with my ex, our baby ended up being a girl, so I never got to see if he came around. He had a baby boy with his new wife last year and I asked "is he circumcized?" and he was incredulous, "are you joking!? Of course not! We talked about this remember?" I was like "oh. wow. okay then." he was like "who could DO that to a baby?"
@YaMrWhite if you two agree on your anti-circ stance consider yourself lucky. There were certainly a lot of women on here yesterday whose husbands disagree for no other reason than the fact that it had been done to them.
You keep assuming things about my husband. Not sure why. I haven't stated how he feels about circumcision.
I am so glad I do not think this way. Or maybe I'm glad I married a man who isn't "hiding his pain"...LMFAO.
Maybe have the hypothetical conversation with your H and actually see what he has to say.
Already have
As have I. J acknowledges that a part of his penis was removed, but he does not feel that he is "missing" part of his penis. He had wisdom teeth removed and does not feel he is missing part of his mouth. Being without foreskin does not prevent him from enjoying sex, urinating properly, and having an "elective" procedure has not caused any long term issues such as infection or surgeries, so he doesn't care. He equated it to toenail clippings and hair cuts. He doesn't have to dig deep or confront feelings about his penis "not being intact." He has no repressed feelings about his circumcision. He is fond of his penis as is even after the discussion - he isn't "avoiding an internal confrontation"
So no, try again. Don't say men are repressing feelings about it and that's why they want to do it to their sons so just go ahead and tell them they don't have a right to make a decision about their child's body. It's absurd to the point of laughable.
I actually stated in a prior circ debate thread that I'm glad my husband is circed if non-circed = more sensitivity because sometimes when my husband O's I can't help but laugh at how intense his reactions are. I'm afraid to think of what they would be like for him if he were not circed. He'd probably implode haha
@yamrwhite HAHAHAHA Though, there is no scientific evidence it provides more pleasure. More nerve endings, to be sure, but there is nothing that proves sex is improved one way or the other
Ya this was just in response to someone who said uncirc meant more sensitivity. Lol still funny!
For all of you anti-circers using the "it's wrong to alter your baby's anatomy without his/her permission" argument, I hope you're not piercing your child's ears before he/she is old enough to make that decision for themselves.
with my ex, our baby ended up being a girl, so I never got to see if he came around. He had a baby boy with his new wife last year and I asked "is he circumcized?" and he was incredulous, "are you joking!? Of course not! We talked about this remember?" I was like "oh. wow. okay then." he was like "who could DO that to a baby?"
LOL complete 360. And amnesia, apparently.
I usually ask my ex's this question, too.. alllll the time!!!!!!!
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For all of you anti-circers using the "it's wrong to alter your baby's anatomy without his/her permission" argument, I hope you're not piercing your child's ears before he/she is old enough to make that decision for themselves.
Why not just go all the way and castrate him at birth? Penises are kinda yucky and then he can't get penis cancer at all! And less AIDS! Win!
I don't go here, but I'm surprised no one addressed this particular ignorance. For someone who claims to have so much knowledge and done so much research in genitals, you do not understand what castration is. Castration (or orchiectomy) is the surgical removal of testicles, and as such would not affect the penis at all. So to say that someone who would circ should "go all the way" and castrate is ridiculous. I understand you were being hyperbolic, but at least understand the words you use.
I'm not touching the AIDS portion of this comment.
Hmm...I haven't found any major medical benefits to circumcise, neither do I find many risks to it. So, I pretty much lean toward not since I'm really cheap and wouldn't want to put money toward an unnecessary medical procedure. When I was working urology there was a case of an uncircumcised man being too arthritic to pull back and clean his foreskin and he ended up with a major infection he said nothing about until it was too late and his penis needed to be amputated. That pretty much sucks, but I note there were several preventative measures that could have prevented that and so do not blame his uncircumcised status for it. I blame his stubborn decision to not seek help before it got to that point.
with my ex, our baby ended up being a girl, so I never got to see if he came around. He had a baby boy with his new wife last year and I asked "is he circumcized?" and he was incredulous, "are you joking!? Of course not! We talked about this remember?" I was like "oh. wow. okay then." he was like "who could DO that to a baby?"
LOL complete 360. And amnesia, apparently.
(Probable quote fail) What you're describing is a 180. If he did a 360, he'd turn around and wind up back where he started. Sorry, but this irks the math teacher in me.
That's probably what he did. He may have considered not doing it, but ended up still being a "cutter" and just told her no to avoid an argument.
with my ex, our baby ended up being a girl, so I never got to see if he came around. He had a baby boy with his new wife last year and I asked "is he circumcized?" and he was incredulous, "are you joking!? Of course not! We talked about this remember?" I was like "oh. wow. okay then." he was like "who could DO that to a baby?"
LOL complete 360. And amnesia, apparently.
(Probable quote fail) What you're describing is a 180. If he did a 360, he'd turn around and wind up back where he started. Sorry, but this irks the math teacher in me.
--- Haha yes I get corrected on this all the time yet for some reason it keeps slipping out. Thanks! You wouldn't know that I'm actually great at math
In my head I imagine a "complete turn around" which is why I think I keep using 360
Why not just go all the way and castrate him at birth? Penises are kinda yucky and then he can't get penis cancer at all! And less AIDS! Win!
Not sure if anyone has corrected you on this yet (only gotten through 4 pages of this show), but castration is removal of the testicles not the penis...
For all of you anti-circers using the "it's wrong to alter your baby's anatomy without his/her permission" argument, I hope you're not piercing your child's ears before he/she is old enough to make that decision for themselves.
I totally agree. I won't pierce my kids ears for exactly this reason.
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So no, try again. Don't say men are repressing feelings about it and that's why they want to do it to their sons so just go ahead and tell them they don't have a right to make a decision about their child's body. It's absurd to the point of laughable.
I actually stated in a prior circ debate thread that I'm glad my husband is circed if non-circed = more sensitivity because sometimes when my husband O's I can't help but laugh at how intense his reactions are. I'm afraid to think of what they would be like for him if he were not circed. He'd probably implode haha
Thanks! Castration AND a penectomy!
Haha yes I get corrected on this all the time yet for some reason it keeps slipping out. Thanks! You wouldn't know that I'm actually great at math
In my head I imagine a "complete turn around" which is why I think I keep using 360
The more you know.