the other one is getting old. (i made sure to check, the week is over)
and i thought this was a very good thread topic.
ive been talking to my sister lately and things with DH have been quite rocky also..
my sister said that having a baby makes things worse/more comlicated.. and honestly with the way things are going lately i fear that the baby will cause things to fall apart between me and DH im really worried and i definitely dont want that to happen.. it just sucks and now i feel even more emotional that i did before..
Re: New worries and anxiety for the week.
Wahh. I'm feeling very sorry for myself tonight. Poor DH. I need an attitude readjustment.
It is Jewish law to save the mother over the child (until the baby is outside the womb, then they are considered equals). That is perhaps not relevant to you personally, but I myself find it comforting.
@JessHeppell DH and are under a lot of stress with his career. I saw your other post and sympathize. I wonder about how we will do with the stress of a baby, but I'm sure you have some real fears. I hope you and DH are able to come together.
@karaelaine1991 I would really hate to be in your spot right now. I'd swap family members, I like my FIL, probably not enough to have him staying here now, but I wouldn't worry about it as much as having my own dad here. Just the thought fills me with anxiety. I hope he leaves soon!
@upandbelow my DH has talked with me about his concerns that I won't make it thru delivery. And I have worried about my bond with baby, too. He hasn't asked me the question, save you or baby, because I think he knows also that if I wanted to try again we could. Or adopt, we've always been behind adoption (DH himself is adopted). And myself? I'm with you. Me.
@KarasTwin I feel ya! Hubs is going to have to be at the island again next week, and tho I'm not due until the 18th so I'm less likely to have a transportation related problem, it's still a huge stress when he's so far away.
I'm just totally a ball of nerves. Like @ElRuby I'm just trying to distract myself.
@karaelaine1991 I'm glad you're FIL got his jeep taken care of and left you in peace!
More info please, otherwise I want you to run fast from a doctor forcing you into major abdominal surgery (that they can schedule to work best for them btw) that is unnecessary.
Edited to add: I'm due Wednesday, so will be 40.2 when I go in to have him.
It will ease your mind.
Mostly I'm super anxious that labour will stop after I push out baby A and I'll have to have a c/s for baby B...
I'm starting to get really anxious about something going wrong, or baby being still born. There is physically no reason for me to have these concerns or worries but..I can't get them out of my head. Ugh. Just want this baby safely in my arms.
I get ya. I thought about this briefly for a minute earlier today, actually. Both of you are gonna do great. Hugs!