March 2015 Moms

Dancing in the Dark

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Re: Dancing in the Dark

  • I woke up to a cat peeing in the bed next to me. Ugh. No covered in vinegar and baking soda a peroxide getting it out. Thankfully we sprang for a fancy waterproof mattresses cover, but seriously, I kind of hate J's cats right now.
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  • I got nothing this morning so far except I've been up way too early so far.
    BTW I'll be 9wk tma!!!! Gotta update my ticker, tried yesterday but don't know how.
  • SNLT1012 said:

    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants ftpeople who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.

    I was irritated by that thread too, tbh. I didn't comment just to be nice.
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  • I am so sad for school to be starting in a week and a half. I'm not ready to go back mentally, and a little worried how I'm going to handle the long days again. I'm always exhausted at the beginning of the year, and this year I'm pregnant and feel like crap. Plus the crazy ass principal is back again, despite the school council working hard to get rid of her, so there's another level of hell to go back to. Ugh! I just want it to be summer forever!

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  • We got back from our mini-vacation last night at 11:00 thanks to Chicago construction traffic (a 3.5 hour trip turned into a 6 hour trip).  And of course, because she slept the whole car ride, Lily was up at 7:00 this morning.  It's going to be a long day.

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  • Happy anniversary, @nomnommama‌ !

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  • Happy anniversary @nomnommama‌

    Pizza and cake sounds amazing. Especially cake.

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  • SNLT1012 said:

    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants people who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.

    Yep. She didn't get any comfort from me. I just answered her question honestly.
    I said "this isn't a real problem" in the nicest possible way. F anyone who says we aren't supportive. We are supportive to even made up problems. And a double fuck you to the person who told her she should call her doctor if she is worried.

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  • Someone brought in doughnuts. I may have had second breakfast.

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  • wendyld said:

    SNLT1012 said:

    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants people who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.

    Yep. She didn't get any comfort from me. I just answered her question honestly.
    I said "this isn't a real problem" in the nicest possible way. F anyone who says we aren't supportive. We are supportive to even made up problems. And a double fuck you to the person who told her she should call her doctor if she is worried.

    Honestly I'd rather she ask her doctor than us...
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  • I've decided that my son hates me. He sleeps for my mom at her house. He falls asleep on my husband. But he wants to be awake and a crankapotomus when it's me. And he flails about like a caterpillar on a stick so he's nearly impossible to settle down.

    Mommy wants sleeeeeep!
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  • @katydid2014‌ HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! <:-P
  • @nomnommama‌ happy anniversary!

    Ugh - the internet is down at work this week & I've been having a lot of trouble getting the app to work correctly on 3G. :( On top of that my sense of smell is becoming super-human. Yesterday at work, I could smell everyone's feet. Tragic!
  • wendyld said:

    SNLT1012 said:

    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants people who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.

    Yep. She didn't get any comfort from me. I just answered her question honestly.
    I said "this isn't a real problem" in the nicest possible way. F anyone who says we aren't supportive. We are supportive to even made up problems. And a double fuck you to the person who told her she should call her doctor if she is worried.

    Honestly I'd rather she ask her doctor than us...
    Fair enough, I was more peeved with the encouragement for more people to freak out. And I get being scared, I do. I'm still terrified of going back to the Dr and getting the same kind of news.
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  • @Cinderella021714‌ I actually LOL'd at the R Kelly comment!

    @CoozieInMyPurse‌ Cats peeing anywhere outside the box is the WORST....I can't even imagine waking up to it in my bed. :(

    Not much to add to the random thread yet. I'm 11w 2da!
  • Darbie914 said:
    Ugh, Coozie, that literally stinks!  One of our cats has recently been pooping on the mat right outside of the litter box so I get to wake up to fresh shit nuggets every morning.  

    DD slept until 6:30 today!!!  Hopefully it's not a fluke and her sleep continues to go back to normal.

    I haven't opened the mmc thread and now I'm glad.  

    I found an OB that supports VBACs and have an appointment on the 19th!  I'll have to remember to cancel my appointment with the other OB.  
    I'm glad you found an OB who supports VBACs!! Yay!

    Also, my cat does more than shit just outside the litter box. She was shitting all over the room the litter box was in. We tried EVERYTHING. Bigger litter box, a slew of different litter boxes, a different location, different food, different litter. OY! Finally we just put a cat door in the basement door and put the litter box in the basement. Now when she shits all over the damn floor, at least it is in the basement, not stinking up the whole house...still fun to deal with her shit all over the place, but we have no idea, seriously, no idea what to do. Sigh.
  • wendyld said:

    wendyld said:

    SNLT1012 said:

    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants people who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.

    Yep. She didn't get any comfort from me. I just answered her question honestly.
    I said "this isn't a real problem" in the nicest possible way. F anyone who says we aren't supportive. We are supportive to even made up problems. And a double fuck you to the person who told her she should call her doctor if she is worried.

    Honestly I'd rather she ask her doctor than us...
    Fair enough, I was more peeved with the encouragement for more people to freak out. And I get being scared, I do. I'm still terrified of going back to the Dr and getting the same kind of news.
    I get it. I don't blame you for being aggravated. The whole thread is a giant ball of WTF...
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  • edited August 2014
    etoille said:



    It's amazing how happy pooping can make me these days :-)

    I need to get some miralax today.  There was a lot of blood when I went last night.  A lot.  Like dripping and it looked like even some tissue-like stuff (all bright red so not intestinal etc - I'm just really constipated).

    I tried colace but its really not getting it done.  I also need to take my own damn advice I just gave out in the STM thread and get serious about fiber intake.


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    Fiber One bars and Raisin Nut Bran cereal. Both are delicious, full of fiber, and produce the poops. Sorry about your bloody bum. That sucks. :(

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  • You all said stay away from the missed miscarriage thread and I should have listened. It made me feel a little angry inside.

    These waves of nausea are wearing me out. I'll feel fine forms few hours and then BAM, I'm nauseas and exhausted. I know I need to eat more frequently but I keep forgetting when I have a busy toddler to chase. I didn't know how good I had it last pregnancy when I could relax in bed all summer!
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  • BBnut said:
    wendyld said:
    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants people who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.
    Yep. She didn't get any comfort from me. I just answered her question honestly.
    I said "this isn't a real problem" in the nicest possible way. F anyone who says we aren't supportive. We are supportive to even made up problems. And a double fuck you to the person who told her she should call her doctor if she is worried.
    Actually your reply is the one that bothered me the most.  I think you meant that it isn't something she is dealing with right now but the wording was bad.  MMC have been a real problem and not something made up for some of us.
    I'm pretty sure @wendyld has had a MMC and didn't mean it the way you think she did. I'm pretty sure she wasn't saying, actually I'm positive she wasn't saying that MMCs aren't real problems, but that the OP doesn't have a real problem and should stop borrowing trouble and making people relive their experiences for her benefit.
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    edited August 2014
    BBnut said:


    wendyld said:

    SNLT1012 said:

    The missed miscarriage thread is making me irrationally stabby. I just keep thinking of my friends on here who have had a mmc opening that thinking they're going to offer support to someone going through it just to find someone who, as far as she knows, is growing a perfectly healthy bean and just wants people who have been through it to comfort her and tell her about their experiences to make her feel better.

    Yep. She didn't get any comfort from me. I just answered her question honestly.
    I said "this isn't a real problem" in the nicest possible way. F anyone who says we aren't supportive. We are supportive to even made up problems. And a double fuck you to the person who told her she should call her doctor if she is worried.


    Actually your reply is the one that bothered me the most.  I think you meant that it isn't something she is dealing with right now but the wording was bad.  MMC have been a real problem and not something made up for some of us.


    I think there is a misinterpretation of what I said. My post indicated that I have also been there, so I'm not sure why you think I don't understand how heartbreaking it can be. I said she doesn't have a real problem right now, because she doesn't. She's stressing about something that there is a 99% chance won't happen to her. If she had ANY indication something was wrong, I would be offering all the hugs in the world.

    ETA: I've already addressed this in the other thread too, as did several other people who read it the way it was intended, so why the need to call me out a second time in a separate thread?
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  • I think pregnancy is setting you up for your future obsession of poop. During pregnancy, it's your poop your stressing about, and then when the baby is born, it switches to baby poop obsession that doesn't end.
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