i lead a double life as a teen. I was in a medical academy for HS, honors student, varsity sports, but I partied...HARD. I drank, smoked, and tried various other things because why not? I got all the experimenting of "substances" out of my way in HS, and in college just drank and had fun. I didn't like weed very much as it put me to sleep...i preferred things with a faster pace.
@daniellelynette it wasn't really successful. i was like 18? and i didn't like it (i'm not good at sharing) so i got dressed and left. Sucky part was i was actually talking to the guy and after i left he continued to hook up with my friend.
@daniellelynette it wasn't really successful. i was like 18? and i didn't like it (i'm not good at sharing) so i got dressed and left. Sucky part was i was actually talking to the guy and after i left he continued to hook up with my friend.
Wow.... that's terrible! I don't think I would do well in that situation, I'm not much for sharing either.
@lahearn18 all my lady friends have said it was awesome. I'm sure I'd have the same reaction as you. DH isn't really into it either so that's helped. Or he is and is ashamed?
@kailapop I don't know anyone who has openly admitted that they enjoyed it. My DH has no shame in his game, and wants to try again...sober. I laughed at him.
@kailapop@lahearn18 I have to say it was like the most uncomfortable thing I've ever done. I'd rather go get another Brazilian wax.. or be induced again
On the topic of butt stuff... I am among the few that doesn't mind it in very certain situations. I used to hate it but with some creativity SO and I were able to make it work.
It's something that only happens once every few months and is definitely not my fav thing to do.
@kailapop I don't know anyone who has openly admitted that they enjoyed it. My DH has no shame in his game, and wants to try again...sober. I laughed at him.
Lol we've done it too and it was not enjoyable at all... DH sometimes tries to do it and pretend like "Oops..." and I'm like NOPE WRONG DOOR.
@kailapop I don't know anyone who has openly admitted that they enjoyed it. My DH has no shame in his game, and wants to try again...sober. I laughed at him.
Lol we've done it too and it was not enjoyable at all... DH sometimes tries to do it and pretend like "Oops..." and I'm like NOPE WRONG DOOR.
Haha this made me laugh out loud. We've never and it will never happen. Luckily DH doesn't seem interested either.
I'll also chime in on the butt stuff. It took DH and I a while to figure it out so it wasn't awful for me, but now I do legitimately kind of enjoy it. However, you need: lots of lube (no exceptions), a vibrator going at the same time, and you have to relax. If you are tense at all it can be painful. The vibrator is key. Now you all know entirely too much about me.
Me: 26 DH:25 Married:August 2015 TTC #1 since April 2016
@mrsmgsee Same here! We were each other's first and only. No regrets.
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@lahearn18 That's what I told DH when we first got together. I am far from his first, but what happened before me doesn't matter.
I've only been with one other person, but my regret is not that I was with someone else, it's that I married that bastard. I'm very happy to have DH as my best and last.
Yeah, DH is also far from being my first. Let's just say that while I didn't party/do drugs, I still managed to have a lot of *fun* in college. Our past partners helped us become the people that we are today, so I have no regrets
I'll admit it, too... I've done the "butt stuff" and didn't hate it. It isn't my favorite way to have sex, but once we figured out what we were doing, I did enjoy it.
Re: Never Have I Ever
Is it sad that I only knew because it was on an episode of Little Women?
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Me 34 DH 34
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Me 34 DH 34
PCOS
Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
I don't know anyone who has openly admitted that they enjoyed it. My DH has no shame in his game, and wants to try again...sober. I laughed at him.
Ps your names on here are so similar. Well not SO similar. Maybe just similar.
Too much use of the same word? Maybe. But it felt right.
i've thought the same thing about the usernames...
On the topic of butt stuff... I am among the few that doesn't mind it in very certain situations. I used to hate it but with some creativity SO and I were able to make it work.
It's something that only happens once every few months and is definitely not my fav thing to do.
I'll also chime in on the butt stuff. It took DH and I a while to figure it out so it wasn't awful for me, but now I do legitimately kind of enjoy it. However, you need: lots of lube (no exceptions), a vibrator going at the same time, and you have to relax. If you are tense at all it can be painful. The vibrator is key.
Now you all know entirely too much about me.
Married:August 2015
TTC #1 since April 2016
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ETA: scratch that. If he was my first I wouldn't have had DD. So I wish he was my second
I've only been with one other person, but my regret is not that I was with someone else, it's that I married that bastard. I'm very happy to have DH as my best and last.
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Me 34 DH 34
PCOS
Baby number 2 due 4/11/20
I'll admit it, too... I've done the "butt stuff" and didn't hate it. It isn't my favorite way to have sex, but once we figured out what we were doing, I did enjoy it.