"why you gotta be so rude?"

Re: "why you gotta be so rude?"

• abcdefghijk12345678 member

  November 2014

  babypaymay said:

  daisyloves said:

  I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

  
  
  Preach =D>

  If you don't like it here, then leave. Yes, it really is that easy!

  
  

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• OctoberStars member

  November 2014

  babypaymay said:

  daisyloves said:

  I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

  
  
  Preach =D>

  Aw for fuck's sake.
  
  Thank god the Christians are here to teach us civil discourse! It's a super duper secret that only they know!

  
  

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• Rahxy member

  November 2014

  Oh man. I agree that if someone says something crappy and hurtful to someone else who is scared, emotional, and seeking advice, just to be mean; that's just thoughtless. But I've seen a lot of ladies here who are just being blunt and honest with others, and just not sugar coating things. They're being real and trying to help.

  
  

  Most of these women have a lot of experience on these subjects, and see the same posts day in and day out, so it's not always going to be the most gentle replies. I haven't seen anyone being downright "mean" so far, but I can see how some people who are much more sensitive could be hurt by some of the raw opinions stated here.

  
  

  I understand both sides, because while I prefer people to be straight with me, I can be overly sensitive at times, especially now that I'm all hormonal and shit. Just read everything in a friendly tone, and don't assume people are trying to be rude unless they state that they are? :P

  
  

  Idk man! I agree with you that people shouldn't be hateful, though I haven't seen any evidence of that here as long as I've been haunting these forums.
  

  
  

  
  

  Good luck to you, though. 

  
  

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• missjen08 member

  November 2014

  I'm new here. I haven't seen any rudeness outside of this thread, but it does make me want to not have anything to do with a group of ladies who act like this. 1. Seems over dramatic to start this thread however I get it because this clearly displays the rude women here (dont agree that the original poster was bein rude) 2. I get that we are all hormonal with all the baby carrying we are doing but all of you rude repliers... seriously? Thats how you get your kicks? Grow up. We are strangers here to get advice/encouragement about our babies. Leave it to a bunch of b****es to start drama. You are saying that if we don't like it we should leave? Okay! I will! I've only ever posted a handful of times and you've got me convinced! Everyone who doesn't like these stuck in high school drama loving haters should follow me. Leave them all to their own devices.

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• OctoberStars member

  November 2014

  This is all I think of when anyone calls us "rude".  Can't.  Take.  Seriously.

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• OctoberStars member

  November 2014

  estamos_tomamos said:

  What's cute is that these people think we care that they're leaving because they don't like TB culture. Seriously, no one cares, and frankly the place is better without you and your butthurt.

  Exactly.  We'd much prefer to have a limited group of regular posters rather than an infinite number of single post fly bys ala Baby Center.

  
  

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• thiscoffeechick member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

  estamos_tomamos said:

  What's cute is that these people think we care that they're leaving because they don't like TB culture. Seriously, no one cares, and frankly the place is better without you and your butthurt.
  

  I agree with @estamos_tomamos‌ ... Edited to add that mine is a lame post since it wouldn't add my epic "Butthurt" gif. ::waves like Lloyd in Dumb and Dumber:: sorry guise

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• Mills0309 member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

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  missjen08 said:

  I'm new here. I haven't seen any rudeness outside of this thread, but it does make me want to not have anything to do with a group of ladies who act like this. 1. Seems over dramatic to start this thread however I get it because this clearly displays the rude women here (dont agree that the original poster was bein rude) 2. I get that we are all hormonal with all the baby carrying we are doing but all of you rude repliers... seriously? Thats how you get your kicks? Grow up. We are strangers here to get advice/encouragement about our babies. Leave it to a bunch of b****es to start drama. You are saying that if we don't like it we should leave? Okay! I will! I've only ever posted a handful of times and you've got me convinced! Everyone who doesn't like these stuck in high school drama loving haters should follow me. Leave them all to their own devices.

  Oh. Another "look at me,look at me" cry for attention. Isn't the term "drama loving haters" kinda contradictive? You're right..I am a drama loving hater..in that I am a hater because I hate people who love drama/starting drama..such as this ridiculousness you brought to the table.

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• mel8255 member

  November 2014

  OctoberStars said:

  
  

  estamos_tomamos said:

  
  

  What's cute is that these people think we care that they're leaving because they don't like TB culture. Seriously, no one cares, and frankly the place is better without you and your butthurt.
  

  
  

  Exactly.  We'd much prefer to have a limited group of regular posters rather than an infinite number of single post fly bys ala Baby Center.
  
  
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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  You guys are so cool

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  I wanna be just like you when I'm 45 and pregnant using this app like it's Facebook

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Give me some advice on how to get pregnant just before menopause it worked for you right jefa?

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• forevergraceful member

  November 2014

  philuponya said:

  Give me some advice on how to get pregnant just before menopause it worked for you right jefa?

  WTF! GTFO! 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  A new show on life time "45 &pregnant" queen of the bump, where noone is allowed an opinion unless it's approved by me first, dun dun dun

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• Chasity08 member

  November 2014

  Its like the energizer bunny. The idiots just keep going and going and going and going.... GTFO.

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  July 2014 - 3rd round of Femara. CD10 Follicular U/S. No follies in left ovary. 7 follies in right. 1 20mm, 1 12mm, 1 10mm, 4 <5mm. Scheduled for IUI. Canceled due to low estrogen level of 145. TI this month. Prepping for Injectables next month. BFN.
  August 2014 - CD3 BW Normal. Injectables not happening because of stupid miscommunication about "required injectables class." Taking class this month. No medication. TI for the month. SIS scheduled for 8/7/14. SIS results - "I have a beautiful uterus." Huzzah!
  September 2014 - Cycle cancelled due to stupid AF coming early and making my IUI run in to DH's business trip. Try again next month.
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• abcdefghijk12345678 member

  November 2014

  philuponya said:

  A new show on life time "45 &pregnant" queen of the bump, where noone is allowed an opinion unless it's approved by me first, dun dun dun

  You need to fuck off. Seriously.

  
  

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• foodie12rn member

  November 2014

  WTAF?! Can we get @philuponya‌ on a TOU violation? I'm pretty sure attacking someone violates it?

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Why ya gotta be so rude ?

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Don't you know I'm human too ?

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Lol attacking just the same way everyone attacked babypaymay ouch doesn't feel good huh

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• Chasity08 member

  November 2014

  No one in here attacked Babypaymay.

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  June 2011 - Married DH.
  June 2013 - Diagnosis of Endometriosis and PCOS (approximate).
  December 2013 - First cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  January 2014 - 2nd Cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  February 2014 - 3rd Cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  March 2014 - Took month off to prep for surgery
  April 2014 - Laporoscopy for endo. Unable to remove endo due to too close of proximity to ureter. HSG done as well. Fillopian tubes open.
  May 2014 - 1st round of Femara. Positive OPK. BFN.
  June 2014 - 2nd round of Femara. Moved to RE to have CD10 Follicular U/S. No Follies in left ovary. 5 follies in right. Largest follie 8mm, 1 7mm, 2 3mm, 1 2mm. Positive OPK on day of U/S. BFN. DH has SA done at this time - All results within normal limits.
  July 2014 - 3rd round of Femara. CD10 Follicular U/S. No follies in left ovary. 7 follies in right. 1 20mm, 1 12mm, 1 10mm, 4 <5mm. Scheduled for IUI. Canceled due to low estrogen level of 145. TI this month. Prepping for Injectables next month. BFN.
  August 2014 - CD3 BW Normal. Injectables not happening because of stupid miscommunication about "required injectables class." Taking class this month. No medication. TI for the month. SIS scheduled for 8/7/14. SIS results - "I have a beautiful uterus." Huzzah!
  September 2014 - Cycle cancelled due to stupid AF coming early and making my IUI run in to DH's business trip. Try again next month.
  October 2014 - Injects with IUI cycle. 75U 5 days. Estrogen at 36. Bumped up to 125 for 4 days. Estrogen 105. Bumped up to 225. Ganirelix for 2 days. 4 mature follies. Triggered 10/9. IUI 10/10.
  BFP 10/24/2014. Beta #1 - 178   Beta #2 - 398.   U/S 11/7/14- TWINS!!!!
  
  
  
   

  
  

   

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  I'm just asking sincere advice you are all a bunch of fabulously older than average pregnant women , very mature I might add

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• aloha_mama member

  November 2014

  What the hell is going on? And why are the WKs able to find this thread but can't for the life of them find the blaring "daily symptoms thread"? Jesus.

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  You're not allowed an opinion on this app go away !

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• foodie12rn member

  November 2014

  @BunkinMama‌ -has she violated the TOU yet? She's directly attacking Jefa.
  
  Go the fuck away OP. You are "acting like" a crazy bitch.

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• abcdefghijk12345678 member

  November 2014

  philuponya said:

  Lol attacking just the same way everyone attacked babypaymay ouch doesn't feel good huh

  Why do I get the feeling that this is a reincarnation of babypaymay...??? Oh yeah, it's a brand new account, created 3 days ago....

  
  

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• Chasity08 member

  November 2014

  @BunkinMama‌ - malicious attack against a member. TOU violation, no?

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  March 2008 - DD born - no issues conceiving (surprise). Limited issues during pregnancy/delivery.
  June 2011 - Married DH.
  June 2013 - Diagnosis of Endometriosis and PCOS (approximate).
  December 2013 - First cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  January 2014 - 2nd Cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  February 2014 - 3rd Cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  March 2014 - Took month off to prep for surgery
  April 2014 - Laporoscopy for endo. Unable to remove endo due to too close of proximity to ureter. HSG done as well. Fillopian tubes open.
  May 2014 - 1st round of Femara. Positive OPK. BFN.
  June 2014 - 2nd round of Femara. Moved to RE to have CD10 Follicular U/S. No Follies in left ovary. 5 follies in right. Largest follie 8mm, 1 7mm, 2 3mm, 1 2mm. Positive OPK on day of U/S. BFN. DH has SA done at this time - All results within normal limits.
  July 2014 - 3rd round of Femara. CD10 Follicular U/S. No follies in left ovary. 7 follies in right. 1 20mm, 1 12mm, 1 10mm, 4 <5mm. Scheduled for IUI. Canceled due to low estrogen level of 145. TI this month. Prepping for Injectables next month. BFN.
  August 2014 - CD3 BW Normal. Injectables not happening because of stupid miscommunication about "required injectables class." Taking class this month. No medication. TI for the month. SIS scheduled for 8/7/14. SIS results - "I have a beautiful uterus." Huzzah!
  September 2014 - Cycle cancelled due to stupid AF coming early and making my IUI run in to DH's business trip. Try again next month.
  October 2014 - Injects with IUI cycle. 75U 5 days. Estrogen at 36. Bumped up to 125 for 4 days. Estrogen 105. Bumped up to 225. Ganirelix for 2 days. 4 mature follies. Triggered 10/9. IUI 10/10.
  BFP 10/24/2014. Beta #1 - 178   Beta #2 - 398.   U/S 11/7/14- TWINS!!!!
  
  
  
   

  
  

   

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  You shouldn't use that language in front of all the babies

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Are you going to kiss your baby with that mouth ?

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• Chasity08 member

  November 2014

  amc2511 said:

  
  

  philuponya said:

  
  

  Lol attacking just the same way everyone attacked babypaymay ouch doesn't feel good huh

  
  

  Why do I get the feeling that this is a reincarnation of babypaymay...??? Oh yeah, it's a brand new account, created 3 days ago....
  
  I was thinking the exact same thing. Sounds like an IP address ban is in store.

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  March 2008 - DD born - no issues conceiving (surprise). Limited issues during pregnancy/delivery.
  June 2011 - Married DH.
  June 2013 - Diagnosis of Endometriosis and PCOS (approximate).
  December 2013 - First cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  January 2014 - 2nd Cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  February 2014 - 3rd Cycle of Clomid - Positive OPK. BFN
  March 2014 - Took month off to prep for surgery
  April 2014 - Laporoscopy for endo. Unable to remove endo due to too close of proximity to ureter. HSG done as well. Fillopian tubes open.
  May 2014 - 1st round of Femara. Positive OPK. BFN.
  June 2014 - 2nd round of Femara. Moved to RE to have CD10 Follicular U/S. No Follies in left ovary. 5 follies in right. Largest follie 8mm, 1 7mm, 2 3mm, 1 2mm. Positive OPK on day of U/S. BFN. DH has SA done at this time - All results within normal limits.
  July 2014 - 3rd round of Femara. CD10 Follicular U/S. No follies in left ovary. 7 follies in right. 1 20mm, 1 12mm, 1 10mm, 4 <5mm. Scheduled for IUI. Canceled due to low estrogen level of 145. TI this month. Prepping for Injectables next month. BFN.
  August 2014 - CD3 BW Normal. Injectables not happening because of stupid miscommunication about "required injectables class." Taking class this month. No medication. TI for the month. SIS scheduled for 8/7/14. SIS results - "I have a beautiful uterus." Huzzah!
  September 2014 - Cycle cancelled due to stupid AF coming early and making my IUI run in to DH's business trip. Try again next month.
  October 2014 - Injects with IUI cycle. 75U 5 days. Estrogen at 36. Bumped up to 125 for 4 days. Estrogen 105. Bumped up to 225. Ganirelix for 2 days. 4 mature follies. Triggered 10/9. IUI 10/10.
  BFP 10/24/2014. Beta #1 - 178   Beta #2 - 398.   U/S 11/7/14- TWINS!!!!
  
  
  
   

  
  

   

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Laughing at you guyssssss
  

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  No stop you don't get an opinion

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Don't like when someone else does the same thing to you huh

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• aloha_mama member

  November 2014

  DarcyHermione said:

  Cassiek90 said:

  
  

  amc2511 said:

  
  

  
  

  philuponya said:

  
  

  Lol attacking just the same way everyone attacked babypaymay ouch doesn't feel good huh

  
  

  Why do I get the feeling that this is a reincarnation of babypaymay...??? Oh yeah, it's a brand new account, created 3 days ago....

  
  

  I was thinking the same. I have a feeling that babywhateverface, missymoowhatever and that lady who was hating on our cat .gif siggies are all one in the same.
  
  
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  My vote is for missy.
  
  +1. Major butthurts.

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  All right I'm sorry everyone I'll leave you all alone my apologies

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• foodie12rn member

  November 2014

  DarcyHermione said:

  Someone sounds like a bored 14 year old in their parents basement. Go troll on reddit.

  She's definitely 14. Notice the great use of punctuation. OP, isn't it your bedtime yet?

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Not! !

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Oh my God stop with the opinions

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  You guys don't get any of those

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• philuponya member

  November 2014

  Attacking just the same way you guys also attacked that girl for even mentioning something religious

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