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    My random for the day, got a call this afternoon that I missed an appointment with my OB. I called back and let them know I am scheduled for the 11th and they apologized and said they had me in for today, and rescheduled me for tomorrow. After getting off the phone I found the appointment card and it was indeed today. No idea why I was convinced of the 11th. Child, give me my brain back
  • Good luck to all you mamas having a/s's today and tomorrow! It really is one of the best days of pregnancy so far :) Enjoy it!!!

    My random- I changed my user name finally after taking a century to figure it out. So I promise- not a lurker, just new user name <3

    @lovelylauren86 CONGRATS!!! :) SO glad it went well!!
    @beachmama14  CONGRATS! Welcome to team blue!

    @seitzy3 YAS! So glad it worked :)

    @KristinUM12 I'm the same- tequila is my FAVE, and consequently what got me into this prego situation lol! I usually love Cinco de Mayo but this year I'm like "meh." I've decided I'll have that celebratory margarita around Halloween instead for Día del Muerte instead ;)

    @PoodleDoodleOoo AH! Thank you thank you for sharing how to change a user name! I couldn't figure it out! I had an awkward (though thankfully unsuccessful) slight stalking incident so I needed to change my user name before I had any more awkwardness of people trying to locate where I live exactly. Hopefully this will fix it!

    @mom2adoodle I felt the same way about doing our sex reveal. I just couldn't decide on anything I loved- so I ended up getting an "It's A Boy" pin and some blue ribbon which I attached to my dog's collar, and 3 simple balloons (two light blue "It's A Boy!" balloons and one dark blue with polka dots- not mylar, just the regular balloons) and tied them to my dog's collar with enough length that he didn't even notice them. It was actually hilarious! Everyone loved it, and every time he walked around it looked like the balloons were moving on their own. So funny!!! I attached pictures for you :) 

    @AnnaS930 AH! Where did you find maternity running shorts?? I'm in desperate need of those lol! Need some for under my dresses :) That bookmark is so stinking cute too!




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    @KristinUM12 jumping in the registry talk. I made a registry for my second but I used it mainly to keep tabs on what I still needed and most times they offer good discounts. I probably won't do it this time for my third girl since I have everything besides a few small things. 

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    Mo/Mo twins MMC 3/31/14  o:)
    DD #2 3/31/15
    DD #3 8/25/16
  • @SarahMConnors oh that celebratory margarita is not waiting until the end of October. I fully expect someone to have one ready for me when I arrive home from birthing a little human. :smile: 
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  • So I posted about this in the AS thread, but I wanted to see if you ladies had any input. Everything basically looked great at my ultrasound today, but there was a "white spot" on his heart. Said the heart had all the pieces and parts that it needed and was functioning and beating well, there was just a white dot on it. Hopefully it's a calcium deposit that will resolve itself, but I got referred to a pediatric cardiologist just to check it out. I haven't started googling yet, but I'm just not sure what to think. I'm so happy everything else looked great, and this will hopefully be something minor, but it's hard to not focus on it.
  • @beachmama14  googling is the worst thing,  when I had my gastroschisis scare the doctor told me not tto Google it. And when i did I got so scared and overwhelmed.
    hopefully it does clear up on its own. But try not to worry too much. I'll be thinking of you
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  • @JennM205 aw thanks!  That's nice to know!  I feel like I participate a lot because I'm here multiple times a day, I just don't always post much.  I'm also weird about posting pics of myself online, especially since I occasional post them on another site and don't want them to be linked. 
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  • @mamadomino I recognize you and I feel very similar!  I don't post often but it is not because I don't want to, it is hard to bump while at work or school for me. Plus, I too am very shy of putting my face online, even putting what I do in the FTM thread yesterday made me pause momentarily.  

    I missed 3 days and there was 14 pages of Randoms which is very hard to catch up on! All that to say, 
    I love the interaction and have learned a lot from the group already! I am hoping once I finish school I'll have more free time to participate with the great ladies on here! :)
  • RE: Registries and looking...I think for me its similar to being team green, I want to be surprised when I get to open the presents.   I was the same way for our bridal shower.  Everyone asked if I had enjoyed looking at the items be purchased (on the registry), and I could honestly say every time I opened a gift I was surprised by it (we had registered 3 months before hand and I forgot a lot that we had put on).    I'm really into being surprised.   So once we finalize our registry in the next couple of weeks I'll probably not look at it again until the shower in August.  

    Side story to explain:  I've been this way since a child, I hated to accidentally find any of my gifts before Christmas or birthdays, I loved the surprise.   Each year my brother and I got a 'big' gift at Christmas, one year, I accidentally found it two days before Christmas....I was so mad/sad, lol.   I was probably 10 at the time and still remember it.  From then on my mom told me where our gifts were and I always made sure I stayed out of that room of the house. I was a strange child, lol.
  • SLou24SLou24 member
    @LakeR2014 I'm the same exact way!! When I was little, I never ever searched for Christmas/BDay presents ahead of time, because I always loved being surprised on the day of. With our wedding registry, I didn't check to see what had been purchased at all, for the same reason! With this one, I won't check the registry after we finalize it either -- and it's not even like I'm fighting temptation to check it, I honestly don't want to know ahead of time what I might be getting! 

    Also good luck on your A/S today!!! Hope the day goes by fast with you! 

    @geminigirl16 and @mamadomino I think a lot of us are in the same boat -- I can't really Bump at work so all of my responses tend to come at one time of the day, whenever I have time. Don't feel pressured to post all of the time or anything like that, both of your names are recognized around here so it's not like anyone thinks you're some lurker coming in to start drama or anything. Those are the ones that I think most people are leery of. 
  • @LakeR2014 Happy a/s day! Can't wait to hear how it went! 






  • @JennM205 Is it possible to go in to work and pick them up so they aren't there all weekend? I know that's probably a hassle.

    Last year was my first Mother's Day and DH was great about it, but he got me a card just from himself and not from DD. I was sad at the time, but now I think it's kind of funny.






  • @JennM205 - I'd be equally as peeved. My husband is usually good about taking out cash for gifts when he can (obviously not to order online as yours did) so I can't follow the statements (I follow our debit/credit cards like woah). For quite a few occasions he has ordered me things from the Popcorn Factory.. and I'm only so-so on loving popcorn.. I mean it's good, but I don't need $50 of "gourmet" popcorn.

    The thought that counts is a good mantra.. but it is hard not to be a bit disappointed
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  • @JennM205  We have the same trouble with surprises and shared finances.   So now we simply tell each other 'don't look at the bank transactions for the next week, few days, etc.'  To make sure it stays within budget, especially around Christmas - we each have a budget - or as DH tracks the finances, I'll tell him 'Don't look at the account for the next week.   Just know I spent $50.'   It's allowed us to at least try to keep the surprises until they're supposed to be revealed. :)
  • I am pretty sure that I didn't get anything at all for Mother's Day last year. My husband kinda sucks at special occasions.  He struggles to decide what to do then ends up doing nothing. It got me off the hook for doing something for Father's Day. I think I just cooked him his favorite dinner.



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    marajay6 said:
    I am pretty sure that I didn't get anything at all for Mother's Day last year. My husband kinda sucks at special occasions.  He struggles to decide what to do then ends up doing nothing. It got me off the hook for doing something for Father's Day. I think I just cooked him his favorite dinner.
    Our husbands are similar. I will literally give him a link in an email with the title "birthday present" and he will still get me something else random, like a freaking coffee maker. I wanted a necklace dude that's why I sent it to you! Also, one year for Christmas he got me a bunch of anti aging creams and lotions. Like what are you trying to say lol 

    DD #1 3/26/13
    Mo/Mo twins MMC 3/31/14  o:)
    DD #2 3/31/15
    DD #3 8/25/16
  • My mom sent me a Mother's Day gift! It was a pair of dress pants and a top from Maternity Motherhood and the 'free gift' with first purchase.  I remember her last week saying she signed me up for the store, thought it was odd.  Now I'm the guilty person of thinking this was not on sale, neither item fits, and why did she send it USPS ($14) when she could have had free shipping through the store?  Ahh, I'm bad but I do get it from her....
  • My husbands excuse for not doing much last Mother's Day was that DS isn't really big enough to get into it. In the future when DS is able to actually do something for me, Mother's Day will be more of a celebration. It irked me - DS was only 6 months old at the time and those first few months were more demanding on me than him due to breast feeding and still trying to lose the extra baby weight. Our wedding anniversary is right around Mother's Day as well as his nephews birthday. Usually we end up going to visit BIL and family for the nephews birthday party and Mother's Day and our anniversary get pushed aside. It really wears on me because I don't really feel too close to those particular in-laws.



  • JennM205 said:
    @camichael84 I'm working remotely because I'm "out of town" so I can't be seen at work today.  :neutral:  But I think DH is going to swing by my office on his way home tonight to get them...though I don't know how good they'll be after sitting out at room temperature for over a full day.  It's worth a shot.

    @AnnaS930 @LakeR2014 DH is supposed to tell me when to not look at the credit cards for special occasions like this but didn't/usually doesn't.  Generally speaking, I think he is just peeved by our situation (and having to "tell me" when he's buying surprises) though we've talked about it several times over the years and have agreed that it's really the only way...  Plus (and this just kind of makes the whole situation even more bitter), we both have a set amount of spending money each month.  It's not a lot but it's more than we've ever had to ourselves in the past.  I have no problem whatsoever staying within that monthly amount.  DH can't for the life of him NOT overspend.  (He's hundreds "in the hole" at any given time.)  And instead of working his way out, he continues to spend...usually just a little here and a little there for lunch or sodas from the gas station or whatever.  His defense?  "I (we) make enough money, I should be able to have a damn soda if I want one."  Which is true (it's not that we don't have the money, we're just on an aggressive saving/debt paying off plan) BUT it's not the lunch/sodas that are killer - it's that $200 pair of skis that you've used once, etc etc.  Anyway, on top of that, whenever there's an occasion that "requires" he spend money on me, it just puts him even further into the hole OR (if he really overspends, like he did when he spent SEVEN HUNDRED DOLLARS on food for my birthday party this year) I have to figure out where the money is coming from...  So not much of a gift.  I'm up front with him about things like this and how it is from my perspective but I also have to be careful because he's the kind of person who internalizes everything and kind of "shuts down" when I'm not happy about something and then just foregoes any kind of effort going forward.  This all makes him sound horrible and he really isn't.  The financial thing is just kind of a sore spot (obviously)...added to the fact that he generally drops the ball on special occasions (I feel you @marajay6)...so when there IS any sort of effort, I feel like I have to grin and bear it, regardless of what other issues surface along with it.  Ugh.  Married life.  Love it...and hate it sometimes.
    Everything you just wrote, with the exception of the skis, is 100% my DH. FTM so we haven't celebrated Mother's day but I can already see the Berries incident happening with us. He is that way with Christmas and my birthday (we don't do anniversary or valentine's gifts). 
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    My DH isn't usually good at Mother's Day either.  Last year I got nothing.  NOTHING.  He tried to say that he couldn't come up with anything "good" then it got too late so just did nothing.  Sorry dude, Mothers day comes around every May so this shouldn't be a surprise for you.  He's out of town this year so I'm fully expecting nothing.  The kids are old enough now to make their own crafts at school, and 5 year old DH went shopping at the school store and bought me stuff all on his own which I thought was super cute!
  • @Tippy05 - your husband sounds just like mine. I do hate complaining about his horrible handling of special occasions because he is pretty awesome in every other way.



  • About the gifts on the registry, I like it to be a surprise too. Didn't look for my bridal shower, and I actually was surprised when I opened things especially because I had registered online at Bed Bath & Beyond and most things were nicer in person than I thought they'd be so it was like a surprise!

    On Mothers Day, FTM so no idea what husband might do for it! We are going to spend the day with his mom though and I'm looking forward to that.   
  • marajay6 said:
    @Tippy05 - your husband sounds just like mine. I do hate complaining about his horrible handling of special occasions because he is pretty awesome in every other way.
    Ditto. 
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  • @AnnaS930 your LO seems to always be smiling! Way too much cuteness in a person! 
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  • camichael84camichael84 member
    edited May 2016
    @AnnaS930 I hate that being a SAHM means I get no homemade gifts from McKenna. We do art stuff at home, and I keep it, but it's not the same as getting something like your cute bookmark. DH is very thoughtful regarding gifts (even if he sometimes misses the mark or spoils the suprise), but he in no way is comfortable doing a craft with McKenna for my gift. We went to the zoo last year and will do the same this year, and they have a set up where they turn your handprint into an animal. We got one last year, and plan to do it again this year. That's wonderful, it is, but I secretly wish I was getting something similar to what I made my mom for Christmas. Just a simple handprint in a frame with a poem. 

    ETA Your greenhouse hanging basket reminded me that our Farmer's Market opens tomorrow! Yay! DH said he wanted to get my flowers from there this year. Honestly, there is usually a better selection later on in the summer, but I'm still excited to go pick some out.






  • @AlwaysAuntNeverMom - I always laugh that most kids you make funny faces at them and do all these stunts to make them laugh.. and Emmett was born an entertainer, 100% class clown. He makes these surprised faces and monkeys around until you smile, he has a real gift.  He is also going to be a lot of trouble.. A LOT
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