We just had our scan and we're told that the baby had their legs crossed, but they think it's a girl. First of all, what do you mean think? They should of said it's xxx or we are unsure. Second, I was hoping for a boy since I already have a beautiful daughter. I didn't realize how much I wanted a boy, due to the way I'm feeling. Obviously, I just need time to adjust as will love this baby no matter what, but I feel guilty. Any other mummas go through this?
@tyro328 I personally think some level of emotion/reaction is normal... I'm 99.9% sure this is my last pregnancy/child and it will be my 3rd boy - no girls. Of course I had the thoughts that I'll never zip or button a daughter's wedding dress or similar things, which can be sad for a second as you always thought you would have those life moments.... but if this isn't your last child or you're extremely upset by it... well, I'll warn you that won't be warmly received here as we've had quite a difficult time with some users having extreme sex disappointment... sounds like you're focused on having a healthy baby first, which is most important.
Found out a week ago that it's a boy! We're calling him baby Bruce because my fiancé's step mom is a huge Batman fan and we don't really want to tell anyone a name when we choose it. So nickname Bruce will be it until the day he's born!
Re: Baby(ies) sex
Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
Edit: autocorrect is the
ETA: I think the statement around dealing with whatever fantasy you have/had for your family is the key.
Im a little late to the party haha! HAvent been on much.