I have creeped for many months and know the general consensus on gender reveal parties is a big fat no. My best friend, who is hosting the shower, is also a sonographer and will be doing my 20 week anatomy scan. My husband and I have been going back and forth on finding out baby's gender. She came up with the idea of her not telling us at the ultrasound what baby is, and revealing it at the shower somehow. Would this be acceptable? We have already decided to register for gender neutral items so that won't be an issue with us finding out later. My shower won't be huge and it will just be our best friends and closest family if that makes any difference. Thanks for your input!
*Edited because I can't spell! ;-)