I understand why OP is upset but the poster from yesterday was flamed and the post was indeed in an UO thread so it is what it is..
And she said the posts made her uncomfortable - not that someone shouldn't post it. And "several women" did not say the same.
Wow, someone posted a whole thread about my UO. I feel so special.
It's an unpopular opinion. I thought that was the point. I didn't say don't post about miscarriages I just hate reading them. And...I have a right to my opinion. I have known women who had miscarriages, they all deal with it in their own way. I personally, wouldn't post about it on an Internet forum...Me, I would rather seek comfort from my loved ones than some strangers on the Internet. Everybody is different and has their own opinions on the matter.
Btw, I didn't get my "ass handed to me" and I still stand by my original comment. There was one day where there were 4 threats of women who lost their babies. It's incredibly sad to read, especially when you've seen those women post in other places. So, yes, I hate reading them...but I still do. And each time my heart still goes out to those woman.
Geez, get a grip ladies.
I'm more upset that someone felt the need to go talk about something that happened on this bmb to another one. Makes me think they needed someone to hold their hand tell them everyone in the world isn't so snarky.
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It was one of the loss support boards. She was hurt and wanted support. I'm not saying it was right but I also think people are making a much bigger deal about it than it needs to be.
Loss sucks, it's confusing, and talking to people who get it is often he only thing that seems to make sense.
Many posters here may not like me or what I have to say but this is the internet, I am an adult, and I can handle whatever happens. I will not whine to other boards about posters in my BMB. I will be the adultiest adult that I can be.
*Steps down*
I like you! You often say what I am thinking lol #beatmetothepunch
Many posters here may not like me or what I have to say but this is the internet, I am an adult, and I can handle whatever happens. I will not whine to other boards about posters in my BMB. I will be the adultiest adult that I can be.
I understand why OP is upset but the poster from yesterday was flamed and the post was indeed in an UO thread so it is what it is..
And she said the posts made her uncomfortable - not that someone shouldn't post it. And "several women" did not say the same.
Wow, someone posted a whole thread about my UO. I feel so special.
It's an unpopular opinion. I thought that was the point. I didn't say don't post about miscarriages I just hate reading them. And...I have a right to my opinion. I have known women who had miscarriages, they all deal with it in their own way. I personally, wouldn't post about it on an Internet forum...Me, I would rather seek comfort from my loved ones than some strangers on the Internet. Everybody is different and has their own opinions on the matter.
Btw, I didn't get my "ass handed to me" and I still stand by my original comment. There was one day where there were 4 threats of women who lost their babies. It's incredibly sad to read, especially when you've seen those women post in other places. So, yes, I hate reading them...but I still do. And each time my heart still goes out to those woman.
Geez, get a grip ladies.
I'm more upset that someone felt the need to go talk about something that happened on this bmb to another one. Makes me think they needed someone to hold their hand tell them everyone in the world isn't so snarky.
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It was one of the loss support boards. She was hurt and wanted support. I'm not saying it was right but I also think people are making a much bigger deal about it than it needs to be.
Loss sucks, it's confusing, and talking to people who get it is often he only thing that seems to make sense.
Let it go.
OH MY GOD WAIT FOR IT
Can we take a moment to talk about how I just went against all that was in me to provide you with an appropriate gif?
I understand why OP is upset but the poster from yesterday was flamed and the post was indeed in an UO thread so it is what it is..
And she said the posts made her uncomfortable - not that someone shouldn't post it. And "several women" did not say the same.
Wow, someone posted a whole thread about my UO. I feel so special.
It's an unpopular opinion. I thought that was the point. I didn't say don't post about miscarriages I just hate reading them. And...I have a right to my opinion. I have known women who had miscarriages, they all deal with it in their own way. I personally, wouldn't post about it on an Internet forum...Me, I would rather seek comfort from my loved ones than some strangers on the Internet. Everybody is different and has their own opinions on the matter.
Btw, I didn't get my "ass handed to me" and I still stand by my original comment. There was one day where there were 4 threats of women who lost their babies. It's incredibly sad to read, especially when you've seen those women post in other places. So, yes, I hate reading them...but I still do. And each time my heart still goes out to those woman.
Geez, get a grip ladies.
I'm more upset that someone felt the need to go talk about something that happened on this bmb to another one. Makes me think they needed someone to hold their hand tell them everyone in the world isn't so snarky.
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It was one of the loss support boards. She was hurt and wanted support. I'm not saying it was right but I also think people are making a much bigger deal about it than it needs to be.
Loss sucks, it's confusing, and talking to people who get it is often he only thing that seems to make sense.
Let it go.
I'm flaming people that go to other boards because they don't like what's going on in their bmb's instead of just being an adult and saying they don't agree with something. I don't care because that's going to be my FFFC.
Well I'm perfectly content to complain about you all to your faces.
(Aside, someone put nuts in these freaking no-bake cookies! Who does that! I didn't expect nuts! I expected oats and peanut butter and chocolate! This is stressful!)
I like to think of this as girls night, and we're all at the bar bitching about our week. Though there are some that I would clearly not invite to girls night.
My fffc: somehow I maneuvered my sleeping son out of his car seat, got him inside, took off his shoes, jacket, and fleece (it's cold here), without him waking. Then when I'm finally getting him into the crib I totally smashed his fingers between my bloated belly and the crib. I just got him back to sleep 2 hours later. Ugh!
Lame fffc I know, but really wanted to post this onesie... it's for those who were annoyed with others unwanted advice (I just caught up on UO)
Well I'm perfectly content to complain about you all to your faces.
(Aside, someone put nuts in these freaking no-bake cookies! Who does that! I didn't expect nuts! I expected oats and peanut butter and chocolate! This is stressful!)
(ps. ate it anyway)
Some psychopath at your office is feeling pretty proud of themselves for tricking everyone
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
*edited because words are hard!
Hey, it's cool. Eventually, no one will remember what you said. It's just sort of frowned upon to talk about us behind our virtual backs, you know? I have no hard feelings. Please come back to the fold and disregard those that upset you.
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
*edited because words are hard!
I didn't even notice you posted anything on that thread, I thought it was the person that started the thread from the start. You can still come to girls night if you want.
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
*edited because words are hard!
Hey, it's cool. Eventually, no one will remember what you said. It's just sort of frowned upon to talk about us behind our virtual backs, you know? I have no hard feelings. Please come back to the fold and disregard those that upset you.
Understandably so. I can forgive and forget BUT instead of posting 1 thing on another board about how I'm frustrated I think I'm just going to start calling people out over here! I might become the bitch of the board but meh.
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
*edited because words are hard!
Hey, it's cool. Eventually, no one will remember what you said. It's just sort of frowned upon to talk about us behind our virtual backs, you know? I have no hard feelings. Please come back to the fold and disregard those that upset you.
Understandably so. I can forgive and forget BUT instead of posting 1 thing on another board about how I'm frustrated I think I'm just going to start calling people out over here! I might become the bitch of the board but meh.
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
*edited because words are hard!
This might be nit-picky but oh well. You didn't say you didn't like the July bmb as much as you like the June bmb. You said, "I don't like the July bmb." Word mixing, yes, but they do have significantly different connotations. I don't think people would have been as upset if you said, "I don't like the July bmb board as much as I like the June bmb board." It would have seemed like less of an attack. Just my two cents.
Can someone come up with an actual flame worthy topic or at least completely overreact and go shithouse crazy about it? Makes me miss the ole TTGP FFFC when someone mentioned how they hate warm weather and love the cold weather and fast forward 30 minutes later the person was getting flamed for liking people getting killed in snowstorms and icy road related car crashes. Shit was epic.
My fffc I'm tired of playing nice all the time to everyone in my life. My hormones have me feeling bitchy and I'm done hand holding. While I will give support on here to ladies, I too had to experience tough love. no I didn't go bitch and moan on another board that I got called out or I don't like what someone said. Don't like something call them out on it or move on. Enough of the petty ish! So here is my message to entire world today! Eta: words got jumbled
Hi everybody!! I'm the one who said I don't like the July bmb as much as a like the June bmb! Which as others have stated is my opinion that I'm entitled to! I posted it on the other board simply because I'm not in the mood to start drama over here because there are people that I really do like over here (@ButterMyBiscuit I'm looking at you! Seriously you crack me up!). I personally feel like right now the June bmb is more my taste and fitting for what I'm Going through. I have no problem telling people that I don't agree with them or flat out don't like them and if you'd like me to Id be more than happy to start tagging people! But like I said before it's not my intention to start unnecessary drama where it's not needed seems how we are all adults who are going through the stress of pregnancy and don't need the added sh!t.
*edited because words are hard!
This might be nit-picky but oh well. You didn't say you didn't like the July bmb as much as you like the June bmb. You said, "I don't like the July bmb." Word mixing, yes, but they do have significantly different connotations. I don't think people would have been as upset if you said, "I don't like the July bmb board as much as I like the June bmb board." It would have seemed like less of an attack. Just my two cents.
I can agree I should have phrased it better. It wasn't my intention to come off as an attack but as I'm sure all of us know words can be hard especially when we have pregnacy brain and typing and actually hearing words is just not the same!
You can flame me when I admit that I am one of those people who literally drives 5 mph on icy/snowy roads. I drive like a little old lady and I don't give a shit if you don't like it. Go around me and end up in a ditch, see if I care. People hate me. I've started making my husband drive me to work on days like that.
Can someone come up with an actual flame worthy topic or at least completely overreact and go shithouse crazy about it? Makes me miss the ole TTGP FFFC when someone mentioned how they hate warm weather and love the cold weather and fast forward 30 minutes later the person was getting flamed for liking people getting killed in snowstorms and icy road related car crashes. Shit was epic.
I've noticed on instagram a lot of the yuppie mom's(use that term loosely because I'm kinda yuppie), hate on woman that decide they want to circumcise their sons. I didn't even realize people thought doing that was a bad thing, but I hate that type of judgmental crap. Does that count as a better FFFC?
I can agree I should have phrased it better. It wasn't my intention to come off as an attack but as I'm sure all of us know words can be hard especially when we have pregnacy brain and typing and actually hearing words is just not the same!
I'm okay with this explanation and, honestly, was never that put off. You're all good in my book.
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It was one of the loss support boards. She was hurt and wanted support. I'm not saying it was right but I also think people are making a much bigger deal about it than it needs to be.
Loss sucks, it's confusing, and talking to people who get it is often he only thing that seems to make sense.
Let it go.
I like you! You often say what I am thinking lol #beatmetothepunch
Married: October 23, 2010
DS: 8/7/2013
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Eta: gif fail
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*edited because words are hard!
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Understandably so. I can forgive and forget
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Married: October 23, 2010
DS: 8/7/2013
#2 EDD: 6/29/2016, C Section: 6/22/2016
Can someone come up with an actual flame worthy topic or at least completely overreact and go shithouse crazy about it? Makes me miss the ole TTGP FFFC when someone mentioned how they hate warm weather and love the cold weather and fast forward 30 minutes later the person was getting flamed for liking people getting killed in snowstorms and icy road related car crashes. Shit was epic.
I can agree I should have phrased it better. It wasn't my intention to come off as an attack but as I'm sure all of us know words can be hard especially when we have pregnacy brain and typing and actually hearing words is just not the same!
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Married: May 16th 2015
Married: October 23, 2010
DS: 8/7/2013
#2 EDD: 6/29/2016, C Section: 6/22/2016