Hi everyone,
In the recent weeks there have been quite a lot of questions regarding users getting banned, and other decisions made behind the scenes.
The moderators and I would like to be as transparent as possible, but unfortunately we cannot always give you the full story behind what happens. However, I know that we owe you more answers. I have been working on a clear document that outlines how mods make their decisions, and this will be made available to you shortly.
We are implementing a strict warning policy moving forward for members. 5 warnings (issued over PM) = banning. I would like to stress that none of the recent banned members were put in this position out of the blue. They have been given many opportunities to change their behavior, and unfortunately chose not to do so. I promise that you will know if you are getting a warning.
In the case that you receive a warning from a mod that you disagree with, please PM me and bring it to my attention so that I can investigate it and keep it fair. Below are the main offenses for warnings:
--Spam- Business or personal promotions posted on a message thread
--Harassment-Attacking another member. If the answer is YES to any of these questions: --Was it a specific name call?
--Is this post malicious and NOT helpful in any way?
--Was this post created with the main purpose of stirring up other users?
-Online Vandalism-Posts to up a member’s post count
-Personal Information-This includes name, IP address, telephone number, address, email address, work information, etc. of another user or individual
--Impersonating other members/TB employees
The main goal is to make things more clear, so that you don’t feel like you need to question what’s going on behind the scenes.
In terms of this recent issue, AG received 5 warnings and was then banned. She was alerted that this was happening as well. Thank you for respecting the decision.
Best,
BJ
Re: Message from BM
OMG, if this results in everyone hilariously adding life tips to the end of every post, that will be the only thing saving it from being a complete waste of time, because that is fucking hilarious.
Also, be sure to arrive at the airport at least an hour prior to takeoff, and make sure all the liquids you plan to carry on are in bottles of 3 ounces or smaller.
Wash regularly. A clean vag is a good vag.
Can we now say "Fuck you," if we also suggest using a condom?
Correction...
So, ya know, for clarity and all...
Fuck you @bumpjackie is still allowed? Or no?
You can tell Beej is all IDGAF when she no longer locks posts.
ON but not IN.
I believe this is a needed distinction here, people.
I got told I was an asshole a couple of times and stuck around. I learned my lesson and am now a much more pleasant human being. See, you all do such a good service for the world.
*Siggy Warning*
About me 2007: Started TTC. 2008: OB prescribed clomid, went to RE and was Dx with PCOS. 2009: IUI #1 w/follitsim and trigger = BFP. B/G Twins born at 33 weeks. 2012: TTC #3, Round 2 of Letrozole w/TI = BFP, missed m/c at 8 1/2 wks. Currently on the bench as we make plans for a new home. Anxious to start TTC #3 within the next year!
Harry Styles = Life Ruiner
There’s a lightning in your eyes I can't deny
Then there’s me inside a sinking boat running out of time
Without you I'll never make it out alive
But I know, yes, I know we’ll be alright
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J. 1.14.13 my reason for breathing
I can't get the ticker to work, but I have two sons:
Baby RJ, born 1/25/2014
Formerly Twilightmv
Keep a handy hand sanitizer on your person at all times so you won't catch the Ebola. Ebola fears the pocketbac.
I don't even remember, so many of us received them at once!
Also, does this mean any non "parenting" threads are breaking this vandalism rule? This place is going to be pretty quiet...
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Oh. So like P&CE on The Nest. Yup. That's working well for them.
Gah, too much helping.
Surprisingly none of the useful information came from Beej.
Just stop it! You are blowing my fucking mind tonight!