Ok ladies, first time Mommy here. Is it normal to start seeing a bump @ 9 weeks? I haven't been eating anything irregular..bc well I have no appetite actually....I drink a normal amount of fluids...so I am curious as to whether its water weight or if I'm really showing!? Being that this is my first baby, I am so excited to start showing, but I don't want to show it if It's not supposed to show yet!
Re: Baby bump @ 9 weeks??
You do not have a bump. Its bloat. The bump will come later.
Science would disagree with you.
Pregnancy slow down the digestive system, and you are retaining water.
I doubt your OB was 4 weeks off with your due date. Either way you didn't have a bump at 10.5 weeks and I doubt you has a visible bump at 14 weeks.
FWIW, I delivered a 6lb 3 oz baby at 33 weeks.
Do you have to be so nasty? It's not cute and secondly there is nothing that says it is defiantly bloat. Everything I've read has said most likely. I've also read that depending on if this is your first child,weight, how many you're having etc determines how soon you start to show. And seeing that every pregnancy differs (which is how science puts it) then it is more than possible to show this soon.
Ugh...she wasn't saying to OP what the hell do you know, she was imitating people who think they are the exception to scientific facts. Also, grown women should be more concerned about demonstrating their intelligence than worried about what's "cute". Get with the century.
I thought we were supposed to be giving factual, scientific advice? I personally think it's considerably more supportive to give accurate answers. Telling you what you want to hear to make you feel warm & fuzzy isn't supportive. It's yes-man pandering.
I am showing posters respect by treating them with honesty.
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I am not disputing giving factual advice but does that advice have to be given in a belittling obnoxious way? Can't you just say I get that you want it to be the baby showing cause that is exciting but it's unfortunatly just gas. Give to time and the baby will show. Do you have to talk to the person like there desire to be showing makes them an idiot? Yes facts are facts and yes factual evidence is the most important thing but you don't have to be rude about it. So you can try to justify your lack of patients with commentary about how if someone doesn't believe what you are saying you need to force it down their throat but you won't convince me that that is necessary. If someone hears your fact and ignores it that is their problem not yours so don't get so angry about it.
*tiptoes out the room*
What did you think was the purpose of the 72-hour waiting period before posting was for? It's to lurk and get a feel for the community. This board doesn't hand-hold, coddle or give false hope.
DS2: BFP 02/09/13 | EDD 10/26/13 | said goodbye 06/02/13
LFAF Summer 2016 Awards:
•What do you want glitter, sparkles, puppies, unicorns and rainbows and squeal "OH MY GOODNESS! Congratulations on showing at only 8 weeks! Eeeeekkk!" If you want fantasy world may need to find some place else. Sorry you do not like TRUE FACTS!
•Get with the century.
•There appears to be a magic BMB where everyone is showing early.
All of these comments are sarcastic and over the top. Yes people on here need to hear facts. The point of this community is that woman who are have questions that they might feel silly, shy or embarrassed about asking their doctor can ask here is a safe environment. I think and this is just my opinion that facts should be told and it is important to let people know what is scientifically valid and what's not but I don't think for people in here especially first time mothers to want people to be kind in their responses is "man-pandering". People keep saying this community isn't for hand holding.. I don't get that. Preganancy is so scary! Especially if you are someone that has been trying for a long time! There is little else as scary and confusing as being pregnant! You are so vulnerable! If there was any community that should embrace hand holding it should be this one!
I am done arguing. I am not even sure why I bothered to comment. I guess I just feel like some people (not everyone) are lacking some sympathy and understanding. Do I think this person is actually showing? No. Do I think hearing that it is either gas, water or weight gain is the truth and what should be said, yes. But telling someone they need to get with the century?! No I don't think that is necessary!
DS2: BFP 02/09/13 | EDD 10/26/13 | said goodbye 06/02/13
Really are some egotistical people on this site! Believe what you want to believe, if it gives you some kind of comfort to think that your baby is showing early, then you hold that thought close to your heart and don't let anyone tell you different :-)
Unbelievable that people think they have the right to talk to others like they have on this post. Such a shame.
I do not understand how people think their bodies are so special, that rules, physics and science does not count to them. It is not egotistical, it is real life. If I had a friend, who at 9 weeks was like "OMG, I am totally showing.. Look at my bump", I would and I have save "no, that is bloat". And you know what, when the real bump comes, they come back and say "yeah, you were right".
People can live in their little special rose colored world. That is fine. But that does not mean the rest of society has to stand there and just stare at them for not having basic understanding on how their body/life works.
DS2: BFP 02/09/13 | EDD 10/26/13 | said goodbye 06/02/13
Before your 12 weeks the baby is tucked under your pelvis. However some people may develop a bump sooner then others ... But not at 9 weeks.
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