I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I liked reading Divergent and Twilight. I also have liked all of the movies. I think it is NUTS how obsessed girls (and grown women!) got over Twilight though.. seriously people, it's just fiction.
I think the obsession is what really annoys me. I haven't seen the movies- have no desire to see Twilight- but hubby has convinced me that we should give Divergent a try.
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I liked reading Divergent and Twilight. I also have liked all of the movies. I think it is NUTS how obsessed girls (and grown women!) got over Twilight though.. seriously people, it's just fiction.
I think the obsession is what really annoys me. I haven't seen the movies- have no desire to see Twilight- but hubby has convinced me that we should give Divergent a try.
My DH actually liked Divergent and Insurgent. We haven't seen the final movie yet because I have yet to read the book and I like to read the books first. He said it isn't getting good reviews though, which sucks.
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
I have another one -- I don't know that it's really an UO but whatever. I want to punch people who say a medical condition or allergy doesn't exist. For me it's gluten. I'm allergic to it- not horribly but enough that eating it is a horrible idea. I don't have to worry about cross contamination like those who have celiac do either. This comes up because apparently Chick Fil A now is offering a gluten free bun (!!!!) which means I can have grilled chicken sandwiches from them again if I need something fast. This lead to people at hubby's work saying gluten allergies are fake. I'm sorry, I had a doctor tell me I have an allergy to it, I also spent a lot of money for them to check to make sure that's what it was. Oh and then there's the reaction my body has when I eat it. Yea but go ahead and tell me my allergy doesn't exist.
I have another one -- I don't know that it's really an UO but whatever. I want to punch people who say a medical condition or allergy doesn't exist. For me it's gluten. I'm allergic to it- not horribly but enough that eating it is a horrible idea. I don't have to worry about cross contamination like those who have celiac do either. This comes up because apparently Chick Fil A now is offering a gluten free bun (!!!!) which means I can have grilled chicken sandwiches from them again if I need something fast. This lead to people at hubby's work saying gluten allergies are fake. I'm sorry, I had a doctor tell me I have an allergy to it, I also spent a lot of money for them to check to make sure that's what it was. Oh and then there's the reaction my body has when I eat it. Yea but go ahead and tell me my allergy doesn't exist.
I believe it exists and am sorry you have to deal with it. The problem is that there are so many people who abuse that allergy and treat it as a fad - some people I know even think it helps dramatically with weight loss and treat gluten free eating as some sort of diet or think it's cool to have a dietary restriction just to do it. Too bizarre.
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I liked reading Divergent and Twilight. I also have liked all of the movies. I think it is NUTS how obsessed girls (and grown women!) got over Twilight though.. seriously people, it's just fiction.
I friggin LOVE twilight! I have all the movies, brought the books on my honeymoon, and plan on throwing in the third movie during early labor! that said, DH and I did talk about how it's not appropriate for young people, both boys and girls. It's sexist to both groups and not good for creating a blueprint for how relationships should be.
But as a married pregnant lady? Bring on the twilight!!
I have another one -- I don't know that it's really an UO but whatever. I want to punch people who say a medical condition or allergy doesn't exist. For me it's gluten. I'm allergic to it- not horribly but enough that eating it is a horrible idea. I don't have to worry about cross contamination like those who have celiac do either. This comes up because apparently Chick Fil A now is offering a gluten free bun (!!!!) which means I can have grilled chicken sandwiches from them again if I need something fast. This lead to people at hubby's work saying gluten allergies are fake. I'm sorry, I had a doctor tell me I have an allergy to it, I also spent a lot of money for them to check to make sure that's what it was. Oh and then there's the reaction my body has when I eat it. Yea but go ahead and tell me my allergy doesn't exist.
I believe it exists and am sorry you have to deal with it. The problem is that there are so many people who abuse that allergy and treat it as a fad - some people I know even think it helps dramatically with weight loss and treat gluten free eating as some sort of diet or think it's cool to have a dietary restriction just to do it. Too bizarre.
I think you're 100% correct that the fad diets make it harder. I don't mind them honestly, as long as they aren't claiming it's an allergy. Most restaurants where I am ask if it is an allergy or a preference- which I appreciate-- until I hear people say allergy- and after the server walks away admit that it's actually a preference- then just say that! If it's an allergy the kitchen has to take extra steps to make sure the food is safe! Apparently a lot of people at hubby's work are in the "it doesn't exist" camp- and we have a lunchtime baby shower there tomorrow-- so chances are I won't be able to eat much if anything.
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
@doozer1345 - I wish all dizziness was that easily solved I've added water, electrolytes, compression stockings, more rest and I still have dizzy spells where the room spins.
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I actually had to write a paper on the series for a class I took on Young Adult Literature, right around when the last book came out. I decided to base it on the themes of stalking/abuse/obsession etc, because to me they were super obvious and I was feeling irritable over the way people were raving over the books. I have a tendency to overwrite and have to cut back once I get into something, but holy cow was there a lot of editing that I had to do stay under word count, because there was just so much creepiness to work with in that series.
I got a C, because while it was "very well written", I clearly "didn't understand the material very well".
And this was considered a junior/senior level college class. Wtf.
@doozer1345 - I wish all dizziness was that easily solved I've added water, electrolytes, compression stockings, more rest and I still have dizzy spells where the room spins.
Combined with BH, dry mouth, and swelling at the same time? That's what I was referring to not just each on their own. ETA: Most of the complaints here come with a couple of symptoms that go hand in hand with a simple solution.
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@doozer1345 Thanks. No diagnosis. Tried an EKG, thyroid testing, bloodwork, testing for anemia, etc. Everything has come back clean. I've got about 3 weeks left of work, but I'm not sure if I'll make it that long!
@Charla I'm a Hoosier too and Indiana is so backwards it's sick! I just moved to Tennessee a couple of months ago (Lived in Indiana for 21 years) and this place isn't much better. Pence is an idiot and I have no idea what they are doing.
I'm from Indiana but went to grad school at UT Knoxville (GO VOLS!). I 100% understand you.
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I actually had to write a paper on the series for a class I took on Young Adult Literature, right around when the last book came out. I decided to base it on the themes of stalking/abuse/obsession etc, because to me they were super obvious and I was feeling irritable over the way people were raving over the books. I have a tendency to overwrite and have to cut back once I get into something, but holy cow was there a lot of editing that I had to do stay under word count, because there was just so much creepiness to work with in that series.
I got a C, because while it was "very well written", I clearly "didn't understand the material very well".
And this was considered a junior/senior level college class. Wtf.
That makes me very sad for the person who graded that paper.
No Twilight for me. I tried to read a plot synopsis of the Divergent books on Wikipedia (admittedly not the best way to understand the material) and I just felt like WTF is even going on here.
And as long as we're talking about terrible writing, for 50 Shades of Grey... I haven't read them. I never want to read them. If I want to read porn that is actually well written, I can find that on the internet for free.
Gilbert Godfrey's dramatic reading of 50 Shades is hilarious, though. That would be it's one saving grace.
@Charla I'm a Hoosier too and Indiana is so backwards it's sick! I just moved to Tennessee a couple of months ago (Lived in Indiana for 21 years) and this place isn't much better. Pence is an idiot and I have no idea what they are doing.
What part (if you don't mind me asking)? I live in TN as well.
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@Charla I'm a Hoosier too and Indiana is so backwards it's sick! I just moved to Tennessee a couple of months ago (Lived in Indiana for 21 years) and this place isn't much better. Pence is an idiot and I have no idea what they are doing.
I'm from Indiana but went to grad school at UT Knoxville (GO VOLS!). I 100% understand you.
On the bathing topic...you guys all take a shower AFTER? I have ALWAYS showered first for these reasons 1)it cleans the tub out 2)I'm perfectly clean so I won't be sitting in my own filth, and 3)because then when you get out you are still relaxed and don't have to work again.
I'm curious why most (all?) of you take the shower after?
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So, I can understand the appeal of destination weddings (even though I know they can be a pain), but I don't understand this new trend of destination bachelor/bachelorette parties. I don't really want to spend a crap-ton of money traveling to some exotic location just to party and get hammered.
Then again, I don't get the point of going on vacation just to get shit-faced the entire time. I (very briefly) dated a guy who would spend thousands of dollars going on all these exotic trips, and would literally spend the entire trip drunk. Didn't experience the local culture, didn't sight-see or learn anything, just partied and drank with strangers he'd never see again. Seems like you could do that at home for a lot cheaper.
I did the destination bachelorette party and DH did his bachelor party as a destination thing too. For me it was a combination of trying to figure out how to get all of my girlfriends together (we live ALL OVER the place) and wanting to go on vacation. I wouldn't change it for the world, I had one of the best vacations ever! It's rare that we are all able to get together since most of us live so far away from each other and we have so many stories from the trip.
As far as getting shitfaced on vacation, I don't usually but DH and I *do* take a yearly trip to New Orleans as well and we spend the entire time eating and drinking our asses off. That's actually how we met and then years later, got engaged!
On the bathing topic...you guys all take a shower AFTER? I have ALWAYS showered first for these reasons 1)it cleans the tub out 2)I'm perfectly clean so I won't be sitting in my own filth, and 3)because then when you get out you are still relaxed and don't have to work again.
I'm curious why most (all?) of you take the shower after?
For me, I usually use some sort of bath bomb or soak while bathing and want to just rinse off any residue after. I like being literally squeaky clean and my skin has always been ridiculous, so rinsing off is crucial. Also, I want to rinse out the tub so it doesn't develp a ring or build up of residue that could cause my son/MH to slip next time he gets in the tub.
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I actually had to write a paper on the series for a class I took on Young Adult Literature, right around when the last book came out. I decided to base it on the themes of stalking/abuse/obsession etc, because to me they were super obvious and I was feeling irritable over the way people were raving over the books. I have a tendency to overwrite and have to cut back once I get into something, but holy cow was there a lot of editing that I had to do stay under word count, because there was just so much creepiness to work with in that series.
I got a C, because while it was "very well written", I clearly "didn't understand the material very well".
And this was considered a junior/senior level college class. Wtf.
That makes me very sad for the person who graded that paper.
No Twilight for me. I tried to read a plot synopsis of the Divergent books on Wikipedia (admittedly not the best way to understand the material) and I just felt like WTF is even going on here.
And as long as we're talking about terrible writing, for 50 Shades of Grey... I haven't read them. I never want to read them. If I want to read porn that is actually well written, I can find that on the internet for free.
Gilbert Godfrey's dramatic reading of 50 Shades is hilarious, though. That would be it's one saving grace.
I'm kind of ashamed that I know this, but 50 shades of gray was actually written as Twilight fan-fiction and the lady got a book deal out of it. So it's basically the Twilight story all over again with more sex?
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I actually had to write a paper on the series for a class I took on Young Adult Literature, right around when the last book came out. I decided to base it on the themes of stalking/abuse/obsession etc, because to me they were super obvious and I was feeling irritable over the way people were raving over the books. I have a tendency to overwrite and have to cut back once I get into something, but holy cow was there a lot of editing that I had to do stay under word count, because there was just so much creepiness to work with in that series.
I got a C, because while it was "very well written", I clearly "didn't understand the material very well".
And this was considered a junior/senior level college class. Wtf.
That makes me very sad for the person who graded that paper.
No Twilight for me. I tried to read a plot synopsis of the Divergent books on Wikipedia (admittedly not the best way to understand the material) and I just felt like WTF is even going on here.
And as long as we're talking about terrible writing, for 50 Shades of Grey... I haven't read them. I never want to read them. If I want to read porn that is actually well written, I can find that on the internet for free.
Gilbert Godfrey's dramatic reading of 50 Shades is hilarious, though. That would be it's one saving grace.
I'm kind of ashamed that I know this, but 50 shades of gray was actually written as Twilight fan-fiction and the lady got a book deal out of it. So it's basically the Twilight story all over again with more sex?
And worse writing. I thought that was pretty general knowledge, 50 shades starting ad fan fict. Stephanie Myers must be so pissed off that lady is making money off her story.
What gets me is these books are getting si many kids reading again (ignoring how bad the stories are) and then the first thing Hollywood does is make it into a movie! Its crazy!
Angel baby June 2013, DD born 22 April 2014, BFP 10 Sept 2015 - Due 22 May 2016
On the bathing topic...you guys all take a shower AFTER? I have ALWAYS showered first for these reasons 1)it cleans the tub out 2)I'm perfectly clean so I won't be sitting in my own filth, and 3)because then when you get out you are still relaxed and don't have to work again.
I'm curious why most (all?) of you take the shower after?
For me, I usually use some sort of bath bomb or soak while bathing and want to just rinse off any residue after. I like being literally squeaky clean and my skin has always been ridiculous, so rinsing off is crucial. Also, I want to rinse out the tub so it doesn't develp a ring or build up of residue that could cause my son/MH to slip next time he gets in the tub.
If you bathe after the bath still isn't necessarily clean, because all your filth has fallen in the tub from the shower. I usually shower after just because it makes more sense to me and because if I take a bath it isn't usually just a bath, I usually put something in there and don't want it stay on me, like last night it was Epsom salt. I smelled like the ocean when I was done in the bath. lol
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
Who does that?!
Lol, I was thinking that this couldn't possibly be an unpopular opinion. I don't know anyone IRL who thinks that's ok.
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
Who does that?!
Lol, I was thinking that this couldn't possibly be an unpopular opinion. I don't know anyone IRL who thinks that's ok.
I've seen it, but I would hope that it's not popular to think it's okay!
I don't like Divergent. I couldn't get through the first books. I wanted to punch the main character. "Hey don't do this!" "Oh don't do it... ok.. I'm gonna do it anyway." While I KNOW this is how teenagers act (I work with them after all). It annoyed me. That being said, if you loved it, great! I love it when people love books- even if I don't (I also despise Twilight)- but don't get mad at me and act like something is wrong with me for not liking a book you love.
Twilight is some of the worst writing I've ever read in my life.
I agree- and I hate that its completely ok that Edward is basically stalking her. That's not ok, and no teenage girl should be taught that it is.
I actually had to write a paper on the series for a class I took on Young Adult Literature, right around when the last book came out. I decided to base it on the themes of stalking/abuse/obsession etc, because to me they were super obvious and I was feeling irritable over the way people were raving over the books. I have a tendency to overwrite and have to cut back once I get into something, but holy cow was there a lot of editing that I had to do stay under word count, because there was just so much creepiness to work with in that series.
I got a C, because while it was "very well written", I clearly "didn't understand the material very well".
And this was considered a junior/senior level college class. Wtf.
I do the same thing with papers! I had to cut 15 pages off of my senior thesis... that was only supposed to be 40-50 pages long. Oops! Though I will say I really want to read your paper! (that sounds very weird I know)
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
Who does that?!
I have a few friends like this with their kids. And they wonder why they're little terrors now. -.-
ETA: I was hoping it wasn't an UO either, but it seems to be common enough. Especially in younger parents. Not to stereotype by any means, but it's what I've experienced.
The hashtag pregnancyproblems. Whenever I see it all I can feel is sadness for all my friends who've had losses and Gone through IF and still have nothing to show for it. Really the only true pregnancy problem is that not everyone who wants to be pregnant can be.
This is really something i think about constantly. I work in a fertility pharmacy and deal with lots of patients who are trying or have had losses and continue to try...breaks my heart that something that was so easy for me is not for these women who would make AMAZING mothers.
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
Who does that?!
I have a few friends like this with their kids. And they wonder why they're little terrors now. -.-
ETA: I was hoping it wasn't an UO either, but it seems to be common enough. Especially in younger parents. Not to stereotype by any means, but it's what I've experienced.
I hate that. My best friend's sister thought it was hilarious when her son said his first cuss word at two. My best friend's son has cussed too because she doesn't watch her mouth around her kid. I don't find it funny at all. People never said bad words like that around me growing up and people better not dare talk that way infront of my child!
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
The hashtag pregnancyproblems. Whenever I see it all I can feel is sadness for all my friends who've had losses and Gone through IF and still have nothing to show for it. Really the only true pregnancy problem is that not everyone who wants to be pregnant can be.
This is really something i think about constantly. I work in a fertility pharmacy and deal with lots of patients who are trying or have had losses and continue to try...breaks my heart that something that was so easy for me is not for these women who would make AMAZING mothers.
YES! I had HG with my first pregnancy that ended in a loss and this time I've worked so hard to not complain because on the other side is NOT having a baby. A girl I know has complained non stop and I had to stop being friends with her. I understand how uncomfortable pregnancy is and how hard it is but really, you're puking so much you wanna die but aren't going to go to a doctor? Jeez.
My UO....when parents really don't care how or what they say around their kids. Telling your 4 year old she's a bitch doesn't fix the problem. Adamantly praising her at 2 for her first curse word is not cute. At all. Especially when she turns around now and tells you to STFU when you tell her to do something. I just don't find the hilarity and cuteness of a child cussing.
Who does that?!
Well, I used to lurk on another pregnancy board (before I found this one), and there was a big thread about little kids cursing, and you wouldn't believe the number of moms who thought it was cute and funny. Like, the ones who didn't were in the minority.
On the bathing topic...you guys all take a shower AFTER? I have ALWAYS showered first for these reasons 1)it cleans the tub out 2)I'm perfectly clean so I won't be sitting in my own filth, and 3)because then when you get out you are still relaxed and don't have to work again.
I'm curious why most (all?) of you take the shower after?
For me, I usually use some sort of bath bomb or soak while bathing and want to just rinse off any residue after. I like being literally squeaky clean and my skin has always been ridiculous, so rinsing off is crucial. Also, I want to rinse out the tub so it doesn't develp a ring or build up of residue that could cause my son/MH to slip next time he gets in the tub.
If you bathe after the bath still isn't necessarily clean, because all your filth has fallen in the tub from the shower. I usually shower after just because it makes more sense to me and because if I take a bath it isn't usually just a bath, I usually put something in there and don't want it stay on me, like last night it was Epsom salt. I smelled like the ocean when I was done in the bath. lol
The tub wouldn't be any more dirty than when you rinse it off and down the drain before your bath...I would think it would be cleaner because it's had longer in hot water to rinse down the nasty. It makes sense to rinse off after if you've used a bath bomb or epsom salt though. Sometimes I'll rinse off real quick after, but I don't take my full on shower after.
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BFP 5/20/14 CP 5/26/14
BFP 12/6/14 DD Born an Angel on 7/17/15 at 35 weeks
Man, I cannot get worked up about the likelihood that my kid is going to be a foulmouthed little bastard.
We live in the city. People get drunk and just yell "FUUUUUUUUUUCCKKKK" on the streets at the top of their lungs like some kind of deranged mating cry pretty much every weekend night. (These people are mostly from Jersey, btw, they don't actually live here. My opinions regarding the classiness of the fine state of New Jersey have really skyrocketed since moving to this city.)
Anyway, kid's gonna hear every possible permutation of every possible curse word and phrase before he's in preschool, no matter what I do. So, welp, at this point my attitude is that I'm just gonna teach him how to curse well, since if you're going to do it, you might as well do it with flair.
The hashtag pregnancyproblems. Whenever I see it all I can feel is sadness for all my friends who've had losses and Gone through IF and still have nothing to show for it. Really the only true pregnancy problem is that not everyone who wants to be pregnant can be.
This is really something i think about constantly. I work in a fertility pharmacy and deal with lots of patients who are trying or have had losses and continue to try...breaks my heart that something that was so easy for me is not for these women who would make AMAZING mothers.
YES! I had HG with my first pregnancy that ended in a loss and this time I've worked so hard to not complain because on the other side is NOT having a baby. A girl I know has complained non stop and I had to stop being friends with her. I understand how uncomfortable pregnancy is and how hard it is but really, you're puking so much you wanna die but aren't going to go to a doctor? Jeez.
Im a loss mum, and have a couple of friends who are struggling with secondary infertility. Yes women constantly complaining about pregnancy is annoying, but my UO is so what. Just because someone is struggling with infertility doesn't mean pregnancy is a walk in the park and they shouldn't complain. This pregnancy has been way harder than my second and if I wasn't able to complain from time to time, I'd go mad!
To say you shouldn't complain because someone else is struggling to even get pregnant minimises the difficulty someone else is going through and might prevent someone seeking help they might need.
In saying that, there is room for tact, and some people definitely lack tact filling FB with every little difficulty they have.
Angel baby June 2013, DD born 22 April 2014, BFP 10 Sept 2015 - Due 22 May 2016
The hashtag pregnancyproblems. Whenever I see it all I can feel is sadness for all my friends who've had losses and Gone through IF and still have nothing to show for it. Really the only true pregnancy problem is that not everyone who wants to be pregnant can be.
This is really something i think about constantly. I work in a fertility pharmacy and deal with lots of patients who are trying or have had losses and continue to try...breaks my heart that something that was so easy for me is not for these women who would make AMAZING mothers.
YES! I had HG with my first pregnancy that ended in a loss and this time I've worked so hard to not complain because on the other side is NOT having a baby. A girl I know has complained non stop and I had to stop being friends with her. I understand how uncomfortable pregnancy is and how hard it is but really, you're puking so much you wanna die but aren't going to go to a doctor? Jeez.
Im a loss mum, and have a couple of friends who are struggling with secondary infertility. Yes women constantly complaining about pregnancy is annoying, but my UO is so what. Just because someone is struggling with infertility doesn't mean pregnancy is a walk in the park and they shouldn't complain. This pregnancy has been way harder than my second and if I wasn't able to complain from time to time, I'd go mad!
To say you shouldn't complain because someone else is struggling to even get pregnant minimises the difficulty someone else is going through and might prevent someone seeking help they might need.
In saying that, there is room for tact, and some people definitely lack tact filling FB with every little difficulty they have.
I agree with you- of course everyone gets a complaint, it's the constant complaints (I guess ungratefulness?) that drives me nuts.
@Charla I'm a Hoosier too and Indiana is so backwards it's sick! I just moved to Tennessee a couple of months ago (Lived in Indiana for 21 years) and this place isn't much better. Pence is an idiot and I have no idea what they are doing.
What part (if you don't mind me asking)? I live in TN as well.
I live in Greeneville in eastern Tennessee. Where are you?
*Married 7/29/11 BFP 10/2/13, EDD 6/3/14 Gave birth to my beautiful son, Owen Robert on 6/4/14! BFP #2 8/28/15, EDD 5/5/16
Re: UO Thursday 4/7/16
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!that said, DH and I did talk about how it's not appropriate for young people, both boys and girls. It's sexist to both groups and not good for creating a blueprint for how relationships should be.
But as a married pregnant lady? Bring on the twilight!!
I actually had to write a paper on the series for a class I took on Young Adult Literature, right around when the last book came out. I decided to base it on the themes of stalking/abuse/obsession etc, because to me they were super obvious and I was feeling irritable over the way people were raving over the books. I have a tendency to overwrite and have to cut back once I get into something, but holy cow was there a lot of editing that I had to do stay under word count, because there was just so much creepiness to work with in that series.
I got a C, because while it was "very well written", I clearly "didn't understand the material very well".
And this was considered a junior/senior level college class. Wtf.
ETA: Most of the complaints here come with a couple of symptoms that go hand in hand with a simple solution.
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)
DD: 05/14/16
No Twilight for me. I tried to read a plot synopsis of the Divergent books on Wikipedia (admittedly not the best way to understand the material) and I just felt like WTF is even going on here.
And as long as we're talking about terrible writing, for 50 Shades of Grey... I haven't read them. I never want to read them. If I want to read porn that is actually well written, I can find that on the internet for free.
Gilbert Godfrey's dramatic reading of 50 Shades is hilarious, though. That would be it's one saving grace.
Been married since 2009.
Unicornuate Uterus (yes I menstruate glitter)
Several MCs
DD born 2013 (our miracle "you can't have babies" baby!)
Just wanted to say GO VOLS!
And Hi to my fellow Tennesseeans @MrsPrice519 & @doozer1345 !!
I'm curious why most (all?) of you take the shower after?
As far as getting shitfaced on vacation, I don't usually but DH and I *do* take a yearly trip to New Orleans as well and we spend the entire time eating and drinking our asses off. That's actually how we met and then years later, got engaged!
What gets me is these books are getting si many kids reading again (ignoring how bad the stories are) and then the first thing Hollywood does is make it into a movie! Its crazy!
If you bathe after the bath still isn't necessarily clean, because all your filth has fallen in the tub from the shower. I usually shower after just because it makes more sense to me and because if I take a bath it isn't usually just a bath, I usually put something in there and don't want it stay on me, like last night it was Epsom salt. I smelled like the ocean when I was done in the bath. lol
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!DS: Born 5-17-16
ETA: I was hoping it wasn't an UO either, but it seems to be common enough. Especially in younger parents. Not to stereotype by any means, but it's what I've experienced.
I hate that. My best friend's sister thought it was hilarious when her son said his first cuss word at two. My best friend's son has cussed too because she doesn't watch her mouth around her kid. I don't find it funny at all. People never said bad words like that around me growing up and people better not dare talk that way infront of my child!
Me: 31
DH: 29, SA - Great
Married: June 12,2011
TTC #1: 1/2014
Diagnosis: Hypothalamic Amenorrhea
Treatment: Clomid: 50mg, 100mg, 150mg - not successful and not monitored
Menopur 75ml (upped to 112.5ml), Ovidrel, & IUI IUI #1 8/31/2015
9/15/2015: BFP HCG - 400, 9/17/2015: HCG - 827, 9/21/2015 - HCG 3,327!We live in the city. People get drunk and just yell "FUUUUUUUUUUCCKKKK" on the streets at the top of their lungs like some kind of deranged mating cry pretty much every weekend night. (These people are mostly from Jersey, btw, they don't actually live here. My opinions regarding the classiness of the fine state of New Jersey have really skyrocketed since moving to this city.)
Anyway, kid's gonna hear every possible permutation of every possible curse word and phrase before he's in preschool, no matter what I do. So, welp, at this point my attitude is that I'm just gonna teach him how to curse well, since if you're going to do it, you might as well do it with flair.
To say you shouldn't complain because someone else is struggling to even get pregnant minimises the difficulty someone else is going through and might prevent someone seeking help they might need.
In saying that, there is room for tact, and some people definitely lack tact filling FB with every little difficulty they have.
BFP 10/2/13, EDD 6/3/14
Gave birth to my beautiful son, Owen Robert on 6/4/14!
BFP #2 8/28/15, EDD 5/5/16