TTC After a Loss

February WTO

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Re: February WTO

  • preseed for me too! We use it even when not ttc.  The only one that doesn't give me a yeast infection or uti.
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  • Pressed fan here too!  

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

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  • Me too!  We use it all the time
  • I think O is going to happen for me this week... lots of stretchy clear EWCM today... no positive opk yet, but yay for cm!
  • @NYTino24 - Im sorry about the timing issue - I hate when that happens its like you try so hard to have perfect timing  and then you don't O when you think you are going too. Fx you can still BD a few times before O.

    Ordering some preseed now as Im just about to start my FW!
  • SP128SP128 member
    edited February 2017
    @TScalei maybe we will be Cycle buddies again. Remember, we are going to dominate this cycle. 

    Edit. Auto correct stinks 
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    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @TScalei Looks like I ovulated yesterday. DH let me fall asleep without BD and couldn't finish. Looks like we only got -1, -5. I'm so upset.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • Ugh @NYtino24 - Im sorry that just stinks. -1 is still good timing so you are not out this month.
  • @NYTino24 oh man. -1 is still good so def not out this cycle. Fx for you
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @NYTino24 - you still have a chance with -1, I'm hoping for you! We had great timing and I've already counted myself out
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  • TScaleiTScalei member
    edited February 2017
    It really is just a crapshoot sometimes. Ive gotten pg on what I thought was sucky timing and have not gotten pg on near perfect timing. It really just takes one time which I guess is why there are so many accidental pregnancies out there.
  • @NYTino24 That sucks, I'm sorry. But FF still considers -1 good timing! And really, I think -1 is better to hit than the evening of O. If you ovulated early in the day yesterday, last night might have been too late anyway. Given a choice between hitting -1 and 0, I'd choose -1 every time. And really, despite all the effort we all put into TTC, it really can just take 1 time in FW to be successful. FX this is your cycle. 
  • I always think -1 is better too that way the sperm are there waiting for the egg release.
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  • Thanks, guys, but it all seemed to spill right out on -1. I'm not hopeful and frustrated because we hit 11/16 days and still didn't have good timing. We shall see if I even ovulated in the next few days. I had the fake out of four days with a cold and I've only had one day of temp rise now, but it's more in like with past O days.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • oh I'm sorry @NYTino24 - fx still - you sure did put forth the extra effort this cycle.
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  • SP128SP128 member
    @NYTino24 FX crossed for you

    I had turned a pos OPK last night and this morning and a temp spike this morning.  I put in dummy temps for the next two days and FF put O at yesterday. Who the f knows if I O or not.  Going to try to BD tonight but DH is working til midnight.  Asked him to wake me up. We will see if he does and if he does the deed.  
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 I hope he comes through!
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • SP128SP128 member
    @NYTino24 I was nervous about last night but he pulled through. He told me he wasn't feeling well. I told him I got a pos opk that night. He was like does that mean we have to tonight? I said yes , today and tomorrow. You should've seen the look in his eyes. No mercy. Stinks he is on a double 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 - oooh its so hard to HIO sometimes lol. Glad you got a positive OPK though. I should be a couple days behind you.
  • Well I am back here after a break from all of this! My cycles have gotten longer every month since my d & c in Nov. Ugh!!!
  • SP128SP128 member
    @Tscalei  I'm rooting for you to be my cycle buddy again : )  Verdict is still out on whether or not I Oed so it's still possible.  
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • @SP128 - its always fun going through the craziness with someone.
  • I am currently chillin with AF and she sucks.  This wait for O is actually worse that the tww for me because I am so nervous that I won't O for some reason that I think my stress pushes it farther away.  I didn't O until cd21 last month. 
  • @justsuzie I feel the same. It was CD23 for me FCAL and this one was CD22. That's how they were normally, but the two right before loss were CD15 and 18. MFM agreed to do FSH and AMH testing because I'm all over the place.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  •   @NYTino24 I'm going to send positive vibes to my uterus to get its shit together and give me an earlier O. Of course I researched on the internet and found some dismaying info about later O dates being more prone to MC. I'm hoping it's all hogwash. 
  • SP128SP128 member
    @justsuzie also sending positive vibes to your uterus. Kinda creepy, but hey positive vibes can't hurt 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • Hope your next cycle is better @justsuzie. Whenever I go down the blackhole of internet research I try to remind myself that not everyone that is getting pg and going on to have a healthy baby has perfect cycles, diets etc. It helps keep out the scary voices (mostly) lol.
  • I go here now again. 2nd cycle post miscarriage.  And this one is a bit h. Heavier flow than what I'm used to and I'm on day 3 of cramps.  

    Baby #1: BFP on 10/12/2011, EDD 6/24/2012 Born: 6/16/2012 Boy!

    Baby #2: BFP on 11/11/2016, EDD 7/25/2017 - MC 1/2/2017

  • Finally joining.  First cycle since miscarriage.  Not sure when to start testing. I'm using clear blue advanced.  (I have 12 sticks left)  I don't temp.  At least not yet....

    Any suggestions on when to start testing.  I'm thinking of buying another box and starting at CD5.  I could wait  but worried the holder will be no good between.  

    New to this so sorry if silly questions.  Last time I ovulated I believe CD12 but hear it may be screwy. 


  • I'd start a little earlier than you use to normally O @Leesa926
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  • @justsuzie Well I've gone down that path too, not only because of later O, but also false OPK surges. It makes sense that bad eggs are part of slow to grow follicles, but who knows. Maybe ask for the testing? My regular OB said no, but MFM said yes. I just presented my data and concerns. He didn't even need to see my OPK pics or temp charts. He just believed me.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

    Me: 36 DH 35 
    TTC  9/2016     BFP 12/9/16    EDD 8/21/17    NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
    TTC  2/2017  BFP 3/6/17   EDD 11/17/17   DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
    TTC 12/2018   BFP 6/2/19   EDD 2/12/20  NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
    TTC 7/2019   BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
    TTC 8/19    IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone  BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
    IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20

    AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
  • LOL @SP128 :D
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • that's awesome @SP128
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  • Hahahaha @SP128- I totally get that - hilarious!!!
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    Hahhah. Dh took one for the team and was able to ahem provide last night. He was so tired. He tried to be hopeful for a night off and was like "maybe I'll make you wait tonight and give it to you the next ."  Not a chance buddy when my body isn't being confusing. 
    ***TW***
    Me: 36  DH:35
    Married: 7/10/2016
    TTC#1 - May 2016
    BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016  
    BFP 5/5/2017  - CP
    IVF #1 - June 2017  - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo.  7/9 Beta #1 - 161 
    <3 Adam <3 Born on 3/18/18




     
  • I hear ya @SP128 - I was like that last year and it made it very stressful for us and a couple times DH got performance anxiety so I decided to drop it and actually got to a point to where if DH was too tired I would say "that's ok maybe tomorrow" lol and then he would take one for the team anyways.
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