"why you gotta be so rude?"

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DaBearsFansWife

Well I guess my nap couldn't have been more well timed. I missed everything. Well except the vile comments on my blog that she left behind. I'm glad she's gone and all but I'm taking down my blog for a while until she disappears and I'm disabling comments permanently. This has gone too far and I am feeling pretty violated TBH. Thanks for defending me, ladies. I really appreciate it. 

JerseyML

DaBearsFansWife said:

Well I guess my nap couldn't have been more well timed. I missed everything. Well except the vile comments on my blog that she left behind. I'm glad she's gone and all but I'm taking down my blog for a while until she disappears and I'm disabling comments permanently. This has gone too far and I am feeling pretty violated TBH. Thanks for defending me, ladies. I really appreciate it. 

WTF that's not cool.  

DaBearsFansWife

estamos_tomamos said:

I'm sorry she's targeting you, @DaBearsFansWife.  Hopefully her Bump ban will chill her out a little and she'll lose interest in you now.

Thanks, but she'll be back. She'll make a new name and it will take a while to prove it unless she stays at her current level of BSC. Then she'll eventually be IP banned for ban dodging. It's all part of the cycle of crazies I suppose.

Chasity08

I realize now HOW late to the party I was with my response now that I've read the whole thing. I'm sorry Bears that she is targeting you. She really is BSC :-(

paige0704

Babypaymay i am so happy to see someone pointing the negativity out as i was just discussing this earlier with a friend. I joined hoping for women who would provide support and not jump down my throat for something thats already been posted or a topic that one may think is stupid in their opinion. But, i guess for now i will just blame it on their hormones...thankful mine arent that bad!

aloha_mama

paige0704 said:

Babypaymay i am so happy to see someone pointing the negativity out as i was just discussing this earlier with a friend. I joined hoping for women who would provide support and not jump down my throat for something thats already been posted or a topic that one may think is stupid in their opinion. But, i guess for now i will just blame it on their hormones...thankful mine arent that bad!

https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12482718/how-to-know-if-you-are-a-special-snowflake-10-warning-signs-stolen-from-april-15#latest

Please refer to #8.

DaBearsFansWife

paige0704 said:

Babypaymay i am so happy to see someone pointing the negativity out as i was just discussing this earlier with a friend. I joined hoping for women who would provide support and not jump down my throat for something thats already been posted or a topic that one may think is stupid in their opinion. But, i guess for now i will just blame it on their hormones...thankful mine arent that bad!

Get out. That gun against your head that's keeping you here is totally imaginary.

abcdefghijk12345678

paige0704 said:

Babypaymay i am so happy to see someone pointing the negativity out as i was just discussing this earlier with a friend. I joined hoping for women who would provide support and not jump down my throat for something thats already been posted or a topic that one may think is stupid in their opinion. But, i guess for now i will just blame it on their hormones...thankful mine arent that bad!

We provide support to the people who earn it.

thiscoffeechick

paige0704 said:

Babypaymay i am so happy to see someone pointing the negativity out as i was just discussing this earlier with a friend. I joined hoping for women who would provide support and not jump down my throat for something thats already been posted or a topic that one may think is stupid in their opinion. But, i guess for now i will just blame it on their hormones...thankful mine arent that bad!

Thanks but we already got the "hormonal" BINGO square.

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forevergraceful

daisyloves said:

I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

Did you read all six pages of this thread? All of the answers to your questions are in them.

abcdefghijk12345678

daisyloves said:

I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

What does your religion have to do with any of this?

Mills0309

daisyloves said:

I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

Not very Christian-like to judge the ladies of this board.. Tsk tsk.

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Mills0309

daisyloves said:

I don't feel my comment was judge mental. It came from helpful heart! I wasn't putting anyone down! And if you took it that way I apologize!

Actually you did. You accused some women of being disrespectful. That ma'am is judging.

abcdefghijk12345678

daisyloves said:

Yes I read all six pages of this thread and my religion is just who I am!! I walk and live it I want to be a light in this world of darkness! The bible says to be encouraging to one another! To build eachother up. Standing up for what I believe in isn't wrong.

You can believe whatever you want, but throwing around your religion as a bargaining chip to try and change the culture of this board just rubs me the wrong way.

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shelbutler

daisyloves said:

I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

I'm a Chrisitan too, nice to know you believe in our mighty God and Savior.


However, not sure how this was relevant whatsoever or why you chose to let everyone know in that manner. I see more folks ridiculed by other church members in my church than I've seen on this board.

Have a good day.

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abcdefghijk12345678

daisyloves said:

Well I'm sorry my attitude is unacceptable to you ladies! I will go elsewhere, and I know I won't be missed, I'm not upset about that either! Maybe something I have said will put a kind thought in your hearts in the future! I pray you all have a happy heathy pregnancy and baby!

My heart is full of kind thoughts, thank you very much.

Mills0309

daisyloves said:

Well I'm sorry my attitude is unacceptable to you ladies! I will go elsewhere, and I know I won't be missed, I'm not upset about that either! Maybe something I have said will put a kind thought in your hearts in the future! I pray you all have a happy heathy pregnancy and baby!

Bye Felicia!

shannycakes6

estamos_tomamos said:

@shannycakes6, are you going to keep liking every post complaining about board culture? Just curious.

I will do whatever I want. If your group of bumps don't like it maybe you should form a private group or Facebook group. You people need to grow up. I will continue to like what I like and say what I want. You can go right on ahead and mind your business about it.

sharebear05

From the TB TOU - snark in and of itself doesn't seem to violate any of these clauses...if you receive a response that is truly "strong, vulgar, obscene, or otherwise harmful," just report the user or ignore it.  Try also to keep in mind that not everyone's TTC experience or pregnancies have gone perfectly, so not all posts will tell you "everything is going to be okay."

1. Online behavior requires common sense and basic etiquette. Accordingly, here are some rules that you agree to follow:

   • No strong, vulgar, obscene, or otherwise harmful language.
   • No racially, ethnically or otherwise, objectionable language.
   • No harassing, intimidating, stalking, or threatening other community members.
   • No libelous, defamatory, or otherwise tortiuous language.
   • No online vandalism. This includes using abusive language and repeatedly hitting the return key in the chat room, or otherwise acting in a manner that negatively impacts the ability to engage in real time exchanges.
   • No impersonating any person, including, but not limited to, other community members or employees of The Knot.
   • No posting, distributing, transmitting, or promoting illegal content.
   • No invasion of another's privacy.
   • No actions that are harmful to minors.
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DaBearsFansWife

mistabinx said:

The thread that wouldn't die.....

Instead of dragging out that dang post it every time I just starred the thread. I'll come back in a couple weeks and write everyone's names down.

Knottie64157109

She's right. We wonder why our daughters bully each other... It's because they see us do it to other moms whether it be parenting styles, pregnancy choices, etc.

Let's try to be kind. What's the worse that could happen? We see someone else's point of view? We encourage another woman during what may be a difficult or scary time? We actually learn something?

babycarb

LET IT DIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIE. 

abcdefghijk12345678

CALEO said:

This is the thread that never ends. It goes on and on my friends. A white knight started typing in it, not knowing what it was, and they'll continue typing in it forever just because...

THIS IS THE THREAD THAT NECER ENDS. it goes on and on, my friends. ...

OctoberStars

Holy shit! Everyone just get the fuck out already! You sound like pouty children when you tell us we hurt your feelings. Man the fuck up! Also, please dear god, get the fuck out already!

Judging by the zero love its you get when whining, no one agrees with you! Get the fuck out!

Get. The. Fuck. Out. Already.

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DaBearsFansWife

daisyloves said:

I haven't been successful at deleting my account today

Keep trying. No one likes a quitter.

abcdefghijk12345678

daisyloves said:

I haven't been successful at deleting my account today

FYI, you don't have to delete your account. You can just leave.

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DaBearsFansWife

daisyloves said:

It didn't put my whole response!

What you wrote is sufficient. Just keep trying.

Mills0309

daisyloves said:

I haven't been successful at deleting my account today! It has however given me time to reflect and I want to say I see how me bringing up I'm a Christian wasn't relevant and was taken as holier than thou! I do not want this to happen in the future so I will not make this mistake again! I apologize to anyone I offended!

I would suggest just not participating if you don't want to? Andplusalso if you do choose to participate..don't try to be a white night by continuing to actually stir up drama instead of letting it go. Nobody likes those.

candice1133

Hormonal mood swinging women ....

forevergraceful

candice1133 said:

Hormonal mood swinging women ....

Nope, wrong. 

candice1133

Lol

babypaymay

daisyloves said:

I haven't been here long and I feel I have been kind and respectful to everyone! Yes some of the questions people ask on threads are absolutely ridiculous. That being said should any of us treat them disrespectful because of it? I think not... Maybe just no one comment I think that might send a message just fine. I only say this because I'm a Christian women and I enjoy this site but it is shocking to see some women being ridiculed for a slip of the tongue! And I read all of these comments the women who disagree and the ones that agree all have one thing in common! They have say they want or have received SUPPORT which is one thing you all made clear is silly! It just seems you all have your groups and outsiders aren't worthy of joining in!

Preach =D>