July 2014 Moms

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  • I just wish DD would sleep long enough for me to eat dinner and pack both our bags for our family vacation! This cluster feeding/only sleeping in my arms is killing me tonight lol. Usually I don't mind


  • AW moment: While I was in the hospital, my stepkids' mom was texting me for updates and wishing me well on the delivery and recovery, but the text that made me cry was when she said "You're going to be such a good mama! Well... you already are!"

    I may not always appreciate everything I have, but I pray I never take our relationship for granted. Four years ago, I never would've thought she would be rushing to me during our son's t-ball game to cuddle my baby girl.




    Co parenting win!!!! I wish all blended families could cultivate that level of teamwork.

    This plus this times this exponentially this.

  • My feet were so pretty throughout my pregnancy thanks to regular pedis. Since LO has been here, not one in 4 weeks. My toe nails were extra long and I hit the corner of a door and my big toe nail cracked completely in half. Now I'm too embarrassed to go to the pedi place. Boo.
  • Ekg688 said:

    I just wish DD would sleep long enough for me to eat dinner and pack both our bags for our family vacation! This cluster feeding/only sleeping in my arms is killing me tonight lol. Usually I don't mind

    Try snacking. It's hard to get a full plated sit down meal with a newborn so, it's a good idea to eat what you can hold in your hands and walk around with it and baby. That's what I've been doing.
  • @jensavicci‌ ... I've been living off snacks for the past week lol. I want a MEAL! DH literally fed me pizza the other night. DD was being a wiggle worm while eating and wouldn't stay latched without help lol.
  • Most stressful week...

    1. SILs father passed away of a massive heart attack at 58. So sad... he was the greatest guy and DH and I are very close with the family since he grew up with her and she ended up marrying his brother. I feel terrible.

    2. DS had to have surgery on Tuesday (he's only 3 weeks) and we had to stay overnight. Hardest thing I've ever done is hand him over to the anesthesia team. He did great but it was so stressful and we had to stay overnight so sleep was at a minimum.

    3. Someone syphoned (sp?) gas out of our truck while we were away at the hospital for DS' s surgery. This after the truck was broken into and GPS and stuff stolen a month and a half ago.

    4. We got home tonight around 945pm after dinner at my parents to find some sort of small critter had chewed through our kitchen screen and eaten a bunch of stuff in our kitchen. Called the maintenance dept since we live in an apt. Took an hr and a half for them to call back and when they came and looked around said they think it was a squirrel that came and went. Then proceeded to tell DH that we should just keep our windows shut and that they'll try to trap it maybe on Monday. But to keep windows closed. That's fan - freaking- tastic... I wanna know if they're gonna pay the electric bill for the central air conditioner we now have to run that when set at 70 still only keeps our apt at maybe 77 degrees if we are lucky.

    Coping mechanisms are completely spent. I'm so done. =[
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  • So sorry @bchildrn‌. That's a lot of crap to deal with PP. Glad your LO did well though!

      
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  • @bchildrn Sounds like a really tough time, I'm hoping things ease up for you. So sorry for your loss. Glad you LO did well, but that's so stressful and with the break in and critter incident it sounds like a really shitty time. Thinking of you and sending better luck and positive thoughts.
  • I miss my baby. My mom has been taking care of her since I got diagnosed with vertigo and feel like I'm on a never ending fucking tilt a whirl. DH had gotten sick the day before me.
    So we are both down for the count.

    She brought her in last night so we could spend a couple min with her before she put her down to sleep and it just about killed me.

    She wakes and cries and I can hear it but I can't do anything about it. I just want my baby back.

    And I'm barely getting 20ml combined from a pumping session right now.

    FML

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  • Poor LO has been straining to poop for a full 24 hours but has only pooped once. Tons of gas, just no poop. I feel so bad for her! I have a call into the pedi to see if there is anything else I can do besides the tummy massages. :/
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  • Poor LO has been straining to poop for a full 24 hours but has only pooped once. Tons of gas, just no poop. I feel so bad for her! I have a call into the pedi to see if there is anything else I can do besides the tummy massages. :/

    @honeybee434‌ Try doing bicycle legs for her. Hope she goes soon!
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  • @litera‌ I do the same! DH hates going to the store with me because I want to spend forever going through the baby items.
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  • @litera we have those hats and the matching onesies. Superrrr cute!

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  • TKT17 said:
    FTM question: Does your LO always wear shoes/ socks? We don't really have any NB shoes but I try to put socks on Claire whenever we leave the house. BUT it seems like an impossible task, they are constantly falling off and getting lost. I'm afraid people will side-eye me if she's barefoot...

    I hate baby socks. He never wears them unless in public. Even then I prefer footed sleepers. I usually just throw a blanket over his feet and torso at stores. People will side eye you for are baby feet (in Texas) Plus he has a knack for getting poo on his feet. I'd rather wash his feet than a million socks

     

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  • Wow, Texans would be appalled if they walked into our Wal-Mart.  People bring their babies and toddlers inside wearing just their diapers.  I commented to DH that maybe the baby had a giant blow-out right before coming inside and they didn't have another outfit with them.  There are just too many of them though and most likely their parents just didn't put any clothes on them.  I put socks on DS if he is wearing pants but I have little sandals he wears with shorts.  I know it's pointless, but he looks so cute wearing them. 

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  • DH is buying a motorcycle today and I'm terrified. I want him to get it because he never buys himself ANYTHING, but I have so many terrible images run through my head when I think of him on one. Ugh
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    I have died every day waiting for you. Darling, don't be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years. And all along I believed I would find you, time has brought your heart to me. I have loved you for a thousand years. I'll love you a thousand more.
  • It hit me today that DH is going back to work eventually. I have no freaking clue how I'm supposed to take care of a 2yo and a newborn by myself. Like, no clue whatsoever. I'm scared to death!!
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  • I had no idea people would judge me for not putting socks on my baby. I mean she's dressed and I've typically showered before we go out so I call that a win.

    Don't stress on it. Just say they got lost lol. You will soon learn how quickly and how often baby socks disappear. It's like they're little mischievous pixie socks that like to run away. Waste of money in the summer IMO.
  • This recovery process sucks! I've totally been MIA because of being stuck in a chair in pain. After several doctor visits and creams I hope it all starts working soon. I didn't have an episiotomy but had lots of internal tearing. At this point (10 days pp) I feel accomplished walking to the bathroom and the nursery several times a day. When does this get better?!
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    Might help if I attached the pic. Sigh. Just woke up guise, my bad!

    NEED!

     

     

  • I'm in California too so no hats, socks or long sleeves unless sleeping at night (we turn the air low). He usually ends up sweating up the car seat.. Back gets soaked in just his onesie. Also, his baby acne flairs up when he's hot- anyone else notice this with their munchy?

    Also, does anyone else notice their LO's schedule gets off on visitation days? No matter how much we keep him on track, he ends up fighting everything, needing to eat more/less and getting overtired (even when we put him to bed at his usual time). I am ready to quit having visits because he ends up 2 hrs past bedtime so exhausted from crying he's puffy and we are so frustrated that nothing is working. My guests think I have the devil child but when no one else is here, he's the easiest kid!
  • I'm in California too so no hats, socks or long sleeves unless sleeping at night (we turn the air low). He usually ends up sweating up the car seat.. Back gets soaked in just his onesie. Also, his baby acne flairs up when he's hot- anyone else notice this with their munchy?

    Also, does anyone else notice their LO's schedule gets off on visitation days? No matter how much we keep him on track, he ends up fighting everything, needing to eat more/less and getting overtired (even when we put him to bed at his usual time). I am ready to quit having visits because he ends up 2 hrs past bedtime so exhausted from crying he's puffy and we are so frustrated that nothing is working. My guests think I have the devil child but when no one else is here, he's the easiest kid!

    Absolutely with the visitation and schedule. He gets so flustered and upset especially if he's passed around a lot. Then he won't sleep, wants to cluster feed the whole time... it's brutal. I feel so bad for him. Hopefully only one more crazy weekend then things will be normal ish.
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  • My mom just rocked my world. DS was born on Monday we came home on Wednesday and she went home Friday. Fine no biggie, I have help right now. My almost one year old is 21 lbs and I can't lift anything over 10 lbs. so things are just hard now, and any help I can get is very needed.

    Well she calls me this afternoon and says "hey um we are not going to be coming back anymore". I immediately start crying and wondering wtf?!?! She told me she would be here for a least two weeks to help after DS was born. She was here for 2 days. I'm so confused! She told me her mom is sick, very sick (my grandma) and she can't keep neglecting her. I'm like ok, that totally understandable. But still you say, never coming back. I can feel this is not truthful.

    I text her later on and said please be honest. She then said two families cannot be under one roof. She said you know what I mean. I'm like no I don't I'm not a mind reader. I don't know, there's obviously some things we need to talk about. This is not like her. She also said she could be here a few days a week when I return to work. I guess that went to shit too? Did I scare her off with all the babies?! Lol! Fml!!!!

    We have our "Irish Twins"

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  • Bought some tickets on groupon to see the Wayans brothers in stand up comedy tonight. Sometimes, after spending every minute of every day with small children, you need some adult humor in your life. I just got home and I'm so glad I went. They had me laughing/crying so hard I think I felt breast milk trickle out. Overall, it was a good night and mama got some adult time :)

    Terrible pics but, at least I got them.

    @jensavicci‌
    I love comedy shows!!! Like a lot, so much fun. The last one I went to was to see Anjelah Johnson. Oh man, was I rolling! I'm glad you got out and had a good laugh.

    We have our "Irish Twins"

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