@purplg8r I am thinking about you and praying hard that this is your take home baby! What an emotional roller coaster I'm sure you're going through. Everything crossed for you and awaiting an update!
Mini update-- I got BW yesterday and have to get more tomorrow. I was hoping to know yesterday's HCG levels so I could kinda see where they are. But they hadn't gotten them back by the time the office closed so I guess I have to wait until Monday.
Question because I can't find anything on it. Has anyone heard of a pregnancy will low temps? I have never experienced a m/c but if it had started on the day I thought AF started (12 days ago), would I still be bleeding and getting a BFP? If I've been pregnant all this time, how have my temps been so low since that date?
@purplg8r fx for you that everything is fine. When I had a CP I was still getting bfps on frer digitals for about 2 days when I was spotting. But your case sounds very different since you started bleeding so many days ago so if it really started then I don't think your body would've had enough time to build that high of an hcg level for it to still be detected 12 days later on a test so hopefully this is a different story! I hate when docs offices drag their feet on calling with results. Good luck!! Keep us posted!
@purplg8r wanna share your chart? PS check your inbox.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
i didn't chart last month. I temped three times after the day I thought I O'd to make sure they were high. They were. Then I checked 9 days from when I thought I O'd to see if it would drop like normal. It did and I started to spot like normal. That's the bottom chart. Then the top chart is from when I thought AF started. My cover lines have been anywhere from 97.7 to 97.9. So this has been much lower.
*TW* When I had my second M/C I was a little further along (6w) but my temps were pretty low throughout. I tend to run lower temperature wise in general and my RE said everyone is different so...I also got BFPs for a long while after I started bleeding (4 weeks).
I truly hope this isn't the case for you. FX'd so hard that you get good news!!
I hope that I'm welcome here, ladies if i'm too new to the board i'm ok with going straight to the bmb
CD/DPO of first BFP? CD24/DPO13 mega squinter on Wondfo
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 5 months/4cycles
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU? This month was my all in month. I took advice on trying Green Tea before O, bought OPK, put DH on a multivitamin, pnv for me, dtd frequently during o week and RESTED after. Elevated hips post deed for 10 minutes. Cut down on coffee, cut down on exercise, and did fertility yoga (which helped me not stress)
How was your timing? -4,-3,-1,0
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)? ladies. I thought I was out. I'm still in shock and disbelief! The reason I tested was because I started sobbing uncontrollably to something that was not normal fir me and didn't require tears!!! Tested following morning. My breasts are tender, but the right one is really really sore. The nips more then anything. I keep getting cramps like AF started... they stop me in my tracks. some more discharge but not very much. Tired yesterday evening, so tired.
How are you going to/did you tell your partner? ohh I blew this one. I woke him up in a panic. You see, I worked out very hard the day before and gave up on the lo dream. Drank a lot of caffeine, and a hibiscus drink I avoided... so I saw the squinter and flipped, ran to our room, woke him up and told him to look. He saw the lil line. Tested again to be sure. He's so... "chill" about it! Haha
Anything else to add? Ladies, I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Your advice was the advice i needed and couldn't get anywhere else. I loved sharing and listening to you all and will miss it very much. I sincere Hope each and everyone of you gets your BFP asap. Don't count yourself out until AF arrives, you might be shocked like me! *hugs*
@VLillyV congrats!! I hope it's a happy & herhy 9 months!!
Ok--so this is dear diary-ish but I need to get it out & get advice--- I got my results back. My hcg on Thursday was 434. I asked what that meant and she said any number greater than 10 is positive. I asked what my numbers for Saturday were and she said "oh, you had to get bloodwork 48 hours later?" I said yes so she went looking for them. Came back with results of 421. I said "oh so they dropped". She said "yes but not by 100 points or anything. And only to worry if you've been bleeding or cramping". Which I said I had been. But I know that the numbers should be doubling. She then said they want me to go in for an ultrasound tomorrow afternoon.
I I personally dont lthink it's good. I've been taking BFP morning & evening since I have those wondfos. They were all strong until last night. That one and this mornings were a lot fainter. Also, Saturday and Sunday the flow had turned to barely spotting. But today it's back to bright red & clots (though not as heavy)
debating on if I want H to go. I haven't told him yet. If it's bad news is rather process it alone & tell him in a few days. I don't like to be upset in front of anyone and will just fake it. But if it's positive, and I'm going to see something in the ultrasound, then I want him to be there. What do you guys think?
@purplg8r hugs girl. mid 400's are good numbers but they should be increasing not staying stagnant. As for having DH there or not I would have him there. I know you said you'd like to process on your own but seeing the ultrasound sometimes hits you like a ton of bricks if the news is bad. If the news is good you'd want him there too. This is so much to deal with on your own. I am so sorry your still in limbo. I really hope that your little peanut surprises everyone tomorrow.
*TW*
TTC 1/2012 Diagnosed : unexplained infertility 6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015 TTC #3 5/2016 Restarted Fertility tx IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
@purplg8r I'm holding out hope that this will turn out positively for you. regarding your question, if it were me, I would want my DH to be there regardless of the outcome. I would ask yourself, If something isn't right and your H found out that you withheld it from him, what do you think his reaction would be? I know my H would be very upset that I didn't tell him. The way I see it, it's his baby too so he should have the opportunity to be involved (and would likely want to know what's happening). I don't want this to come off too pushy, so please do what you think is best for you and your H (you obviously know him well!). Please know we are all thinking positive thoughts for you. Hugs, dear.
Me: 31 DH: 32 Dating since: 11/17/2001 Married: 9/26/2009 TTC: June 2016
@purplg8r Thank you for coming back to update us. I'm keeping FX for a sticky bean and appropriately doubling numbers. I agree with @wabash15; I understand your need to process things alone but with something so big, I feel like I would want DH there for the support if the news is bad. If the news is good then I would want him there to celebrate. Please please keep us updated!
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Me: 38 DH: 38 Married 6/11/16 TTC Since 6/2016 12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal 3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve 8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC 7/2018 Clomid+IUI 11/2018 Letrozole+TI 12/2018 Letrozole+IUI 2/2019 NTNP 5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
@purplg8r Thanks for updating us. I'm so sorry you are dealing with this. Hugs to you. I am like you. I like to process things on my own and don't like to be upset in front of anyone, so I totally understand being unsure if you want DH there. I would probably want to be alone, process my feelings either way, and then fill in in DH. But like I said, I'm very private, and I know that for many people it would be much easier to have a support person there. I am keeping my FX for you and thinking of you.
@purplg8r I'm so sorry this is happening to you. If it were me, I'd tell my husband - one, he'd be mad if I didn't and two, I think shared sorrow (if it is bad news) is half sorrow. But do whatever feels right for you. Many many creepy internet hugs.
TTC #1: 4/16 BFP #1: 5/16 MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16 BFP #2: 10/16 Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
@purplg8r : Sorry this is still a confusing time. Still crossing fingers that all ends up well.
Regarding the appointment: Given your situation, I would want DH there for support. I think you will end up appreciating it, regardless of the outcome.
***TW**Personally, for my CP, I decided to go alone. I wasn't very far along and already had a feeling I knew what the outcome was. I too wanted to process on my own. I ended up regretting it. Even though it was just having the results read to me to confirm a miscarriage, the whole situation felt cold, lonely and depressing. I texted DH afterward, but I wish he had been with me. He had offered to go, but I insisted I went alone. Looking back, I wish I would have had him there. **TW**
@purplg8r I'm sorry you have to go through this and I have my FX for a good outcome for you. As far as telling your H *TW* one of my main regrets about my MC is that my H wasn't there for my first U/S. He didn't get to see our babies heart beating like I did. He only got to have the bad news and not enjoy the good time. I also went alone for my last U/S where they confirmed my loss. I still am unsure how I managed to get myself home after such terrible news. I fully intend on my H being there for every U/S from now on. *End TW * of course you should do whatever you are comfortable with, but if it were me, I'd want my H there, no matter the outcome.
**TW**
Me: 30 DH:30 Together 2003, Married 2011 DD: July 2005 BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16 BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017
@purplg8r I'm just gonna sit here and mentally hold your hand. This is scary and I am sorry you are in this place of fear and unknowing. I will be hoping so hard that the news is good.
@ChefRamsay Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and thoughts
@purplg8r - So many good thoughts coming your way. I'm so sorry. You gotta do you, but I'd cast another vote for having H there. *TW* I've done it both - gotten the m/c news alone and when my H was there. While I'm not a talker and I like to process things on my own, having him there was incredibly helpful. Plus I wouldn't want to have to tell him, I'd rather him find out with me and then us process in our own ways.
** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **
Me: 31+ H: 32 TTC Since 11/2015 #1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
@purplg8r I am so sorry this is such a confusing time for you, the unknown is always hard. Only you can decide if you want H there or not and I can understand the feeling of wanting to be alone to process the outcome. We are all rooting so hard for you and praying for a sticky bean.
Me: 28 | DH: 33 EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@purplg8r I'm so incredibly sorry you are going through this. I'm praying that this is your sticky bean. In regard to your ultrasound tomorrow, I don't want you to be even further disappointed so I wanted to let you know that even if this is a viable pregnancy, a sac will not be visible on ultrasound until your HCG reaches 2000+. I'm not 100% sure what your doctor expects to see on the ultrasound this early and if what can be seen will or won't confirm viability.. but I'm definitely praying that it offers you some insight into what is going on, because I know first hand that being in limbo like this is the worst feeling in the world. Again I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are in my prayers
@purplg8r *TW* I'm actually going to be bossier than others. I really think you need to sit YH down tonight and talk to him. I get, it. I'm pretty private, too. I like to process things on my own. But this isn't like you found out you didn't get that job. This is his baby, too. And his wife. I think he would be really hurt to know that you were hurting and he wasn't able to care for you. This is your husband, not that frenemy you've had for five years. This is the person you should be able to be most vulnerable around. I was so glad to have MH there when I found out. For one thing, I was glad to have him to drive me home. If absolutely nothing else, I wasn't in a great state to be driving. I'm so sorry you're going through this.
@tripledaggerWed95976 Even if s/he isn't expecting to see a sac, I would think that they would be able to see the state of the uterine lining. With mine, when I went for my first ultrasound she could see that initial separation had started to occur and when I went back, she could see that all of the tissue was gone.
Me: 34 DH: 38 Married: June 2011 TTC since Feb 2016 BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16 BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Thanks for pointing that out @kiki75, I totally didn't mean to make it sound like it's impossible to determine viability at this point. Like you said, sometimes it is completely visible that the blood/tissue is gone. It's just not always 100% clear cut with super early ultrasounds and they can sometimes only lead to more questions. **TW This happened to me with a previous CP.. my HCG had stopped rising but the lining hadn't begun to shed yet, so at that point it did still look like it could/would be viable on early ultrasound. End Tw** I think sometimes doctors don't tell women what to expect, and it can lead to more frustration and heartache in the long run. @purplg8r you are in my thoughts, praying for good news at your US tomorrow
@purplg8r Lots of hugs. The decision is ultimately your own, but *TW* when I went in for my blood work to confirm my M/C I was a mess before we even saw the doctor. I know that there is no way that I could have driven myself home. DH was my rock. He's the one who remembered what the doctor said about next steps, what we should watch for, etc because I was in a fog *End TW.* If you don't bring DH I would suggest at least bringing someone. You shouldn't have to go through this alone.
Lots of hugs and I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.
@purplg8r I am crossing my fingers for you that you get positive news. It's such an emotional roller coaster and not knowing for sure what is going on is just draining. I saw someone else question progesterone...did they say anything about those numbers? Just from my experience, I'm with everyone who said to tell your husband. I hate the thought of someone going through the past couple of days of uncertainty alone. *TW*My husband was there for my confirmation of pregnancy(during an unrelated ER visit). After a few more days of blood work to watch my numbers, I got a phone call that I should expect my period-my progesterone was low and numbers weren't increasing the way they'd like. Unfortunately, I got that phone call at work. By the time I got home, my husband had ordered pizza and called out sick to be with me. I'd imagine either way, you will be glad that you told/brought him. End TW*
Praying for great news for you and your husband tomorrow.
@purplg8r *TW* My husband wasn't going to go with me because he thought some spotting in early pregnancy was normal. I knew I had been losing symptoms for days. Then he was going to take a few hours or a half day off. Once I told him it could be his only shot to see our baby and that he might miss our first ultrasound, he got off on emergency leave. I also made him realize I'd be at home alone for 24 hours having a miscarriage without him. I knew it was bad when the measurements were almost 2 weeks behind and he didn't believe it. But I was in a fog of my own trying to figure out if it was possible at all that my dates were off and I knew they couldn't be... since he was there, though, he was able to listen to the doctor better than I was. That was helpful later. It was also good for him to hear her apologize on the next visit because she said, "I should listen to my patients more." That being said, advocate for yourself! */TW* PS we love you!!
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@purplg8r I'm so sorry you are going through this. You know YH better than anyone, so just do what you think is right for your family. FX so hard for you.
SN used to be soemthingclever Me: 28 DH: 35 Dx PCOS May 2015 Baby #1 due 12/7/17
Just got home from the u/s. The tech agreed that it could be too early too see much of anything but that my uterine lining was too thin and there was nothing to indicate pregnancy. I went in today for another hcg test & progesterone test. I have my appt tomorrow with the dr. that I've had for months since it would be my 6 months without getting pregnant visit. I'm afraid that she's going to push that back now. I really hope not.
Re: TTGP Grads Week 1/30-New & Improved!
BFP #2 3/18/19 * EDD 11/25/19* DS born 11/30/19
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
Together: 11/2008, married: 3/2014
DH: Type 1 Diabetes, (dx 4/15) Celiac Disease (dx 11/14), Treatment induced Neuropathy of Diabetes (dx 7/15)
DH SA: 11/16: low count and low motility
DH SA: 12/16: borderline low, count and motility
1/20/17: BFP, 1/24/17: CP
5/17:low AMH (0.89)
6/17: first IUI cycle, 50 mg clomid + ovidrel + IUI: 2 follies, BFN (count 58 million, 97% motility)
7/17: second IUI, 2.5 letrozole, OPK, IUI: 1 follie, BFN (count 9.5 million swimming- dont know percentage)
8/17: third IUI, 5.0 letrozole,
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Me: 28 Him: 30
Married: 11/15/14
TTC: 02/2016
IF DX: MFI (low count & morphology) & mild PCOS
June 2016 BFP - MC @8w2d
August 2016 BFP - MC @6w1d
June 2017 - 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP 7/6/17!!
Beta #1 = 422 (14dpo), Beta #2 = 810, prog - 12.3 (16dpo), Beta #3 = 5023, prog - 18.9 (20dpo)
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*siggy warning*
DS2: EDD- 09.08.17
Question because I can't find anything on it. Has anyone heard of a pregnancy will low temps? I have never experienced a m/c but if it had started on the day I thought AF started (12 days ago), would I still be bleeding and getting a BFP? If I've been pregnant all this time, how have my temps been so low since that date?
I have no idea about how temps work with bfps and mcs. I hope someone else can weigh in.
Good luck. We're thinking of you.
@purplg8r fx for you that everything is fine. When I had a CP I was still getting bfps on frer digitals for about 2 days when I was spotting. But your case sounds very different since you started bleeding so many days ago so if it really started then I don't think your body would've had enough time to build that high of an hcg level for it to still be detected 12 days later on a test so hopefully this is a different story! I hate when docs offices drag their feet on calling with results. Good luck!! Keep us posted!
edit typo
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
eta I found it!!
*TW*
When I had my second M/C I was a little further along (6w) but my temps were pretty low throughout. I tend to run lower temperature wise in general and my RE said everyone is different so...I also got BFPs for a long while after I started bleeding (4 weeks).
I truly hope this isn't the case for you. FX'd so hard that you get good news!!
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Me: 28 Him: 30
Married: 11/15/14
TTC: 02/2016
IF DX: MFI (low count & morphology) & mild PCOS
June 2016 BFP - MC @8w2d
August 2016 BFP - MC @6w1d
June 2017 - 50 mg Clomid + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP 7/6/17!!
Beta #1 = 422 (14dpo), Beta #2 = 810, prog - 12.3 (16dpo), Beta #3 = 5023, prog - 18.9 (20dpo)
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CD/DPO of first BFP? CD24/DPO13 mega squinter on Wondfo
How many months/cycles had you been TTGP? 5 months/4cycles
What did your chart look like?
What were you doing TGKU?
This month was my all in month. I took advice on trying Green Tea before O, bought OPK, put DH on a multivitamin, pnv for me, dtd frequently during o week and RESTED after. Elevated hips post deed for 10 minutes. Cut down on coffee, cut down on exercise, and did fertility yoga (which helped me not stress)
How was your timing? -4,-3,-1,0
What symptoms did you have, if any (CS & CD breakdowns welcome)?
ladies. I thought I was out. I'm still in shock and disbelief! The reason I tested was because I started sobbing uncontrollably to something that was not normal fir me and didn't require tears!!! Tested following morning. My breasts are tender, but the right one is really really sore. The nips more then anything. I keep getting cramps like AF started... they stop me in my tracks. some more discharge but not very much. Tired yesterday evening, so tired.
How are you going to/did you tell your partner?
ohh I blew this one. I woke him up in a panic. You see, I worked out very hard the day before and gave up on the lo dream. Drank a lot of caffeine, and a hibiscus drink I avoided... so I saw the squinter and flipped, ran to our room, woke him up and told him to look. He saw the lil line. Tested again to be sure. He's so... "chill" about it! Haha
Anything else to add?
Ladies, I want to thank you all from the bottom of my heart. Your advice was the advice i needed and couldn't get anywhere else. I loved sharing and listening to you all and will miss it very much. I sincere Hope each and everyone of you gets your BFP asap. Don't count yourself out until AF arrives, you might be shocked like me! *hugs*
Congrats @VLillyV!
Adopted Furbaby: 2014
TTC#1 : 1/2016 | IUI #2 - BFP 12/24/16 -- born 9/8/17
TTC#2: 11/2019 | Dx DOR (AMH 0.3), AMA
IUI #2 - BFP 7/1/20 -- EDD 3/14/21
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
Ok--so this is dear diary-ish but I need to get it out & get advice---
I got my results back. My hcg on Thursday was 434. I asked what that meant and she said any number greater than 10 is positive. I asked what my numbers for Saturday were and she said "oh, you had to get bloodwork 48 hours later?" I said yes so she went looking for them. Came back with results of 421. I said "oh so they dropped". She said "yes but not by 100 points or anything. And only to worry if you've been bleeding or cramping". Which I said I had been. But I know that the numbers should be doubling. She then said they want me to go in for an ultrasound tomorrow afternoon.
I I personally dont lthink it's good. I've been taking BFP morning & evening since I have those wondfos. They were all strong until last night. That one and this mornings were a lot fainter. Also, Saturday and Sunday the flow had turned to barely spotting. But today it's back to bright red & clots (though not as heavy)
debating on if I want H to go. I haven't told him yet. If it's bad news is rather process it alone & tell him in a few days. I don't like to be upset in front of anyone and will just fake it. But if it's positive, and I'm going to see something in the ultrasound, then I want him to be there. What do you guys think?
Diagnosed : unexplained infertility
6 rounds of IUI and a MC 2/2014, rainbow twins 4/2015
TTC #3 5/2016
Restarted Fertility tx
IUI 2 rounds, baby girl 12/17
Dating since: 11/17/2001
Married: 9/26/2009
TTC: June 2016
EDD: 5/14/2018
"It's time to try defying gravity."
Married 6/11/16
TTC Since 6/2016
12/2016 RE appt; 1/2017 SA & HSG results - all normal
3/2017 Dx Hyperprolactinemia; 5/2017 Prolactin levels normal; 8/2017 Low Ovarian Reserve
8/2017 TTA for personal reasons; 10/2017 NTNP; 12/2017 Re-start TTC
7/2018 Clomid+IUI
11/2018 Letrozole+TI
12/2018 Letrozole+IUI
2/2019 NTNP
5/2019 Stopping all TTC efforts; living Childfree
Me: 36 DH: 41
@purplg8r I'm so sorry this is happening to you. If it were me, I'd tell my husband - one, he'd be mad if I didn't and two, I think shared sorrow (if it is bad news) is half sorrow. But do whatever feels right for you. Many many creepy internet hugs.
BFP #1: 5/16
MMC at 8 weeks: 6/16
BFP #2: 10/16
Sweet baby boy arrived 7/7/17!
Regarding the appointment: Given your situation, I would want DH there for support. I think you will end up appreciating it, regardless of the outcome.
***TW**Personally, for my CP, I decided to go alone. I wasn't very far along and already had a feeling I knew what the outcome was. I too wanted to process on my own. I ended up regretting it. Even though it was just having the results read to me to confirm a miscarriage, the whole situation felt cold, lonely and depressing. I texted DH afterward, but I wish he had been with me. He had offered to go, but I insisted I went alone. Looking back, I wish I would have had him there. **TW**
@purplg8r I'm sorry you have to go through this and I have my FX for a good outcome for you.
Together 2003, Married 2011
DD: July 2005
BFP: 4/10/16, MC: 5/20/16
BFP: 1/10/17, DD2: Sep 2017
TTGP Dec '16 siggy challenge winner!
@ChefRamsay Thank you so much for sharing your experiences and thoughts
** December BMB Siggy Challenge - Animals in Pools **
Me: 31+ H: 32
TTC Since 11/2015
#1 - MMC 6.5 weeks (2/16); #2 - MC due to cystic hygroma at 20 weeks (10/16); #3 CP (2/17); #4 - Due 12.16.17
EDD: March 24, 2018 - angel baby at 21 weeks
@tripledaggerWed95976 Even if s/he isn't expecting to see a sac, I would think that they would be able to see the state of the uterine lining. With mine, when I went for my first ultrasound she could see that initial separation had started to occur and when I went back, she could see that all of the tissue was gone.
Married: June 2011
TTC since Feb 2016
BFP#1: 7/7/16 MMC: 8/16/16
BFP#2: 5/8/17 - CP
BFP#3: 6/27/17 EDD: 3/10/18
@purplg8r you are in my thoughts, praying for good news at your US tomorrow
Lots of hugs and I'll be thinking of you tomorrow.
Dating: 2/2007 Married: 4/2011
TTC #1: 9/2016
*TW*
BFP #2: 3/9/2017 - CP: 3/10/2017
08/2017: DH's SA = normal
08/2017: Low progesterone (4.6) all other BW normal
11/2017: HSG Clear; Pelvic Ultrasound Normal; and AMH, FSH, and Estradiol normal
12/2017: 1,000mg Metformin
12/2017: 50mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: 100mg Clomid + TI = BFN
01/2018: RE Consult
03/2018: 5mg Letrozole + 50 units Gonal-F + 500 μg Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #3: 4/1/2018 - CP: 4/4/2018
04/2018: 5mg Letrozole + Gonal-F + Ovidrel + IUI = BFP #4: 5/2/18
Just from my experience, I'm with everyone who said to tell your husband. I hate the thought of someone going through the past couple of days of uncertainty alone.
*TW*My husband was there for my confirmation of pregnancy(during an unrelated ER visit). After a few more days of blood work to watch my numbers, I got a phone call that I should expect my period-my progesterone was low and numbers weren't increasing the way they'd like. Unfortunately, I got that phone call at work. By the time I got home, my husband had ordered pizza and called out sick to be with me. I'd imagine either way, you will be glad that you told/brought him. End TW*
Praying for great news for you and your husband tomorrow.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17