I go here now....AF came this morning (8? days early) while I was teaching. Fun. Hoping it will be a quick one. I think I finally have charting routine down. Charting interpretation is another story.
Sorry for the early AF @justsuzie. Bodies can take a while to regulate after MC. But hey, this means you can start trying again 8 days sooner, right?
@reneeannemm Yep, baby-making sex feels like a chore oftentimes. Harrumph.
AFM: I think today is O day. Almost positive OPK yesterday and a little EWCM this morning. Let's hope it's today, because I'm going out of town for work tomorrow and Friday.
@RiverSong15 good luck this cycle. I don't wanna see you back here! Hopefully your trip keeps your mind and body busy during the tww. And yes, excited to try again.
You guys, I know the first cycle after loss is a crapshoot, but I don't know where to participate. Without inputting OPKs, FF gives me nothing and with them, I get dotted CH for CD8. I haven't ovulated before CD15 since I started doing OPKs in May and it's usually around CD19-20 with a range of 15-24. Usually I can see a pretty clear shift. Temps are higher than my normal preO and lower than normal post O. What do you think, WTO, TWW, or just stop trying to figure it out because I'm benched?
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@NYTino24 I don't think you've ovulated yet, based on lack of a shift and overall lower temps. So I'd say you still "belong" in WTO. Although really, anyone here can post wherever they want to .
I would agree with RiverSong15 ... it doesn't look like you ovulated yet (your pre-O temps on this chart look similar to mine, and mine usually rise above 98 degrees post-O). I'm also benched this month (and benching myself for three more months after for other reasons), but I am charting because I'm anxious to see when my cycles will get back to normal and when I'll ovulate again. Currently CD 19 (the day I usually ovulate) and I've had some what feels like ovulation pain the past few days, so we'll see what my temps do tomorrow! Hoping you see those crosshairs again soon too!
Thank you ladies. It's just confusing since I normally see a pretty big O jump and have low preO temps. Here is a messy chart overlay. NOv was BFP cycle.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@NYTino24 I definitely don't see an ovulation pattern yet. Participate where ever you like; we tend to prefer a little looser organizational structure on this board and stick our noses everywhere here
Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 TTC 09/15 *TW Loss mentioned* BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16 MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3 TTCAL 3/2016 Acupuncture 11/16 Dx December 2016: unexplained January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI = BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby! EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 Ambrose born on his due date!
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
Nice @NYTino24!! I also got a legit temp rise this morning on cd27, Hallelujah!!! It does mean this cycle will be 40+ which is a long time to wait but when I looked ahead it now means I'll be getting my IUI over Feb break when I can relax and take it easy. So that is a blessing ❤️
DH - 34, Me - 32 Married 7/13 TTC #1 since 10/13 BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15 IUI #1 2/25/16
So my first AF after my loss only lasted 4 days. It was super light. This second cycle is the heaviest I can ever remember. I hope this means my uterin lining is strong and ready for some company next month. This is my first month officially off the bench. I'm nervous and excited.
Hello WTO! AF has come 4 days early. And a giant zit on my nose this morning like Rudolph....hahahahaha. Unfortunately this means days 14-17 this month (when I O) I will be out of state working, blech!
@Mommyamp Have you been getting HCG tested? (I can't remember.) Most people won't really "start" the next cycle post loss until it's gone... but who knows, especially since I don't think HCG usually rises much with a CP. Hope it happens for you soon! FWIW I had a MC at 8 weeks the day before you and I ovulated on CD19 (two days ago). If you aren't temping or doing OPKs, maybe try that.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@amberruka Well yah, doens't that suck? My AF was 10 days early AND a huge zit on my cheek. Lucky us. Maybe your FW will be early too. Here's to wishful thinking (unless you'll be out of town earlier too )
@NYTino24 my hcg was only at 7 when they tested on 1/10 & had dropped to <2 when I had it last tested on 1/16. I temp/chart and it seemed like my body was gearing up for O around day 17, which would have been normal for me, but then didn't. CM is gearing up again though so hopefully I o soon. DH's work schedule makes Monday-Thursday off limits so we'll bd once more tomorrow night and hope we catch it. My previous mc was definetely different. I bled for 22 days, 14 day break, 7 days of af then right back to my usual rhythm. I just want to be back on track
@mommyamp I wouldn't panic just yet. Even consider counting 1/16 or 1/17 as CD1 just in case your body didn't get the memo to start the cycle before freaking out. Unfortunately everything is really unpredictable now. Do you have a chart to share?
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
@Mommyamp It's hard because your temps have been high and you do have that one spike on CD18. CM does match, but without OPKs, it's hard to tell. I'd say not yet since the two temps after aren't up. FWIW, I didn't O until two days after OPKs were positive and 3 days after last EWCM.
It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*
I usually have a secondary set of ewcm post o so I'm not sure what's going on. OB said to sit this cycle out. We hadn't planned on it, but it looks like we may miss it anyway. We'll try to BD tonight but DH has been under the weather so we'll see. Otherwise, Friday will be or next chance to BD. I need to order opks but I share ann Amazon prime account with my mom and don't want to deal with 6,000 questions from her so I'm going to have to find them on ebay. Lol
Just had some EWCM this morning so hoping that means I am going to O within the next couple of days. I haven't had much noticeable EWCM in months so was excited to see it lol. Oh the things that excite you ttcal.
I walked in the door to my house excited to get out early because of the snow and I see a bunch of chewed up plastic on the carpet. So my dog just ate my basal thermometer....yah, that happened. DOH! Amazon here I come.
@justsuzie that's horrible.....but so funny ;-). My dad's dog once took my tampon out of the garbage and brought it to him as a 'gift' if it makes you feel any better....
@amberruka that's hilarious! As a child, my mom answered the door wearing a pad on her head like a bonnet. That was back when they had strings on them. My grandmother promptly shoved my mom into the closet, that was right by the door, and tried to pretend the man at the door hadn't seen it. Roflol
Ladies, I know we vented about this last cycle but feeling a little frustrated. DH had trouble last night and this morning. WTF?? I decided to make a move this morning because my temperature spiked thinking I may have Oed last night. Wishful thinking of catching the egg. No luck. If I Oed last night timing would only be -2 and -1. It's not bad but feel like we could do so much better. Not sure if I want to make a move again tonight to get +1.
OPK was still strong this morning. Not as dark as the control line but pretty darn close. Not sure what is going on there. Usually after the surge it's so obviously faint or just non existent.
Thanks confusing body
***TW*** Me: 36 DH:35 Married: 7/10/2016 TTC#1 - May 2016 BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016 BFP 5/5/2017 - CP IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161 Adam Born on 3/18/18
Re: ***January WTO***
@reneeannemm Yep, baby-making sex feels like a chore oftentimes. Harrumph.
AFM: I think today is O day. Almost positive OPK yesterday and a little EWCM this morning. Let's hope it's today, because I'm going out of town for work tomorrow and Friday.
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
@justsuzie Let's get you Oing and KTFU!!
@reneeannemm Baby making sex stinks. I could live without it. It's all about that baby batter.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
I would agree with RiverSong15 ... it doesn't look like you ovulated yet (your pre-O temps on this chart look similar to mine, and mine usually rise above 98 degrees post-O). I'm also benched this month (and benching myself for three more months after for other reasons), but I am charting because I'm anxious to see when my cycles will get back to normal and when I'll ovulate again. Currently CD 19 (the day I usually ovulate) and I've had some what feels like ovulation pain the past few days, so we'll see what my temps do tomorrow! Hoping you see those crosshairs again soon too!
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
I also got a legit temp rise this morning on cd27, Hallelujah!!! It does mean this cycle will be 40+ which is a long time to wait but when I looked ahead it now means I'll be getting my IUI over Feb break when I can relax and take it easy. So that is a blessing ❤️
Married 7/13
TTC #1 since 10/13
BFP 2/4/15, MC twin boys at 18w3d 5/15
IUI #1 2/25/16
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
TTC 9/2016 BFP 12/9/16 EDD 8/21/17 NMC 1/8/16 at 7w6d
TTC 2/2017 BFP 3/6/17 EDD 11/17/17 DS born 11/25/17 via ECS
TTC 12/2018 BFP 6/2/19 EDD 2/12/20 NMC / BO at 7 weeks, low progesterone
TTC 7/2019 BFP 8/21/19 EDD 4/22/20 CP at 5 weeks
TTC 8/19 IUI #1 w/ Clomid + Ovidrel + progesterone BFN, IUI 2 and 3 w/ Letrozole + Ovidrel + progesterone,
IUI 4 Follistim + Ovidrel + progesterone BFP 1/9/20 EDD 9/18/20
AMA, ITP in pregnancy, vWD type II - low Factor VIII, unexplained RPL and secondary infertility
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
@justsuzie - that is hilarious! My puppy tries to take it out of my mouth every morning in bed.
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161
I know we vented about this last cycle but feeling a little frustrated. DH had trouble last night and this morning. WTF?? I decided to make a move this morning because my temperature spiked thinking I may have Oed last night. Wishful thinking of catching the egg. No luck. If I Oed last night timing would only be -2 and -1. It's not bad but feel like we could do so much better. Not sure if I want to make a move again tonight to get +1.
OPK was still strong this morning. Not as dark as the control line but pretty darn close. Not sure what is going on there. Usually after the surge it's so obviously faint or just non existent.
Thanks confusing body
Me: 36 DH:35
Married: 7/10/2016
TTC#1 - May 2016
BFP 9/6/2016 - Missed MC 10/20/2016
BFP 5/5/2017 - CP
IVF #1 - June 2017 - Transferred 1 fresh 4 AA embryo. 7/9 Beta #1 - 161