Well, I got tired of literally everyone being negative and in turn became negative. I don't owe you anymore of an explanation than the other moms owe me apologies. Don't try. You reported it. It'd be best to carry on and have a great day. Don't let me hold anymore of your attention.
???? This is how you respond when someone asks a genuinely sincere question?
ETA please link me to where EVERYONE was being negative. I see no one being negative in your other thread. I see someone being direct. Not rude, mean, or negative.
Well, I got tired of literally everyone being negative and in turn became negative. I don't owe you anymore of an explanation than the other moms owe me apologies. Don't try. You reported it. It'd be best to carry on and have a great day. Don't let me hold anymore of your attention.
???? This is how you respond when someone asks a genuinely sincere question?
This is how I respond when someone who asked a genuine question started off being biased in her first response. Goodbye now
Well, I got tired of literally everyone being negative and in turn became negative. I don't owe you anymore of an explanation than the other moms owe me apologies. Don't try. You reported it. It'd be best to carry on and have a great day. Don't let me hold anymore of your attention.
???? This is how you respond when someone asks a genuinely sincere question?
This is how I respond when someone who asked a genuine question started off being biased in her first response. Goodbye now
Explain what you mean by biased. If you mean loyal to what was once a close knit and SUPPORTIVE community, then I am guilty as charged. That is not the same as being biased. Once again, there are several examples throughout the pages of this board where a "reg" got flames by other "regs", so it has nothing to do with being in a pack or whatever you called it before.
Either you answer the question, or it clearly shows that you did, in fact, start this thread specifically for drama.
You wouldn't know why I started the thread. I started the thread as a plea, and to state that I didn't think it was right to be rude and use sarcasm with other moms, especially new ones. Again, goodbye.
You wouldn't know why I started the thread. I started the thread as a plea, and to state that I didn't think it was right to be rude and use sarcasm with other moms, especially new ones. Again, goodbye.
Again, not letting it slide that easily. You already said you started the thread specifically directed toward @mel7806, first of all. You didn't expect all the responses that you got. I'm off work today, so I seriously have plenty of time to refute your "goodbye and good days".
You have every right to "state" what you think. What you don't have the right to do is dictate who posts, and for how long they post, on this thread. If it bothers you, simply log off.
Just a bunch of people chiming in, hours after I've said my peace, causing repetitiveness, defending people who antagonize others to the point where they feel the need to do the same. Have fun with it, all day since you're off work.
Just a bunch of people chiming in, hours after I've said my peace, causing repetitiveness, defending people who antagonize others to the point where they feel the need to do the same. Have fun with it, all day since you're off work.
Again, people can post on this thread whenever they choose. I asked a meaningful question, yet you chose not to answer it. That doesn't make sense. You continue to post, which causes others to respond and post. If you stopped, other would stop (eventually). You can't come on here and insult everyone, then ignore a user's genuine request for clarity/attempt at productive discussion, and then insult everyone again. Well, you can, but you can't control the response you get.
@BumpAdmin could you please give us some clarity? I personally feel as though this user chose to start this thread specifically to incite angry responses. Despite my attempts to try to have a productive discussion with the user and explain to her how supportive our community can actually be, she continues to repeatedly respond with nothing productive. I feel that this shows her original intent was to purposefully start drama, and I am hurt that the community is being used to such an end. Thank you for your prompt attention.
Zomgaaawwwllll!!! Like I said last night, she's 20 whole years old, and NOW she was an honor roll student in high school (which is totes important), so she clearly does have the right to waltz in here acting the way she is because she has proven time and time again how much better she is than us. Come on, ladies, SUPPORT AND GLITTER RIGHT MEOW!!! #sarcasmfont <----- That's just for you, takerany.
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This is the thread that never ends.... Yes it goes on and on my friend....
Zomgaaawwwllll!!! Like I said last night, she's 20 whole years old, and NOW she was an honor roll student in high school (which is totes important), so she clearly does have the right to waltz in here acting the way she is because she has proven time and time again how much better she is than us. Come on, ladies, SUPPORT AND GLITTER RIGHT MEOW!!! #sarcasmfont <----- That's just for you, takerany.
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This is the thread that never ends.... Yes it goes on and on my friend....</p>
Supporting? Lady, with all due respect.. Nearly every forum I've read, your sarcastic and plain out as I've said before, rude to some of these women. And I'm not telling you how to behave. I'm merely suggesting that you not even waste your time or energy commenting on things that you find stupid or so dumb that you can't help but spectate & laugh. This app should be about encouraging others, but I see you and plenty of different members using it as an opportunity to be "smart" with other moms and claim that this and that is dumb. And even go as far as to say that you're worried about a member's baby all because she didn't do something your way. Come on. Admit to your faults, learn from them and carry on. As I said earlier, from here on out I will be reading guidelines and instructions. Mainly so I won't have run ins with rude people who really have nothing better to do than comment on things they find redundant and make others feel bad.
Totally agree with you! I was shocked when I read some of the comments on here from sarcastic to plain rude and at times even ganging up and bullying other mums. This is an online community of mums supporting each other and yet I often read messages in here that say otherwise which is just disappointing and sad really.
It's a shame these people have to put others down on here. It's weak and pathetic. I hate to see my fellow March mums being disrespected. We need to show empathy to our fellow mummies.
Please do not misuse the word bullying as you have. That is disrespectful to people who have actually been bullied. No one on this board has been bullied.
Guise! She keeps bragging about her extensive AP English experience and telling us what words mean but she doesn't even seem to understand the basics! She keeps saying "goodbye" and "have a nice day"...but she's not going anywhere!
Hmm AP English doesn't compare with all the post graduate degrees that are in here/were in here.
Guise! She keeps bragging about her extensive AP English experience and telling us what words mean but she doesn't even seem to understand the basics! She keeps saying "goodbye" and "have a nice day"...but she's not going anywhere!
Hmm AP English doesn't compare with all the post graduate degrees that are in here/were in here.
Don't forget the top 15% of her high school class. Makes my MBA look silly!
Guise! She keeps bragging about her extensive AP English experience and telling us what words mean but she doesn't even seem to understand the basics! She keeps saying "goodbye" and "have a nice day"...but she's not going anywhere!
Hmm AP English doesn't compare with all the post graduate degrees that are in here/were in here.
Don't forget the top 15% of her high school class. Makes my MBA look silly!
I came to this website for support being a FTM who will flat out admit of being scared to be a mom and make mistakes. I have posted on here a few times and received some amazing responses from some great women. I have also seen (not necessarily in March moms but in other posts), some very rude people are who are snarky, condescending, and make the OP feel like the question they asked was the stupidest thing on Earth. However, the overall Bump community has great women who have helped me and I can tell helped many other women on here.
Re: Rude March Moms
ETA please link me to where EVERYONE was being negative. I see no one being negative in your other thread. I see someone being direct. Not rude, mean, or negative.
Either you answer the question, or it clearly shows that you did, in fact, start this thread specifically for drama.
You have every right to "state" what you think. What you don't have the right to do is dictate who posts, and for how long they post, on this thread. If it bothers you, simply log off.
ETA @BumpTara
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This is the thread that never ends.... Yes it goes on and on my friend....