I have no words. I just, wow. One day you'll have to stand before God for your actions and words, and I would hate to be in your shoes explaining why you wished death on innocent human beings.
I have no words. I just, wow. One day you'll have to stand before God for your actions and words, and I would hate to be in your shoes explaining why you wished death on innocent human beings.
Yeah. God doesn't approve of your shenanigans. I asked.
Avid babywearing, breastfeeding, vaccinating, SAHM of M ~ 12/11 and S ~6/13.
Married New Year's Day 2013
Previously Clizh, bumping since 2009 and still mourning my platinum medal.
I have no words.
I just, wow. One day you'll have to stand before God for your actions and words, and I would hate to be in your shoes explaining why you wished death on innocent human beings.
Yeah. God doesn't approve of your shenanigans. I asked.
Maybe the admins are enjoying us tearing her to shreds for her awful comment before they shut down the thread. It was a horrible thing to say.
Nope... I just had an epiphany! Lacey has them all locked in her basement. She strikes me as the "it puts the lotion on the skin, or else it gets the hose again" type.
You know, these internet forms are full of individual women across the world who may never see eye to eye on all things. What one might perceive as snark or sarcasm is not the same as bullying. You, ma'am, are the epitome of the bacteria of the shit I stepped in. How dare you wish a loss of someone's unborn baby on them & turn around to try and justify it by stating that they're great fighting words. In the U.S. Constitution fighting words are not protected under free speech and you can be imprisoned for that kind of talk.
No matter if these ladies get along 100% of the time or not, not one of them would wish that sort of tragedy on another, even in jest.
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Odd that three, maybe four comments poking fun at feeling your baby move early (not even directed at you!) make you feel bullied enough to call us all bitches and tell us our babies should die, but three pages of us telling you to get out doesn't phase you.
Maybe the admins are enjoying us tearing her to shreds for her awful comment before they shut down the thread. It was a horrible thing to say.
Nope... I just had an epiphany! Lacey has them all locked in her basement. She strikes me as the "it puts the lotion on the skin, or else it gets the hose again" type.
I've mc'd 4 times.... I know what it's like, and it sucks! Wishing it on my enemy, I truly wouldn't, them just good fightin words. Please be better to each other in future discussions. I hope I shed some light on your own actions.
Um No!!! It just sucked?? Seriously? It didn't break your heart and crush your dreams. It didn't leave you with fear? Because I can tell you, " it sucked" would be the last way I described having a miscarriage.
You're a delusional sociopath. To wish what you did. Disgusting.
Maybe the admins are enjoying us tearing her to shreds for her awful comment before they shut down the thread. It was a horrible thing to say.
Nope... I just had an epiphany! Lacey has them all locked in her basement. She strikes me as the "it puts the lotion on the skin, or else it gets the hose again" type.
So @BumpAdmin, I think we need to chat. You all clock out, nice. Makes sense, paid job probably salaried, no overtime. Days done? Go home to your family. Odd... see this forum is most active outside of "work" hours. When we are home with our families, or sleepless nights and go to each other for support. Oh! But if some sociopath hops on threatening people's unborn children, stirring up horribly upsetting buried feelings or even worse, pouring salt in fresh wounds... they get to do it. They get free reign from what 5pm to 8am? 9am? Until our lovely paid admins leave their happy world's to come back and mod on the clock. This wouldn't have happened with peer admins. /dropsmic
Avid babywearing, breastfeeding, vaccinating, SAHM of M ~ 12/11 and S ~6/13.
Married New Year's Day 2013
Previously Clizh, bumping since 2009 and still mourning my platinum medal.
Maybe the admins are enjoying us tearing her to shreds for her awful comment before they shut down the thread. It was a horrible thing to say.
Nope... I just had an epiphany! Lacey has them all locked in her basement. She strikes me as the "it puts the lotion on the skin, or else it gets the hose again" type.
You have to be a troll. No woman would say this sh*t. My hubs called it a while ago, your have to be a man in a wife beater sitting behind the computer.
The first mc crushed me and left me feeling an emptiness in my heart. They did get easier each time though because I became desensitized to losing them. It is what it is and there was nothing I or anyone else could do to change it.
I don't even have anything left to say to you. I just don't want any of your comments to mysteriously disappear.
The first mc crushed me and left me feeling an emptiness in my heart. They did get easier each time though because I became desensitized to losing them. It is what it is and there was nothing I or anyone else could do to change it.
Just STOP please. What you're saying is an abomination to any woman who's had the misfortune of experiencing multiple losses. Where's the admin at??
I have no words. I just, wow. One day you'll have to stand before God for your actions and words, and I would hate to be in your shoes explaining why you wished death on innocent human beings.
Yeah. God doesn't approve of your shenanigans. I asked.
LMFAO okay, that got me
Avid babywearing, breastfeeding, vaccinating, SAHM of M ~ 12/11 and S ~6/13.
Married New Year's Day 2013
Previously Clizh, bumping since 2009 and still mourning my platinum medal.
The first mc crushed me and left me feeling an emptiness in my heart. They did get easier each time though because I became desensitized to losing them. It is what it is and there was nothing I or anyone else could do to change it.
I don't even have anything left to say to you. I just don't want any of your comments to mysteriously disappear.
Exactly. Document it all. TB never forgets.
Avid babywearing, breastfeeding, vaccinating, SAHM of M ~ 12/11 and S ~6/13.
Married New Year's Day 2013
Previously Clizh, bumping since 2009 and still mourning my platinum medal.
Holy crap I leave this thread for a few hours and come back to this. I've reported her too and I'm seriously wondering why she's still here. Why would you stick around after saying things like this? You say it's because you wanted to "go out with a bang" Congrats, BANG GTFO!!
Firstly, I didn't call you all of those things, the latter two are referring to what you and your little click are doing to other people. Secondly, it is not scientifically impossible- unlikely and definitely not "kicks"- but not impossible to feel quickening. No one can tell the OP what she was or wasn't feeling, and she seems unphased by the lot of negativity, which is great. Thirdly, um yeah, I was being made fun of because I said you can feel it sooner and sooner- I was not implying that I am feeling it at 8 weeks but everyone can take it how they will. I'm over that. Aside: I am just not sure how it gets to this level when you put a bunch of women together- there need not be a survival of the fittest mentality among a freakin pregnancy board. All I was originally stating in my first reply is we should be a little more supportive, and that snark and sarcasm do not need to be used to tear people down, but everyone neglected to read that. So, in conclusion, before I go crawl back to my hole: Why don't you just go fucking miscarry you stupid bitches!?! Bye, Felicia!
@lacey4kid As a woman who has lost three babies since March, I can tell you that IMHO you do not deserve a place in this community. To tell other women in their first trimester to "go and miscarry" is beyond appalling. It shows your character is likely that of a sociopath. I'm not a psychiatrist and I cannot make a diagnosis, however, I can tell you that the display of such behavior indicates a serious disorder.
I'm not trying to be mean to you, I'm trying to help you. I really think that you should go get a consultation with a psychiatrist.
ETA- I am also a lurker. I forgot to post that in the heat of reading this insanity! Sorry.
The first mc crushed me and left me feeling an emptiness in my heart. They did get easier each time though because I became desensitized to losing them. It is what it is and there was nothing I or anyone else could do to change it.
OMG! I can't believe that you're just digging your hole deeper with that shovel. @BumpAdmin please shut this down!
And I'm sorry but, "it is what it is," is A saying that means nothing. Have you ever in your life heard anybody say "it is what it is not?"
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Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
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I just, wow. One day you'll have to stand before God for your actions and words, and I would hate to be in your shoes explaining why you wished death on innocent human beings.
DD1 born 11/2014
DD2 born 6/2016
Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
No matter if these ladies get along 100% of the time or not, not one of them would wish that sort of tragedy on another, even in jest.
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DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
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Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
DD1 born 11/2014
DD2 born 6/2016
You're a delusional sociopath. To wish what you did. Disgusting.
Bunny: 10.9.13
Jellybean #2 Due: 2.1.16
F16 July Siggy Challenge: Favorite Summer Activity
Hiking and Baseball Games with the Fam
LMFAO okay, that got me
Exactly. Document it all. TB never forgets.
I'm not trying to be mean to you, I'm trying to help you. I really think that you should go get a consultation with a psychiatrist.
ETA- I am also a lurker. I forgot to post that in the heat of reading this insanity! Sorry.
And I'm sorry but, "it is what it is," is A saying that means nothing. Have you ever in your life heard anybody say "it is what it is not?"