hi, I have a problem wif my mil she baby sits my 20 month all from Monday to Friday as I work, right from wen my d was 6 months I went back to work I have to get her up at 6 every morning and don't get home til about 6. My problem is that my mil doesn't make her have a nap throught the day says she doesn't want to up set her but by the end of the week my girl is so tried n cranky.. I've tried tellin my mil that's she just needs a sleep and just lay her down n walk out but she won't. Wat can I do?
Re: Nap problems
You need to give your MIL clear direction and you and your partner need to be on the same page- I'm surprised your partner won't talk to his mother.
And if it's not working out with your MIL as the other advised find someone else- at least part time.
Why does your MIL think she doesn't need to nap? Does your MIL notice how cranky your LO is at the end of the day?
Your H needs to grow and pair and talk to his mom. If not, get a new daycare provider.