Rude March Moms

takerany · January 2015

I don't think sarcasm and rude comments are necessary guys. We're all about to be moms here, whether we be first time moms or not. And if you have nothing helpful to say, why even comment or respond to discussions or questions members have? Read and go on about your day/night.

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

No one is rude. Really they just fear for the babies of people who can't perform a simple search or feel the need to ask random internet people medical questions.

takerany · January 2015

First of all, I am new to the app. I thought we all posted our questions without a search. And second, there's no need to fear for my child or anyone else's child. I know very well not to ask medical questions because let's face it, most of you are not doctors, nor are you physicians and if it is that deep, I can call my doctor. And some of you ARE rude. Thank you, and goodnight to you also.

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

There are actually directions as to how to use this forum pinned to the top of this page. One of the items says to search for threads/forums that discuss your topic before starting a new thread. It is assumed that people read the directions.

takerany · January 2015

You're rude not just to me, but other moms too. And I do believe Bump Admin contacted you recently about something found in the guidelines as well. Or am I mistaken? If you read your updated guidelines, you wouldn't have been contacted either. And I never used my app for anything other than tracking my baby girl's progress week to week. I literally JUST clicked on the community tab a few nights ago, exploring my app. Again, being rude isn't necessary and commenting/stating your opinion knowing your intentions weren't the best isn't really what myself or any other mom with a simple question would want.

takerany · January 2015

And not everyone reads the directions, that is obvious here. But in the future, I will do that. Thanks.

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

Actually, I have never been contacted by bump admin because I have read the guidelines and stick to them. In reading back through this thread, I have not been rude to you.

takerany · January 2015

Supporting? Lady, with all due respect.. Nearly every forum I've read, your sarcastic and plain out as I've said before, rude to some of these women. And I'm not telling you how to behave. I'm merely suggesting that you not even waste your time or energy commenting on things that you find stupid or so dumb that you can't help but spectate & laugh. This app should be about encouraging others, but I see you and plenty of different members using it as an opportunity to be "smart" with other moms and claim that this and that is dumb. And even go as far as to say that you're worried about a member's baby all because she didn't do something your way. Come on. Admit to your faults, learn from them and carry on. As I said earlier, from here on out I will be reading guidelines and instructions. Mainly so I won't have run ins with rude people who really have nothing better to do than comment on things they find redundant and make others feel bad.

takerany · January 2015

finallyourturn2 said:
Actually, I have never been contacted by bump admin because I have read the guidelines and stick to them. In reading back through this thread, I have not been rude to you.

The person I've claimed was rude and also contacted by Bump Admin. already responded. My issue here is not at all with you. Thanks again

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

takerany said:

finallyourturn2 said:
Actually, I have never been contacted by bump admin because I have read the guidelines and stick to them. In reading back through this thread, I have not been rude to you.
The person I've claimed was rude and also contacted by Bump Admin. already responded. My issue here is not at all with you. Thanks again

This site (not just an app) is a crap hole. It wasn't showing me any posts but yours until just now.

takerany · January 2015

Lol ma'am, I'm twenty years old. And I have very tough skin. I will always speak up when I feel like things aren't right. So yes, bless my little heart for saying the things others were afraid to say before. Bless my little heart for still responding to everything you've said. Good luck with your baby. As for mine, she will be taught to speak up when she feels wronged no matter who she faces. And I don't think it is a wasteland. I'm starting to sound oh so repetitive but, the rude comments and things of that nature do make it seem that way. I'll continue to read and take from it what I please and if I have nothing nice to say, I won't say it. This was my first and only negative discussion. I'm a young woman with plenty to learn, and you just taught me a little more about this crazy world honestly. Thank you.

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

mel7806 said:
Wow, @finallyourturn2‌! She really seems intent on just shutting you down and telling me off! How rude!

No one crushes my spirit. I specialize in logic, and I teach 6th graders in a pretty rough area. The last person who tried shutting me down on here ended up calling herself stupid.

takerany · January 2015

finallyourturn2 said:

mel7806 said:
Wow, @finallyourturn2‌! She really seems intent on just shutting you down and telling me off! How rude!
No one crushes my spirit. I specialize in logic, and I teach 6th graders in a pretty rough area. The last person who tried shutting me down on here ended up calling herself stupid.

I was never intent on shutting you down, I took your advice from the beginning because well, you weren't rude. And as for telling the other woman off... Not at all, that was just what I felt she needed to hear. If I say thank you, don't ever take that as me shutting you down. It's more of "I see what you are saying."

takerany · January 2015

Again, goodnight. It seems my insomnia has lead to a discussion that lasted much longer than expected.

takerany · January 2015

Haha they won't. I'm going to cuddle with my husband and hopefully his snoring isn't too bad.

cinderella105 · January 2015

Hey now guise... Don't be so rooood. She's 20 whole years old and knows better than you crazy regs! GAAAWWWLLLL!

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

cinderella105 said:
Hey now guise... Don't be so rooood. She's 20 whole years old and knows better than you crazy regs! GAAAWWWLLLL!

Damn I wish I used the computer more often. On mobile I can't see siggies or past conversations, so I don't know these things.

takerany · January 2015

cinderella105 said:
Hey now guise... Don't be so rooood. She's 20 whole years old and knows better than you crazy regs! GAAAWWWLLLL!

Is it bad that I can't tell if your comment is meant to be sarcastic, just plain funny or both? Lol

cinderella105 · January 2015

finallyourturn2 said:

cinderella105 said:
Hey now guise... Don't be so rooood. She's 20 whole years old and knows better than you crazy regs! GAAAWWWLLLL!
Damn I wish I used the computer more often. On mobile I can't see siggies or past conversations, so I don't know these things.

Lol I was going off this thread. She just said above she's 20 and pointed out the many reasons she feels she knows how this forum should be ran. I'm mobile also so I don't even have a siggy unfortunately. But I was just tryin to be funny. I may have failed. :-??

finallyourturn2 · January 2015

cinderella105 said:

finallyourturn2 said:

cinderella105 said:
Hey now guise... Don't be so rooood. She's 20 whole years old and knows better than you crazy regs! GAAAWWWLLLL!
Damn I wish I used the computer more often. On mobile I can't see siggies or past conversations, so I don't know these things.
Lol I was going off this thread. She just said above she's 20 and pointed out the many reasons she feels she knows how this forum should be ran. I'm mobile also so I don't even have a siggy unfortunately. But I was just tryin to be funny. I may have failed. :-??

I missed that post. I thought my reading comprehension was slipping for a minute there.

takerany · January 2015

Definitely turned. I no longer have any clue what's going on. I'm not even gonna try to figure it out.

takerany · January 2015

RQuinlin said:
Please don't call these women out about being supportive. Even in this barren wasteland you can scan down a few discussions to a mother battling cancer and pregnant. These women have freely offered their support there. I notice OP that you have not offered yours, you're too concerned with your own issues and getting your panties in a twist because you were directed to a link. Instead of calling us out, maybe look past your own posts. And I wouldn't have shared my birth story with you either. It's an extremely personal experience in which both myself and my daughter almost died. It's not all glitter and rainbows out there, despite what The Dump wants you to believe. Trust me.

Read every one of my comments well. I said that I will go and check out the link. So how is that getting my "panties in a twist?" You're hours late on a discussion that was had and over with. I now have a better understanding of how things work on this app & how women choose to communicate. I never said it was all glitter and rainbows. And at this point, I'm not concerned with anyone else's birth story because I searched the forum and found some to read. I'm very sorry to hear that you and your daughter almost died, that is kind of sharing a bt of it though. Glad you're alive and well enough to respond to what I've posted. How could I offer support when I JUST, I repeat JUST started to look into the community tab of my app a few nights ago?

Akrystofiak · January 2015

Really? Really? First of all, I don't really care that this is "hours late on a discussion that was had and over with" because in order to attract @mel7806 (and possible other)'s attention you called us all out on being rude. Let's talk about being rude...

Rude could be considered walking into a crowded room full of people who all know each other, not introducing yourself, not trying to acquaint yourself with the rules posted on the door, going up to the first person you see, and then asking them to tell you a very personal story. That would be rude.

Rude is going up to a group off women and asking them for their opinion/experience with an event or product and then never making yourself available to answer questions that they have. Because hell... you got what you needed so screw them. Thus, this board's malicious hatred for the drive-by.

Rude is telling someone who just suffered a loss that they shouldn't be angry about it.

Rude is walking into a stranger's house and telling them that their drapes are ugly. If you don't like them, then you can leave.

No one here cares that your 20 with thick skin, hunny. You know why? Because we don't know who you are. Also, being 20 should have nothing to do with your reading comprehension skills, so you should have been able to read the guidelines posted at the top of the forum. So if you're really that interested in why we respond to people who post "stupid" things instead of reading and going about our nights, it's because someone rude just walked into our home tracking mud over our carpet. And that's not something you just stay quiet about.

Rant over.

TLDR: OP is rude, krystofiak out.

mangomimosa · January 2015

@takerany‌
1) I'm glad you found what you were looking for. Turns out the link, suggestions, & search function were more helpful than you realized, huh?

2) Do not admonish the women here about support. Most of us have been on here, making a combined hundreds of posts daily & getting to know each other since July/Aug when we got positive tests. We've comforted each other through miscarriages & still births, relationship troubles, job loss, family illnesses & losses -- we give a ton of support. You don't know, because you weren't here. And now you waltz in, without reading the posted guidelines, and try to tell us what this place is for and how to behave? REALLY?

3) Most of the tight-knit, supportive community I'm talking about has gone to another site due to dissatisfaction with the corporation who owns this forum/website. It's too much to explain to someone who just arrived. Have fun with the leftovers. But many of the people still around have been lurking for months, too, and it does get old when people roll up asking questions that are easily addressed by searching or visiting another forum.

takerany · January 2015

You just wasted so much time with your response. The one person I meant to reach with this post got what I wanted to say and I did the same with everything she said as well. @Akrystofiak‌

And as far as me being rude, I honestly don't even care how you or anybody else took my tone through your phone or computer screens. I simply stated my opinion, and it has been long over. You can be done or continue ranting but again, I don't care and it would be a waste.

I posted previous to this, trying to be nice and read others' birth stories because no, I didn't read the guidelines. So when someone suggested a link, I said I would check it out, and I did.

And as for me being 20 with tough skin and no one caring about that, why mention it?

Good morning now! Enjoy your day \:D/

takerany · January 2015

mangomimosa said:
@takerany‌
1) I'm glad you found what you were looking for. Turns out the link, suggestions, & search function were more helpful than you realized, huh?

2) Do not admonish the women here about support. Most of us have been on here, making a combined hundreds of posts daily & getting to know each other since July/Aug when we got positive tests. We've comforted each other through miscarriages & still births, relationship troubles, job loss, family illnesses & losses -- we give a ton of support. You don't know, because you weren't here. And now you waltz in, without reading the posted guidelines, and try to tell us what this place is for and how to behave? REALLY?

3) Most of the tight-knit, supportive community I'm talking about has gone to another site due to dissatisfaction with the corporation who owns this forum/website. It's too much to explain to someone who just arrived. Have fun with the leftovers. But many of the people still around have been lurking for months, too, and it does get old when people roll up asking questions that are easily addressed by searching or visiting another forum.

You're repeating what I've already read from others. And again, I'm going to say the person I thought was rude got my message. Support and encouragement, instead of immediate rude and sarcastic comments would have been nice considering the fact that I am just getting here and learning more about the app. Good morning to you as well, and you enjoy your day too. Goodbye

Engineer81 · January 2015

I wouldn't say us March moms are rude. Just really smart. Well at least this board used to be full of smart, educated women. That is obviously over.

takerany · January 2015

@Engineer81‌ ha! Not sure if you're trying to say I'm not smart but you're sadly mistaken if you are. Good morning to you also.

graciest719 · January 2015

@takerany‌ You can't tell people how to respond to you. So get off your high horse.

Engineer81 · January 2015

If you say so.....

takerany · January 2015

@graciest719‌ not on a high horse love. Good morning! And if I were, you couldn't tell me to get off of it just like I can't tell others how to respond to me. Have a good day

takerany · January 2015

@Engineer81‌ I do.

Engineer81 · January 2015

Well if you say so it must be true.

takerany · January 2015

@Engineer81‌ Have a good day

Akrystofiak · January 2015

Awww... She doesn't care how I took her tone, but felt the need to respond. Don't worry, darling. I type fast. It didn't waste too much of my time.

Come on guyyyyyys... She doesn't want to talk anymore. She says good morning to you!

graciest719 · January 2015

@takerany‌ Nice to know you have learned something!

PS-if you are going to try and be snarky, proper punctuation is your friend. You might want to insert a comma before love. Your attempt to be sarcastic was lost.

PPS And there are occasions I could tell you to get off your high horse. If you wanted to come into my house, for example, you would have to get off your high horse.

Engineer81 · January 2015

I'm having fun. My day is off to a great start!

takerany · January 2015

lol that's really cute @Akrystofiak‌
And yes I felt the need to respond the same way you felt the need to mention me being twenty and having tough skin but also not caring about it. Kind of the same thing I believe. As I said before, have a good day ^#(^

Engineer81 · January 2015

graciest719 said:
@takerany‌ Nice to know you have learned something!

PS-if you are going to try and be snarky, proper punctuation is your friend. You might want to insert a comma before love. Your attempt to be sarcastic was lost.

PPS And there are occasions I could tell you to get off your high horse. If you wanted to come into my house, for example, you would have to get off your high horse.

Punctuation escapes this one. Maybe she has a low horse and therefore feels inadequate as she does not have a high horse that she could get off of.

takerany · January 2015

graciest719 said:
@takerany‌ Nice to know you have learned something!

PS-if you are going to try and be snarky, proper punctuation is your friend. You might want to insert a comma before love. Your attempt to be sarcastic was lost.

PPS And there are occasions I could tell you to get off your high horse. If you wanted to come into my house, for example, you would have to get off your high horse.

There was no sarcasm. I know very well how to use punctuation, sweetheart. See what I did there? And why would I want to visit your home? Lol I learn new things everyday. Today I've learned how to deal with all of these "stick together veterans of the Bump." Everyone gets upset when the newcomer feels a certain way about the way some of you choose to communicate, which is fine. It's okay. I'm still learning, right? You have a nice day as well.

amismom · January 2015

You called us all out when you posted a thread on this forum about us being rude. I didn't miss understand that. If your issue was with someone specific then you should've taken it up with that person. Not posting a thread called "Rude march moms". No ones been rude but you. And telling a public Internet forum how they should post??? That's not gonna work out the way you hope

You don't care how anyone took your tone? Or that you're just stating your opinion? Wait what, isn't that what this thread is about? You not liking someones "tone" or "opinion".

I'm really fucking confused. Maybe your twenty years hasn't been enough time on this fucking earth.

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