Mine seems silly, logically, but it's still eating at me. DH promised to quit smoking when we GOT pregnant. I've nagged, asked, cried, nudged, bought him a book on tape about quitting...all to no avail. We're 23 days from EDD now and he's still effing smoking. I used to smoke too, so I get that it's hard to quit, but come on man!! Last time I was in L&D he kept going out for smoke breaks and would come back in smelling like smoke. Drove me bonkers. Luckily I had a good friend with me as my second support/doula. This time it's going to just be DH. I already told him I don't want him leaving for breaks, hoping that will be another clue that you should quit smoking now. No reaction...basically ignored me. I'm seriously going to loose my shit on him if he's smells like smoke anywhere near me or the baby, and then I will a) be delivering by myself and b) have an irritable husband. I'm going to suggest a vape pin as the very last option, but I don't even like the idea of not knowing what chemicals are in those. It's better than him smelling like an ashtray at this point though. ~X( @lovethatcolosun, I don't think your feelings are silly at all. I'd feel the same way and I might be even less patient than you (I've never smoked). You have very valid points/concerns. I wouldn't want my husband taking smoke breaks during labor. I can't imagine the extra difficulty you may have with him still smoking considering you used to smoke.