Me and my fiancé are expecting our first it was an unplanned pregnancy but I'm very excited! Very nervous but excited. My fiancé on the other hand i feel is extremely nervous. He never really wanted children in the first place so i feel like this pregnancy is very overwhelming for him and i am SO moody so that definitely doesn't help. Im either fighting with him because he rather sit on the recliner then on the lumpy sofa with me or crying because he brought me the wrong chips I'm just always upset for something or desperately clingy and I'm just a mess. I try to back off but its so hard lol. Does anyone have any suggestions for how you and your partner get through these crazy times. I feel like we have been so distant and i would hate for something so wonderful as starting a family drive us apart.
Re: distant partner
You have a rough road ahead of you. This is why you will often hear us counseling women from "tricking" their SOs into impregnating them (and I am not suggesting you did that.) Because a man who doesn't want/isn't ready to be a father is usually not a great team player in terms of pregnancy and child rearing.
There is always the hope that at some point he will have an epiphany, but expectation-wise, you are better off not planning for that. I would be crystal clear in communicating your expectations from him and work on expressing what you really need (which may be less than what you want). I would also recommend doing some sort of counseling so that you both have a safe space to express your thoughts and concerns
2nd round exp 8/20/18.