Fired previous provider, 35 weeks now no OB will take me?!?!

Re: Fired previous provider, 35 weeks now no OB will take me?!?!

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• ghostof5letters member

  July 2014

  MrsSinner402 said:

  You guys, abbfull was SO SO SO RLY mean to her to start with, what would u expect.  Don't you guys have ANY preferences that you want your drs to provide?  I fired a few too because one wouldn't give me ultrasounds when I wanted, even when I wuld lie and tell her the baby wasn't moving.  WHO DOESN'T GIVE ULTRASOUND'S WHEN A BABY ISNT MOVING.  And then another 1 bcuz she was going on vacation for a week furing the month i'm due.  Who just leaves there patience in the lurch like that.

  
  

  OP I'm sorry they'r ebeing such jerks.  can u try planned parnethood's?

  Wait... you're kidding right?

  Read the screen name. She's definitely kidding. 

  
  

  
  

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• MrsSinner402 member

  July 2014

  ghostof5letters said:

  
  

  MrsSinner402 said:

  
  

  WhitestofKnights said:

  You guys, abbfull was SO SO SO RLY mean to her to start with, what would u expect.  Don't you guys have ANY preferences that you want your drs to provide?  I fired a few too because one wouldn't give me ultrasounds when I wanted, even when I wuld lie and tell her the baby wasn't moving.  WHO DOESN'T GIVE ULTRASOUND'S WHEN A BABY ISNT MOVING.  And then another 1 bcuz she was going on vacation for a week furing the month i'm due.  Who just leaves there patience in the lurch like that.

  
  

  OP I'm sorry they'r ebeing such jerks.  can u try planned parnethood's?

  Wait... you're kidding right?

  
  

  Read the screen name. She's definitely kidding. 
  
  Good call.

  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  

  

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• WashingtonQueen member

  July 2014

  @mommaof2puppies, You have a personal message I need you to check immediately.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  And I've also reported the unprovoked attacks on me that occurred PREVIOUS to the comment I made

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• littlemissmarla member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @aliletz

  So pregnancy test: wait & research THEN make an appointment when I'm like.....14 weeks along? Doesn't sound like that would be the best plan.

  I took hypno birthing and if there are distractions such as huge/loud families going on and on in a different language nearby, how am I supposed to concentrate on giving birth?

  
  

  
  

  OMG you are such a mess. You are obviously racist and miserable.. I'm sure all your previous OB/midwifes are thanking sweet baby Jesus that you "fired" them. You are so ignorant, but then again in your other posts you claimed you don't even want this baby and your 12yr old stepson is ruining your life. 

  
  

  Your the type of person who should take a test before being allowed to pro-create. 

  
  

  [ Zoey 7.28.14 ]

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @jessafish

   

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014 edited July 2014

  @littlemissmarla

  You're correct. I didn't want this baby because my stepson is such an emotional basket case with no coping skills that he WILL physically and emotionally harm this child.  I will have him arrested & my family will take pity on HIM

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• MrsSinner402 member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  And I've also reported the unprovoked attacks on me that occurred PREVIOUS to the comment I made

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• ghostof5letters member

  July 2014

  I think your stepson has every reason to hate you. 

  
  

  
  

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• littlemissmarla member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @littlemissmarla

  You're correct. I didn't want this baby & I still don't. My stepson will hurt this child and it will mess up my life even more when he gets arrested & sent to juvenile detention for doing so.

  
  

  Is this real life??????? You are bat shit crazy. 

  
  

  [ Zoey 7.28.14 ]

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• WashingtonQueen member

  July 2014

  @abbyful, I am very, truly sorry for your loss. I hope you find comfort during this very difficult time in your life. 

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• ILoveRunning member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @littlemissmarla

  You're correct. I didn't want this baby because my stepson is such an emotional basket case with no coping skills that he WILL physically and emotionally harm this child.  I will have him arrested & my family will take pity on HIM

  Wow, it sounds like you have a lot on your plate and need some serious help.  I say that in the non-snarkiest way possible.  Have you been to a counselor?  If you do find care, please talk to your OB/midwife about your concerns.

  

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• peanutbuttervibes member

  July 2014

  What the fuck.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  Ya - my stepson has already harmed both of our dogs...my husband sweeps it under the rug.  This infant is next on his list. It's a serious Jeffrey Dahmer situation so, whatever. Be judgmental all you want. This is my life.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @tickettuesday

  Why would I be embarrassed? I had no part in creating my stepson.

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• MrsSinner402 member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  Ya - my stepson has already harmed both of our dogs...my husband sweeps it under the rug.  This infant is next on his list. It's a serious Jeffrey Dahmer situation so, whatever. Be judgmental all you want. This is my life.

  You "don't want" this child, yet you're a member of an online support group and your avatar is your totes presh u/s pic, and you're concerned about prenatal care. Also, if your stepson is going to physically harm an infant, he also needs help. Seriously. You two should seek help together. You're both obviously in dire need. Dire need.

  
  

  
  

  
  
  
  

  

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• WashingtonQueen member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  Ya - my stepson has already harmed both of our dogs...my husband sweeps it under the rug.  This infant is next on his list. It's a serious Jeffrey Dahmer situation so, whatever. Be judgmental all you want. This is my life.

  If it was really that serious you would have walked out of that situation a long time ago.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @MrsSinner402

  He's in therapy. Once a week. Its CLEARLY doing nothing but costing ME (I provide the health insurance for this child). He lives with us fulltime and he's not going anywhere anytime soon so there's nothing I can do about it.

  My husband and I have been in therapy.

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• MrsSinner402 member

  July 2014

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  mommaof2puppies said:

  
  

  @tickettuesday

  Why would I be embarrassed? I had no part in creating my stepson.

  
  

  Why are you still here?  
  
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• usernewname member

  July 2014

  So someone fires their care providers then expect a red carpet rolled out for them because now they are stuck?
  
  Some people and their sense of entitlement amazes me.
  
  Sorry @abbyful‌ it got personal. Hugs to you.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @Washingtonqueen

  It was recently that he started harming the dogs - I was WELL into my pregnancy. I'm going to leave my husband while I'm pregnant?

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• ghostof5letters member

  July 2014 edited July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @Washingtonqueen

  It was recently that he started harming the dogs - I was WELL into my pregnancy. I'm going to leave my husband while I'm pregnant?

  God forbid, because that would make you similar to those single moms at that hospital for trashy poor people. Totes not your demographic. Ugh...

  
  

  
  

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• trisharenee0316 member

  July 2014

  Dear OP:

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• lrobi13 member

  July 2014

  There is a whole lot here that is not jiving. 

  I, personally picked my OB years before even trying to conceive. 

  Yes, I think every practice will have all walks of life in the waiting room with you as every race, religion, socio-economic group has babies...

  If your step-son is truly hurting animals and a threat to any other living thing then there are several options other than just waiting on him to hurt your baby.

  You come across as a difficult person just based off of one internet thread.  You should really seek professional help (assuming anyone is actually good enough to treat you) and stay away from the internets.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @MorseBrooks

  He's in therapy. Once a week. Its CLEARLY doing nothing but costing ME money (I provide the health insurance for my family through my employer). He lives with us fulltime and he's not going anywhere anytime soon so there's nothing I can do about it.

  My husband and I have been in therapy.

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• WashingtonQueen member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @Washingtonqueen

  It was recently that he started harming the dogs - I was WELL into my pregnancy. I'm going to leave my husband while I'm pregnant?

  Yep.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @MorseBrooks

  Who would take care of my infant after I give birth? Because of this whole situation, I have to quit my job (a job that I absolutely LOVE btw) so I can make sure my stepson isn't alone w/my kid.  If my husband and I separated, my stepson would be allowed to BABYSIT this kid because my husband is in denial about the fact that his precious first-born harms things that are less powerful than him because he's such an emotional wreck.

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• MrMrsandBaby member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @MorseBrooks

  Who would take care of my infant after I give birth? Because of this whole situation, I have to quit my job (a job that I absolutely LOVE btw) so I can make sure my stepson isn't alone w/my kid.  If my husband and I separated, my stepson would be allowed to BABYSIT this kid because my husband is in denial about the fact that his precious first-born harms things that are less powerful than him because he's such an emotional wreck.

  Or stay at your job and put the baby in daycare?  I'm getting a headache trying to follow all of your excuses...
  

  

  

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• Katieryan13 member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @MorseBrooks

  Who would take care of my infant after I give birth? Because of this whole situation, I have to quit my job (a job that I absolutely LOVE btw) so I can make sure my stepson isn't alone w/my kid.  If my husband and I separated, my stepson would be allowed to BABYSIT this kid because my husband is in denial about the fact that his precious first-born harms things that are less powerful than him because he's such an emotional wreck

  Um no. He is 12 years old and you are the mother, how would he be allowed to babysit?
  

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• lrobi13 member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @MorseBrooks

  Who would take care of my infant after I give birth? Because of this whole situation, I have to quit my job (a job that I absolutely LOVE btw) so I can make sure my stepson isn't alone w/my kid.  If my husband and I separated, my stepson would be allowed to BABYSIT this kid because my husband is in denial about the fact that his precious first-born harms things that are less powerful than him because he's such an emotional wreck.

  nanny or daycare or anyone else besides DH and SS...
  

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014

  @katieryan13
  

  My husband and I both work. I get home WELL after my stepson and husband. Therefore, if my husband had to go out, he would allow my stepson to babysit this infant

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• WashingtonQueen member

  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @MorseBrooks

  Who would take care of my infant after I give birth? Because of this whole situation, I have to quit my job (a job that I absolutely LOVE btw) so I can make sure my stepson isn't alone w/my kid.  If my husband and I separated, my stepson would be allowed to BABYSIT this kid because my husband is in denial about the fact that his precious first-born harms things that are less powerful than him because he's such an emotional wreck.

  I believe you less and less every time you speak. 

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• ILoveRunning member

  July 2014

  I don't know why I am responding, but here it goes.

  
  

  What does the counselor that your stepson is seeing, say?  Has he voiced concern as well?  If he has, then you and your husband need to have a meeting with the counselor to see what steps need to be taken.  Additionally, if you feel like you are running out of resources or options, or if your husband is still not listening, you can contact your state's department of children, youth and family (or whatever it might be called).  Their caseload is heavy, but if you feel like there is an honest threat to your unborn child they will assist you.
  
  Finally, prior to this thread I would have given you the benefit of the doubt.  However, given the things you have said I would not doubt it for a moment if you were lying about your stepson's propensity for violence.  But on the off chance that you are not, I have given you sincere advice that I would give someone IRL.

  

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• ghostof5letters member

  July 2014

  WashingtonQueen said:

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @MorseBrooks

  Who would take care of my infant after I give birth? Because of this whole situation, I have to quit my job (a job that I absolutely LOVE btw) so I can make sure my stepson isn't alone w/my kid.  If my husband and I separated, my stepson would be allowed to BABYSIT this kid because my husband is in denial about the fact that his precious first-born harms things that are less powerful than him because he's such an emotional wreck.

  I believe you less and less every time you speak. 

  Same here. 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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  July 2014

  mommaof2puppies said:

  @katieryan13
  

  My husband and I both work. I get home WELL after my stepson and husband. Therefore, if my husband had to go out, he would allow my stepson to babysit this infant

  Your stepson isn't old enough anyway. But again, all of your problems would be solved by walking out.

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• mommaof2puppies member

  July 2014 edited July 2014

  at 12 years old, in CT it's legal for a child to babysit another child.

  I guess I should be a screenplay writer or an author because my "story" is pretty unbelievable. I'm not really interested if anyone believes me or not but I'm not lying about any of this.

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• ghostof5letters member

  July 2014

  Why are any of us entertaining this disgusting slore? 

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• [Deleted User] member

  July 2014

  WTAF

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