An apology

sunflwra

Ccalkins0301 said:

@Ccalkins0301‌ - I'm pretty sure you've just earned yourself the top spot on 99.9% of the n14 girl's post it notes. Have fun being treated like an outcast on this board for the rest of your pregnancy.

Pretty sure I was the first time I talked because I didn't introduce myself properly thanks for the heads up though

Except you have 28 replies. Clearly this isn't the first time you've "talked".

She has 28 replies now cuz she's been running her mouth all over the board today. It's amazing what a little attention will do..

I got bashed by Lisa the first time I posted because I did not introduce

I'm trying to see where this actually happened.  I see 2 comments in your history on Zofran and then the remaining 32 posts you've made are bashing this board and how you and others have been treated. Might be time to see things a little more clearly and realize the issue is YOU!

jlove253

I appreciate your apology shindy. I think it takes a lot for a person to admit when they were wrong. I'm sorry someone else jumped on and derailed this thread back towards the negativity I think you were trying to stop.

Also, I think the moral of this story is there are lots of things that can be better said with a pm. If someone hurts you, you can call them out publicly, or try to deal with it privately. Different circumstances call for different reactions, not all of them are best resolved in front of the rest of the board.

lauren_m

Tell me I'm not 37 and reading posts from people who are worried about "cool kids." Good God.

I tend to be more of a unicorn/ flowers type than many on here, but seriously? Just cuz certain people post more than others doesn't make them exclusionary. It's human nature to have "inside jokes" when you talk to people regularly. (Why do I feel like this is a talk I should be having with my son rather than grown women about to become mothers?) Just don't act like an asshole, and people will just reply to your comments in a really normal fashion. If you don't like the tone, why are you wasting all your time and energy bitching about the board? Just stop coming. Also, I can't begin to tell you how completely unphased I am that certain people on this board seem to have inside jokes and opinions about how the board should operate. If this real upsets you, you may have some deeper issues going on.

PandaCon

lauren_m said:

Tell me I'm not 37 and reading posts from people who are worried about "cool kids." Good God. I tend to be more of a unicorn/ flowers type than many on here, but seriously? Just cuz certain people post more than others doesn't make them exclusionary. It's human nature to have "inside jokes" when you talk to people regularly. (Why do I feel like this is a talk I should be having with my son rather than grown women about to become mothers?) Just don't act like an asshole, and people will just reply to your comments in a really normal fashion. If you don't like the tone, why are you wasting all your time and energy bitching about the board? Just stop coming. Also, I can't begin to tell you how completely unphased I am that certain people on this board seem to have inside jokes and opinions about how the board should operate. If this real upsets you, you may have some deeper issues going on.

If I could love tit this 1000X I would. Well said. We are grown ass women about to become mothers for the 1st, 2nd, 3rd etc time. This is a convo that I could be having with elementary students not grown adults!