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gloverbabies · August 2014

What we thought would be an exciting day and checkup on our peanut ended in tears. I should've been 12 weeks tomorrow, but the baby only measured 9 1/2 and had no heartbeat! I just keep telling myself God has a bigger plan! And I'll continue to enjoy loving on and spoiling our 2 year old until God sees fit for our family to grow. Any info on a DNC is appreciated as I've got to schedule one Monday. Good luck to all you March mommies. I wish y'all happy pregnancies. I'll be back soon!

BitsyBelle84 · August 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for comfort and healing for you and your husband.

rowboat4 · August 2014

So very sorry for your loss. Sending love your way.

peppermint53 · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending T&P to you and your family!

selena61307 · August 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.

igl08 · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

mesteller1983 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss. Been there, done that and had a healthy baby boy 4 mos later. It's not the end for you. Dnc is not so bad. I was obviously asleep and woke up and it was done. Had to put some pill in my mouth for an hour to dialate me. Then procedure then it was over. Really not that bad. After the meds wear off, you feel achy and I couldn't lift anything for 6 weeks. The after part of your hormones coming down is the hardest part...You may not believe it but everyday that passes your heart will heal a little more. ❤️ Best of luck for a helping heart... ☺️

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cygnet15 · August 2014

Oh no! I am so, so sorry

Prayers for fast healing and good things in the future for you.

gloverbabies · August 2014

mesteller1983 said:
So sorry for your loss. Been there, done that and had a healthy baby boy 4 mos later. It's not the end for you. Dnc is not so bad. I was obviously asleep and woke up and it was done. Had to put some pill in my mouth for an hour to dialate me. Then procedure then it was over. Really not that bad. After the meds wear off, you feel achy and I couldn't lift anything for 6 weeks. The after part of your hormones coming down is the hardest part...You may not believe it but everyday that passes your heart will heal a little more. ❤️ Best of luck for a helping heart... ☺️

Thanks for the encouraging words! Just had no clue how the procedure would go. Dr wanted me to take it all in before we discussed it Monday. Just really praying I don't start bleeding and cramping before then. Think I would freak out to have it on my own.

lisap0924 · August 2014

I am so sorry! Take care of yourself

gloverbabies · August 2014

Thank you. I'll check out the board.

PuppyLove84 · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. :-(

sjep922 · August 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself!

Lovebeingamomny · August 2014

So sorry for your loss. Prayers for a speedy recovery.

mesteller1983 · August 2014

The day before I went in I had cramps but no bleeding. Take it one day at a time. Procedure is not so bad, thank God for the drugs. You will do fine. It all just takes time!

spaceykatie · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

As far as the d&c, I had one for a mmc back in April. The physical recovery is really very easy. I took it easy for a day or two and was back to normal quickly.

The emotional part is hard, but gets better each day. My thoughts are with you.

mommyofkaylin · August 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss

Stephy129 · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

pregarella · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Big hugs.

tngrl3 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss. My t&P are with you and your family.

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psychbear · August 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.

goofygoff · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Lmsq1611 · August 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss and what you are going through.

marg81 · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you have a speedy recovery.

MrsLaurenandDan · August 2014

I'm so, so sorry for your loss.

starsailorr26 · August 2014

I am so sorry for your loss.

rm2013 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss. Hugs.

elgizzo · August 2014

I am so very sorry for your loss.

ruemorgan · August 2014

((Hugs)) so sorry, hun!

LesliW · August 2014

I'm so sorry. Thoughts, prayers, and hugs to you...

kowyen · August 2014

I'm so sorry

ChristianMomma1980 · August 2014

I'm very sorry for your loss.

jap618 · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss ((hugs))

As for the d&c it has been the easiest way for me to recover quickly (both physically and emotionally). You'll be put under for the procedure and can expect some bleeding for up to 2 weeks after as your uterus begins to heal.

As meladoriestar said the miscarriage & loss board is a great place for the raw emotions and others going through this very stage.

JessS29 · August 2014

So very sorry for your loss. I had a d&c in March and like @spaceykatie‌ said my physical recovery was very easy. I've had both a natural mc and a d&c and physically the d&c was easier. It did take longer for my cycle to come back (but I think that had a lot to do with the fact that I was farther along) and my first 2 periods were really light. It's a little hard going to the hospital to deal with this instead of being at home but once it was over I felt fine physically. Hope you have the same experience so you can begin the emotional healing process.

chaysefaith · August 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.

052806 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss.

homegrown2 · August 2014

So sorry for your loss

cakergirl · August 2014

I am so sorry for your loss! I had a missed miscarriage last yr. found our at my 10 week appt, baby only measured 7 weeks with no HB. I obviously wasn't as far along so I initially opted to do it "naturally" (for lack of a better word) but regretted it. I went over a week with no natural MC/bleeding. Then it went downhill. GRAPHIC DETAIL warning: When it did finally start "naturally", I started bleeding heavily, changing 5 pads an hour and still overflowing, literally. So I called my ob and they did an emergent D&C. I wished I had just scheduled the D&C to start. They Put me to sleep for it, completed it, and I woke up pain-free and bleeding-free. Compared to the massive pain and bleeding I had in the hours leading up to the surgery the D&C was night and day. I felt instantly better. Not emotionally, but physically. To this day a lot of my "trauma" from that comes not on the procedure but from the horrid symptoms leading up to it. I barely had to wear a pad afterwords. Everyone's situation is different, but I know given that situation again I wouldn't hesitate to have one again rather than putting it off. I am so sorry you need to go through this. Well wishes for you for the procedure and your recovery.

mangomimosa · August 2014

::hugs:: so sorry for your loss!

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