What's with all the negativity?!?!

beckynsean11 · November 2014

This atheist believes you need to climb down from you high horse.

wtbratcher · November 2014

Just to be clear, the evil I was referring to was the women attacking that chick, wishing her ill. That is evil.

kimmarie1105 · November 2014

wtbratcher said:
@ac5008 - God is in everything I do. He is more powerful than you think. Believe me, I am a witness to small and large miracles I have asked of Him. Even taking away a headache immediately after asking; NOTHING is too small or large for Him.

Oh for fucks sake. You're a nut.

Trampslikeus · November 2014

Please don't pray for me. Seriously, no. Gross.

spidermonkeymomma · November 2014

wtbratcher welcome to the internet. You have a lot to learn about how things work around these parts.

catmagick · November 2014

@wtbratcher : NO. God does not fair well on a community board like this one. Just stop. Also--LOL that you think 600 people are going to care about all your "experience" with infertility, motherhood and pregnancy or whatever. If you keep talking like this no one at all is going to care. And you can go right ahead and feel that the comment about consolidating the loss posts was warranted--no one else here has to/does agree with you because it was an asshole comment. The end. So STFU. You can stick around here and white knight for as long as you want because you know, no one has ever done that before (insert eyeroll). You'll get sick of trying to change the tone of the board. They always do........

willowprincess · November 2014

This hardcore Christian thinks you need to back off.

jbartsy · November 2014

wtbratcher said:

@ac5008 - God is in everything I do. He is more powerful than you think. Believe me, I am a witness to small and large miracles I have asked of Him. Even taking away a headache immediately after asking; NOTHING is too small or large for Him.

This comment just screams "I'm a better Christian than you so God does stuff for me". I'm sorry, but it doesn't work that way. I believe in God and pray every day, but He isn't a genie, nor a tylenol replacement.

beersandweirs · November 2014

wtbratcher said:

Evil.

All I could think of when this was said. FYI, I am in no way condoning OP's ass-hattery.

elyshas · November 2014

This is why I have mostly male friends. You all are Batshit crazy. I'm here to read through and ask questions if need be, but I knew as soon as I started reading in this app I would regret it. Something that is supposed to be expecting mothers assisting each other will turn sour eventually because women are nuts. Even more so now that we've got hormones controlling us. The ladies who are showing their mean side on here were already that way and now pregnancy is amplifying it to those she should be supporting or not responding to at all. How hard is it to skip to another question if you've already seen it before. Ugh the nasty attitudes won't help that baby growing inside you. What happened to stress free living for the next 9 months!? Grow up ya'll. =D>

kimmarie1105 · November 2014

elyshas said:
This is why I have mostly male friends. You all are Batshit crazy. I'm here to read through and ask questions if need be, but I knew as soon as I started reading in this app I would regret it. Something that is supposed to be expecting mothers assisting each other will turn sour eventually because women are nuts. Even more so now that we've got hormones controlling us. The ladies who are showing their mean side on here were already that way and now pregnancy is amplifying it to those she should be supporting or not responding to at all. How hard is it to skip to another question if you've already seen it before. Ugh the nasty attitudes won't help that baby growing inside you. What happened to stress free living for the next 9 months!? Grow up ya'll. =D>

I'm guessing there are many other reasons why you don't have female friends.

elyshas · November 2014

I was clapping for you all making fools of yourselves if you just go back re-read some of the comments. I downloaded TB app to get to this forum. Same thing. And I'm really not worried about things going well for me on a public forum- that's why people are entitled to comment/post as they see fit. For all these ladies so concerned about the babies asking questions which is the point of the forums, they do a lot of arguing with each other which I'm sure gives them a bit of angst, neither of which is good. That little cry you had for no reason is your hormones controlling your reaction. It's inevitable. Highly unlikely that the correspondence any of us have here has any effect on our pregnancy so why do people bother with the banter!? I just don't understand it.

elyshas · November 2014

Believe me, it's certainly by choice.

effthisnoise · November 2014

I wish we could have two June 15 boards--the Posse of Evil board with all the good advice and fun posts, and the Unicorn Fart board where everyone can kiss each other's ass and talk about having to pee pee after drinking water.

elyshas · November 2014

chrain said:

elyshas said:
Believe me, it's certainly by choice.
Please use the quote button so we know to whom you are referring.

Thanks for the info

a5swanson · November 2014

Is it just me, or is @wtbratcher the new Pennsatucky?! Anyone? Anyone?!

Edited: because I found the perfect GIF. I had just some SERIOUS deja vu as I was reading this thread and I knew it was from OITNB!

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marshmallowmadness · November 2014

Yep.

ngolimento · November 2014

Dear June15. You lovely ladies are handling the butthurt driveby idiots well. Especially Pennsatucky and her BFF who is too much of a self-centered delicate flower to acknowledge other people's grief.

This has been quite a fun thread to watch.

ETA: Chrain, you are a sexy fox

chaysefaith · November 2014

***Loss mentioned***

This thread sucks. My head is spinning from all the bullshit I just read.

Whoever said they've been here since October of '04? Try again. TB was created in 2008. That was just a minor detail that bothered me.

The poster who said the loss threads should be consolidated can fuck right off with that shit. Anyone who has had a loss deserves all of the love and support they can get. @wtbratcher‌ just because you have a family member who lost a baby to stillbirth does not mean you know a damn thing about the pain and devastation that mom went through. I lost my own son to stillbirth in January and I promise you I could never fathom that pain until it happened. Even now when others have losses I don't pretend to know what they are going through. Everyone deals with grief differently and has different experiences than my own. Watching someone else grieve will not give you one single iota of understanding to what that person is feeling.

You seriously sound BSC with your Jesus talk and defense of someone who said something so nasty about the loss moms on this board. It's time for you to log out, sweetheart.

Hi @chrain‌!

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chaysefaith · November 2014

JimBobCooter said:

chaysefaith said:

Whoever said they've been here since October of '04? Try again. TB was created in 2008. That was just a minor detail that bothered me.

Not to be argumentative because I'm totally on your side here, but I was on the Bump in 2006-2007 when I was pregnant with DS. Unless the pregnancy & parenting boards were just a part of the Nest back then.

ETA: And I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

Yeah, TB was launched in 08. I wasn't on the boards then but I assume it was a part of the TN.

FrecklesInside · November 2014

I don't go here, but I love people that go here, and I am in complete shock over the bullshit in this thread.

I cannot believe how many disgusting WKs are swarming around this joint and how many people purportedly want puppies and glitter. No one is going to change the tone of TB. Get over it. If you don't like it, find somewhere else to hang out. Stop fucking complaining.

I want to offer hugs to all of the loss mamas who had to read the disgusting shit spewed all over this thread with reference to loss. You shouldn't have to read the ignorant, horribly insensitive and repugnant thoughts and opinions of morons regarding the loss of your babies.

Extra hugs for my love, prez @chrain.

wtbratcher · November 2014

My apologies if I came off, in any way, that I feel I am better than anyone or know first hand what losing a child is. I did not say or intend to imply this. My loved ones still feel the pain and I would NEVER try to say that I know their pain; that's why I say all I can do show my compassion and am extremely compassionate to this particular loss. And, That's why I DO support repeat new posts for everyone. No one should feel not welcome or afraid to post.

And, I apologize for calling y'all evil. It's the evil I hate, not you.

Furthermore, I do not appreciate the name calling and twisting of my words in recent posts. It really amazes me that some of this is coming from women about to bring life in this world. Maybe that's what really bothers me... Who knows and I know you do not care. Y'all are who you are and I'm not trying to change you; that was/is your parents job. So, I'm going to take the advice of another member. It's definitely consuming too much of my thoughts and time... And so negatively. I wouldn't say time wasted though, I've learned who I'd want to get advice from and who I'm staying far away from. I'll stick with positive vibes with good intentions attached behind every word I say. I like sunshine and rainbows, a lot. In fact, There will always be a rainbow at the end of every storm, for all of us. Thanks for the lessons and well wishes to you all!

& peace.

Ps: I'm still not okay with the condensending remarks your newly formed group likes to make to some of the new moms asking questions that you feel are beneath you, so I'm sure you'll see me around. Have a great night and I hope you sleep well.

wtbratcher · November 2014

I did not suggest that

wtbratcher · November 2014

Again, with the rearranging my words. That was another mom's suggestion.

lnzu · November 2014

Edited to remove my post. Decided my sarcasm was too immature.

wtbratcher · November 2014

Thanks! I love it.

wtbratcher · November 2014

No, I am defending the right to say and ask something honestly and not be persecuted by this particular group or anyone. I do not side with what she said; I am all for repeat new posts.

Trampslikeus · November 2014

@wtbratcher‌ If you were at a party where it was totally obvious no one wanted you to be there, would you stay? Just curious.

neongreen · November 2014

wtbratcher said:

And, I apologize for calling y'all evil. It's the evil I hate, not you.

Furthermore, I do not appreciate the name calling and twisting of my words in recent posts. It really amazes me that some of this is coming from women about to bring life in this world. Maybe that's what really bothers me... Who knows and I know you do not care. Y'all are who you are and I'm not trying to change you; that was/is your parents job.

My spidey senses are tingling, and they're telling me this apology ("apology"?) immediately followed by a new string of insults isn't going to go over so well.

*shrug* Meh. If we have to choose sides here, I'm only going to join Team Evil if I'm promised a cloak. Like, a hooded cloak in a dark color. It should be fabulously ominous.

janda426 · November 2014

Wow there are some nasty, nasty white knights in this thread. And the OP is *acting* like a downright nut job.

I'm pretty sure no one here gives a shit what you have to say anymore OP, sit the fuck down. You'll be sad to know the board will continue on in the same fashion all the BMBs do despite your half ass efforts to overhaul the entire board to suit all of you fragile, precious souls. Boo hoo. Go to baby center or what to expect if you want to be surrounded by unrelenting positivity with no sense of community or real knowledge.

threebelles · November 2014

CFearsy said:

wtbratcher said:

My apologies if I came off, in any way, that I feel I am better than anyone or know first hand what losing a child is. I did not say or intend to imply this. My loved ones still feel the pain and I would NEVER try to say that I know their pain; that's why I say all I can do show my compassion and am extremely compassionate to this particular loss. And, That's why I DO support repeat new posts for everyone. No one should feel not welcome or afraid to post. And, I apologize for calling y'all evil. It's the evil I hate, not you. Furthermore, I do not appreciate the name calling and twisting of my words in recent posts. It really amazes me that some of this is coming from women about to bring life in this world. Maybe that's what really bothers me... Who knows and I know you do not care. Y'all are who you are and I'm not trying to change you; that was/is your parents job. So, I'm going to take the advice of another member. It's definitely consuming too much of my thoughts and time... And so negatively. I wouldn't say time wasted though, I've learned who I'd want to get advice from and who I'm staying far away from. I'll stick with positive vibes with good intentions attached behind every word I say. I like sunshine and rainbows, a lot. In fact, There will always be a rainbow at the end of every storm, for all of us. Thanks for the lessons and well wishes to you all! & peace. Ps: I'm still not okay with the condensending remarks your newly formed group likes to make to some of the new moms asking questions that you feel are beneath you, so I'm sure you'll see me around. Have a great night and I hope you sleep well.

No. This is the kind of bullshit that makes being a loss mom a million times harder. You have absolutely NO clue what it's like, yet by mentioning your friends and family who have been through it, you are implying that you have an inkling of an understanding because you "know someone who has been through it." Stop pretending like this isn't what you meant because it clearly is what you meant.

Andplusalso, THANK YOU. Thank you so much for promising me a rainbow at the end of this storm. Take your mother fucking platitudes and shove it where the sun don't shine, honey. It is NOT a fact that there will always be a rainbow at the end of the storm for all of us. This is such bullshit. There are many loss moms and potentially moms on this board who may walk away and never have their rainbow.

I am so pained for the women of this board who have to put up with your bullshit.

Go eat a bag of dicks.

I feel like I have to say something about this post from SFearsy...

It gives me chills just reading ". It is NOT a fact that there will always be a rainbow at the end of the storm for all of us. This is such bullshit. There are many loss moms and potentially moms on this board who may walk away and never have their rainbow."

I completely agree. When I had my loss there was never any guarantee that I would get pregnant again even though people all around me were telling me this. But did they understand what I was going through? No! Of course not! They just assumed that I could just bounce back and get pregnant and forget about the loss of my DS. I'm 8 weeks pregnant and still think of him.

I feel for every loss mom out there, especially the ones, who have tried and tried to get pregnant again and have been disappointed time after time.

Amstreagle · November 2014

Amstreagle · November 2014

For the love of god stop using the term bully. It downplays it for those who are actually bullied.

MZavakos · November 2014

Did anyone read the thread where the girl thought she got pregnant from anal and made a comment about not wanting to be made fun of for having a "Butt Baby"??

Someone reassured her that she couldn't get pregnant from anal unless there was leakage from the anus to the vagina..and was very sympathetic to this lady asking.. However.. Everyone else called it MUD and gave this girl the hardest time... For all anyone knew, shes a scared 16 year old hiding behind a made up marriage and too embarassed to ask that question to her doctor or anyone else so its easier to hide behind a screen name. That thread was FULL of bullying and caty women being unsupportive. There were a few funny comments though.

Seriously though, we're all adults here and we should act as such. Why cant we all be supportive of each other? Not everyone has that at home so they look for it here.

Trampslikeus · November 2014

MZavakos said:

Did anyone read the thread where the girl thought she got pregnant from anal and made a comment about not wanting to be made fun of for having a "Butt Baby"?? Someone reassured her that she couldn't get pregnant from anal unless there was leakage from the anus to the vagina..and was very sympathetic to this lady asking.. However.. Everyone else called it MUD and gave this girl the hardest time... For all anyone knew, shes a scared 16 year old hiding behind a made up marriage and too embarassed to ask that question to her doctor or anyone else so its easier to hide behind a screen name. That thread was FULL of bullying and caty women being unsupportive. There were a few funny comments though. Seriously though, we're all adults here and we should act as such. Why cant we all be supportive of each other? Not everyone has that at home so they look for it here.

What the fuck? This thread is a month old. The thread you're referring to was on another board, like 3 months ago. If you're in to zombies, go watch Walking Dead. Go away.

catmagick · November 2014

beckynsean11 · November 2014

PrimRoseMama · November 2014

Prim was here.

Pennsatucky & the other wilting flower that said that garbage about Loss Moms can fuck right off. Then, when you are done fucking off-- fuck off some more.

My God advocates treating others as you want to be treated. So I expect truth, & a good ass-kicking if I act like a twatwaffle. If you want folks to "just be nice" why not lead by example or some shit?

No, it's easier to piss & moan. It's easier to vague-bump passive aggressive bullshit than be real.

Well, you & your love-it's are going in my post it catalogue.

Shut up, log out & understand shit like this makes it around the boards. It's not a good thing.

PTFO!

@catmagick‌ : the Sam Jackson gif re: zombie thread is fucking amazing. I love you. =D> I laughed so hard.

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