Oh god, im sorry @jesuisfatiguee. Thats awful. Are they trying to rehash now all of a sudden? That seems so unrealistic to me. Havent they been separated a while now?
Feel free to tell me to stfu and mind my own business.
They'd had intimacy problems their entire marriage. Then she left him for a woman in Jan 2012. She and the woman recently broke up, and now apparently she wants to get back with him.
When he met her last Thurs he texted me before. "There's no chance in hell of reconciliation" were his words to me. Apparently that's because he didn't think SHE would ever want to. She called him last night, and they talked, and now he's just not sure. So...
They'd had intimacy problems their entire marriage. Then she left him for a woman in Jan 2012. She and the woman recently broke up, and now apparently she wants to get back with him.
When he met her last Thurs he texted me before. "There's no chance in hell of reconciliation" were his words to me. Apparently that's because he didn't think SHE would ever want to. She called him last night, and they talked, and now he's just not sure. So...
This makes me stabby for you, JIT. Thats a ridiculous load of shit, IMO. Not saying he's a bad guy or anything, but if she left him once...welp...history has a way of repeating itself.
I wish I'd taken the sage advice given by many to guard my heart.
He was all, "You're such an amazing person, I never wanted to hurt you" and shit. I hate hearing that shit in those situations. I mean, at least he cried and apologized a bunch of times but damn. Damn.
Oh I'm so sorry @jesuisfatiguee! That's so shitty of him. Dating fucking sucks...and it's even worse when you develop feelings for someone but they're not completely honest about what they're wanting/their ability to commit.
I wish I'd taken the sage advice given by many to guard my heart.
He was all, "You're such an amazing person, I never wanted to hurt you" and shit. I hate hearing that shit in those situations. I mean, at least he cried and apologized a bunch of times but damn. Damn.
Ehh.."coulda shoulda woulda" is what we all say in situations like this. We all let our guard down sometimes. Im sorry, lady
I would just sincerely hope he's decent enough to not come running right back to you asking to reconcile when she leaves him again. Sorry if thats sounds bitchy.
Well, technically, he's taking time to figure out if he really wants to reconcile with her / if it will work / etc. so, I'll give him a couple weeks. That's really what he was asking for- time. If he hasn't decided by then, I'm completely washing my hands of it. This shit hurts. But I do love him, and am willing to give him time rather than cutting my losses immediately.
Shit, sleepy jesus. I'm so sorry. That's all really fucked up sounding. I don't think you were wrong at all to let yourself fall for him. From what you've shared he sounded really great. It seems like he was misrepresenting what he wanted and what he was thinking.
We went to Verizon yesterday. I took DH's upgrade---I have the Iphone 4. (My old phone broke over the summer, and I have been using an old phone). I wanted to take advantage of turning in the old iphone for up to 200. That deal ends soon.
The plus looked ridiculous! At least to be used as an actual phone--and I talk on the phone frequently.
He's dated a good amount, CFox, but only one other gf type person. On our second date after we had sex, he told me he wasn't looking for casual sex. He's definitely a relationship dude.
The sex was really bad the last two times we were together. He just wasn't into it. He told me he was just really tired/had nothing to do with me etc. but like I said... Not shocked that this happened.
I don't know what it means. The conversation was so short. I do not do well thinking on my feet in those situations. Maybe I'll call to get clarification soon, idk.
@jesuisfatiguee Fuck that shit Jesus. I agree with @bay511. Fuck giving him time. He's told you everything that you need to know about himself and your relationship. He's going to Comicon right? I know people...who can make things happen. I will reign down nerdy vengeance for you.
@jesuisfatiguee Fuck that shit Jesus. I agree with @bay511. Fuck giving him time. He's told you everything that you need to know about himself and your relationship. He's going to Comicon right? I know people...who can make things happen. I will reign down nerdy vengeance for you.
I would not want to be on the receiving end of this vengeance. Nerds are... Resourceful. Speaking as one.
I will fuck up any computer that he ever touches up!!! I know several people with a large collection of swords and various other weaponry. They have the means to do "the job" and they're smart enough to deal with the evidence.
Okay, he is going to come over this evening after my queso date. Now I just need to figure out child care for a little while so I can ask and say what needs to be asked/said.
Okay, he is going to come over this evening after my queso date. Now I just need to figure out child care for a little while so I can ask and say what needs to be asked/said.
Stupid dad will regret answering the siren's call, SleepyJesus. His ego is getting the better of him, and it's going to bite him in his stupid ass. You don't deserve being put in limbo.
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Feel free to tell me to stfu and mind my own business.
When he met her last Thurs he texted me before. "There's no chance in hell of reconciliation" were his words to me. Apparently that's because he didn't think SHE would ever want to. She called him last night, and they talked, and now he's just not sure. So...
He was all, "You're such an amazing person, I never wanted to hurt you" and shit. I hate hearing that shit in those situations. I mean, at least he cried and apologized a bunch of times but damn. Damn.
I would just sincerely hope he's decent enough to not come running right back to you asking to reconcile when she leaves him again. Sorry if thats sounds bitchy.
Take care of yourself.
@mcbenny
I have no words. I'm so sorry.
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Fucking a, dude.
Fucker.
I'm angry for you, JIT.
I will fuck up any computer that he ever touches up!!! I know several people with a large collection of swords and various other weaponry. They have the means to do "the job" and they're smart enough to deal with the evidence.