Lost one of our identical twins

Re: Lost one of our identical twins

• blu-eyedwife member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for your loss.  For some reason I think twins in general open the door for people to stay stupid stupid things.
  

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• mamayo26 member

  January 2015

  So sorry for you and your family...hopefully people stop being stupid.

  
  
  
  
  
  
  

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• mmo2112 member

  January 2015

  I am so deeply sorry, lady--both for your loss and for the fact that you have to deal with those ridiculous comments.  Those people clearly do not know your pain.  Stay strong, and I hope you have a great support system to get you through this tough time. 

  

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• maddibayer member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for you and your family! T&P's coming your way!

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• KonaCoffeeBean member

  January 2015

  I'm really sorry for loss. I can't imagine how confusing all of the emotions must be between the despair for the child you lost and the joy you have for the child you are still expecting. 

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• amabarne member

  January 2015

  So sorry for your loss! Prayers for the rest of your pregnancy and a healthy baby girl!

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• owl_momma member

  January 2015

  How awful so sorry for your loss

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• MamaBish member

  January 2015

  So sorry that hear this. Sending my thoughts!

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• mamahawk12 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss, and so sorry you're having to deal with such insensitivity. You lost a child - having another one doesn't make up for it. Sending prayers

  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  
  
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• OohSparkly13 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss.

  
  
  
  
  

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• junch817 member

  January 2015

  I am so so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers with you and your family.

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Bednarova member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss.

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• AlyLynn07 member

  January 2015

  So sorry for the loss of your little one and that you are dealing with such insensitive comments about it. I can't imagine how incredibly difficult it is to lose a child, no matter how old they are or how many siblings they have. We're thinking of you.

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• AmberC311 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss. Don't be afraid to call people out on their stupid comments. Completely insensitive.

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• honeybunches101 member

  January 2015

  So very sorry for your loss.

  

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• Lexibizzel member

  January 2015

  So sorry about the loss of your daughter.  All the best for you and your family.

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• stinybean member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss. I am sure this is difficult for you to deal with. Many (((HUGS)))

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• tjanca22 member

  January 2015

  Sending lots of prayers your way.

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• megtyrrell member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss and for how insensitive some people can be. I hope you receive only loving and kind sentiments. I'm sure nothing can take away the pain, but it certainly doesn't need to be added to. Love and hugs!

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• BabyList member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry of your loss!

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• tcodoner member

  January 2015

  So terribly sorry for your loss!

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• Sugarbean17 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss. It's amazing the things people will say that are so stupid.

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• sjw91988 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers

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• effthisnoise member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss.

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• kristennflickk member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss and the insensitivity of others. Stay strong mama!

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• mwannarka member

  January 2015

  So sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and your LO.

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• gingerbabe member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll be in my prayers tonight.

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• VintageVixenMommy member

  January 2015

  I'm very sorry to hear about your loss. People really need to learn how to shut their mouths sometimes. 

  
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• sewro member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry.

  

  
  

  

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• mathistm member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry you are having to deal with this.  It's so hard because sometimes people who are trying to be helpful, end up saying something insensitive. Take care of yourself and I will be thinking about you and your family!
  

  
  

  
  

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• elrumbee member

  January 2015

  So sorry for your loss

  

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• AmyCee member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry. I lost a fraternal twin that way - though much earlier. I still have a hard time when people say things about how much easier it'll be with only one, that three kids is so hard, etc.
  
  I'm so sorry for your loss. They say it gets easier and I'm sure a healthy baby in our arms will take some sting out - but it's so hard.
  
  My mom actually made a "joking" comment today about how big my belly was and asked if I was sure there weren't still twins in there...it was like a stab in my heart (and I've known about my loss since week 9...)
  
  I hope you find strength in your healthy baby and that helps pull you through the hard times xo

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• erbear84 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss..

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  

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• ktpatter member

  January 2015

  I am so sorry for your loss! T&Ps to you and your family.

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• Mirage86 member

  January 2015

  So sorry that you are going through the loss of one of your babies, I can't imagine how much it hurts right now! T&P for you & your family.

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• jbartsy member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss.

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• blastocarrier30 member

  January 2015

  I am so, so sorry for your loss. Lots of T&P for you as you grieve for your LO.
  
  Also, I think withering stares are in order for anyone tactless enough to say such horrible things.

  

  
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• beckynsean11 member

  January 2015

  I am at a loss for a response to anyone that would say that to you. That's just awful. I'm so sorry for the loss of your sweet girl. Hugs!

  
  

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• holliberry28 member

  January 2015

  I'm so sorry for your loss.

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• finchfeeder80 member

  January 2015

  I'm sorry for your loss.

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