Fired previous provider, 35 weeks now no OB will take me?!?!

usernewname

WTF is happening.

First it's an OB issue. Now It's a martial and child concern? And the baby isn't even wanted?

Oh my. This just keeps getting sadder and more pathetic.

OP. Seriously. Stop talking.

mommaof2puppies

@triumphgrrrl

Check out steptalk.org also - you'll think you're stepmother of the year after reading those posts. Then again, you probably don't have a stepchild with a mother that is a 35 year old bipolar/schizo who lives with her parents and is hospitalized for suicide attempts every 4 months

littlemissmarla

If what your saying is true.. 

1. Get a divorce.

2. Take the dogs with you.

3. Put your big girl panties on and realize you have an innocent child who is going to need you to pull your shit together and care for her/him. 

4. Get counseling for so many things. 

WashingtonQueen

mommaof2puppies said:

at 12 years old, in CT it's legal for a child to babysit another child.

I guess I should be a screenplay writer or an author because my "story" is pretty unbelievable. I'm not really interested if anyone believes me or not but I'm not lying about any of this.

It states a child should be at least 12 years old to stay at home alone, not babysit an infant. 

ghostof5letters

mommaof2puppies said:

@triumphgrrrl

Check out steptalk.org also - you'll think you're stepmother of the year after reading those posts. Then again, you probably don't have a stepchild with a mother that is a 35 year old bipolar/schizo who lives with her parents and is hospitalized for suicide attempts every 4 months

mommaof2puppies

Correct -

Connecticut law does not specify at what age a child may be left home alone. When deciding whether or not to leave a child home alone, a parent should consider the child's age. Many experts believe that a children should be at least 12 years of age before they are allowed to stay home alone. Experts (not the law - which means parental discretion) also believe that children should be over the age of 15 before caring for a younger sibling.

Additionally, parents should consider other factor's when deciding if their child is ready to stay at home alone. A child's maturity should be considered. Also, a child's ability to handle urgent situations should be reviewed. A parent should also take into account the environment in which the child will be alone, and the child's feelings about being alone.

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mommaof2puppies said:

@triumphgrrrl

Check out steptalk.org also - you'll think you're stepmother of the year after reading those posts. Then again, you probably don't have a stepchild with a mother that is a 35 year old bipolar/schizo who lives with her parents and is hospitalized for suicide attempts every 4 months

MrsSinner402

mommaof2puppies said:

@triumphgrrrl

Check out steptalk.org also - you'll think you're stepmother of the year after reading those posts. Then again, you probably don't have a stepchild with a mother that is a 35 year old bipolar/schizo who lives with her parents and is hospitalized for suicide attempts every 4 months

mommaof2puppies

@TicketTuesday

I couldn't agree more - GENIUS!!

WashingtonQueen

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glitterclaws

OP - you are unreal.  You are a passive participant in your life.  I feel like I'm reading the excuses of a teenager who wants to blame everything on their parents.

You are actually in control of EVERYTHING that happens to you.   Anything you don't like, can be changed.  Previous posters have given legit advice and you spent the afternoon on the google monster trying to poke holes.

Hate your stepson?  Leave your husband.  Afraid your husband will have custody and leave your LO in the stepson's care?  Get a judge to yank that custody.  Had to quit your job?  Make sure you get child support when you...wait for it...LEAVE YOUR HUSBAND.  In all of this, you never once said how much you love your husband.  So, clearly, you wouldn't be too bent out of shape to take your shit and GO.

So, did you quit your job or are you carrying the benefits?  Because you've mentioned both.

mcculloughe

And you fired your last OB because you feel you are above the demographic they serve???? Yeah right. You clearly have unrealistic ideas about who you are.
1. Fires multiple OB's because she can't make up her mind.
2. Doesn't really want her baby because...
3. Stepson is a psycho and...
4. Hurts living things and...
5. Husband is in denial, but...
6. She chooses to stay, and...
7. I am pretty sure there was a bipolar/schizo/suicidal person in there somewhere
8. You're speaking nonsense on an Internet forum.

Okay.

I'm gonna go hang with the low income, single, bilingual mothers you are looking down on. Crazy pants.

tbmadeamistake

@abbyful‌ you have all my condolences. I am so sorry she brought it to that level.

mamatobe1235

Op you are NUTS. Leave your husband, if you don't want the baby there is always adoption. Put your step son in therapy, and beg one of your former OBs to take you back. Though, if I were them, I wouldn't.

WashingtonQueen

wickedsugar said:

What the everloving fuck... Someone like this can have a kid & I can't ?!!?!?

I'm so sorry @Wickedsugar.

Tapsalteerie

wickedsugar said:

What the everloving fuck... Someone like this can have a kid & I can't ?!!?!?

It's extremely unfair and very frightening. My hope is that she doesn't raise this baby to be just as racist, compassionless and incapable of making rational adult decisions, who will then continue these trends with future generations.

allurah2014

This mutated into a special type of "what the fuck?".

Jennicillin

usernewname

Love and hugs to you @wickedsugar‌!

PrimRoseMama

Usually if you, as a patient, have THIS many issues finding a provider & staying with them you have to look at the common denominator: perhaps you are the issue?

If you doctor hop trust they know where your going & have to send the records to the three places that request them. If you are a problem "hot potato" client there is no reason for them to take you back. They don't want to deal with a hassle client.

You made your bed. Tough buns. :-??

PrimRoseMama

mommaof2puppies said:

@littlemissmarla

You're correct. I didn't want this baby because my stepson is such an emotional basket case with no coping skills that he WILL physically and emotionally harm this child.  I will have him arrested & my family will take pity on HIM

Shit, just reading this thread I have pity on your stepson. For God's sake

#-o

xxMiss2Mrs09xx

So.... Adoption isn't an option.... To spare this child who wasn't wanted and to give it a life it deserves?

PrimRoseMama

abbyful said:

mommaof2puppies said:

@abbyful

I pity the funeral home that had to deal w/YOU when your father dropped dead

Way over the fucking line, bitch. What kind of person are you? Yeah, let's use the death of someone's family member a week after they died, not even buried yet, as an insult... You are the lowest of the scum of this earth.

I'm so sorry @abbyful‌ ! This poster is BSC & not worth the time to scrape off our shoes. This was unbelievably low. I'm sorry for your loss & don't give this poster another thought. You are better than this bullshit.

@mommaof2puppies‌ : just GTFO. I'm lobbying for bannenation. We need to take out the trash & bleach the place.

Disgusting. [-(

rockyrollgirl

I have nothing to say to OP that has not already been said. Just that you are a very gross person.

I am sorry for your loss @abbyful‌ .

PrimRoseMama

xxMiss2Mrs09xx said:

So.... Adoption isn't an option.... To spare this child who wasn't wanted and to give it a life it deserves?

I would gladly adopt this baby, no shit.

I am hoping CPS gets involved so that a caring, loving & compassionate family can raise this babe.

Anyone else see the super-WTF-mess of this lady worrying about the violent tendencies of the 12-yr-old, when she seems to be sociopathic, narcissistic & void of concern for anyone but herself? This baby is an accessory?

Ugh. What a sad mess. (

Ashleyrupert3211

Holy Moses.... There are no words to describe the hatred I have towards the OP...

FrodaBaggins

bumwaters said:

Holy fucking shit. Words can't even express how disgusting and disturbing I find the OP and her comments.... (((Big Hugs))) to @abbyful‌ and @wickedsugar‌

You said it best @bumwaters.

What a shitshow this whole thing is. 

sandrabrooke

Yeah.  This is weird.

I don't really have any other words to describe this shit show.  

notkateanymore

This is why there should be a test to be able to have children. Dumb bitch.

missnacholover

This shit is whack.  @abbyful - hang in there lady! 

poofwok

Legit worried about the future of this child for all reasons that is this thread. I regret reading all this :-S

haliebabyx3

snowflake91011 said:

How has the OP not been banned already? The things she said are terrible.

I was wondering the same. This has been some thread! Wow.

mommymeg143

I'm not a therapist but I would venture to guess that your SS is pretending those dogs are you. Poor kid.

Hugs @abbyful