My dinner last night was a brownie. I was just too tired to do anything else and wanted to go to bed. No regrets!
I was sleeping peacefully until H came to bed at about 4 am and woke me up and it took me a long time to fall back asleep. Apparently he fell asleep in the recliner. I told him he should have kept his ass downstairs. He does this all the time and I've told him several times if it's after 2 don't you dare come to bed, you have to stay downstairs. I'm not sure why he thinks it's ok to mess with my sleep because he can't be smart enough to come to bed at a decent hour, but I'm gonna have to have a come to Jesus talk with him today.
Another random...one of my coworkers was complaining about a snack that someone was supposed to bring in to the office and didn't. And I shot back at him that I've been waiting for him to bring in more biscotti, and BAM right there on his desk under a pile of papers was a box of double chocolate biscotti. SCORE. Instant gratification.
@mauibliss I have no words for the way husband acted but I am absolutely in LOVE with you right now for turning this into a shopping extravaganza. Can you buy some super swanky luggage? What about a new pair of expensive sandals? I suppose the only upside is if you're feeling gross at least it sounds like there will be other people vomitting uncontrollably. Perhaps you can bond with the skinny bishes while holding each other's hair?
@jenny0314 WTF is it with the crazed husbands today? I'm sorry you fought and he's being douchey.
Good luck to all of you with appointments today! Don't forget to update!
@wendyld I'm so sorry. That's hard to deal with. Hugs to you.
@mauibliss That's going to be a tough trip. I tend to get really announced really quickly when people are drunk around me and acting ridiculous. Especially my husband. Let us know how it goes! Good luck to staying sane!! Have fun shopping and eat ALL the cupcakes.
The shopping bag thread annoys me so much. I mean, honestly, you're pregnant. It's not a disability. I lift my stubborn 35 pound 1 year old daily. What else can I do?!
Ok I'm all caught up. It's already a fucking Monday. I got up late and had to rush to work. Once I got here I was making my oatmeal and while stirring it it decided to splash onto my new shirt. Then I get to my desk to dive into work and I have a bajillion emails of shit that needs to be found and I have to go back through so much paperwork back to August 8th because there's a section that needs to be filled out if the test was rejected or not. :head desk:
We had a great weekend! Finally got a bunch of new clothes for SO and I and saved sooo much money at Gordman's! Then we took the kids to Chuck E Cheese and it actually wasn't busy... Like at all. That was the first time I enjoyed myself there.
SO and I still haven't had sex and I'm pretty sure we're getting closer to 2 weeks now. He's being so patient and understanding though. He deserves a good lay... I just don't ever feel like iiiiittt....
I'm 12 weeks 2da! I also have my first appointment tomorrow which is making me nervous because twins run in SO family. It also doesn't help I've been able to catch the heartbeat on left and right side with my doppler(maybe it's just a bouncy plum?).
Another random- What's with miscarriage dreams? I don't like them they need to leave me alone.
BFP - 6/28.....Unofficial(waiting on u/s) EDD - 3/9
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@MauiBliss I would be so pissed at my H if he did that. Hope you are able to get through the trip if you decide to go. Could you try to rebook your flight? Some airlines will let you if there is still space on the earlier ones.
I am so frustrated trying to work with my son on the activities the speech therapist gave us to do. He has no interest at all. He either ignores me or just looks at me, smiles and then walks away to get a toy. I don't know how I am supposed to help him if I can't get him to even try anything or even sit still for 2 minutes.
@wendyld I am so sorry ((hugs)). I had someone I used to work with say to me "You're having a baby?" in a really nice, happy way, about a week after I lost Jonah. It took everything in me not to burst into tears in the middle of Target.
I'm 12 weeks 2da! I also have my first appointment tomorrow which is making me nervous because twins run in SO family. It also doesn't help I've been able to catch the heartbeat on left and right side with my doppler(maybe it's just a bouncy plum?).
Another random- What's with miscarriage dreams? I don't like them they need to leave me alone.
Twins in your SOs family doesn't increase your risk/likelihood of having twins at all.
So in regards to telling my boss at work. I have a bit of a weird situation. There are 3 owners, 2 of which went to high school with DH. They aren't close, never have been but I got my job here because we knew them. Last summer, DH had sort of a falling out with them so it's been awkward for me to be here ever since and I've wanted to leave for quite some time. They are completely unprofessional and the first opportunity to leave, I'm out.
Having said that, we were FB friends prior to my employment and it's not like I can defriend them now. Technically, I really only have to inform the 3rd owner about my pregnancy because my immediate manager already knows. I just don't feel comfortable having a sit-down meeting to tell them and have to deal with the fakeness. Would it reflect poorly upon me to only inform the 3rd owner and my manager? I'm assuming the 3rd owner would tell them but I don't know if they will make a big deal out of it. Especially when we do/may announce it on FB and they'll be able to see it.
You can limit who sees your post on FB without unfriending anyone. If you've already told your supervisor, that's all that is required. This is probably not that big of a deal to the company owners.
So in regards to telling my boss at work. I have a bit of a weird situation. There are 3 owners, 2 of which went to high school with DH. They aren't close, never have been but I got my job here because we knew them. Last summer, DH had sort of a falling out with them so it's been awkward for me to be here ever since and I've wanted to leave for quite some time. They are completely unprofessional and the first opportunity to leave, I'm out.
Having said that, we were FB friends prior to my employment and it's not like I can defriend them now. Technically, I really only have to inform the 3rd owner about my pregnancy because my immediate manager already knows. I just don't feel comfortable having a sit-down meeting to tell them and have to deal with the fakeness. Would it reflect poorly upon me to only inform the 3rd owner and my manager? I'm assuming the 3rd owner would tell them but I don't know if they will make a big deal out of it. Especially when we do/may announce it on FB and they'll be able to see it.
You can limit who sees your post on FB without unfriending anyone. If you've already told your supervisor, that's all that is required. This is probably not that big of a deal to the company owners.
My morning has been interesting so far. My neighbor is an adult and loves to sing The Little Mermaid songs in the shower in the morning. Her bathroom lines up to my bedroom. She's my alarm clock now.
We're supposed to be kicking my brother out a week from today. Nothing in his room is packed nor has he told us his plans on where he's going. I really hope this doesn't end up being a fight. Because his shit and the furniture in that room are being taken out regardless.
Also he ate all but like 3 fucking bites of my honey bunches of oats and I just had to rage on him. I'm so fucking sick of him touching my shit. So I had honey nut Cheerios. Not the same.
Last night I had a dream that I made out with Harry Stiles from 1-Direction for the sole purpose of getting my friend's teenage daughter his autograph. Apparently, in my dreams its perfectly acceptable to hook up with a teenager if an autograph is the end result.
@wendyld Oh no, that's awful. I'm so sorry. I really hope your day gets better, and that your coworker trips on something.
Random: 1. Ermagerd PSL today!!! 2. I told my family this week and despite the immediate concern from my dad, we got a text later saying how when he had time to think about it on his own it made him very happy. He actually said, "I'm having a very strange sensation right now, I don't think I've felt excited about anything in 25 years". So even though he pretends to be be a soulless hardass... dudes got feelings.
3. I can't stop eating baked potatoes with a ton of butter, cheese and sour cream.
@MauiBliss you obviously need to get some new makeup, your hair done at a super expensive fabulous salon, and a mani/pedi. And new jewelry to go with your new outfits. New razors and lotion so your legs look killer, and extra nail polish in case your mani chips.
You will be so smoking hot those mean drunk skinnies will be jealous. And since you won't be drinking, you'll be the classiest lady there.
My dinner last night was a brownie. I was just too tired to do anything else and wanted to go to bed. No regrets!
I was sleeping peacefully until H came to bed at about 4 am and woke me up and it took me a long time to fall back asleep. Apparently he fell asleep in the recliner. I told him he should have kept his ass downstairs. He does this all the time and I've told him several times if it's after 2 don't you dare come to bed, you have to stay downstairs. I'm not sure why he thinks it's ok to mess with my sleep because he can't be smart enough to come to bed at a decent hour, but I'm gonna have to have a come to Jesus talk with him today.
I have this problem with my husband too. Unfortunately, if he falls asleep in the living room, the lights and TV will also be on, which eventually wakes me up. So I have to go turn everything off and drag him to bed. It's a pain.
Does anyone watch the HBO series The Leftovers? My hairdresser told me about it yesterday and I was able to watch the first two episodes while DD napped. It seems interesting so far but wondering if anyone is up to date on the series and if they like it.
The concept of it is pretty interesting so I'll probably keep watching.
Yes! It's a pretty interesting but a miserable show! I keep watching mainly so I can find out what's up with these people. The last episode was really good! Probably my favorite so far.
@janda426 I'm sorry. You seem really patient actually. I don't think I could last that long honestly. But then again my siblings drive me up a wall with their lack of independence and taking care of themselves. Like you said, at least they moved out, but it is not without a lot of hand holding on my mom's part. Which my dad only knows half of.
Lol thanks, I don't feel so patient! But looking back I can't believe how much we've put up with. I'm done running a boarding house. I have a baby on the way, I'm not babying him anymore. He's 20. He can figure it out.
@wendyld ugh I did this to my step sister. I felt so awful afterwards and yelled at my mom who I had just spent hours with and had not told me about her loss. Hugs dear. I hope your day gets better
Guys I need some ideas. My boss, who I love, is leaving our current employer to pursue a different opportunity. I really want to get her something thoughtful/nice, but I don't know what! I don't know if I should get her something "professional" (ie. an engraved padfolio, etc.) or something more fun and meaningful. We are pretty close, and I like to think we have more of a good friends than boss/coworker relationship. Any ideas??
I had a similar situation at my last job. I ended up getting her a gift for her new desk from Hallmark. Not sure if she'd be into it, but I got one of those WillowTree figurine things. It was the Best Wishes one. just a suggestion
I gotta catch back up ladies but in case you're all on the edge of your seats my second attempt this morning to track down the endangered species, the psl was a success! The first was a flop the guy was so confused! He was like aren't you supposed to know the password? And I was like yes you want me to tell you what it is? And he was like oh I don't know what it is. You'll need to wait 2 more weeks. Bs.
Went down the st., because where are there NOT 2 starbucks within walking distance from each other? , and she sold it to me. No password. Word is they're official tomorrow so anyone who doesn't sell it to me will be doomed.
That is all.
Oh and after I got dressed this morning I noticed my bloat is half the size it's been all month! Omg! I don't look 5 months anymore. I look about 3 so close enough. Now I feel like I have a little cute bump and not fat, gas, bloat, intestines, etc.!
I went right to Starbucks as soon as I got up, and the girl at the counter was all like, "oh sorry we don't have them yet". Ensue crazy pregnant rant...
I basically threw a fit and said that the news said it was launching today and that it even said so on their website, and that I shouldn't have to be the one telling her that.
So after one look from the manager she's all, "ok, we'll go get it from the back".
DAMN STRAIGHT! I know you got the goods, just give em to me!
As for me, my H is taking me to Trader Joes today because of the talk of cookie butter ice cream in recent threads. Also, my mom and sister took me to Babies R Us yesterday to look around and I am now excited about baby gear. I got to play with some car seat travel systems and such, and my mom was very excited about buying some things for baby to make a nursery at her house. (She will be helping out some with overnight child care due to my and H's schedules).
Me(29), DH (29) Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013 Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks) July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick! EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
I'm 12 weeks 2da! I also have my first appointment tomorrow which is making me nervous because twins run in SO family. It also doesn't help I've been able to catch the heartbeat on left and right side with my doppler(maybe it's just a bouncy plum?).
Another random- What's with miscarriage dreams? I don't like them they need to leave me alone.
Twins in your SOs family doesn't increase your risk/likelihood of having twins at all.
That's a relief. Not sure I could handle more than one.
ETA I posted and got in the shower not realizing what I said could have come across insensitive. I'm sorry if I offended anyone it was not my intentions. I promise I'm not a complete bitch.
BFP - 6/28.....Unofficial(waiting on u/s) EDD - 3/9
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Re: Summer Nights
I was sleeping peacefully until H came to bed at about 4 am and woke me up and it took me a long time to fall back asleep. Apparently he fell asleep in the recliner. I told him he should have kept his ass downstairs. He does this all the time and I've told him several times if it's after 2 don't you dare come to bed, you have to stay downstairs. I'm not sure why he thinks it's ok to mess with my sleep because he can't be smart enough to come to bed at a decent hour, but I'm gonna have to have a come to Jesus talk with him today.
Another random...one of my coworkers was complaining about a snack that someone was supposed to bring in to the office and didn't. And I shot back at him that I've been waiting for him to bring in more biscotti, and BAM right there on his desk under a pile of papers was a box of double chocolate biscotti. SCORE. Instant gratification.
@mauibliss I have no words for the way husband acted but I am absolutely in LOVE with you right now for turning this into a shopping extravaganza. Can you buy some super swanky luggage? What about a new pair of expensive sandals? I suppose the only upside is if you're feeling gross at least it sounds like there will be other people vomitting uncontrollably. Perhaps you can bond with the skinny bishes while holding each other's hair?
@jenny0314 WTF is it with the crazed husbands today? I'm sorry you fought and he's being douchey.
@wendyld (hugs)
"Serious is only something you have to be until you can be silly again."We had a great weekend! Finally got a bunch of new clothes for SO and I and saved sooo much money at Gordman's! Then we took the kids to Chuck E Cheese and it actually wasn't busy... Like at all. That was the first time I enjoyed myself there.
SO and I still haven't had sex and I'm pretty sure we're getting closer to 2 weeks now. He's being so patient and understanding though. He deserves a good lay... I just don't ever feel like iiiiittt....
GL to everyone with appts!!
Good luck today @jessuhmarie , @darbie914 , and @pmv81. Please update us.
@createmagic14 I hope day one goes fast. I'm so glad to not be starting the school year for the first time in my life...
On that note, phone interview in less than an hour (the follow up to that video interview) Good vibes and FX for me, please!!
Married: 10/04/2014
DD1: 03/02/15
DD2: 08/04/16
Baby 3 Due: 11/23/18!
Another random- What's with miscarriage dreams? I don't like them they need to leave me alone.
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@wendyld, I'm so sorry, love
@mauibliss you are too good. I so would not go. Buy ALL the things and bring ALL the snacks.
@wendyld I'm sorry that happened, hugs.
@MauiBliss I would be so pissed at my H if he did that. Hope you are able to get through the trip if you decide to go. Could you try to rebook your flight? Some airlines will let you if there is still space on the earlier ones.
I am so frustrated trying to work with my son on the activities the speech therapist gave us to do. He has no interest at all. He either ignores me or just looks at me, smiles and then walks away to get a toy. I don't know how I am supposed to help him if I can't get him to even try anything or even sit still for 2 minutes.
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MMC April 2014 at 6w2d, D&C at 9 weeks
MMC August 2014 at 9w1d, D&C at 12 weeks
CP October 2014
My Ovulation Chart
MMC April 2014 at 6w2d, D&C at 9 weeks
MMC August 2014 at 9w1d, D&C at 12 weeks
CP October 2014
My Ovulation Chart
Good luck @FrecklesInside, I hope this is for a better opportunity than the other phone interview you had
MMC April 2014 at 6w2d, D&C at 9 weeks
MMC August 2014 at 9w1d, D&C at 12 weeks
CP October 2014
My Ovulation Chart
Good luck to all with appointments today!
Also he ate all but like 3 fucking bites of my honey bunches of oats and I just had to rage on him. I'm so fucking sick of him touching my shit. So I had honey nut Cheerios. Not the same.
Random:
1. Ermagerd PSL today!!!
2. I told my family this week and despite the immediate concern from my dad, we got a text later saying how when he had time to think about it on his own it made him very happy. He actually said, "I'm having a very strange sensation right now, I don't think I've felt excited about anything in 25 years". So even though he pretends to be be a soulless hardass... dudes got feelings.
3. I can't stop eating baked potatoes with a ton of butter, cheese and sour cream.
You will be so smoking hot those mean drunk skinnies will be jealous. And since you won't be drinking, you'll be the classiest lady there.
@wendyld hugs to you. I'm sorry that happened.
@FrecklesInside good luck at the interview!
@wendyld I'm so sorry you've got to deal with that! Hugs to you!
@FrecklesInside good luck with your interview!! Good vibes heading your way!!
Hugs dear. I hope your day gets better
I basically threw a fit and said that the news said it was launching today and that it even said so on their website, and that I shouldn't have to be the one telling her that.
So after one look from the manager she's all, "ok, we'll go get it from the back".
DAMN STRAIGHT!
I know you got the goods, just give em to me!
@MauiBliss Good luck with the trip. That sounds like a pregnant woman's worst nightmare. Your H better appreciate you going and being a trooper!
@FrecklesInside Good luck!!
@jessuhmarie Congrats on a good looking baby!
I think I'm caught up.. Whew!
As for me, my H is taking me to Trader Joes today because of the talk of cookie butter ice cream in recent threads. Also, my mom and sister took me to Babies R Us yesterday to look around and I am now excited about baby gear. I got to play with some car seat travel systems and such, and my mom was very excited about buying some things for baby to make a nursery at her house. (She will be helping out some with overnight child care due to my and H's schedules).
Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013
Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks)
July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick!
EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
ETA I posted and got in the shower not realizing what I said could have come across insensitive. I'm sorry if I offended anyone it was not my intentions. I promise I'm not a complete bitch.
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