An apology

shindylahoe · May 2014

After reading the rebuttles of many on my pp I would like to apologize.

I was misguided in a lot of what I said. My frustration was towards what I thought was people being treated unkind. I hate to see people being bullied. if I thought this was the case I should have taken it directly to the people who were involved.

In my efforts to confront what I thought was an issue I went off on a tangent that really had nothing to do with how I was feeling.

I am sorry for the disrespect I showed. I honestly did not intend for it to hurt Lisa in anyway. I didn't think through my words long enough before posting.

I am sorry.

If you see fit to delete the other post I would appreciate it. If not I understand.

runningmama14 · May 2014

Thank you. That takes some guts to come back and post that.

shindylahoe · May 2014

Bumping because the op keeps getting bumped...

mamatohne · May 2014

You do not deserve any more of the attention of the board.

shindylahoe · May 2014

tarynleann said:
You do not deserve any more of the attention of the board.

It's not about attention. I am completely happy having both posts removed.

It's an honest apology.

lizzielu82 · May 2014

Why couldn't you put this apology in the original thread? Seems like you need a lot of attention. Do you need more people to say your avatar looks like an actress to feel better?

shindylahoe · May 2014

lizzielu82 said:
Why couldn't you put this apology in the original thread? Seems like you need a lot of attention. Do you need more people to say your avatar looks like an actress to feel better?

Wow. I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. That's all I have to say. I can gbcb if that will make the board feel better.

Seriously. I just want this to go away.

MrsG1019 · May 2014

lizzielu82 said:
Why couldn't you put this apology in the original thread? Seems like you need a lot of attention. Do you need more people to say your avatar looks like an actress to feel better?

This. You make a new thread to apologize for your last thread. And just another bit of advice, throwing out the "bullying" word doesn't fly well around here either. No one was bullied. Period.

If I were you I'd just stop posing and let this die down. I think you've said plenty.

shindylahoe · May 2014

Im honestly just trying to be humble and admit a mistake.

Ccalkins0301 · May 2014

Who cares if she made a new thread again this is what she means in her original post no where was she saying the moment of silence wasn't deserved she was saying it shouldn't be forced and the girl said sorry and your gonna go bash he grow the fuck up and leave her alone

lisaren · May 2014

shindylahoe said:
Im honestly just trying to be humble and admit a mistake.

I still love you. Because that's just who I am.

lisaren · May 2014

Ccalkins0301 said:
Who cares if she made a new thread again this is what she means in her original post no where was she saying the moment of silence wasn't deserved she was saying it shouldn't be forced and the girl said sorry and your gonna go bash he grow the fuck up and leave her alone

You on the other hand...

Ccalkins0301 · May 2014

lisaren said:

Ccalkins0301 said:
Who cares if she made a new thread again this is what she means in her original post no where was she saying the moment of silence wasn't deserved she was saying it shouldn't be forced and the girl said sorry and your gonna go bash he grow the fuck up and leave her alone
You on the other hand...

I'll find a way to get over it thanks though

MsMolly520 · May 2014

Ccalkins0301 said:

I'll find a way to get over it thanks though

I know name calling is grounds to be blocked and blah, blah, blah. But it has to be said...You are an asshat.

runningmama14 · May 2014

@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.

icaughtfire · May 2014

I'll just be over here updating my Post-It..

lisaren · May 2014

Ccalkins0301 said:

lisaren said:

Ccalkins0301 said:
Who cares if she made a new thread again this is what she means in her original post no where was she saying the moment of silence wasn't deserved she was saying it shouldn't be forced and the girl said sorry and your gonna go bash he grow the fuck up and leave her alone
You on the other hand...

I'll find a way to get over it thanks though

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I refuse to let you absorb anymore of my energy. You just exude negative energy.
I hope you have a great pregnancy and enjoy your baby.

Ccalkins0301 · May 2014

runningmama14 said:
@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.

Pretty sure I was the first time I talked because I didn't introduce myself properly thanks for the heads up though

runningmama14 · May 2014

Please point me to the intro threads of the so-called "cool kids" on this board to back up your completely ridiculous theory.

PS- please also note the correct spelling of the word ridiculous. It appears to be a word you struggle with.

TeeJ526 · May 2014

Ccalkins0301 said:

runningmama14 said:
@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.
Pretty sure I was the first time I talked because I didn't introduce myself properly thanks for the heads up though

Except you have 28 replies. Clearly this isn't the first time you've "talked".

mamatohne · May 2014

Since @shindylahoe‌ & @Ccalkins0301‌ don't like it here, save us all the drama and go create a fb group or something. And take all the others who don't like it here with you. Please and thank you!

RedBirdFly · May 2014

@Ccalkins0301‌ - I don't like being mean even when I don't like someone. I don't think anyone was rude to you when you didn't introduce, and I consider myself a fairly regular poster and honestly, don't care if someone intros or not because after a week of being on the board, I stopped reading every single intro...

I don't care that you didn't intro. I just think you need to go away for a bit.

MrsG1019 · May 2014

TeeJ526 said:

Ccalkins0301 said:

runningmama14 said:
@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.
Pretty sure I was the first time I talked because I didn't introduce myself properly thanks for the heads up though

Except you have 28 replies. Clearly this isn't the first time you've "talked".

She has 28 replies now cuz she's been running her mouth all over the board today. It's amazing what a little attention will do..

Ccalkins0301 · May 2014

MrsG1019 said:

TeeJ526 said:

Ccalkins0301 said:

runningmama14 said:
@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.
Pretty sure I was the first time I talked because I didn't introduce myself properly thanks for the heads up though

Except you have 28 replies. Clearly this isn't the first time you've "talked".
She has 28 replies now cuz she's been running her mouth all over the board today. It's amazing what a little attention will do..

I got bashed by Lisa the first time I posted because I did not introduce

lisaren · May 2014

Ohhhhh so this is your payback?

lisaren · May 2014

Ccalkins0301 said:

MrsG1019 said:

TeeJ526 said:

Ccalkins0301 said:

runningmama14 said:
@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.
Pretty sure I was the first time I talked because I didn't introduce myself properly thanks for the heads up though

Except you have 28 replies. Clearly this isn't the first time you've "talked".
She has 28 replies now cuz she's been running her mouth all over the board today. It's amazing what a little attention will do..
I got bashed by Lisa the first time I posted because I did not introduce

--////// please lead me to this post.

Ccalkins0301 · May 2014

It was under the nov 28 thread and you were so rude to me and even though this isn't what this whole thread is about. My point I'm gettin across is that thread about he board wasn't about you it was saying that people should be able to do whatever they want it's a public board without others criticizing

MrsG1019 · May 2014

TeeJ526 · May 2014

Ccalkins0301 said:
It was under the nov 28 thread and you were so rude to me and even though this isn't what this whole thread is about. My point I'm gettin across is that thread about he board wasn't about you it was saying that people should be able to do whatever they want it's a public board without others criticizing

Yeah... I read that thread. You called people rude and it made you sad that other women were being bashed for making a ridiculous thread so you got called out.

runningmama14 · May 2014

So in order to get that point across, you are taking time out of your day to criticize a majority of posters, including specifically our mod, who is having one the must difficult days of her life? Good plan!

MrsG1019 · May 2014

**goin to make a batch of popcorn & RE-read the November 28 post**

Also, Weekends are really quiet around here normally... Some of you ladies really know how to spice things up

lisaren · May 2014

I just read everything I posted to you @Ccalkins0301‌ and I said nothing rude. I think you're highly sensitive.

Also, every single post you have made here has been negative. Every single one.

emoxymoose · May 2014

Ok, I just re-read the post and there's no help for that girl.

Sarahbeth612 · May 2014

I haven't said much about any of this because I really thought Lisa should be the one to bring closure to this situation, and I know this will sound like rainbows and unicorns, but I love this board. I think most the posts that were made over the weekend came from (different) places of truly caring about this board and people on it. Sometimes wording may not have been the best, the timing may not have been appropriate, and maybe there was some ignorance or carelessness from people who held trivial side discussions. But for the most part, I think we were successful in what we wanted to do to show our respect and love. Its not easy to get hundreds of people on the same page, and damn it, it was pretty awesome. I hate that it couldn't last into today, but oh well.

I love you ladies. You're awesome. For supporting each other, standing up for what you feel is best, even calling each other out when it is needed. And OP, while I don't think that first post needed to happen, I think your heart really was in the right place and I love that you posted an apology.

There has been a lot of tension and some shitty things said in the midst of this. It sucks. But we couldn't go through 9 months completely love titting every single thing and I think there will be some strengthened bonds through this and moving forward.

Except @ccalkins0301. I don't know where you came from, but you can take your negativity and BS elsewhere.

MrsG1019 · May 2014

lisaren said:
I just read everything I posted to you @Ccalkins0301‌ and I said nothing rude. I think you're highly sensitive.

Also, every single post you have made here has been negative. Every single one.

runningmama14 · May 2014

Yeah, I just went and re-read that thread again. Turns out, you came in guns blazing from your very first post. Then to later claim that Lisa called you for not introducing. BS, you were called out by multiple people because you deserved it. Lisa posted later that perhaps you would have been better received I'd you had started your own thread instead of picking up 6 pages into a thread to white knight somebody who hasn't even been back since her op. Seriously, keep digging your hole.

lisaren · May 2014

runningmama14 said:
Yeah, I just went and re-read that thread again. Turns out, you came in guns blazing from your very first post. Then to later claim that Lisa called you for not introducing. BS, you were called out by multiple people because you deserved it. Lisa posted later that perhaps you would have been better received I'd you had started your own thread instead of picking up 6 pages into a thread to white knight somebody who hasn't even been back since her op. Seriously, keep digging your hole.

Exactly.

Ccalkins0301 · May 2014

runningmama14 said:
So in order to get that point across, you are taking time out of your day to criticize a majority of posters, including specifically our mod, who is having one the must difficult days of her life? Good plan!

How did I criticize Lisa please explain

runningmama14 · May 2014

"I got bashed by Lisa the first time I posted because I did not introduce "

Any more questions?

MrsG1019 · May 2014

runningmama14 said:
"I got bashed by Lisa the first time I posted because I did not introduce "

Any more questions?

PandaCon · May 2014

Well well well.... Go to church and miss my friend @CCalkins0301

Here is my two (or three, or four) cents about it all.

@CCalkins0301 You can I went around and around a few days ago. I thought you got over all your butthurt about the Nov 28th thread? No? Oh... You have not made one post that had been positive this whole time. I went back and forth with you about this a few days ago. You won't get it, you won't quit, you can't admit that you are insensitive to others and way to sensitive yourself. Baby Gaga would suit you much better. Please leave if you can't "handle" us "cool kids".

(Hmm... I guess I just invited myself into the "cool kids")

@shindylahoe I forgive you. I'll admit I was pissed when I first read your thread but I think you realized that it was shitty timing. But we are the rainbow, sprinkles and unicorn board so I think most of us will be able to move on and go from here. Heck, if @Lisaren can forgive you and if she likes you then all of us should do the same.

At everyone who wants to be part of the "cool kids", POST! That's it! POST! Get out here and let us know what YOU think about Nachos and cake and you'll do just fine!

At everyone having a shitty day read these...

https://aplus.com/a/dog-texting-messages

I mean really what if your dog could text message you?!?