May 2017 Moms

*TW* Diagnosis (updated again)

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Re: *TW* Diagnosis (updated again)

  • Oh no. :( I hope it turns out to be benign! Thinking of you and wishing you all the best
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this! Hopefully you get the results back quickly and that it isn't cancer. We're all here for you as much as you need us. 
  • I'm so, so sorry. Thoughts and prayers for you. Please take care of yourself and like others have said we are here for you. Hoping you get quick results!
  • Oh mama, thinking of you during such a crazy, jarring time. I've been in a similar boat (scary potential diagnosis, waiting for more answers, feeling like you're looking at the world with a completely different set of eyes, thinking about mortality way way too young). All I have are creepy internet hugs. I hope you have answers soon.

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  • I can't begin to imagine the emotions you must have going through this process. You are in my thoughts and prayers.  

    On a related note, this is the blog of a friend who dealt with pregnancy and breast cancer.  She was open and honest.  It's a lot to read, but it may give you a glimpse of insight.  
    https://29withcancer.blogspot.com/2014/03/a-little-about-me.html?m=1


  • I'm so sorry to hear that it might be cancer.  Hoping and praying that it's a low stage/grade and they are able to treat it quickly.  Hoping your pregnancy turns out well despite this as well.  I can only imagine how scared you must feel right now with all this uncertainty and possible bad news.  Sending you all the good vibes I can! We're rooting for you!
     
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  • @RainyDays86 my  <3 and positive vibes go out to you and your family. I'm glad @clebl24 's post helped! Please keep us updated!

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  • Big, huge hugs. I can't even imagine what you are feeling right now. Praying for the best possible outcome. We're all in your corner!!
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  • Oh man this sucks. Best of luck and fortitude to get through this!
  • I'm so sorry that you're going through this. I'm glad you have your husband and son to stand by you while you wait for the diagnosis. I'll be praying for you. 
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    BFP #3: 9/22/16. EDD 5/29/17. DS born 4/24/17 <3
    BFP #4: 5/20/18. EDD 1/23/19. 


  • How are you doing today @RainyDays86?
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    DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
    BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17


  • Hey all,

    I had the biopsy today. It went fine I guess - biopsies are no joke. Unfortunately there was a big snowstorm and DS's daycare was closed for the day (super last minute) so DH had to stay with him, but the doctor and two nurses were absolutely wonderful and let me cry and answered all my questions. I should find out the results tomorrow but everyone is operating under the assumption that it is cancer. 

    I had a rough day mentally. I find myself looking at DS and thinking about if I can't be there for him for much longer. I'm trying not to get bogged down in that kind of thinking but it's hard to avoid it sometimes.
  • @RainyDays86 so many hugs, that is just too much to deal with right now.

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  • I'm glad the doctor and nurses were so supportive. I'm so so sorry you're going through this. Continued prayers. 
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    DD: Born 8/23/13 (clomid+ovidrel+IUI)
    BFP 9/9/16 EDD 5/19/17


  • Oh, so many hugs! I'm so sorry that your husband couldn't be there with you, but I am glad the the doctors and nurses were so supportive. I will be thinking of you/praying for you as you wait for the results. 
  • Oh I wish you weren't dealing with that! I can't even imagine what you're going through. Hopefully getting definite answers will make things seem less scary - in the sense that there will be a plan and not so many unknowns. Thinking of you and sending up prayers - if that's your thing, just reach up and grab them.  <3
  • So so sorry to hear all of this! It sounds like you have great doctors and nurses who helped today. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family! Sending positive vibes and hugs! 




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  • Oh my goodness. I cannot even imagine. I'm so very sorry. Prayers for the best possible scenario and outcome 
  • Thought of you a lot today. I'm so sorry that your husband could not be with you. I'm glad the dr and nurses were supportive. Thank you for updating us. 
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  • Thinking of you mama. <3

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  • I'm so sorry! Keeping a good thought for you.




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  • I will be thinking about you and your family. I had a friend who was diagnosed with breast cancer while pregnant and she was able to develop a treatment plan and is cancer free today. Her son is almost 3 and she always gives him credit for saving her life. If it hadn't been for the pregnancy she is not sure the cancer would of been caught so quickly. I am hoping for a good outcome for you!

     If you do end up needing someone to talk to who has been through something similar she is a a wonderful person and I would be happy to pass along her info. ❤
  • Big, huge hugs. I was thinking a lot abour you and yoyr family tiday. I'm so glad you have a supportive medical team standing behind you to help guide you through whatever the outcome is. 
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  • Hugs! And prayers for tomorrow. 
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  • I'll be thinking about you and hoping for a good outcome.  <3
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  • @RainyDays86 , nothing but hugs and support from my corner of the world. I can't imagine how stressful this must be, but it's admirable that you are trying to find the positive in it all and I am so glad that you have a great medical team on your side. 
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  • Thinking of you today!

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  • So sorry to hear this! I can't imagine what it must be like stuck in limbo right now. FX for more definitive answers today. Sending all of the hugs! 
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  • Thinking of you! It sounds like the doctors and nurses around you are wonderful and supportive. 
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  • Thinking of you today! You're in my T&Ps. 

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  • Thinking of you today! 
  • @RainyDay86 I am so sorry to hear this! Wishing you lots of luck.
    It's funny how it's the little things in life that mean the most...not where you live, or what you drive, or the price tag on your clothes... There's no dollar sign on a piece of mind, this I've come to know! *ZBB*

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  • Well I got the call and as I suspected it is cancer.  They didn't have the full pathology report yet, but they were able to tell me it is grade 3 (bad news, that's the most aggressive level) and that it is in the lymph node they sampled (also bad new, it means it has spread beyond the breast).  I don't know what stage it is yet, but it has to be at least stage 2 since it has spread to at least one lymph node (breast cancer spreads first to the lymph nodes in your armpit and from there it can spread around your body).  Given that my lymph nodes aren't swollen, I am hopeful that it is just in a few lymph nodes and hasn't been there long - my OB said she would take the lack of swelling as a good sign.

    I'm digesting everything, drinking some nasty tumeric tea (tumeric is supposed to fight cancer and I'm pretty willing to try everything) and working up the nerve to call my mom.  I am very, very nervous to tell my mom.  She will be a wonderful support, but we lost my dad less than two years ago to cancer and I know this is going to be a devastating call for her.  I absolutely hate that my family is walking around enjoying their day right now and I am about to give them this horrible news.  I know I need to tell them and I know they would want to know, but it is an awful feeling.

    My OB has already put in a call to an oncologist who specializes in young women with breast cancer and she told me they have another patient in their practice who is about the same gestation as me who has breast cancer and is seeing that same doctor.  I should hear from the oncologist by Tuesday.  She also sent my info to a MFM doc who should reach out by Tuesday as well.  And I have an appointment with a breast surgeon on Tuesday as well (also my anatomy scan is that day).  So, hopefully by Tuesday afternoon I'll have a good plan in place and will have a better idea of prognosis and what lies ahead.  My OB did also tell me that she had a patient who started chemo at 12 weeks pregnant 15 years ago.  The patient and her 15-year-old daughter are both doing great, so that gave me some hope.

    Thanks again to everyone for reading and for your continued support, it has meant a lot.
  • So sorry you are having to experience this when you should be celebrating the miracle growing inside of you. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family.
  • I'm so very sorry. I can't imagine making that phone call, but I'm sure your mom wouldn't want you shouldering the burden of this news a second longer than you had to. I'm keeping you and your baby in my thoughts. Sending you lots of love! 
  • @RainyDays86 I am so sorry for your news. I was really hoping it would have gone the other way. 
    At least your medical team is on top of it and is making sure you meet all the doctors you need to. I'm thinking of you and your family. 
  • Wow I'm very sorry to hear and that this wasn't the relief you were hoping for. It sounds like there is a very able team of professionals ready to support you. And I can't imagine breaking this kind of news to family but you deserve to have all the love and support of your family right now so I hope you receive some comfort in informing them. As much as we are here for you they get to 'real'ly be there for you. Thanks for the update as difficult as it is.
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