UO Thursday 10/8

aamm04 · October 2015

Let's hear those Unpopular Opinions.

aamm04 · October 2015

I don't think 72 hours is enough of a waiting period for new members.

yogahh · October 2015

I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?

Bluejay3030 · October 2015

yogahh said:
I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?

I agree with the sentiment for the most part, but they sure as hell come in handy on an airplane, or if you need to drag them with you to a dr appointment. Speaking from personal experience

vinerie · October 2015

I'm getting very tired of the hysteria on this board! Ugh! Why is every little thing punctuated with "I'm freaking out!" Maybe I don't have the right mom gene or something, but I'm not freaking out about anything (good or bad) with this pg, and I don't like being whipped into hysterics, either. I think everyone needs to calm the F down.

Bluejay3030 · October 2015

My UO is that, although I don't like to bad mouth a woman who has overcome adversity and become a success in her field, I just can't get onboard with Hillary Clinton. I don't know why, but she just seems so slimy to me, and when I hear her talk she epitomizes everything I hate about politicians. Not to say that others are necessarily better, but there's just something about her that gives me the creeps. I'm bummed to admit it, because I tried really hard to be a fan even if I don't agree with all of her politics.

TheThornBird · October 2015

I don't get the big deal over Adam Levine. He's not good looking, and his voice is weird.

JessicaB0627 · October 2015

yogahh said:
I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?

My DD is not allowed to play with electronics. But a lot of elementary schools are using iPads and I'm actually worried that she'll be behind in school because she can't operate one. Not worried enough to let her play with one though!

vinerie · October 2015

yogahh I'm with you 100%.

countrygrl5533 · October 2015

Bluejay3030 said:

I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play. This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening.... My kids are going to hate me, huh?
I agree with the sentiment for the most part, but they sure as hell come in handy on an airplane, or if you need to drag them with you to a dr appointment. Speaking from personal experience

This. I don't allow electronics on a regular basis but doc appts when she can't focus on books anymore, that day a 1 hr trip to Pep Boys turned into 6 hours, long car rides when she just can't function anymore and is bored with all her car toys/books, etc. I like to think of technology/electronics as a good tool to use in moderation. But yes, I know kids that are attached them all the time. That's crazy.

laurenmdrn16 · October 2015

There have been a few stories in the news (not like the serious news, but lighter local stuff) about diners yelling at and/or telling off parents with kids who make noise in restaurants. While I definitely understand how frustrating it is to have a screaming kid at the table next to you, the people who say "Well MY kid never acted like that!" or the people who don't have kids who say "MY kid would never act like that!" are either lying or delusional. I won't lie, we have worked very hard on manners at home and so my son is USUALLY very well behaved when out and about, but he's a kid. If the restaurant is loud, he is going to be loud. If he is hangry, no amount of snacks or toys will keep him from getting upset. My mom used to always say that we were perfect angels when we were at restaurants, but only recently admitted that there were a few horror stories too. And to those who say "Just leave!" have you ever paid good money for a meal and then just walked out? I will take my son for a time-out, but make it clear that mommy doesn't need the time-out because I was behaving well. And if your kid is hungry, do you really think taking them away from their food will improve matters? So I guess my UO is that if you are at a family restaurant, expect FAMILIES, which includes young children. Don't write passive aggressive notes to haggard moms and dads, don't yell at them to get out of your diner, don't yell at the kid or make snide comments. If you must, just discreetly ask your server or manager if you can move to a different table.

beff12 · October 2015

RAMZI THEORY IS NOT A THING

I realize this will only be unpopular with a few. But come on.

Bluejay3030 · October 2015

JessicaB0627 said:

yogahh said:
I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?
My DD is not allowed to play with electronics. But a lot of elementary schools are using iPads and I'm actually worried that she'll be behind in school because she can't operate one. Not worried enough to let her play with one though!

@JessicaB0627 - I give major props to anyone who has a kid and has stuck to this philosophy 100%. Kudos to you!

lest12 · October 2015

I don't really mind letting my son play with my phone here and there. He sees us using them all the time and is curious about what they are and how they work. However, he is 16 months and I more let him look and try to understand it then give it to him to actually play with, like a video game, as opposed to a more appropriate toy or playing outside.

lest12 · October 2015

My UO is that pregnant women should get a break. I'm not into being a martyr when I'm pregnant. I feel like crap, I'm exhausted and just not 100%. People around me are going to have to adjust their expectations accordingly.

This may be directed at my boss, who needs to calm the eff down.

lest12 · October 2015

My 3rd and maybe final UO (no promises) is that I know the Ramzi theory is whatever, but I don't care if people want to have those posts. Same with HDBD, even if it is bloat.

It doesn't need to be so serious all the time.

katykatykaty · October 2015

yogahh said:

I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play. This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening.... My kids are going to hate me, huh?

I love statements like these and the judgment by non-parents. Just wait! The sentiment is nice, though.

My UO is that I think it's ridiculous that people get mad when someone says they're looking forward to finding out the sex from the first trimester screening. It doesn't matter WHY they are having the test. Even if that's the only reason, at least they're doing the test and will find out about possible issues. I much prefer that to the "I'm not doing the screening because it wouldn't change anything" head in the sand mentality.

yogahh · October 2015

TheThornBird said:

I don't get the big deal over Adam Levine. He's not good looking, and his voice is weird.

Couldn't agree more. Ugly, and way too feminine to be attractive IMO...

beff12 · October 2015

I never said people can't post their Ramzi theory questions. It's just that 99% of us here aren't ultrasound techs and have no clue what we're looking at. It'll be just as much "fun" as when people post their further along U/S pictures and demand that we tell them if their baby is a boy or girl.

nsouplynn · October 2015

katykatykaty said:

yogahh said:

I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play. This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening.... My kids are going to hate me, huh?

I love statements like these and the judgment by non-parents. Just wait! The sentiment is nice, though.
My UO is that I think it's ridiculous that people get mad when someone says they're looking forward to finding out the sex from the first trimester screening. It doesn't matter WHY they are having the test. Even if that's the only reason, at least they're doing the test and will find out about possible issues. I much prefer that to the "I'm not doing the screening because it wouldn't change anything" head in the sand mentality.

I use to say the same thing about iPad/iPhone/TV for kids till I had my kid. They came in handy during the time you need it the most. (Cleaning the house or even if you just need to lay down for a bit) It's all about moderation. My daughter is pretty active for the most part but sometimes a little unwinding down on the iPad after a hectic day helps.

mariaalene · October 2015

I think if you have no interest in ramzi or guessing sex on US then don't respond. Why are you even reading the thread if you're not interested. (Not pointing at you beff12 at all. I don't know if you've posted or not). If you don't care, fine. If you think it's a crock of crap (which it prob is), fine. But some ppl do want to play those dumb cutsie games. Some ppl like doing those old wives tales even tho we all know it's bs. If they wanted medical answers they'd go to a medical dr. Not a random board of strangers. And I don't remember anyone demanding anything. No one is obligated to answer or respond to anything.

This place is so cold and has a sterile atmosphere. It's grown into just a place for ppl to bitch and complain and not for fun and support. And that's sad

yogahh · October 2015

mariaalene said:

This place is so cold and has a sterile atmosphere. It's grown into just a place for ppl to bitch and complain and not for fun and support. And that's sad

I was actually thinking about this the other day. All of our daily posts are about complaints- Bitchfest Monday, WTF Weds, UO Thursday. I was going to suggest a weekly POSITIVE thread. Maybe, Say Thanks Saturday. Anyone in?

mariaalene · October 2015

yogahh said:
I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?

Totally agree with you and No they will not hate you. They will love you for the discipline and opportunities you give them. They will love you for being the fun mom that lets them explore in the bushes and do paper mâché and science experiments and get messy.

(Already a parent and I do this. So don't need the "just wait". It can be done)

Bluejay3030 · October 2015

yogahh said:

mariaalene said:

This place is so cold and has a sterile atmosphere. It's grown into just a place for ppl to bitch and complain and not for fun and support. And that's sad

I was actually thinking about this the other day. All of our daily posts are about complaints- Bitchfest Monday, WTF Weds, UO Thursday. I was going to suggest a weekly POSITIVE thread. Maybe, Say Thanks Saturday. Anyone in?

@yogahh - so glad you suggested this. I was feeling this way, too, but I'm still learning my way around and didn't feel like messing with the system. I'm totally for a positive thread one day!

mhc13 · October 2015

yogahh said:
I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?

Do you have kids? My kid can watch all the tv or play on my iPad if it means I can get a break every once in a while. I have 22 month old and kids her age need constant supervision. If something quietly occupies her for a period of time I'm 100% for it!

vinerie · October 2015

yogahh said:

mariaalene said:

This place is so cold and has a sterile atmosphere. It's grown into just a place for ppl to bitch and complain and not for fun and support. And that's sad

I was actually thinking about this the other day. All of our daily posts are about complaints- Bitchfest Monday, WTF Weds, UO Thursday. I was going to suggest a weekly POSITIVE thread. Maybe, Say Thanks Saturday. Anyone in?

Yes, I think this relates to my UO today. The board facilitates complaints or being whipped into a frenzy. There aren't threads about daily successes. We need that, I think.

lest12 · October 2015

I like Say Thanks Saturday. We should have a mid-week one too. Something to get us through the M - F blahs.

katykatykaty · October 2015

mariaalene said:

I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play. This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening.... My kids are going to hate me, huh?
Totally agree with you and No they will not hate you. They will love you for the discipline and opportunities you give them. They will love you for being the fun mom that lets them explore in the bushes and do paper mâché and science experiments and get messy. (Already a parent and I do this. So don't need the "just wait". It can be done)

Ha. I do all those things with my kids, too. But it's hard to do paper mache and play in the bushes when you've been confined in a tiny doctor's office for 45 minutes. Like someone else said, everything in moderation.

JessicaB0627 · October 2015

katykatykaty said:

mariaalene said:

yogahh said:
I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play.
This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening....
My kids are going to hate me, huh?
Totally agree with you and No they will not hate you. They will love you for the discipline and opportunities you give them. They will love you for being the fun mom that lets them explore in the bushes and do paper mâché and science experiments and get messy.

(Already a parent and I do this. So don't need the "just wait". It can be done)

Ha. I do all those things with my kids, too. But it's hard to do paper mache and play in the bushes when you've been confined in a tiny doctor's office for 45 minutes. Like someone else said, everything in moderation.

-----qbf-----

I've worked extremely hard to teach my 2.5 yo that there are times in life where she doesn't need to be entertained. Like sitting in a doctor's office. I don't want her to ever think that she "needs" something in front of her, like an iPad, to be satisfied. She could sit and read books all day if I let her and she has an amazing imagination that she uses to entertain herself when I can't. I understand some people let their kids play with iPads and that's fine, that's your choice, but don't act like it's impossible not to and people can't do otherwise.

mariaalene · October 2015

Great ideas guys! Def 2 a week at least.

mariaalene · October 2015

@katykatykaty. So tru. You can never say never. One day you'll get a flat tire and be waiting on the side of the road for 3 hours for AAA with a screaming kid and anyone would say "here just play with my phone" for everyone's sanity. Although I guess you could always sing songs or play I spy. Just trying to think of things I did before game boys came out.

katykatykaty · October 2015

I've worked extremely hard to teach my 2.5 yo that there are times in life where she doesn't need to be entertained. Like sitting in a doctor's office. I don't want her to ever think that she "needs" something in front of her, like an iPad, to be satisfied. She could sit and read books all day if I let her and she has an amazing imagination that she uses to entertain herself when I can't. I understand some people let their kids play with iPads and that's fine, that's your choice, but don't act like it's impossible not to and people can't do otherwise.

You win the parenting award!!! Congratulations!!!

saladflambe · October 2015

It is appropriate to start listening to Christmas music in October. $:\$ ">

LadySamLady · October 2015

vinerie said:

yogahh said:

mariaalene said:

This place is so cold and has a sterile atmosphere. It's grown into just a place for ppl to bitch and complain and not for fun and support. And that's sad

I was actually thinking about this the other day. All of our daily posts are about complaints- Bitchfest Monday, WTF Weds, UO Thursday. I was going to suggest a weekly POSITIVE thread. Maybe, Say Thanks Saturday. Anyone in?

Yes, I think this relates to my UO today. The board facilitates complaints or being whipped into a frenzy. There aren't threads about daily successes. We need that, I think.

I would LOVE this. It would be refreshing and healthy for everyone to focus on the positives and the excitement. Great idea!!!!!!!!!

Bluejay3030 · October 2015

saladflambe said:
It is appropriate to start listening to Christmas music in October. $:\$ ">

@saladflambe - Yes, yes, and yes.

laurenmdrn16 · October 2015

Yo, ladies. I just made a Positivity Post. Check it out

Jesse835235 · October 2015

My UO is that I'm tired of the "oh you just wait" snarky attitude. I get that it's not fair for someone who hasn't parented to think that they have all the answers, but similarly, I don't think it's fair for one parent to put down someone else's ideas just because it didn't pan out for them. I also can't stand hearing things like, "you will have no life after you have a kid" and "you and your husband will hate each other for at least a year after the baby is born." Those are serious things that people have told me....

lisaren · October 2015

My kid plays on my iPhone, watches TV, and my oldest was raised on Teletubbies (okay not literally, but damn those little creatures came in handy when I needed to get stuff done!!) and I'm all about positive affirmations but if this places becomes unicorns shitting rainbows then it will lose the very breeding ground which makes it THE BUMP!!! Meh.

I want to throat punch women who blame pregnancy hormones on their behavior.. if you're being a bitch, own it. If you'r being whiny, own it.

countrygrl5533 · October 2015

Jesse835235 said:

My UO is that I'm tired of the "oh you just wait" snarky attitude. I get that it's not fair for someone who hasn't parented to think that they have all the answers, but similarly, I don't think it's fair for one parent to put down someone else's ideas just because it didn't pan out for them. I also can't stand hearing things like, "you will have no life after you have a kid" and "you and your husband will hate each other for at least a year after the baby is born." Those are serious things that people have told me....

I hate those too. Frankly, having a kid didn't slow me down much. Life changed, yes, but didn't stop or slow down. I still go and do all the time. Sometimes with kid in tow (when appropriate), sometimes with kiddo at the grandparents'/babysitter's house. My marriage (and *cough cough* sex life) actually has been better since having a child. That may not be true for everyone but the mindset of "life stops when you have a kid" needs to change.

nsouplynn · October 2015

I want to throat-punch people when they tell me that "caring for dogs and babies are basically the same thing". NO. GTFO with that crap.

ceeesprof · October 2015

JessicaB0627 said:

I don't believe in giving kids iPads or phones for entertainment. You're bored? Here's a coloring book. Need something to do? Go outside and play. This world is too wrapped up in tech gadgets, it's actually frightening.... My kids are going to hate me, huh?
My DD is not allowed to play with electronics. But a lot of elementary schools are using iPads and I'm actually worried that she'll be behind in school because she can't operate one. Not worried enough to let her play with one though!

@JessicaB0627: iPads are practically designed for young kids to use. Your DD will probably get the hang of it quickly! I've often suspected if they weren't a testing group...

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