You guys are good wives whether or not you realized it or feel it. Just being there makes you good wives. Being good moms makes you good wives. You don't have to greet him at the door with a smile and have a meal prepared and help him put on his smoking jacket.
Im working at an elementary school as a para for 1st graders...its giving me all the feels today, knowing J will be doing this. I had to help one of the little girls with her jacket and it got me a little choked up...ps, this is my first time on the bump on the computer.. I hate my signature, it never works when I try to fix it >:P
Anyone else's pedi not do a 15 month check up?? I even called to make sure and he recommends an 18 month one after the 12 month. I called because of all the 15 mo check ups I've been hearing you ladies talk about
I think we might only get shots, but not a full check up.
@mcbush & @kari5186 I didn't participate in that thread either. I don't feel like a good enough wife. I don't have time to keep things clean all the time. I don't have a sex drive and just feel blah lately. At least I cook and pack DH's lunches lol
I didn't list things that I do for my husband. I listed how I am there for my husband. Like praying for him and listening to him. I can't think of the last time I packed him a lunch (its something I used to do and he would love it if I started back). I guess I just look at it differently. If the list were turned around I wouldn't list that DH was a good husband because of the stuff he does around the house. That stuff is nice but its how he is with me emotionally and how I am with him that really matters to me.
Thank you, DH, for coming home right in the middle of E's nap time, and fixing yourself lunch (aka clanging around in the kitchen) right outside E's room. Maybe I could've fixed something for you if you had called and let me know you were going to come home (which he has never done ever). Not only did she not fall asleep because of that, but you also took over the living room/T.V. during the only quiet hour that I normally have to sit in peace. And thank you for being a passive aggressive dick the whole time you were here and leaving your dirty dishes sitting on the fucking ottoman for me to clean up while I spend the rest of my afternoon dealing with a screaming, napless child.
There is no bitch-fest on Thursdays, so I'm burying this here. AF is due any second, and I just don't have the patience for his "bad mood" today.
Um the house cleaners have been here an embarrassingly long time. They are dusting things that honestly have never been dusted since we moved in 2.5 years ago. I don't think I can make eye contact with them from shame.
So at lunchtime I lurked on the Facebook page of that lady who registered for her baby's 1st birthday. Yes, I know, I need to quit Facebook. Anyway, the gift grabbiness has a long and detailed history. It seems like she does this often. This isn't even her first child, it's her second. The first one looks to be a few years older, and yes, there were gift registries for birthdays. Plus, the lady herself has two birthdays. One is probably her normal birthday, and the other is "the day I accepted the Lord". She has some kind of party on each day. She likes to post gift suggestions about once a month for some thing or another.
Also plus, they don't vax. Because the research they've done tells them it's not good. I think they're their Birthers. And Sandy Hook Truthers. UGH.
Having a rum and coke and its AMAZING! looking forward to Friday. Going to our usual spot for dinner and beers tomorrow night and then Sat to some friends' house for fun and football. We're staying at their place because they live about 35 min south of us. I hope they are ready because this little girl very rarely sits still unless Doc McStuffins or Bubble Guppies is on!
DH and I are drinking the last of our margaritas! The ingredient that appears to make all the difference is the sweetened lime juice ... *mmm* Well, and the quality tequila ;-)
So I need to rant a little. My hubby had today off and yesterday when I spoke to him I asked him to please contact us during a time the kids are still awake. I know Jameson misses his daddie big time, the kid blows kisses to daddies pics on the wall and anytime he hears someone outside immediately starts calling for Dada. When he is able to FaceTime Jameson lights up and loves to talk/see his daddie. Anyways both kids are now both in bed and I've tried contacting him multiple times.
He just called right as I was getting ready to hit post and was clearly drunk. I try so hard not to get mad at him while he is away but FFS!!! He told me he was expecting me to call..... I did and he didn't answer. Oh well life goes on, just needed to get my frustration out.
One of my friends who got married this summer told me she's pregnant. Holy honeymoon baby! I'm so happy for her! Another friend also shared that she's pregnant. They are due like 2 weeks apart. And I know that 2 other friends are TTC. I'm so excited about all the 2015 babies that will be in my life!!!
My aunt was in from NYC so we all got together and had dinner together. Grayson hasn't seen her in a year and of course didn't remember her but he went right to her! It was adorable.
Oh and I need to bitch. I found out Alex has been smoking in the car. Wanna know how I found out? I found a cigarette butt in the back seat right next to graysons car seat. It burnt the seat and burnt the base a little bit. I am livid with him right now. I called him the minute I saw it and bitched him out for it. Ugh I can't believe he's been smoking in the car when I'm always telling him not to because I don't want the car seat smelling like cigarettes.
@ColieAnn31 - I'd be seriously livid too. That's terrible! Off all the places to smoke - doing so in a place where LO is going to be exposed to the residue smoke ...
Im late but @mcbush ... sadly i told my h out of frustration with something else that i felt trapped or stuck. It felt sooo good coming out but perhaps i could have used a better choice of words. He looked so sad. Talk about bad wife moment.
Re: I'm starting with the SPAM in the mirror
Also plus, they don't vax. Because the research they've done tells them it's not good. I think they're their Birthers. And Sandy Hook Truthers. UGH.
@chicagochic - did you figure out what your LO's bumps are?
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DS born 6/2013
DS born 6/2013
And I just wanted to add that you are so lucky you can check on him on your lunch break! KJ is a little too far for me to be able to do that.
He just called right as I was getting ready to hit post and was clearly drunk. I try so hard not to get mad at him while he is away but FFS!!! He told me he was expecting me to call..... I did and he didn't answer. Oh well life goes on, just needed to get my frustration out.
DS born 6/2013