Starting 3rd tri - how do you feel?

ngolimento · December 2014

So next week I'm rounding the corner on starting third tri (technically I am already on it according to doc), and I am surprised to learn my mother was right: 3rd tri is feeling much better than 2nd.

I am feeling a lot less uterine pain, kid is kicking less hard, my face is clearing up, my aversions are going away, and I don't feel as unmotivated and generally shitty as I have for months now. I am at the point where I am wondering why all the books were so obsessed with second tri being the best. Yes I'm getting huge and awkward, yes the floor is becoming no-man's land, but at least I feel like ME again.

So am I alone in this phenomenon, or are any of you starting to feel like 3rd will not be the mythical awful worst trimester all the books moan about?

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mommyofkaylin · December 2014

I feel ok. The weight from the baby is putting extra pressure on my hips so it's painful to sleep on my sides, but I can't sleep on my back. This happened last time, too.

coleybug13 · December 2014

I actually was just thinking this! I think because I'm getting accustomed to having a belly it doesn't seem like it's even there half the time. I am feeling more tired but overall I have more motivation than I have so far and have been getting a lot more done. The only thing is the heartburn, F the heartburn! I think a lot has to do (for me anyway) the fact it's getting so close and my excitement is overruling any of the tiny annoyances.

ngolimento · December 2014

Yeah I'll probably change my tune in a month

. But for now, I am enjoying the hell out of not being in second tri. Screw that noise.

wishiwaspreggo · December 2014

Eh... I feel the same now as I did at the end of September. That's when my aching hips and pelvis started, and that's my dominant symptom now. It's hard to get up from sitting or laying down but otherwise I feel normal enough.

I'm built like a brick shithouse so I think I feel it less than a lot of other ladies. I'm tall with a large torso. I feel the baby move but it feels nothing like I expected. It's like... I got really sick a few years ago and had the weirdest gas, like the trumpets from Hell blaring out my butthole. I would feel it start at the top of my stomach and rumble down through my intestines until it ended with a blast so loud the walls shook. Sorry if that's TMI, but C and I were laughing so hard over it - which sounds totally immature but seriously, I had no idea my body was capable of doing something so foul. Anyway, the baby movements feel just like that but without the pain and pressure.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, in general, my pregnancy has felt absolutely nothing like it's "supposed" to feel as portrayed by the media. I expected constant puking, weird cravings, insane mood swings, crying spells, anger, carrying pickles in my purse, suffering from hemorrhoids and heartburn...

But my reality is, I only barfed once (and that's because I drank a cup of coffee too quickly), my cravings are on par with PMS (fat and protein), my mood's been stable, no tears or angry outbursts, pickles are still gross, and I've had heartburn a time or two but it was from the same foods that normally cause heartburn for me anyway. My butt is hemorrhoid-free.

What I did NOT expect was the shooting pains radiating from my lower abdomen through my labia, inside my vagina, around and - ahem - into my butt. It sucks. I stand up and moan "My vaaaaaaaaaaaaaag!" when I'm at home. I silently curse through the pain at work. No one told me that would happen but here I am.

lewispm · December 2014

My second tri is always the better one for me. Beginning of 3rd tri wasn't bad either last time. Honestly, I've had 2 very easy pregnancies thus far, but the last month or so is HARD even for the lucky ones. Granted, I was due in July (in AL) last time so the heat was awful and made everything seem worse.

I am enjoying being able to get up by myself, roll over in bed, eat more than a few bites of food at a time, breathe, and shave my legs right now despite any RLP I've had (which honestly hasn't been much). I'd say the 3rd tri is the worst overall to me taking how bad it gets in the end into consideration, but everyone is different

MalVough · December 2014

I'm not in the third tri yet, as I'm due at the end of March... I'm always lagging behind most of this group!

I'm looking forward to more of what I've experienced in the second trimester. My first 10-16 weeks were EVIL. Baby girl was seriously sucking the life out of me!

But I have felt so normal -- after 16 weeks -- that I hope it remains through to the end.

I did start to get cranky because I'm a light sleeper and can't get comfortable (stomach sleeper no more!). Took a Benadryl last night and feel much better this morning. SO will be grateful. That's my only real complaint right now... the inability to get super comfy at night... and the bladder kicks.

Hoping 3rd tri keeps things just as positive!

sathena · December 2014

Besides not being able to sleep comfortably, the pains are minor and I feel more like me. I'm very happy to start feeling human again. Also, my asthma is getting better. During the 2nd tri I was having constant asthma attacks. Those have now subsided. I'm now a mothering cleaning machine that my husband and I love to laugh about.

suzyq0525 · December 2014

I still had morning sickness for the first half of 2nd tri, so I have to agree that so far 3rd tri is better. My hips are a little sore but I would take that over puking any day.

071115 · December 2014

I feel like shit in the 3rd tri. I can't sleep, everything hurts, I'm uncomfortable.

djoliet · December 2014

I think I hit 3rd trimester next week? ? I'll be 27 weeks on Mondays. I feel okay. Heartburn is happening more frequently and thanks to my scoliosis, my back pain sucks. Other then that, I feel good.

3rd trimester for me last pregnancy was super busy due to my son's limb difference, the GD, and IUGR. I lived at the doctor. Twice a week for nonstress tests and growth ultrasounds. It will be the same with this pregnancy because of the GD. Crossing my finger that no other issues pop up. Can't believe we are all getting so close to having our babies!

lewispm · December 2014

RQuinlin said:

@lewispm‌ I totally forgot how miserable pregnancy is at the end with summer babies! The heat just makes you so much more uncomfortable and the swamp crotch and boob sweat is out of control when the temps are over 100. Yeah to early spring babies this go around!

I know right?!?! The ONLY pro to a summer baby is that the days are long and the nights are short (I remember dreading night time and the impending sleeplessness every single evening with an infant). I am so ready to have this baby just when the temps are starting to warm up a little here and still get the long days and short nights of summer. Early spring seems to pretty much be the best time for babies period. We are lucky!

tabitha722 · December 2014

I am also feeling my best about now... HG has FINALLY LET UP!! I am enjoying all the cookies and cakes and foods and everything. I am mostly comfortable and have my sex drive back. However, as a STM+, I am not looking forward to the last month or so... I figure around mid Feb, this place will be a bunch of whining mixed with excitement for new babes!

My previous pregnancies went long (41w+1, 42w+1), but I try not to think about that and just count down til I can crack open the champagne and sleep on my belly again!

WinningColors · December 2014

I guess I officially join 3rd Tri tomorrow when I hit 27 weeks. But so far, so good. 2nd Tri has been kind to me, I can't complain. I have some minor issues like my left foot is always swollen and an achy back at times, but nothing major. Oh, and the whole bending thing is getting harder to do now. Even putting on socks is a feat in itself! The main issue I have been dealing with the past several weeks is a sinus infection, which isn't pregnancy related. We'll see what 3rd Tri brings. Hopefully I'll enjoy it like I have 2nd Tri, but I'm not expecting unicorns shitting rainbows or anything.

wishiwaspreggo · December 2014

pearsforpoops said:

I felt best last time during months 5-7 and it's shaping up that way again. Then the last month is just BLARGH. That's why I'm trying to get everything done before February so I can sit on my ass and eat bon bons all during the final month before the baby is ripped out and chaos begins with a newborn and a 14-month-old.

AT LEAST THEN I CAN DRINK BEERS.

I've been getting nervous about the sleepless nights and general insanity until I remember "Hey, you can grab a glass of delicious red wine anytime you want after baby is born" and it makes me feel better

ngolimento · December 2014

luvsponies said:
I think we're on the same weekly schedule Pele, so I guess I'm starting third tri now too? Or is it next week? Anyway, I'm feeling worse these days . I feel huge and stretched out, and it's super uncomfortable. Add in acid reflux plus baby putting a ton of pressure on me/kicking all the time, it doesn't make for the best sleep either.

I think if I was able to sleep better, I wouldn't feel so crappy. It scares me knowing all of this is just going to get worse over the next few months lol.

It's also getting much harder to exercise and I think that's frustrating me too. Oh well...

Technically it's 27 and 1/2 weeks. But most counters will hold off until you hit 28.

LBeez13 · December 2014

In general I have felt pretty good this pregnancy. Last pregnancy I also felt pretty good. The only thing that is different is that I am a little more exhausted at the end of my days now because my toddler keeps me running around.

Last time around though I was still pretty good up until week 37 or 38 and then I was just over it. By week 41 when I still had a baby inside, I was definitely over it. This time around has been going by faster than last time so I am hoping I will be at 37 weeks in no time and just be rushing around getting stuff ready for baby, I wont have time to complain

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chaysefaith · December 2014

MauiBliss said:
So far, I only felt badly for a couple of weeks in first tri. I've pretty much felt like myself with maybe a tiny bit less energy? Which means, I will probably have a wretched third tri if Murphy and that law are anything to be believed.

Fuuuuuuuuuuuck youuuuuuuuuu, Maui.

^^the above was not a TOU violation as I speak only with love towards @MauiBliss‌.

cinnamonlatte · December 2014

I have been having horrible stomach issues this pregnancy. I probably need some acid reflux medication. My hip and back pain has just started getting pretty bad, but I know it will get worse. I am happy the acne is clearing up, and can't wait to meet this baby girl.

CarterWA · December 2014

I think we should all enjoy whenever we feel great because it doesn't last no matter what trimester you're in! I know for me I'm not getting as good a sleep because my hips are so uncomfortable and I'm constantly turning from one side to the other. And my back hurts all the time. But other than that I think I'm doing pretty good

bdazzld · December 2014

Definitely turned a corner into a poo storm. Exhausted, baby brain, insomnia,hip pain, back spasms.Heartburn that is unending, and Wombquakes -.- kid is kicking really hard and has kicked me hard enough in the bladder I've peed.

Glad you've escaped it though!

DM718 · December 2014

29w + here, and I had to order a special knee pillow to combat hip pain at night. Add that to the snoogle,and my pillows take up 1/2 the bed.

I've had some random virus for almost a week, and I'll guess it's worse due to a surpressed immune system and increased congestion. Not really 3rd tri related, but being sick and pregnant sucks.

gdamore11 · December 2014

I have been lucky to have a smooth pregnancy so far. I have scoliosis, so my back pain is something I'm used to... but I definitely feel less mobile now combined with a baby complicating the issue! I haven't been sleeping well since I'm a stomach and back sleeper. I woke up on my back a few days ago and my heart was pounding... Not sure if it truly was caused from the circulation being cut off but it was alarming in that moment. Other than that, since prenatal yoga last night, baby boy seems to have found a new position on my vagina and it's causing so much pressure down there! I actually feel like I'm walking around with a weight I'm holding in my vag. I'm not too worried as I don't feel like he's "pushing down" but I definitely plan to mention it to my doc on Monday at my 28 week appointment. For now I'll just be walking funny.

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mwerren · December 2014

I hit 3rd tri this Friday so I guess close enough.
My hips and lower back hurt and sleep is now a distant memory for me.
At least I can poop normally again.

PHNJenna · December 2014

bdazzld said:
Definitely turned a corner into a poo storm. Exhausted, baby brain, insomnia,hip pain, back spasms.Heartburn that is unending, and Wombquakes -.- kid is kicking really hard and has kicked me hard enough in the bladder I've peed.

Glad you've escaped it though!

I'm with @bdazzld‌ . Third tri has been a weird experience. I have never had problems with heartburn and constipation- now I am all about the tums and psyllium husk. Insomnia is horrible, it makes me so unmotivated and tired- I'm usually a go go type of person and all if this slow stuff is annoying. I have to walk up a steep hill to get to my parking lot at work and am taking it at turtle pace these days as I get so winded. I also tried assembling an IKEA dresser on the floor the other night and it was very uncomfortable sitting and kneeling on the floor and I was sweating up a storm just from screwing the pieces together. It's all so weird and I'm sure will just get worse from here on out.

jnowosielski · December 2014

I had like 2 weeks where I felt "great." Now I just accept that I don't sleep, have constant back pain (in 1 small spot on my back) and have to waddle everywhere.

I like the idea of starting a beer collection for March.

cafecreme · December 2014

I liked part of 2nd tri. I've been feeling more pain lately, which sucks. And, I feel like baby is becoming MORE active. I could barely sleep last night. I'm hoping the next month or two is OK...but, I'm not looking forward to the last few weeks of pregnancy.

Tazminian · December 2014

I'm starting to slow down a bit. 1st tri was horrible, 2nd was great, we'll see about the 3rd. I was getting really bad reflux until I got back on my low carb/low sugar diet. I'm feeling a lot better, but the 2lbs box of See's candy sitting right next to my desk is driving me crazy! Luckily 3 people at my work are currently on the same diet, for different reasons. It has helped to have others in my same boat. My back is killing me by the end of the day. I sit all day, so that can't be good. I'm going to try to start walking every couple of hours to see if that helps.

ruemorgan · December 2014

As for my symptoms, theyve really cleared up and even my anxiety/depression is leveling out. I think 3rd tri might be fantastic until im too big to enjoy anything comfortably.

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JennyP0222 · December 2014

Almost 3rd tri here and feeling pretty good. But I know how this goes, the shittith will hittith the fan soon enough. All day/unresponsive to any med heartburn, pain in my lower back and tail bone anytime I sit or go from sitting to standing, swelling in my feet and legs, sleeping ability vanishes, feeling like I am carrying around a 6-7 lb human in my belly (oh ...wait). The fun is coming but the 1st part of 3rd tri is nice.

goofygoff · December 2014

Couple weeks into the third trimester and I'm feeling it. Sleep comes in 20-30 minute increments, due to peeing and limbs falling asleep. Back and hip pain. Shortness of breath. Almost constant congestion. Random abdominal pains. Exhaustion.

If late February could get here quickly, that'd be terrific.

gnomemom · December 2014

I don't start 3rd tri until Jan. 1. So far, I feel so much better than I did for my last pregnancy. However, 3rd tri last time was when things really started to get uncomfortable. Last time, my wisdom teeth came in and I couldn't do a damn thing about it. Also, DS lodged himself under my ribs and refused to move for 3 months. I actually had 2 of my ribs dislocated.

This time I'm good, aside from occasional lightning crotch and the usual bad heartburn. We'll see what 3rd tri brings. I'm expecting agony, that way anything less will be a pleasant surprise!

lisap0924 · December 2014

I will be 3rd trimester/28 weeks tomorrow. I have really enjoyed 2nd trimester! lots of energy and feeling like myself has been great. first trimester was horrible! I was so sick here is hoping for a good third trimester.

lawsonellis · December 2014

In a word: Tired.

I am starting to see an increase in heartburn, as well as baby being pretty forceful with her vag punches.

My hip pain has either subsided some or I've gotten used to it. Same with boobs, nausea, and being perpetually smelly.

I am starting to feel dismayed at my massive size, but I know it's only temporary. Still, not being able to reach my toes is saddening. :P

drudolph11 · December 2014

katydid2014 said:
I feel about the same so far between second and third. My face has cleared up remarkably in the past month or so which is a very welcome change. I haven't wanted to say anything because I don't want to jinx it. I am starting to feel the weight of my bump more and it's a little more uncomfortable to sleep.

The main new symptom I've noticed is difficulty to breathe. I have to take shallow breaths and I find myself sighing a lot. I have to force myself to walk slower because typically I'm a borderline speed walker. I get a cramp in my bump if I walk too fast for too long.

This 100% i just noticed this this other day. When i sat wrong on my couch i couldn't breath like i was sitting straight up i ended up having to totally recline back so my tummy was less smushed before i could catch my breath. Bah on the upside bring a pre pregnancy smoker i am a little more used to being out of breath than most of you who never smoked lol not that I'm saying is a good thing haha just a fact lol cuz now I'm dealing with the pregnancy causing me to not be able to breath as well as the residual effects from smoking. I can only imagine what this last trimester will bring lol holy crap batman i can't believe the end is actually approaching like i feel like the new year is the last mountain in my way and after we get past that it's all blue skies from there (im really hoping that analogy made sense to someone haha)

Skrittens · December 2014

So far, week one+ of the 3rd trimester has been the best. I still can't say I enjoy being pregnant - but I get out of bed.

My arms are permanently numb, I'm exhausted and extremely short of breath - and my temper is getting short. But believe it or not, I'm calling that a good day right now...

Whitfry · December 2014

I slept through most of first tri.

I laughed through most of second tri - everything was hilarious and wonderful.

Third tri... I'm tired. I'm sick. I'm having terrible hormonal fluctuations and can't stop crying. I ache. I can't sleep. I hurt everywhere. I have GD. I'm depressed, overwhelmed, and stressed out. I hate it. I'm hopeful that once my body acclimated to the new progesterone levels my mood will at least even out which will help immensely. I miss my second tri happiness. And I miss carbs.

Clobert · December 2014

I've felt pretty good throughout although I was exhausted in the first trimester and that started coming back pretty much the day I turned over into the third. Some things like minor heartburn and joint pain from sleeping on my side (causing me to turn over constantly) have had ups and downs, so at least not getting steadily worse yet. Adding light exercise and a nap is really helpful, but there's not always time.

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