 - ER 02.20.17 - 5dt of one embryo 02.25.17 - BFP on HPT!!! 03.05.17 - Beta #1: 70 03.06.17! - Beta #2: 154! 03.08.17
We had a 7-week ultrasound on Friday where we heard a strong heartbeat (131 bpm at 7 weeks) which made things feel so much more real and secure. There's a baby in there. It's doing OK. I don't think I'll feel totally calm until my CVS at 12 weeks to confirm viability and whether the baby inherited my condition (or worse), but I really do feel a lot better after hearing the heartbeat.. @liahay I hope you will too!
Had an early MC March 2015 (natural)
MC at 9 weeks Nov 16. ( IVF) both were abnormal embryos . Decided to do genetic testing on last 2 frozen embryos. Did a FET on March 6 and now pregnant !! Hoping it's real!! Glad I'm not the only one who is in denial!
I definitely feel the same as you all said here - I keep waiting for the other shoe to drop. I saw a couple of social media pregnancy announcements today and felt my heart drop automatically. I keep having to remind myself I'm pregnant! Hard to shake the feelings of infertility that we felt for so long.
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Married May 2014
TTC #1: May 2015
September 2016-December 2016: Met with RE, fertility testing, diagnosis of tubal scarring, and plan of IVF
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I can't get over how nerve wracking this whole process is!
~EDD Nov 18, 2017 with my IUI success story~
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2014: 3 IUIs Failed
2014: IVF #1 succeed- Baby Boy Born 2015
2017: IVF #2 Jan Cycle - BFP! EDD 11/2/17
@pawcall and @liahay This was my first BFP too, and I feel the same as you both... I have no reason to believe I can't stay pregnant, but I'm so so nervous about it.
Married May 2014
TTC #1: May 2015
September 2016-December 2016: Met with RE, fertility testing, diagnosis of tubal scarring, and plan of IVF
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my first scan is Friday at 6weeks 2 days. Hoping for a heartbeat. My husband refuses to go with me because he's so anxious about it. My mom is going to take me. No indication that anything is wrong...just my crazy brain.
How many ultrasounds are your REs doing before releasing you to the OB? I'm not sure what to expect.
Thanks!!
I've had ultrasounds and bloodwork at 6 weeks, 7 weeks, and again this Friday at 8 weeks. I have a progesterone problem they're monitoring weekly to make sure my supplementation is enough. I think 8 weeks is often the time you "graduate" to an OB, but for me, I'm not sure whether this week (8 weeks) will be my last -- it probably depends on how my progesterone looks.
~EDD Nov 18, 2017 with my IUI success story~
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I used Femara, Gonal-F and Ovidrel with timed intercourse and got pregnant on the second cycle. We aren't scheduled for our first us for another week, when I'll be 6w4d. I made my nurse schedule three HCG tests just to calm my nerves. They only wanted to do two when my second one showed levels doubling.
mbodem I had my first ultrasound at 5 weeks 6 days. They usually try to do the first ultrasound around 6 weeks to see a heartbeat.
So, I am still on the estrogen patches along with the PIO shots. I am supposed to change my patches every 2 days. I completely spaced and not only forgot to change my patches but removed the old and never put on the new! I took them off when I got home from work and was going to clean the sticky off my belly after taking a shower. Well, just went to sleep instead. I put them on first thing this morning when I remember. I'm sure one night isn't a HUGE deal but of course I am slightly nervous. I have a call in to my RE just so she can calm me down.
UGH! Pregnancy brain already! haha
The nurse just called back and said the same thing. I asked if it was necessary to get my blood drawn again to check levels (BC I AM A CRAZY PERSON) and she politely chuckled and said no, no harm was done AT ALL by not having a patch on for less than 12 hours.
At some point I will calm down and relax about all this, right????!!!!!
I just had my 8 weeks appointment this morning with my IVF doc and the baby is doing well and on track. My Dr has official released me to my OB and we have scheduled our 1st appointment on April 14th. (which is on my DS's 2nd birthday!)
I'm looking forward to having the monthly visit with the OB and I will be checking with my insurance company to see if they cover the Genetic blood test so we can find out the gender and make sure our baby is healthy soon.
@JDW0325 I am currently taking Progesterone cream (Crinone) once a day and I forgot a dose the other day, it has not effected the baby or my pregnancy so far. Don't worry too much if it's just one dose! our pregnancy brain kicks in sometimes lol
2014: 3 IUIs Failed
2014: IVF #1 succeed- Baby Boy Born 2015
2017: IVF #2 Jan Cycle - BFP! EDD 11/2/17
@adirat thank you!! I will see what they say tomorrow. Hoping everything goes ok!
As far as I know my only real problem was getting pregnant but it's like I've tried for so long to get to this point it's hard to accept or not worry about what's coming next. Hoping after my ultrasound in 2 1/2 weeks my worries will settle a little.