"why you gotta be so rude?"

sosueme

OctoberStars

xochals said:

Good thing I have real friends and don't have to resort to my online "friends."

OH HAHA WOW SICK BURN. WE HAVE NO FRIENDS. U SO CLEVER.

anfranklin2

ashtog said:

Bump Bingo anyone?? so far I have "this place is for support" "I have to live my real lyfe" and do we also have an attempt at a WK? this thread just keeps giving.. just waiting on the " I feel sorry for your husbands and kids"

You forgot the "for future mothers you aren't acting very motherly"!

catahoulatte

estamos_tomamos said:

If this turns out anything like M15, and it looks like it will, we're going to be seeing posts like this every day for about a month until all of the butthurts either assimilate or migrate elsewhere.  We're going to need those bingo cards for sure.

yep. It went basically exactly like this when the random newbs that showed almost zero participation started freaking out in Aug '11, before they ran off to baby gaga too.

Dibs on when the July 15 fb page starts and a crazy shows up there and ruins it for them all? (or did it start? I don't do those.)

tigerlynx31413

So I've either been around these parts too long, or I'm going to be one of the "mean girls", but seriously!? I understand some of the women on here have not been on TB before and you want to stick with your BMB, but check out some of the other boards. If you seriously think anything done so far has been mean or rude I dare you to lurk on other BMBs, or other boards like TTCAL or TTGP and see how protective they are. This community was built by those who use it often and we created the environment around here. 

I know I was new once too and had been flamed for some dumb and inconsiderate stuff, but guess what, I apologized, lurked more, offered support and we all moved on.

As for the "friends" comment, I'm offended by that. I have dear friends that came out of my DD's BMB because we could relate to each other. When one of us is down (and we've had several, just over the last 20 months), we group together to support each other. We all have friends IRL, but I have significant connections with those women that I don't even have with my BFFs. 

I am by no means telling anyone to leave, because we all need support at some point along this path, but get used to the idea that in 9 months some of these women will/can be closer to you than some of your "real" friends. 

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loveandlignin said:

Where's the "nope" octopus when I need it? I love that guy.

@loveandlignin Sorry I'm late to the party!

I hope you don't mind that I brought a friend along...

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xochals said:

K. Sorry for offending whoever. I'm finished posting here.

thiscoffeechick

Personally I don't even know what rudeness she is talking about. I came over from TTGP and I'm having trouble WALKING with all these rainbows and unicorns up my butt.

bchandler913

Wow, all I have to say is just about everyone of you are the biggest bitches ever! I didn't join this app/community to make best friends or even get feedback about something im worried about (thats why i have a Dr) and in my opinion pregnancy and raising a child is more common sense than anything, but some people like the reassurance of other people's opinions. Why in the hell they would ask a bunch like you, no effing clue.

Knottie47406909

Didn't realize so many bitter women flocked together on the Internet. LOL. TheBump is full of em!

moodytuesday

bchandler913 said:

Wow, all I have to say is just about everyone of you are the biggest bitches ever! I didn't join this app/community to make best friends or even get feedback about something im worried about (thats why i have a Dr) and in my opinion pregnancy and raising a child is more common sense than anything, but some people like the reassurance of other people's opinions. Why in the hell they would ask a bunch like you, no effing clue.

Woah tell me how you really feel.

abcdefghijk12345678

bchandler913 said:

Wow, all I have to say is just about everyone of you are the biggest bitches ever! I didn't join this app/community to make best friends or even get feedback about something im worried about (thats why i have a Dr) and in my opinion pregnancy and raising a child is more common sense than anything, but some people like the reassurance of other people's opinions. Why in the hell they would ask a bunch like you, no effing clue.

If you don't like it here, you are free to leave. 

abcdefghijk12345678

Knottie47406909 said:

Didn't realize so many bitter women flocked together on the Internet. LOL. TheBump is full of em!

Damn, I should get started on filling out my Bingo card!

catahoulatte

Knottie47406909 said:

Didn't realize so many bitter women flocked together on the Internet. LOL. TheBump is full of em!

You've asked for (and received support) and had zero negative interactions on here. Why would you even bother to say this? What did you get out of this whole post? That you agree with the randoms that haven't even tried to be part of this community? Then you can go join them.

thiscoffeechick

@sosueme‌ I apologize it's small. I'm on mobile...

sosueme said:

hpoff33

God I love these threads. They keep me entertained for hours. 

thiscoffeechick

Theusualmischief said:

I think we should make a legit bingo board...  I'd be willing if you ladies can help me with what to put in the squares.  

1. My Real Life

2. Feel sorry for you kids

3. Feel sorry for your husband

4. You are all mean girls

The other day we got called "hormonal".

DaBearsFansWife

Knottie47406909 said:

Didn't realize so many bitter women flocked together on the Internet. LOL. TheBump is full of em!

And you're here because....? Fucking go already. We won't miss you either.

adawn1981

Oh yeah!! I was waiting for this kind of day! My old bmb was full of crazy in the beginning too! I'm gonna pop some popcorn and catch up

DB425

I'm sorry but do some of you posters have someone standing next to you with a fucking gun to your head forcing you to interact on this board?? Did my gun guy's GPS break and he never made it to me??

If you don't like it here, don't come here!

I DON'T FUCKING UNDERSTAND.

JerseyML

Damn this got to page 4?!?!  Are you bitches still being "mean"?!?!?! 

aloha_mama

amc2511 said:

loveandlignin said:

Where's the "nope" octopus when I need it? I love that guy.

@loveandlignin Sorry I'm late to the party!

I hope you don't mind that I brought a friend along...

Thank you Seriously, it's my favorite gif, it makes me laugh every time!

foodie12rn

Seriously I ALWAYS miss all the fun. I've been waiting for this drama to arrive. Weeding out the crazies!!

daniellelea1985

Mills0309

This post is none other than a cry for attention. Bless your heart OP.

ariaforte8

bchandler913 said:

Wow, all I have to say is just about everyone of you are the biggest bitches ever! I didn't join this app/community to make best friends or even get feedback about something im worried about (thats why i have a Dr) and in my opinion pregnancy and raising a child is more common sense than anything, but some people like the reassurance of other people's opinions. Why in the hell they would ask a bunch like you, no effing clue.

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We're not here to blindly reassure you. We'll be honest and straightforward, so you can count on it when we are reassuring because we don't blindly blow glitter up unwarranted asses.

ariaforte8

Bump burp

DeliciousFishes

I think I'm going to love it here. Listen to them OP, they are wise.

Dcwtada

Running out of room on my post-it...

This is such a special time early in our pregnancies - the crazies coming out of the shadows

monkeydilla

bchandler913 said:

Wow, all I have to say is just about everyone of you are the biggest bitches ever! I didn't join this app/community to make best friends or even get feedback about something im worried about (thats why i have a Dr) and in my opinion pregnancy and raising a child is more common sense than anything, but some people like the reassurance of other people's opinions. Why in the hell they would ask a bunch like you, no effing clue.

This is probably the rudest comment in this thread. Why are you here? Seriously, this BMB is tame so far. I personally like the snark and the true opinions of the girls on here. If you can't handle it, MOVE ON. There's a red "x" at the top of your screen, it's there for a reason. 

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monkeydilla said:

bchandler913 said:

Wow, all I have to say is just about everyone of you are the biggest bitches ever! I didn't join this app/community to make best friends or even get feedback about something im worried about (thats why i have a Dr) and in my opinion pregnancy and raising a child is more common sense than anything, but some people like the reassurance of other people's opinions. Why in the hell they would ask a bunch like you, no effing clue.

This is probably the rudest comment in this thread. Why are you here? Seriously, this BMB is tame so far. I personally like the snark and the true opinions of the girls on here. If you can't handle it, MOVE ON. There's a red "x" at the top of your screen, it's there for a reason. 

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hjhmomma said:

babypaymay said:

Before anyone hops down my throat about my spelling/grammer I am quoting a song. I just need to point out all of the rude comments I am seeing on some of these discussions. We are supposed to be a "community" of moms who are hear tp support each other through this life changing time. Yes everyone is entitled to thier own opinion and yes it is the internet, freedom of speech blah blah blah. But if your reply put someone down then why even reply? For some "soon to be mommies" some of you are not very motherly. Teach love and respect ro your child even before its brought into this cruel world. #rant

I teach love and respect to my child above most things.  HOWEVER, I don't teach tolerance.  I believe that is what is wrong with this world.  Not everyone has to agree, not everything is sunshine and roses.  Tolerance is the reason we have a growing generation of entitled ninkumpoots.  That being said, I haven't seen many replies which "put people down"... I have mostly seen suggestions / advice / rules.  There are "rules" posted at the top of the board, if you can't comply, keep moving or deal with being flamed.

THIS. SO MUCH THIS. I know i'm late joining the party (Gosh! Why do I work!), but I agree. I'm not going to raise my child to think that everything is puppies and rainbows and they should just agree with whatever someone else says and be sooooo sweeeeet about it. No. My daughter is 7 and has a nice head on her shoulders, already. Want to know why? Because she lives in the real world.

So don't tell me how to act or parent. K? k.