I have a confession. I'm terrified of having this baby. I just started school again full time, DH finally convinced me we were done, I got rid of everything baby related and DH was going to get fixed in a couple months. I'm a miserable crazy pregnant lady and hate being pregnant. I don't want to push another baby out of my vajayjay. I don't have enough room in my car or apartment for another baby and I feel bad that DH has added stress trying to figure out we are going to afford this one. I feel so guilty for not being happy about this pregnancy.
I have a confession. I'm terrified of having this baby. I just started school again full time, DH finally convinced me we were done, I got rid of everything baby related and DH was going to get fixed in a couple months. I'm a miserable crazy pregnant lady and hate being pregnant. I don't want to push another baby out of my vajayjay. I don't have enough room in my car or apartment for another baby and I feel bad that DH has added stress trying to figure out we are going to afford this one. I feel so guilty for not being happy about this pregnancy.
Everyone has different feelings around pregnancy and it's circumstances. For you it's not as exciting right now and that is okay. Can you be open and honest about your feelings with DH maybe you could look into a new car or apartment. You can do it and if you nee support from strangers we are right here for you
I have a confession. I'm terrified of having this baby. I just started school again full time, DH finally convinced me we were done, I got rid of everything baby related and DH was going to get fixed in a couple months. I'm a miserable crazy pregnant lady and hate being pregnant. I don't want to push another baby out of my vajayjay. I don't have enough room in my car or apartment for another baby and I feel bad that DH has added stress trying to figure out we are going to afford this one. I feel so guilty for not being happy about this pregnancy.
That's rough, i really feel for you. I hope I am not alone in saying this, but I think it's absolutely, 100% okay to feel how you are feeling AND to post it here. I wish I had an idea of what to say that would make you feel better.
my fffc if my name is in my screen name at least spell it right! And for the record her second apology she posted as I was writing that. And has not seen it yet.
How many times does someone need to apologize? I'm just not a big fan of pot stirring, LindSAY
You do realize that you did the same
Pot stirring by calling me out right? Especially after you saw that she and I were cool with each other right?
I don't agree. I also didn't see where she and you were "cool" with each other. I just think it sucks to put someone on blast over and over again.
I have a confession. I'm terrified of having this baby. I just started school again full time, DH finally convinced me we were done, I got rid of everything baby related and DH was going to get fixed in a couple months. I'm a miserable crazy pregnant lady and hate being pregnant. I don't want to push another baby out of my vajayjay. I don't have enough room in my car or apartment for another baby and I feel bad that DH has added stress trying to figure out we are going to afford this one. I feel so guilty for not being happy about this pregnancy.
That was EXHAUSTING. Is five o'clock too early for bed? Tempted...
P.S. I kind of love everyone on here all at once which is a weird feeling. Each point made I'm like "Yeah!" until I read the next and I'm like "Totally!" and this goes on and on until I fall asleep with my phone on my face.
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
That was EXHAUSTING. Is five o'clock too early for bed? Tempted...
P.S. I kind of love everyone on here all at once which is a weird feeling. Each point made I'm like "Yeah!" until I read the next and I'm like "Totally!" and this goes on and on until I fall asleep with my phone on my face.
I laugh-snorted at "fall asleep with my phone on my face".
@stephweinstein that's ok you don't have to agree just as I don't have to agree with you. It is nice to be able to have our own opinions. I don't think she nor I would say kind things about the others work or thank them for owning their stuff and liking each other's posts if we're truly fueled with rage towards each other. I also appreciate that you corrected my name earlier that has been a life long pet peeve of mine so thank you for that
@randypluskate way to go and let it rip! I hope you feel better that was a lot to hold in and I have no idea how you manage to not say that to her face. I slow clap you!
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
Now is the perfect time to figure out BOUNDARIES. My mom is full blown 100% narcissistic personality disorder text book style. She is on a need to know basis with information and I give her as little information as possible. You have to realize that no matter what you say or do, her way will be better. If you don't take her advice she will take this as a personal affront. You also have to not engage when she's dishing out "advice." I know it's hard, but sometimes you just have to nod your head and not take it personally.
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
The bold irritates me. I was 19 when I got married and delivered my first. 23 with my second and I'll be 26 with this one. I don't think im less of a parent or not a good parent because "my brain wasn't done developing" I think I'm a damn good parent and sometimes better then my older SIL. I don't think age has to do with much. I raise well behaved and respectful children.
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
The bold irritates me. I was 19 when I got married and delivered my first. 23 with my second and I'll be 26 with this one. I don't think im less of a parent or not a good parent because "my brain wasn't done developing" I think I'm a damn good parent and sometimes better then my older SIL. I don't think age has to do with much. I raise well behaved and respectful children.
/end rant
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Eh, the only thing that finally full developed was your frontal cortex. Which should have little to nothing to do with your parenting abilities.
Not trying to get into the whole debate on substantive issues, but on the Lindsay Lindsey issue, I can definitely add! I'm Lindsey with an e. For sure. No a in there. While I don't get offended when people spell it wrong, I will give a gentle correction if it matters (to people I may see again, not at Starbucks, etc.). It's totally a pet peeve when people see my name and type it wrong! But that I don't correct bc I don't think they really care anyway.
I also love the cat gif and all of the real housewives gifs.
I also appreciate that this thread is kind of moving back in the FFFC direction.
I am also unabashedly watching Judge Judy right now.
Not trying to get into the whole debate on substantive issues, but on the Lindsay Lindsey issue, I can definitely add! I'm Lindsey with an e. For sure. No a in there. While I don't get offended when people spell it wrong, I will give a gentle correction if it matters (to people I may see again, not at Starbucks, etc.). It's totally a pet peeve when people see my name and type it wrong! But that I don't correct bc I don't think they really care anyway.
I also love the cat gif and all of the real housewives gifs.
I also appreciate that this thread is kind of moving back in the FFFC direction.
I am also unabashedly watching Judge Judy right now.
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
The bold irritates me. I was 19 when I got married and delivered my first. 23 with my second and I'll be 26 with this one. I don't think im less of a parent or not a good parent because "my brain wasn't done developing" I think I'm a damn good parent and sometimes better then my older SIL. I don't think age has to do with much. I raise well behaved and respectful children.
/end rant
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I too was 19 when I got married and had my first at 23. I'll be turning 26 when this LO is born. I'm a damn good mom and wife. I loved every single second of my first pregnancy and so far this one too. Maybe I'm not the norm or maybe @randypluskate sister isn't.
But iz jus a dum mom who haz babys b4 my brain dun delevop
My confession, I don't proofread my posts. I am horrible when it comes to grammar and spelling. I say congrats because I can't spell congratulations without struggling.
If you need me to spell any chemical or solve a hard calculus equation I am your girl. I just excel in different areas. Do I proof read professional emails and such, yes but bump posts, nope!
Feel free to judge my basic grammar, I don't care
As long as I can read the sentence I don't mind semi bad grammar. If you have a sentence like:
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
The bold irritates me. I was 19 when I got married and delivered my first. 23 with my second and I'll be 26 with this one. I don't think im less of a parent or not a good parent because "my brain wasn't done developing" I think I'm a damn good parent and sometimes better then my older SIL. I don't think age has to do with much. I raise well behaved and respectful children.
/end rant
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I too was 19 when I got married and had my first at 23. I'll be turning 26 when this LO is born. I'm a damn good mom and wife. I loved every single second of my first pregnancy and so far this one too. Maybe I'm not the norm or maybe @randypluskate sister isn't.
But im jus a dum mom who has babys b4 my brain dun delevop
Hahaha! That last sentence. That shit is funny.
Andplusalso: married at 21 and first baby at 24. Kiss my grits.
my fffc if my name is in my screen name at least spell it right! And for the record her second apology she posted as I was writing that. And has not seen it yet.
How many times does someone need to apologize? I'm just not a big fan of pot stirring, LindSAY
Hi! I've never posted here but I'm assuming it's just a bitch fest, right? If so, here goes. Apologies in advance--this is long.
I'm a first-timer but my sister's had four kids. She's always been a know-it-all, in spite of actually being quite ignorant and...dense. I love her to death (AND I MEAN DEATH SOMETIMES). We're very close but we're polar-opposites. She's a religious, right wing, Type A, suburb-loving, bigoted control freak and I'm an agnostic-at-best, progressive, Type ADD, city-loving, everyone-loving artist (stuck in a cubicle for a day job).
Ever since I told her I was pregnant, I can't say anything without her dumping heaps on unsolicited (and often incorrect) information on me. She also is quite fond of "pregnancy sucks and it's going to get so much worse and everyone who tells you otherwise is lying" diatribes. She expects me to listen to her advice over anyone else's, including my doctor's. I'm pretty sure she has Narcissistic Personality Disorder but I won't get started on that.
I wish she'd let this be MY effing pregnancy. I wish I could tell her off and unleash everything I've withheld all these years. I wish she'd stop for a moment and realize that, yes, I am her baby sister but: I got married when I was 30 and she was 21; I'm pregnant with my first at 32 and she was 24; I've had a little more time to mature. (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.) I don't need her advice or her negativity.
TLDR: My sister is a bitch and I wish a truth fairy would tell her to hold her tongue because she's not very bright.
The bold irritates me. I was 19 when I got married and delivered my first. 23 with my second and I'll be 26 with this one. I don't think im less of a parent or not a good parent because "my brain wasn't done developing" I think I'm a damn good parent and sometimes better then my older SIL. I don't think age has to do with much. I raise well behaved and respectful children.
/end rant
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I too was 19 when I got married and had my first at 23. I'll be turning 26 when this LO is born. I'm a damn good mom and wife. I loved every single second of my first pregnancy and so far this one too. Maybe I'm not the norm or maybe @randypluskate sister isn't.
But im jus a dum mom who has babys b4 my brain dun delevop
Hahaha! That last sentence. That shit is funny.
Andplusalso: married at 21 and first baby at 24. Kiss my grits.
You girls are lucky to have found your "person" so young. I was a super late bloomer - I didn't even have my first kiss until I was 21. I met my husband at 28, got married at 31, and now first baby due when I'm 32. But I wouldn't change a thing.
I'm sure being a young mom has its ups and downs. I'm willing to bet you'll have a bit more energy to play with your kids than I will - I turned 30 and instantly my body started falling apart and I am ALWAYS tired.
DH's parents were 26 with 3 kids, and they LOVED being 45 with no more kids at home.
ETA: wah, why is this so long? How do I get previous quotes to collapse like PPs posts?
My FFFC after driving home in rush hour traffic while trying not to vomit:
If you are in the wrong lane and want to merge and signal, it's nice for me to let you over (and most of the time I will) BUT a signal does not entitle you to just swerve in front of me into my lane because you think you need to be there. It's so RUDE to be in the wrong lane forever and then signal and instantly try to merge and get pissed because people won't let you in.
For the record, 99% of the time I let people in and try to be a nice, considerate driver but DAMN this just pushed my buttons tonight (symptoms have been bad today, ugh.)
Now time to catch up on the rest of the thread....
Not trying to get into the whole debate on substantive issues, but on the Lindsay Lindsey issue, I can definitely add! I'm Lindsey with an e. For sure. No a in there. While I don't get offended when people spell it wrong, I will give a gentle correction if it matters (to people I may see again, not at Starbucks, etc.). It's totally a pet peeve when people see my name and type it wrong! But that I don't correct bc I don't think they really care anyway.
I also love the cat gif and all of the real housewives gifs.
I also appreciate that this thread is kind of moving back in the FFFC direction.
I am also unabashedly watching Judge Judy right now.
I'm a Chelsie...and I completely understand why this is irritating. Plus...the right way is in her screen name...j/s.
My FFFC is that I had to go to the bathroom so I asked DH to change DD's diaper that I knew she had just filled with a number 2. I might have made my need to go to the bathroom a little exaggerated. Everyone needs a poopy diaper now and then. It keeps a person humble.
My FFFC after driving home in rush hour traffic while trying not to vomit:
If you are in the wrong lane and want to merge and signal, it's nice for me to let you over (and most of the time I will) BUT a signal does not entitle you to just swerve in front of me into my lane because you think you need to be there. It's so RUDE to be in the wrong lane forever and then signal and instantly try to merge and get pissed because people won't let you in.
For the record, 99% of the time I let people in and try to be a nice, considerate driver but DAMN this just pushed my buttons tonight (symptoms have been bad today, ugh.)
Now time to catch up on the rest of the thread....
Wow, I'm pretty sure I said I wasn't knocking getting married/having kids early. My opinion (which is what I was stating by saying, "I just think...") is biased just like everyone else's. In my large circle of family and friends, I know of only one happy couple who started straight out of high school. I grew up in a small town so there are a lot of them. My sister was engaged at 18 and she had a horrible marriage before meeting her current husband. If I married and had kids with the person I was dating in college, it would have been a disaster because I was so different then. Obviously, people, relationships and families can thrive under all kinds of circumstances. There are exceptions to all rules and beliefs. Maybe try not taking mine so personally. Forest for the trees, people.
P.S. THANK YOU to those of you who offered words of support and things that made me laugh. It's been a rough day, emotionally, and it's nice to have a place to vent (until, you know, it backfires).
Wow, I'm pretty sure I said I wasn't knocking getting married/having kids early. My opinion (which is what I was stating by saying, "I just think...") is biased just like everyone else's. In my large circle of family and friends, I know of only one happy couple who started straight out of high school. I grew up in a small town so there are a lot of them. My sister was engaged at 18 and she had a horrible marriage before meeting her current husband. If I married and had kids with the person I was dating in college, it would have been a disaster because I was so different then. Obviously, people, relationships and families can thrive under all kinds of circumstances. There are exceptions to all rules and beliefs. Maybe try not taking mine so personally. Forest for the trees, people.
But this is a "no offense but insert offensive comment here" comment
Look again (I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.)
And it also belongs in Unpopular opinion Thursday not flame free Friday confessions.
Okay, sorry I said that. I'm done. P.S. I'm also sorry I posted on the wrong theme day. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to know what all of these things are right off the bat.
Okay, sorry I said that. I'm done. P.S. I'm also sorry I posted on the wrong theme day. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to know what all of these things are right off the bat.
No worries. Instead of trying to justify, calling us mean and unhelpful you have to find a way to snark back.
Lurk often, read all the stickies (pretty sure they have our acronyms), and try to learn our posting style. Definitely don't forget to put on your big girl panties before posting.
Alright here's another, I can't stand people that do drugs and then put their two children in the car and pass out behind the wheel. And then the other type of people that stick up for these people. Does this person need help? Yes. But you loose all respect from me by putting two little innocent lives in your car and starting it up. This is literally happening on my Facebook right now.
Re: FFFC
Oh no my Theresa gif didn't post the first time here it is!
Married: October 23, 2010
DS: 8/7/2013
#2 EDD: 6/29/2016, C Section: 6/22/2016
creepy internet monkey hug to you
P.S. I kind of love everyone on here all at once which is a weird feeling. Each point made I'm like "Yeah!" until I read the next and I'm like "Totally!" and this goes on and on until I fall asleep with my phone on my face.
@randypluskate way to go and let it rip! I hope you feel better that was a lot to hold in and I have no idea how you manage to not say that to her face. I slow clap you!
Married: May 16th 2015
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I think my brain stopped developing at like 12 years old because every time my dog farts, I laugh incessantly for a very very long time.
And I was spanked and think it did me good.
Married: May 16th 2015
Not trying to get into the whole debate on substantive issues, but on the Lindsay Lindsey issue, I can definitely add! I'm Lindsey with an e. For sure. No a in there. While I don't get offended when people spell it wrong, I will give a gentle correction if it matters (to people I may see again, not at Starbucks, etc.). It's totally a pet peeve when people see my name and type it wrong! But that I don't correct bc I don't think they really care anyway.
I also love the cat gif and all of the real housewives gifs.
I also appreciate that this thread is kind of moving back in the FFFC direction.
I am also unabashedly watching Judge Judy right now.
I too was 19 when I got married and had my first at 23. I'll be turning 26 when this LO is born. I'm a damn good mom and wife. I loved every single second of my first pregnancy and so far this one too. Maybe I'm not the norm or maybe @randypluskate sister isn't.
But iz jus a dum mom who haz babys b4 my brain dun delevop
As long as I can read the sentence I don't mind semi bad grammar. If you have a sentence like:
" U r being sooooo mean. Jk luv u."
Then we might have a problem.
Andplusalso: married at 21 and first baby at 24. Kiss my grits.
July BMB May Signature Challenge
My name is LindSAY too. XD
July'16 BMB May Siggy Challenge - Star Wars:
Married: May 16th 2015
Everyone needs a poopy diaper now and then. It keeps a person humble.
Married: October 2014
TTC #1 since September 2015
Look again
(I'm not knocking getting married and having children young--I just think there's a benefit to waiting until after your brain stops developing.)
And it also belongs in Unpopular opinion Thursday not flame free Friday confessions.
Lurk often, read all the stickies (pretty sure they have our acronyms), and try to learn our posting style. Definitely don't forget to put on your big girl panties before posting.
I feel like I just walked into the highschool cafeteria.
Mmmmm....pie.
This is literally happening on my Facebook right now.
Married: May 16th 2015