I'm getting tired of this waking every 1.5 hours all night long. I call BS on this, child!
But I got to go for a run this morning since DH is home, and later today I am leaving the gremlin and all the animals with DH and going to starbucks for three glorious hours to do schoolwork.
I never thought I'd be so happy to work on a research paper, guys.
I'm pretty OCD about cleaning and my house . We have too much house for us and also 2 large dogs so it's like a battle I can never conquer . I feel like I can stay on top of everything to my liking easily but then I feel guilty that I shouldn't be cleaning or doing other stuff while my son is awake . But then I think I can't engage him very minute that he's awake either . And then I feel guilty for that and find myself exhausted because I run around like mad trying to get everything done before he wakes . Also have zero time for yourself with this method of " time management "
Sorry just what's on my mind and wanted to get it out there .
I totally am right with you on this one. My OCD can be really debilitating and as organized as I am, I have trouble with time management and prioritizing. I just try to be relaxed and accept that I can't get everything done- at least not all at once. I have to remind myself the cleaning can wait, our LO's grow up fast and we won't get those moments back, it's not worth it to miss out on LO's first giggle because I'm vacuuming. I'm not going to remember if the laundry was done on this day 10 years from now. You don't have to entertain your LO every second of the day either though, if he is content in his swing or lying on his activity gym, by all means, sneak in some cleaning. The moments we do have to ourself are few and fleeting, so we do have to choose among everything we'd like to accomplish. I find I'm worse for the wear if I try to take care of everything else around the house before myself all the time. It's ok to take a shower or paint your nails (or eat something!!) during LO's naps even when the house isn't picked up. Sometimes self care can give you the burst of energy you need to tackle more things efficiently the rest of the day.
I 100% related reading your post... It sounds like you also clean to manage anxiety? Spending a day with your LO without bothering with the housework (other then picking up as you go) is the best kind of cognitive therapy, really!
----- Thanks so much @knotty-girl for your thoughtful reply. You re awesome . I' m sorry that you can relate and yup cleaning is my drug sometimes I clean like crazy when I'm anxious
You re right tho the littke things are way more important
This is my first RTT post! Just because I wanted to complain about how I got my first pp period and it is fucking terrible. Add to that my anxiety about going on a 4 day work trip today, and I am a hot mess this morning.
People keep posting this image on Facebook that says "Keep talking about me behind my back, and watch God keep blessing me in front of your face." My first thought was just "if you truly believe in God, why are you bringing him into your petty bullshit disputes?" But then I gave up trying to understand, put my humor glasses on, and imagined God doing the triple snap and saying "You tell her, girl!" instead. Much better.
March 2017 September Siggy Challenge: Favorite Fall Things
I'm going on a girl date with another gal who has a little girl who is three days younger than Merriwether. Hellooooo hot meal, pedicures and no babies or hubbies!!!
Happy Sunday to everyone.
My thoughts to you ladies going back to work tomorrow. Snuggle your LOs like crazy today!
We are headed to the lake and I'm super excited!! DH brought his kayak so he'll be able to go out and fish. LO and I will hang out on the pontoon with my aunt and uncle. She loves sleeping on the lake, so I'm hoping she'll actually nap longer than 30 minutes. And while my body is still a hot mess, I'm rocking a bathing suit and hoping for a tan!
AW: I just turned an old t-shirt into a nightgown for A! I put snaps on the bottom for easy diaper changing access.
This is the first presentable article of clothing I have ever produced. I've made awesome quilts and other stuff, but sleeves always got me before.
All his other sleep-sacks are either fleece or flannel and too warm for FL summers. So, now he has a nice lightweight one.
Time to raid DH's closet for more old shirts!
I've got to try this. I have a billion concert tees that I have come to terms with never fitting me again after having a baby. I already had it in mind to give them to LO at some point.
Sick baby, cuddly day. We are supposed to have thunderstorms again today so we're staying in. Don't want to get rained on. Having said that it probably won't rain.
Going back to work this week and B starts daycare tomorrow, so I'm letting her take all her naps on me today.
I'm "wall punching" angry that I have to go back. I wonder if I'd feel different if I was solely a choice rather than a financial need to return or if I worked in a different field. I hate that someone else will be watching her while I spend my time with other people's kids. DH and I had a good talk about our 1 and 5 year financial goals/plan.
Every time I take a bath my dog Zira peeks over the edge at me and she looks so ridiculously cute. Last night I remembered to bring my phone into the bathtub with me.
Every time I take a bath my dog Zira peeks over the edge at me and she looks so ridiculously cute. Last night I remembered to bring my phone into the bathtub with me.
Adorable My bulldog justice does the same thing but also drinks the water
Turns out the first attempt was too short. For the second one, I kept the original collar and made it the full length of the shirt, using the original hem, too. It's at least 6 inches longer. And it has an awesome print!
Love the princess bride one!
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis
I just made delicious blackberry muffins. I should have added brewers yeast to make them "lactation" muffins so I could justify eating them all without sharing...
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
A Facebook friend just posted how funny it is that her two month old ate chocolate pudding for the first time last night. Apparently the baby's grandfather just had to share his dessert because "the baby looked like he wanted some sugar". WTF?!?! @-)
ermehgawd. Girl date was amazing. Do you know how awesome it is to go on a baby-free girl date with a woman who is in your exact shoes? It's like us, every day and night, except in real life and when we're not breastfeeding/nursing/feeding/multitasking.
I wish I could get pedicures with all of you every Sunday.
Also I can't decide if my lemonade was spiked or if I'm just super happy. The price didn't indicate it was spiked. I think I'm just actually, legitimately happy.
Also also, my feet look amazing, which is pretty difficult since I've lost two toe nails since I've been running again. It happens every time. That's what I get for 12 years of 70+ mile weeks.
It depresses me to read the exclusively pumping thread because I have never been able to pump that much milk ever even with all the aids and fenugreek Drives me nuts when people say if I only got that much I wouldn't bother If I thought that way my baby would have got zero breast milk I may make very little but at least about half of what he gets is breast milk
Re: Longest Thread EVER! (aka Random Thoughts Thread )
therapy, really!
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Thanks so much @knotty-girl for your thoughtful reply.
You re awesome . I' m sorry that you can relate and yup cleaning is my drug sometimes
I clean like crazy when I'm anxious
You re right tho the littke things are way more important
Tell me more about how you did the sleeves...
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
Happy Sunday to everyone.
My thoughts to you ladies going back to work tomorrow. Snuggle your LOs like crazy today!
Hope you're having a good Sunday!
My bulldog justice does the same thing but also drinks the water
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis
BFP #1 May 20, 2013 MC June 27, 2013 BFP #2 August 2, 2013 Baby Boy born 4/25/14 (3 weeks overdue!)
April 14 August Siggy Challenge- "This time last year.."
I can only sew a button on with the aid of a lighter . Yes you read that right
Drives me nuts when people say if I only got that much I wouldn't bother
If I thought that way my baby would have got zero breast milk
I may make very little but at least about half of what he gets is breast milk
With the possible exception of the equator, everything begins somewhere. - C.S.Lewis