November 2014 Moms

Harmony results are in- update: being admitted to hospital

lisarenlisaren member
edited May 2014 in November 2014 Moms
My baby had trisomy 18. My sweet baby is also a boy, and his name is Brody Calvin (Calvin is my husbands name)
I'm in shock, but I knew with the hygroma that this was a possibility. The baby will either pass away before birth, or shortly thereafter.

The genetic counselor is notifying my MW and MFM.

*they're admitting me tonight to start the process. Surgery in the morning.
I have to be there at 6:30, surgery at 9:00 am.
I'll check in later to gif my emotions.




                              
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Re: Harmony results are in- update: being admitted to hospital

  • lisarenlisaren member
    And to be honest I almost didn't post this here because I really really REALLY did not want "some" people to know shit about me of most of all my child. You know the flag queen. The N14 welcome wagon. Go post your bullshit now. Tell me how fuckin blessed I am now. And while you're at it flag this post.




                                  
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  • Im so sorry about this :(
  • hjennihjenni member
    I'm so sorry Lisa  :( I don't even know what to say. 
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  • So sorry to hear (hugs) it really isn't fair .. :(
  • I am so so sorry.... I don't have words right now.

    Thank you for coming and telling us..  

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  • I'm so sorry and sending you big hugs. I also really love your name - beautiful. xo
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  • Oh Lisa, I am so, so sorry. There are no words, and I can't imagine your pain. This is so unfair. I'm sending you and your family all of my virtual love and prayers as you process this news. My heart breaks for you all... 

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  • I'm so sorry Lisa.  Big hugs.


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  • I am so, so sorry :( much love thoughts and prayers for you and your sweet boy.
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  • I'm so sorry to hear this. I wish I had something else to say... But I don't :-(
  • Oh Lisa I am so sorry. Thinking of you and your sweet Brody.
  • jlove253jlove253 member
    edited May 2014
    Shoot Lisa. I'm so sorry. I wish there was more I could say or do.

    ETA: Brody Calvin is an excellent name.
  • I am very sorry this is happening to you and that there has been some issues posting what has been going on with your baby. I wish you the best with everything you are dealing with.
  • dr_prdr_pr member
    I'm so sorry, Lisa, and thank you for sharing with us.  Lots of ((hugs)) and prayers to you and your family, and especially to little Brody <3

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  • I am so very very sorry that this has happened to you and your sweet little one.  So many thoughts and prayers for you both.  I don't even know what to say.

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  • AbbeyHAbbeyH member
    Your little Brody is so loved.  Thoughts and Prayers for you and your family.  Thank you for sharing with us!
  • Love the name Brody. I'm so sorry Lisa. God has a plan though!! Thoughts and prayers are with you and glad you shared so you can talk about it!
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    (((Hugs for you and Brody. )))
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  • I'm so sorry Lisa! My heart aches that you have to go through this but thank you for sharing since we are all here for you. Love the name Brody by the way!
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  • I am so sorry. Continued T&Ps for you and your family.
  • Thank you for sharing with us. I'm so sorry :-(
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  • I am so sorry Lisa. Hugs for you and your family.
  • I am so sorry this is happening. Now that you have this information though it can start to sink in. I hope you can find peace in no longer wondering what may happen. This must be so hard for you and your family. I cannot imagine. I am so sorry, I wish there was something us internet strangers could do to ease your pain. :(

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  • I am so soooo sorry.... Lots of hugs to you and Brody...I honestly don't know what else to say. You def are so brave and strong and thank you for keeping us in the loop. T & P for you and your family.
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  • Sweet baby brody! Congrats on a boy!
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  • Lisa I wish I could give you a big hug. So sorry to hear this news. I can't even begin to imagine what you're going through.
  • I am so sorry to hear this.  T&P to you and your family.
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  • I'm so so so sorry. My heart breaks for you. :(
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  • I'm sorry you have to go through this. T&Ps for you and your family. Brody such a sweet name.
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  • This breaks my heart for you and sweet Brody. T&P to you and your family. Big hugs to you.

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    I'm so very sorry. I can't imagine the pain your feeling and I have SO much respect for you the way your handling it. Such a strong woman. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Your baby boy is lucky to have you. Please feel free to post whatever you want whenever you want!! "Hugs"
  • I am so, so sorry. you sound like an incredibly strong woman and I am just so sad that you're going through this.
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  • I am so sorry, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
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    My thoughts and prayers are w/ you and your family. Your bravery is beyond admirable. Wishing you comfort and continued strength. We're all thinking of you <3 *Hugs*

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  • ccamccam member
    Keeping you in my prayers. I'm so sorry.

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  • You are so strong and Brody is one lucky little guy! Sending great big hugs!

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  • I am so sorry to hear this, but what a wonderful name you have picked out for your sweet little boy. I'm so glad you decided to share with us despite how some people have been treating you lately. I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. You are one of the strongest women I've ever met.



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