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  • sysakbabysysakbaby member
    Octobermommy101012 said:
    My my my... don't you all have jobs or family's to care for than making such a huge deal over a question that was already answered? I appreciate everyone taking tIme to respond.
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  • designchicadesignchica member
    edited October 2014
    It sounds as though you have had some difficult times financially. I hope things pick up for you soon. Have you considered not having any more children? Perhaps having your tubes tied? It doesn't sound as though you are in a position financially to continue reproducing.
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    @designchica Hey! We were wondering where you've been. :D
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  • Octobermommy101012Octobermommy101012 member
    I am not mad at all! And I'm not gift grabby. I know me. Please, by all means, continue to waste your lives over something unimportant. I will be busy raising my family and being happy.
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  • riansmommieriansmommie member
    Octobermommy101012 said:

    I am not mad at all! And I'm not gift grabby. I know me. Please, by all means, continue to waste your lives over something unimportant. I will be busy raising my family and being happy.

    You forgot to address your jealousy....

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  • CandEChicagoCandEChicago member
    Octobermommy101012 said:

    I am not mad at all! And I'm not gift grabby. I know me. Please, by all means, continue to waste your lives over something unimportant. I will be busy raising my family and being happy.

    Ok...didn't realize I needed your permission on how to waste my life....but you realize no one is requiring you to respond.


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  • leoandethansmomleoandethansmom member
    bdaphanie said:
    All the responses to my post prove my point. Most of you who are for one trying to judge me, and don't know me of course, are just Internet bullies. The same kind of women who get on FB and proclaim how much better you are than someone else. The same meek women who can't be a boss at home or in the workplace so they get online and become gangstas. My feelings are mine so if I want to be a WK I most certainly will. The sad part is all she asked for is your opinion on one topic. She didn't ask "can you go through my story and pick the part that you feel strongly about and tell me how you feel". Just remember nasty mouth people that you get what you sow. And to the smart fool that said I must have had abortions and no birth control that's why I said that to her, actually I never got pregnant as a teen. I got pregnant when I was married. My kids were planned. But omg, I actually know people that have had these things happen to them. That's life idiot, you don't always get to plan everything. Have a great day ladies
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    Octobermommy101012 said:
    I am not mad at all! And I'm not gift grabby. I know me. Please, by all means, continue to waste your lives over something unimportant. I will be busy raising my family and being happy.

    We know you too, you want gifts!!! I'm at work and getting paid to Bump while my husband is at home with our son. We are all happy doing what we are doing right now.

     

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  • ManateearmzManateearmz member
    Octobermommy101012 said:

    I am not mad at all! And I'm not gift grabby. I know me. Please, by all means, continue to waste your lives over something unimportant. I will be busy raising my family and being happy.

    Looks like we're all here waisitng our lives away.

    It didn't sound so unimportant to you when you first posted. Glad you got over it, and I'm glad we were there to help you.

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  • bdaphaniebdaphanie member
    You women are funny, I was speaking to a) the original poster and b) the 1 rude woman who said I had abortions since I made the comment. But please do go on, I am getting a good laugh while I get this pedicure. Btw, I actually agree with most of what you guys say but I just believe that we don't have to bash other people to get our point across. And I agree that maybe she should not have given us her back story.
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  • bdaphaniebdaphanie member
    Oh boo, I never back pedal @bowlwoman‌ I never actually said you were wrong either. I stated that you all get on here and choose to bash her history like yours is peachy clean. I have absolutely no reason to back pedal on my belief that some of you are trying to see if you can get the most reaction by being an a** to her. How 5th grade of you. Have a great day. :D
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  • bdaphaniebdaphanie member
    pooky08 said:

    Go away troll

    Um, no. 3:-O
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  • leoandethansmomleoandethansmom member
    bdaphanie said:
    You women are funny, I was speaking to a) the original poster and b) the 1 rude woman who said I had abortions since I made the comment. But please do go on, I am getting a good laugh while I get this pedicure. Btw, I actually agree with most of what you guys say but I just believe that we don't have to bash other people to get our point across. And I agree that maybe she should not have given us her back story.
    @bdaphanie I don't think a single person here cares what you believe. Please, get your pedicure and go away. BAIIIIIII.

     

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  • CandEChicagoCandEChicago member
    bdaphanie said:

    Oh boo, I never back pedal @bowlwoman‌ I never actually said you were wrong either. I stated that you all get on here and choose to bash her history like yours is peachy clean. I have absolutely no reason to back pedal on my belief that some of you are trying to see if you can get the most reaction by being an a** to her. How 5th grade of you. Have a great day. :D

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    pooky08 said:

    Go away troll

    Um, no. 3:-O


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  • CandEChicagoCandEChicago member
    edited October 2014
    bdaphanie said:

    Oh boo, I never back pedal @bowlwoman‌ I never actually said you were wrong either. I stated that you all get on here and choose to bash her history like yours is peachy clean. I have absolutely no reason to back pedal on my belief that some of you are trying to see if you can get the most reaction by being an a** to her. How 5th grade of you. Have a great day. :D

    Because acting like an a$$ to tell us that we are being an a$$ makes so much more sense.

    Please tell me you are getting a cute color for your pedicure. That's about the most value I will get out of your responses


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  • CandEChicagoCandEChicago member
    JRod13 said:

    Oh my my my. Anyone else thinking these 2 posters are really *gasp* the same poster? Neither one says shit for a week, then they're "both" back on the same day just sitting around defending their wrongness?

    One says she agrees with us but we are asses and the other says we don't know her. Way to get both sides of the conversation. OP has to WK for herself since no one else will WK for her?


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  • ColeyCannoliColeyCannoli member
    chelseavranich said:
    @Anna930‌ I hate when people say the wrong thing when using those kinds of phrases! MH constantly says "flipping the bill". Makes me insane. It's like bad grammar or using the wrong word. Can you tell I'm done with this thread? Haha
    "I could care less" always bugs me! Also, my mom often writes "peace of my mind" and it always makes me twitchy.
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  • designchicadesignchica member
    MissChristineMarie said:
    I remember when this thread was so close to dying. But, it just keeps coming back. I've said what needs to be said (over and over), so in the meantime...


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  • Shortstack06Shortstack06 member
    sysakbaby said:
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    This totally reminds me of the person who eats their cereal in the shower, was that @amw0914‌ ?
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  • sueellencabralsueellencabral member
    mrsrroberson said:

    I just have to add in regards to "shower etiquette", in my 34 years of life both on the east coast and west coast, I've never heard of limited showers due to how many babies you already have. I've recently been made aware of it here on TB. Maybe it's a Hispanic thing to celebrate all babies. Idk.
    Again just my experience, people go on and do what they want. As long as it doesn't cause any direct burden on you, I tend to not overthink stuff like that.

    This is definitely a Hispanic thing! This is my fourth child, and I'm getting a baby shower. I've never hosted one myself but I've had one for all my children. I must admit I feel slightly embarrassed whenever someone throws me a shower because I feel like people just think "gosh another one!?" But I do appreciate all the help and mostly the amazing feeling of your baby being celebrated.

    But I must admit this sounds like a jealousy issue. when it comes to other people being nice or supportive of you just because you're pregnant (doesn't matter if it's your 1st or 5th) you can't really expect or ask for it. When you don't expect anything from anybody you tend to be more grateful. So if you don't like your friends attitude or social stability, just back off and let things run their course. Maybe she was having a bad day and she'll come around later or that's really where she stands in the whole shower ordeal, either way you need to put on your big girl pants and let it go.
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  • queen7711queen7711 member
    I don't normally respond to these posts or blogs but you all sound like a bunch of ungrateful, hateful women! I am sorry you cannot show any type if sympathy or at least a kind word before you go in on how selfish you think she is, as she has come here simply to vent and get some feedback. Not ONE of you as far as I have read (frankly can't stomach to look anymore) have been kind or supportive! SMH! Octobermommy101012 good luck to you and don't sweat these women...they are the ones who sound jealous and hateful! I know we are all dealing with prego hormones but come on! You all sound like a bunch of haters to me....
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  • victoriaVEN0MvictoriaVEN0M member
    If I were your friend, I would come to your shower and bring you boy things. :)

    I do think it's unfair for her to be so snotty about you having a shower. I completely understand having a shower for your baby boy when all you have is girl stuff. And by all means, if someone is offering to throw you a shower, let them. If your "friend" doesn't want to come, that's on her. Be the bigger woman. :)
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  • riansmommieriansmommie member
    victoriaVEN0M said:

    If I were your friend, I would come to your shower and bring you boy things. :)

    I do think it's unfair for her to be so snotty about you having a shower. I completely understand having a shower for your baby boy when all you have is girl stuff. And by all means, if someone is offering to throw you a shower, let them. If your "friend" doesn't want to come, that's on her. Be the bigger woman. :)

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    victoriaVEN0M said:
    If I were your friend, I would come to your shower and bring you boy things. :) I do think it's unfair for her to be so snotty about you having a shower. I completely understand having a shower for your baby boy when all you have is girl stuff. And by all means, if someone is offering to throw you a shower, let them. If your "friend" doesn't want to come, that's on her. Be the bigger woman. :)
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  • CandEChicagoCandEChicago member
    victoriaVEN0M said:
    If I were your friend, I would come to your shower and bring you boy things. :) I do think it's unfair for her to be so snotty about you having a shower. I completely understand having a shower for your baby boy when all you have is girl stuff. And by all means, if someone is offering to throw you a shower, let them. If your "friend" doesn't want to come, that's on her. Be the bigger woman. :)
    Ugh... seriously this is like your second post ever. 

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