I've been painting our house this week (the renos are SO close to done!) and today will hopefully be my last day of it. So, I decided to stay up after LO's 5am feeding so I could do her diaper laundry and get started nice and early. Had breakfast, made coffee... it's now 7am and I haven't gotten started yet.
Oops.
DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe DD2: October 2016 DC3: coming May 2019
Babe had her vaccines this morning which was so awful to watch. Now she has been sleeping nonstop all day. Anyone else's baby respond to the vaccines with crazy napping?
@lcgroenewe my first did that. Slept awesome and all the time for two days after each set of shots. Judging by Charlie's first set...not so much this time around.
My MIL called and gave me a guilt trip about us not going to visit her. I'm not sure what she wants me to tell her. It's DH that doesn't want to go, not me, and I'm not forcing it.
My MIL called and gave me a guilt trip about us not going to visit her. I'm not sure what she wants me to tell her. It's DH that doesn't want to go, not me, and I'm not forcing it.
First night in his crib was a success! I cried when I moved everything from our room to his room and then cried again when I put him to sleep. I was super surprised I cried so much, so sick of hormones. Oh and him not sleeping in the swing was no big deal so all more worrying was pointless.
First night in his crib was a success! I cried when I moved everything from our room to his room and then cried again when I put him to sleep. I was super surprised I cried so much, so sick of hormones. Oh and him not sleeping in the swing was no big deal so all more worrying was pointless.
I've been painting our house this week (the renos are SO close to done!) and today will hopefully be my last day of it. So, I decided to stay up after LO's 5am feeding so I could do her diaper laundry and get started nice and early. Had breakfast, made coffee... it's now 7am and I haven't gotten started yet.
First night in his crib was a success! I cried when I moved everything from our room to his room and then cried again when I put him to sleep. I was super surprised I cried so much, so sick of hormones. Oh and him not sleeping in the swing was no big deal so all more worrying was pointless.
This gives me hope.
Seriously all the stressing I did about this was pointless, it went great. He is currently napping in his crib. DH now likes to remind me of how I was a crazy person last night and I need to calm the f- down , I agree.
Oh I forgot to mention seeing baby on the night vision camera made me have nightmares about him being a weird scary demon baby, not cool. I am so beyond sick of these crazy dreams.
Sleeping in the crib...fail. She made it 40 mins with light fussing and I was in there bawling and holding her. She's still in her swing, in our bedroom, snoozing. Having a huge "I have no clue what I'm doing" moment.
I am sorry, I was crossing my fingers for you last night. I don't have many suggestions because I have no idea what I am doing but I will say that our LO wasn't able to sleep on his back due to some reflux issues and we got some baby Zantac and now he can. That is the reason we had him in the swing because he sat more upright in it. Our LO didn't have any of the other signs of reflux except for the inability to sleep comfortably on his back.
Edit because I sounded like a dick at first and that was not my intention at all.
@skamber - hugs. Don't feel like that!
Someone else (@flerlgirl) mentioned moving the swing/rnp/whatever into their room for a few nights transition, maybe that would help?
Was the fussing like, crying fussing or just moving around, settling in fussing? I let LO fuss for a while and he seems to be settling himself down
Give it a few nights and try again but don't feel bad! Fwiw I was really sad last night when lo didn't wake up because I missed him. There's no winning!
@skamber - I told my pedi that he couldn't lay on his back for very long and we thought it was reflux and he said ok here is an rx. Reflux in babies is really common.
@skamber & @taymiller - luka also had reflux and the Dr have us a prescription. We never had to use it though, oddly enough things just got better in their own. BUt it's totally common skamber and I wouldn't hesitate to do what you got to do!
I don't know how long is too long to let him fuss but sometimes he'll go 20 minutes before either passing out or crying. I chance it.
Another 'tip'I got on here was to do naps I'm his room first, bedtime routine in the room, etc. Get them more comfortable in there. That helped us, too
Don't beat yourself up. It's a hard process...and I think they're still kind of young, like too young to force it. She'll get there when she's ready!
Sleeping in the crib...fail. She made it 40 mins with light fussing and I was in there bawling and holding her. She's still in her swing, in our bedroom, snoozing. Having a huge "I have no clue what I'm doing" moment.
On day seven in the crib and the first night my husband had to let ME "cry it out". It was so weird and hormonal. Now, I just obsessively watch the monitor for half the night. Sleep has actually suffered big-time (on my part, he is getting 6 uninterrupted hours in the crib).
@Internationalkate - omg that was me too, DH thought I was crazy. He didn't let me keep the monitor on my side of the bed otherwise I would have looked at it all night.
I'm dying my hair tomorrow. It's been blonde, then ombré (mostly blonde) for at least 4 years now. I'm totally sick of how washed out and dull it looks and am excited to be a brunette again!
Does anyone remember the conversation while we were still pregnant where someone was saying they will totes make their baby fit into their schedule, and they won't let their life change for their baby?
I'd just reaaaaaaally like to know how it's going for them.
Hahah. Right! Their living room will never be taken over by toys.
The baby that I had to instruct CPR on is improving!!!!! They took out the breathing tube, and so far he's breathing on his own. I'm not really a religious person but I have been praying for this little guy, and seeing that update made my day.
I just realized that this board is forever. All the boards I was on before were boards you graduated from like TTGP, TTTC, IF, etc. People were always moving on. But we are all together on J14 for the long haul. (Or until TB ends our board.)
I'm not sure if this is right thread to post this but.... My LO rolled over to her tummy for the first time tonight! She woke up at 4:30 for her second MOTN feeding and I found her laying on her stomach, I'm not sure for how long she had been sleeping like that. I'm happy about her new achievement but is this one more thing to worry about? I can't get any sleep now thinking she will do it again and will not be able to breath. Anybody else? Am I overthinking this?
@mrsay When they have the strength to roll over, tummy sleeping is safe. DD preferred to sleep on her stomach. We couldn't have kept her on her back if we wanted to.
I'll be glad when my little fella develops more head control. Because of his lack of control he usually looks like he has no neck -- like the trolls from Frozen.
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DD1: June 2014 - VBM4lyfe
DD2: October 2016
DC3: coming May 2019
Married DH 7/30/11
CSC arrived 5/7/12
CHC arrived 6/2/14
My MIL called and gave me a guilt trip about us not going to visit her. I'm not sure what she wants me to tell her. It's DH that doesn't want to go, not me, and I'm not forcing it.
My MIL called and gave me a guilt trip about us not going to visit her. I'm not sure what she wants me to tell her. It's DH that doesn't want to go, not me, and I'm not forcing it.
Edit because I sounded like a dick at first and that was not my intention at all.
I don't know how long is too long to let him fuss but sometimes he'll go 20 minutes before either passing out or crying. I chance it.
Another 'tip'I got on here was to do naps I'm his room first, bedtime routine in the room, etc. Get them more comfortable in there. That helped us, too
Don't beat yourself up. It's a hard process...and I think they're still kind of young, like too young to force it. She'll get there when she's ready!
thank you lol
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I'm happy about her new achievement but is this one more thing to worry about? I can't get any sleep now thinking she will do it again and will not be able to breath. Anybody else? Am I overthinking this?
I'll be glad when my little fella develops more head control. Because of his lack of control he usually looks like he has no neck -- like the trolls from Frozen.
Eta - I gotcha. Not the same image, but same trolls