Man. I am so so sorry for your loss. There's no upside to a loss. People are lame when it comes to situations like this. Praying for you and your family. May you find peace.
I am so sorry for your loss! And how horrifying the results when people try clumsily to make you feel better and say such awful things. I would not blame you for staying away from everyone but your nearest and dearest (and hopefully most tactful) right now. I hope that you are able to find peace and feel the loving arms of support around you.
@AmyCee I can't believe your own mother could say something so awful to you! I would hope she thought about it afterwards and felt awful realising how inappropriate and painful that was, but that doesn't make you feel any better.
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People are a disgrace sometimes. I'm sorry you have to have a terrible situation made worse by such awful comments. My thoughts are with you right now.
I am so very sorry for your loss. People say ridiculous things when they are uncomfortable, I'm sorry you're having to listen to that.
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1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d
I'm so sorry for your loss and I hope that the rest of your pregnancy is happy and healthy.
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I missed this post last night, but I'll be thinking about you today. You, your family, and your little one are in my prayers. May you feel comfort and peace during this time of grieving. I'm so sorry you are having to go through this. My heart breaks for you.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I went through the same thing. At 8 weeks Baby B was measuring a week behind Baby A, and by 11 weeks Baby B had vanished. My thoughts and prayers go out to you lady. Take care of yourself.
I'm not sure how I missed this - I am so, so sorry for your loss. That's a terrible thing for someone to say (there is no "silver lining" to losing a child - at any stage) - I hope nobody else tries to make you "feel better", they should let you grieve in peace. T&P are with you guys.
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@AmyCee I can't believe your own mother could say something so awful to you! I would hope she thought about it afterwards and felt awful realising how inappropriate and painful that was, but that doesn't make you feel any better.
Hugs to both of you.
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IVF #1 October 2013 Antagonistic Protocol with ICSI ER 10/31/13 (18R 16M 11F- 6 blasts to freeze)
ET delayed due to OHSS
FET scheduled for July 8. Delayed due to a crazy high TSH (it had been under control for YEARS!)
FET #1 8/5/14 sET BFN
Started TTC Nov. 2011
1st clomid cycle June 2012- No response :: HSG August 2012- Left tube blocked, right tube clear :: 2nd clomid cycle Aug. 2012 BFN :: 3rd clomid cycle Sept. 2012 :: BFP Sept 30th :: DS born 6/15/13 :: BFP #2 7/29/14 M/C 8/5/14 :: BFP#3 10/20/14 DD born 7/1/2015 :: Applied to be surrogate April '17 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for IFs Dec. '17 :: Surro Babe born 9/11/18 :: Started 2nd Journey May '19 :: Transferred 1 Embryo for new IFs 9/24/19 :: HB 138 at 6w6d
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BFP#1 09/25/2014 EDD 6/4/2015
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