Someone get me excited for baby #3

EliseJacqueline · February 2016

Help! I feel awful, but I am having a hard time getting excited for this one. DH and I were done ... I gave away the crib, the maternity clothes, baby clothes and I was scheduled to get the Mirena and found out we are having baby #3. H is excited because he always wanted 3 (probably why he left it in - lol)

I know every kid is a blessing but I am so overwhelmed by my two and work and I don't want to tell anyone about baby #3 yet. I am trying to think of all the reasons having 3 will be awesome.

Thanks for letting me vent ...

ecwk · February 2016

H is excited because he always wanted 3 (probably why he left it in - lol

Anyway...the title of your post really bothers me. I'm not quite sure what you're looking for, others to pump you up about how awesome having three kids will be? I can get that you feel overwhelmed but you honestly just come across as disappointed to be knocked up again. I think this will be a divisive thread, akin to those so called "gender disappointment" threads. It's hard for me to empathise at all, having struggled to get pregnant in the first place....If I were you I'd try focus on what you already should know are the positives of having children and be glad that you have a supportive husband. I know other people will disagree with me but this post just rubs me the wrong way. Hope your child never finds out how hard it was for you to get excited about him/her.

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michellabanana · February 2016

What's great is that they will always have each other! I'm one of six and we all live so close and see each other like way too much lol.. My mom was worried about my last little brother ( she was in her mid forties). But now she says she can't Imagine life without him!

Maybe cause they are all so little, its overwhelming, but it will be great!

Glow360 · February 2016

this is a place for support, we are old enough now to not respond in a rude manner, because we hopefully teach are children respect and by doing so we demonstrate that towards each other. Wow. Anyways, I get being overwhelmed, it's a combo of feeling exhausted and hormones right now. Sounds like you need break. Have your hubby watch kids on day off, get some rest. Depression and feeling low is so natural in pregnancy. Give it time and vent here. Have a conversation with husband about how your feeling. I think this is normal. My mom had five kids, three were planned and my dad and mom and two more surprises.....it's never easy and never let anyone make you feel crappy about how you feel. It's normal with bigger families.

PeggyOlsonFTW · February 2016

Yeah, sorry this rubs me the wrong way too. My journey to Baby #2 has been long and hard and involved multiple losses. It's hard for me to hear you got pregnant with a surprise baby and don't really want it.

If you didn't want a third baby, maybe you should've used a condom or just said no to sex until you got your Mirena.

Glow360 · February 2016

I've been trying for nine years with 4mc along the way.....this doesn't rub me the wrong way because this post isn't about me.

tripledaggerWed95976 · February 2016

Not to sound rude but I really feel like it should be your own job to get yourself excited for your child- not the job of a bunch of strangers on the Internet. this board has many people (myself included) who have experienced miscarriages, losses, infertility diagnoses, fertility treatments...etc, so asking us to pump you up about your unexpected pregnancy seems a bit in poor taste (in my opinion).

PugsandKisses · February 2016

Glow360 said:

this is a place for support, we are old enough now to not respond in a rude manner, because we hopefully teach are children respect and by doing so we demonstrate that towards each other. Wow. Anyways, I get being overwhelmed, it's a combo of feeling exhausted and hormones right now. Sounds like you need break. Have your hubby watch kids on day off, get some rest. Depression and feeling low is so natural in pregnancy. Give it time and vent here. Have a conversation with husband about how your feeling. I think this is normal. My mom had five kids, three were planned and my dad and mom and two more surprises.....it's never easy and never let anyone make you feel crappy about how you feel. It's normal with bigger families.

No, your family and friends are there for your support. I don't know you. We (potentially ) have nothing in common. But I have to be supportive because we are pregnant at the same time. Does that even make sense?

OP. I don't know what to say that others have not said. Sorry you got a unexpected pregnancy?

tripledaggerWed95976 · February 2016

Glow360 said:

this is a place for support, we are old enough now to not respond in a rude manner, because we hopefully teach are children respect and by doing so we demonstrate that towards each other. Wow. Anyways, I get being overwhelmed, it's a combo of feeling exhausted and hormones right now. Sounds like you need break. Have your hubby watch kids on day off, get some rest. Depression and feeling low is so natural in pregnancy. Give it time and vent here. Have a conversation with husband about how your feeling. I think this is normal. My mom had five kids, three were planned and my dad and mom and two more surprises.....it's never easy and never let anyone make you feel crappy about how you feel. It's normal with bigger families.

OP is LITERALLY asking a group full of strangers to make her be excited about her pregnancy... you have already made your view on this topic known ((twice)), please don't continue attempting to dictate how the rest of us should feel in regard to this question. You are not admin or a moderator and no one has violated TOU

ecwk · February 2016

Glow360 said:

this is a place for support, we are old enough now to not respond in a rude manner, because we hopefully teach are children respect and by doing so we demonstrate that towards each other. Wow.

I'm going to go ahead and assume this was directed at me.
As @PugsandKisses said, this isn't a place for support. Support is a by product of the relationships formed in this community. And I'm rolling my eyes *so hard* at you for implying that my response was rude. I'm hopeful that we all do teach our children respect and also that it is ok to not agree all the time and also to be wise enough to differentiate between dissenting opinions and rudeness. Wow.

megstervt · February 2016

As someone who has experienced loss I can't really empathize with not being excited about a pregnancy. It's also hard because preventing it is something that can be easily done even while waiting for a bc appointment. However, I can totally empathize with feeling worried about how to juggle everything, life balance, etc etc. I would recommend finding a therapist to talk things out with and making a plan with your partner about how to achieve more balance. Also no personal experience, but many family and friends said going from 1 to 2 was MUCH harder than 2 to 3, so there's that?

Glow360 · February 2016

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

PeggyOlsonFTW · February 2016

Glow360 said:

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

This is 1st tri....

ecwk · February 2016

Glow360 said:

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

Wait, I'm only 29! You mean I've been doing this wrong the whole time?!?!!?? What's it like mentally to be 35? I'd love to know!

Also, I'm not sure quite how to make this any clearer to you but here goes: just because people don't agree with OP it doesn't mean they're rude/harsh.

Finally, this is an Internet forum. People generally don't like being told how/when they should reply. Just FYI.

KelBelleBaby · February 2016

Glow360 said:

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

I wasn't going to comment until I saw this, simply because I can't relate to the OP's apparent dilemma. However, I am 35 (and have wanted a baby for 10 years and I'm finally getting him) and have a 35+ mentality. I may have no advice to offer the OP, but to assume that people here don't have a 35+ mentality is exactly why there is a saying about assumptions. And FYI, this isn't the 35+ board, it's the 1st trimester board. Both of which are on a public internet forum. People can post whatever they want and people can reply with whatever they want.

ETA: I am a very compassionate person.

tripledaggerWed95976 · February 2016

Glow360 said:

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

Perhaps you should first figure out which board you are on before you continue on with your finger wagging.

Ampip2270 · February 2016

Hey OP! I'm sorry your post has been taken over by trolls who have nothing better to do than hit you when youre down. I can't say I relate to your feelings, but I'm sure they are perfectly normal. I'm expecting #2 and I'm totally overwhelmed with the thought even though I planned it. Especially in the first trimester (since that's the board were on) your hormones are all over the place! Take a deep breath and remember how awesome a new baby smells and that first time they smile at you and the first time they pee on someone other than you (ha-ha ). With 3 babies you'll have 1 to keep in your back pocket so to speak, inevitability 2 will always play together, so you'll have the other one to be with. Like someone said earlier too, they will always have each other. I'm sure one of the previous trolls is going to bash on me, but IDGAF! We are all human and are allowed to feel the way we feel with out criticism. "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" Hugs to you OP! Ignore the haters.

ecwk · February 2016

Ampip2270 said:

Hey OP! I'm sorry your post has been taken over by trolls who have nothing better to do than hit you when youre down. I can't say I relate to your feelings, but I'm sure they are perfectly normal. I'm expecting #2 and I'm totally overwhelmed with the thought even though I planned it. Especially in the first trimester (since that's the board were on) your hormones are all over the place! Take a deep breath and remember how awesome a new baby smells and that first time they smile at you and the first time they pee on someone other than you (ha-ha ). With 3 babies you'll have 1 to keep in your back pocket so to speak, inevitability 2 will always play together, so you'll have the other one to be with. Like someone said earlier too, they will always have each other. I'm sure one of the previous trolls is going to bash on me, but IDGAF! We are all human and are allowed to feel the way we feel with out criticism. "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" Hugs to you OP! Ignore the haters.

"If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" - Except apparently when calling people trolls/haters because that's totally ok!

"We are all human and are allowed to feel the way we feel with out criticism" - Except of course, if we disagree with the OP in which case our feelings are totally invalid and open to criticism.

Hypocrite much?

618mom22boys · February 2016

I totally get how you are feeling! Back in Dec I has my tubal scheduled for Jan 28. Well Jan 3 I found out I was pregnant with baby #4! I am excited now but still get feelings of guilt for my other kids every once in a while. But they only last a minute or two until my other kids start talking about how excited they are to have a baby sister or brother!

cMichelle0423 · February 2016

Glow360 said:

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

Yahh so I'm 24. Regardless, I'm not sure what age has to do with anything here. Sometimes support isn't about telling what the person what they WANT to hear, but what they SHOULD hear. It's not an Internet strangers responsibility to make someone happy about their pregnancy. As an adult who's had children before, op should know that any time you have sex, birth control or not, you have a chance of getting pregnant. So if she didn't want anymore kids, she should have found a more effective way to prevent that from happening. Dealing with the outcome is her problem. If anyone should be helping her get happy about the pregnancy, it should be her husband.

mamacastro · February 2016

ecwk said:

Ampip2270 said:

Hey OP! I'm sorry your post has been taken over by trolls who have nothing better to do than hit you when youre down. I can't say I relate to your feelings, but I'm sure they are perfectly normal. I'm expecting #2 and I'm totally overwhelmed with the thought even though I planned it. Especially in the first trimester (since that's the board were on) your hormones are all over the place! Take a deep breath and remember how awesome a new baby smells and that first time they smile at you and the first time they pee on someone other than you (ha-ha ). With 3 babies you'll have 1 to keep in your back pocket so to speak, inevitability 2 will always play together, so you'll have the other one to be with. Like someone said earlier too, they will always have each other. I'm sure one of the previous trolls is going to bash on me, but IDGAF! We are all human and are allowed to feel the way we feel with out criticism. "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" Hugs to you OP! Ignore the haters.

"If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" - Except apparently when calling people trolls/haters because that's totally ok!

"We are all human and are allowed to feel the way we feel with out criticism" - Except of course, if we disagree with the OP in which case our feelings are totally invalid and open to criticism.

Hypocrite much?

@Ecwk You took the words right out of my mouth- since when is it nice to call people names?! Um take your own advice maybe @Ampip2270

SarahFoley725 · February 2016

Sorry, we aren't a pep squad and even if we all busted out Pom poms and cheered you on, it wouldn't change your own feelings. I hope you're able to get excited about this third baby.

SarahFoley725 · February 2016

Glow360 said:

Sharks in the water, it is a place for support. It's why we have a forum, if you don't want support you certainly don't have to give it or be a part of it. People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally. No reason to be harsh with her because your too focused on your own experience. Extending our hearts to others is compassion.

So much lol

austinjl · February 2016

My mom got pregnant unexpectedly at 39 when I was 9 and my brother was 12. She later told me that at the time, it felt like the worst thing in the world. Now my sis is 21 and she says it's the best worst thing that ever happened to her. Try to think of the big picture. You get another kid!!!!! And it will likely work out just fine in the end.

GabrielsMommy2016 · February 2016

You are blessed!

Ampip2270 · February 2016

Meehh hypocrite schmypocrite... I'm actually here to make this momma feel better which is what she asked for, unlike the rest of you all putting her down for her feelings. Sorry your journies were rough, doesn't mean you have to make someone else feel bad.

goldie987 · February 2016

I don't have a history of loss but have to agree that this rubs me the wrong way. OP, I'm sorry you're struggling with excitement about this baby but that is something you need to work out within yourself. Nothing anyone here says is going to do more than you discussing your feelings with your husband will do. Or am I not allowed to comment here since I'm not 35+ and am not saying exactly what OP wanted me to?

tripledaggerWed95976 · February 2016

Ampip2270 said:

Meehh hypocrite schmypocrite... I'm actually here to make this momma feel better which is what she asked for, unlike the rest of you all putting her down for her feelings. Sorry your journies were rough, doesn't mean you have to make someone else feel bad.

right because we're all just supposed to be here to offer blind support despite differing opinions? Must've missed that memo...

Ampip2270 · February 2016

No, you could have just not said anything at all and kept on scrolling, but you stopped and deliberately made a comment that would hurt the OP, how is that helpful? I may not have said some nice things about the other posters, but at least I offered support to her.

tripledaggerWed95976 · February 2016

Ampip2270 said:

No, you could have just not said anything at all and kept on scrolling, but you stopped and deliberately made a comment that would hurt the OP, how is that helpful? I may not have said some nice things about the other posters, but at least I offered support to her.

You sound confused, should go back and read my original comment to OP.
Also, I and everyone else here have just as much of a right to comment as u do and just FYI no one has made more jabs at others than you have on this post sooo pot meet kettle???

tripledaggerWed95976 · February 2016

tripledaggerWed95976 said:

Not to sound rude but I really feel like it should be your own job to get yourself excited for your child- not the job of a bunch of strangers on the Internet. this board has many people (myself included) who have experienced miscarriages, losses, infertility diagnoses, fertility treatments...etc, so asking us to pump you up about your unexpected pregnancy seems a bit in poor taste (in my opinion).

My original comment. Now please tell me on what planet this is considered "a deliberately hurtful comment" @Ampip2270

PugsandKisses · February 2016

How is this for support.

OMG OMG OMG! You are totally KNOCKED UP!!!! I am so happy for you random stranger that did not want this child!!! HORRAYY!!! We are both preggo in the eggo at the same time. YES YES YES.....

jonesl12 · February 2016

If you didn't want to get pregnant you should have prevented it.
Theres always adoption .I promise you there are people who would do anything to be in your shoes.

lalalorelai · February 2016

So I'm only going to be a FTM (and we tried really, really hard to get here) but I have periods of feeling completely overwhelmed and terrified. I have no idea what I'm doing, we need to have more money to make this work, my career is in jeopardy, I don't want to ruin my body, I miss wine.

But these moments pass and I realize how worth it it will all be in the long run. I've been overwhelmed and terrified by things in the past and we will figure it out. I don't expect internet strangers to tell me I should be excited -- though there are women on here who are incredibly supportive and have talked me through a few of my panicky moments. The trick is you have to give support to get it.

OP, a lot about your post rubs me the wrong way. Even though your baby wasn't planned, at some point you made a choice. You chose to not take control of your own birth control and left it up to your husband, who you basically accuse of impregnating you on purpose against your will. You chose not to get the morning after pill after your husband "left it in." You chose to continue on with the pregnancy. All of these are choices that you made of your own free will. It's time to be an adult and own those choices. You don't have to be thrilled about being pregnant. You don't need to throw thirteen different parties to celebrate or post pictures on FB or cry with joy every time you think about the baby growing inside of you. But you need to grow up and own what's going on. Three kids will be tough as you're now outnumbered three to two, but people do it all the time.

Sorry, I'm sure that wasn't cheerleader-y enough for some of the people here, but it's all I got.

ecwk · February 2016

Ampip2270 said:

No, you could have just not said anything at all and kept on scrolling, but you stopped and deliberately made a comment that would hurt the OP, how is that helpful? I may not have said some nice things about the other posters, but at least I offered support to her.

You should climb down off your self righteous high horse, go back and read my and others' original comments to the OP, try to grasp the blazing hypocrisy of your posts and then gallop off into the sunset to white knight somewhere else.

sarahufl · February 2016

EliseJacqueline said:

H is excited because he always wanted 3 (probably why he left it in - lol)

Your entire post bothers me, but especially this part. I assume you are a grown woman who is in a consenting sexual relationship (please correct me if I am wrong). If that is the case, you are both equally responsible for birth control. And if you didn't want another kid, why didn't you take more measures to prevent it?

You don't get sympathy from me and I hope, for the sake of your child, your attitude changes very, very soon.

PrimRoseMama · February 2016

They can be the three musketeers to get in trouble! That's what I'm excited for. I'm excited to see them all playing together, sharing together (most of the time lol) and taking care of each other. I'm excited to go through the milestones again and have them all enjoying a big pile hug with me. Bath times together are fun and there is just so much fun. Also, the transition from two to three (I'm told) is a breeze. Its essentially "one more baby" to add to your insanity. The infant phase where you aren't sleeping is incredibly short. The rest (toddler and childhood) is far more rewarding in some aspects. Me personally I love me some sweet NB snuggles and cuddles. However, each phase is just such a joy for me. So maybe think of some positives to list? I didn't see you even try in your OP?

I understand that its really overwhelming with a surprise pregnancy, but these boards are populated with a diverse population. Many of us have prayed and tried very hard for our pregnancies. So, its a little bit hard to relate to the anxiety about a potentially unwanted or surprise third pregnancy. That doesn't make anyone a bad person or unsupportive. It just means they can't relate and that is OK. Blind "support" is not worth very much because its mindless. I LOVE puppies and rainbows. Like, I'm a pretty positive person.

However, I do believe that a variety of experiences in a post online or even in-person conversation is vital to help us see things that we wouldn't always see. Different forest and different trees. So that might be a great thing to consider when you read the responses.

Parenthood can be overwhelming and I have two (this would be #3 if everything goes well). So, I hear you on your feelings and don't want you to feel like I don't understand. I do understand. Those days when everything is a battle and you feel just done by the end. I don't work outside the home (SAHM)-- so I don't have the added pressures of expectations at work vs. the jungle at home. I also don't have the daycare expense concern. So I can understand why a surprise baby would be a stressor for you. Take your time and try to think positively if you can. You may take some time to warm up to the pregnancy and that is ok. I am in love the minute the HPT turns positive. Some aren't for various reasons and that's not bad. You have your own reasons and as long as you aren't thinking of harming yourself (extreme depression) or the baby (after its born) then talk to your OB.

You might benefit from a counselor to work through your feelings. Its a whole other animal to be "done" and have a surprise pregnancy than to be TTC for another baby. Its just a different zipcode. That's ok. The counseling sessions (they don't have to be forever) could help you manage the pros and cons of your situation. I loved my pregnancy counselor the last two pregnancies (after losses so I was a hot mess in those two and needed my counselor to tell me to not let the anxiety overwhelm me all the time). I will probably try to see if she's available this time. Its worth it.

Wishing you the best.

SarahFoley725 · February 2016

Ampip2270 said:

No, you could have just not said anything at all and kept on scrolling, but you stopped and deliberately made a comment that would hurt the OP, how is that helpful? I may not have said some nice things about the other posters, but at least I offered support to her.

So it's acceptable to be rude to other people, just not OP? Oh man I missed that rule

Bigboobsmcgee · February 2016

PrimRoseMama said:

They can be the three musketeers to get in trouble! That's what I'm excited for. I'm excited to see them all playing together, sharing together (most of the time lol) and taking care of each other. I'm excited to go through the milestones again and have them all enjoying a big pile hug with me. Bath times together are fun and there is just so much fun. Also, the transition from two to three (I'm told) is a breeze. Its essentially "one more baby" to add to your insanity. The infant phase where you aren't sleeping is incredibly short. The rest (toddler and childhood) is far more rewarding in some aspects. Me personally I love me some sweet NB snuggles and cuddles. However, each phase is just such a joy for me. So maybe think of some positives to list? I didn't see you even try in your OP?

I understand that its really overwhelming with a surprise pregnancy, but these boards are populated with a diverse population. Many of us have prayed and tried very hard for our pregnancies. So, its a little bit hard to relate to the anxiety about a potentially unwanted or surprise third pregnancy. That doesn't make anyone a bad person or unsupportive. It just means they can't relate and that is OK. Blind "support" is not worth very much because its mindless. I LOVE puppies and rainbows. Like, I'm a pretty positive person.

However, I do believe that a variety of experiences in a post online or even in-person conversation is vital to help us see things that we wouldn't always see. Different forest and different trees. So that might be a great thing to consider when you read the responses.

Parenthood can be overwhelming and I have two (this would be #3 if everything goes well). So, I hear you on your feelings and don't want you to feel like I don't understand. I do understand. Those days when everything is a battle and you feel just done by the end. I don't work outside the home (SAHM)-- so I don't have the added pressures of expectations at work vs. the jungle at home. I also don't have the daycare expense concern. So I can understand why a surprise baby would be a stressor for you. Take your time and try to think positively if you can. You may take some time to warm up to the pregnancy and that is ok. I am in love the minute the HPT turns positive. Some aren't for various reasons and that's not bad. You have your own reasons and as long as you aren't thinking of harming yourself (extreme depression) or the baby (after its born) then talk to your OB.

You might benefit from a counselor to work through your feelings. Its a whole other animal to be "done" and have a surprise pregnancy than to be TTC for another baby. Its just a different zipcode. That's ok. The counseling sessions (they don't have to be forever) could help you manage the pros and cons of your situation. I loved my pregnancy counselor the last two pregnancies (after losses so I was a hot mess in those two and needed my counselor to tell me to not let the anxiety overwhelm me all the time). I will probably try to see if she's available this time. Its worth it.

Wishing you the best.

Fabulous response.

mollypuss1 · February 2016

Glow360 said:

People come for advice, share experiences.....this is 35+, lets act like it. We have another forum for people who haven't reached 35 mentally.

Where is this forum for those who haven't reached 35 mentally? I've looked on the main boards but I can't seem to see it and I obviously need to join it as although I'm actually 37 I mustn't have reached 35 mentally yet as I disagree with everything you have put as according to your logic, disagreeing = immaturity.

stillcozy · February 2016

I guess I can't post a response since I'm 26 a consenting adult who doesn't blame my husband for me getting knocked up when I wasn't on birth control...

However as others have said OP you need to find yourself some positives a bunch of strangers can't get you excited will it be more work ? Yep. Will it add to the stress? Yep
will it add more joy? Maybe I can't tell you that this new kid will make you happy I know my family turned out great when my "surprise" brother was born.

You have the choice in your outlook. Also to the white knights here guess what "no one can make you feel inferior without your consent" good quote by one strong lady to live by. If the OP doesn't like the what said then she doesn't have to let it bother her. Hardly will you ask a question to 100's of people and have everyone agree with you. So you take what you want and toss the rest.

OP and white knights, most ladies here were asking for some consideration when people "complain" or are "disappointed" about being pregnant when others had loss after loss or are dying to be pregnant and seeing a post like this is an absolute slap in their faces. They have a right to share that pain just as much as the OP shared her feelings. Just because you don't like a response you don't get to dictate that it was wrong or just mean. The OP blames her husband for becoming pregnant that to me sounds pretty mean and unfair but you don't see me degrading or insulting her. Just asking for her to be more thoughtful in her posts

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